Not what you do after the date but what you do on the date. Can you describe yours?

no drama, no arguing a picnic at the beach then watching the stars after sunset on the pier and kissing under the moonlight. whispering some deep poetry softly in her ear while holding hands and looking into her eyes with a burning passion of love and romance. movies and candlelight dinners red roses and rose petals.

i hope i was romantical enough.

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My perfect date? Movie,popcorn and coke,shikena. Which kain of candle-lit dinner is that? Is it that Nepa has refused to give us light or no fuel? How am i supposed to see what i'm eating if there's no light? Picnic? Well i don't like sitting on sand/grass. Sand could enter my shoes + i could get grass stains. Nigerian guys are very fond of buying all those useless plastic flowers. God help the guy who brings me plastic flowers. And even if they're real,what do i want to use flowers for? I go chop flower? Shey i be goat? I don't want to watch the stars after sunset. Nights are meant for sleeping. And i don't want to watch the sunrise either. If God wanted me to watch the sunrise,dawn would've been by 10a.m. I need my morning sleep. That's when sleep is the sweetest. . So i'll stick with movies,popcorn and coke. And none of those looks burning with white hot desire. This no be Mills and Boons. Face the movie,chop your food and let's go. Okay maybe that sounds extreme,but i don't think i'm the romantic type.

Atreides:

My perfect date? Movie,popcorn and coke,shikena. Which kain of candle-lit dinner is that? Is it that Nepa has refused to give us light or no fuel? How am i supposed to see what i'm eating if there's no light? Picnic? Well i don't like sitting on sand/grass. Sand could enter my shoes + i could get grass stains. Nigerian guys are very fond of buying all those useless plastic flowers. God help the guy who brings me plastic flowers. And even if they're real,what do i want to use flowers for? I go chop flower? Shey i be goat? I don't want to watch the stars after sunset. Nights are meant for sleeping. And i don't want to watch the sunrise either. If God wanted me to watch the sunrise,dawn would've been by 10a.m. I need my morning sleep. That's when sleep is the sweetest. . So i'll stick with movies,popcorn and coke. And none of those looks burning with white hot desire. This no be Mills and Boons. Face the movie,chop your food and let's go. Okay maybe that sounds extreme,but i don't think i'm the romantic type.

LWKMD 

I see you're in Benin. .interesting 

Crude Oil:

no drama, no arguing a picnic at the beach then watching the stars after sunset on the pier and kissing under the moonlight. whispering some deep poetry softly in her ear while holding hands and looking into her eyes with a burning passion of love and romance. movies and candlelight dinners red roses and rose petals.

i hope i was romantical enough.

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Seriously, moonlight kissing, stars watching and the whole poetry thingamajig would be the highest turnoff for me Personally, And MOSTLYonly broke jobless guys could pull such.


And to the question. . . any date with the 'right person' which involves any adrenaline pumping adventure and booze is okay by me and could be the perfect date

Amya:

And to the question. . . any date with the 'right person' which  involves any adrenaline pumping adventure and booze is okay by me and could be the perfect  date

oYaTo:

LWKMD 

I see you're in Benin. .interesting 

Don't let the Benin decieve you oh. . Omo Eko ni mi oh. I jus school in Ben. I'm as much an Omo Eko as i'm Bini. But why is Benin interesting? Oya explain. .

Atreides:

Don't let the Benin decieve you oh. . Omo Eko ni mi oh. I jus school in Ben. I'm as much an Omo Eko as i'm Bini. But why is Benin interesting? Oya explain. .

Atreides:

Don't let the Benin decieve you oh. . Omo Eko ni mi oh. I jus school in Ben. I'm as much an Omo Eko as i'm Bini. But why is Benin interesting? Oya explain. .

Cos I'm in Benin as well . .went thru a couple of your posts. .you seem to be the candid type . .quite intelligent too . .unfortunately you're kinda too young 4 me

hmnn,
interestingly. for me no such thingy as a perfect date

i take it as it comes, i love the unexpected.

oYaTo:

Cos I'm in Benin as well . .went thru a couple of your posts. .you seem to be the candid type . .quite intelligent too . .unfortunately you're kinda too young 4 me

Thank you
unfortunately you're kinda too old 4 me too

i guess we can be just friends

Atreides:

My perfect date? Movie,popcorn and coke,shikena. Which kain of candle-lit dinner is that? Is it that Nepa has refused to give us light or no fuel? How am i supposed to see what i'm eating if there's no light? Picnic? Well i don't like sitting on sand/grass. Sand could enter my shoes + i could get grass stains. Nigerian guys are very fond of buying all those useless plastic flowers. God help the guy who brings me plastic flowers. And even if they're real,what do i want to use flowers for? I go chop flower? Shey i be goat? I don't want to watch the stars after sunset. Nights are meant for sleeping. And i don't want to watch the sunrise either. If God wanted me to watch the sunrise,dawn would've been by 10a.m. I need my morning sleep. That's when sleep is the sweetest. . So i'll stick with movies,popcorn and coke. And none of those looks burning with white hot desire. This no be Mills and Boons. Face the movie,chop your food and let's go. Okay maybe that sounds extreme,but i don't think i'm the romantic type.

lmao 

Atreides:

Thank you
unfortunately you're kinda too old 4 me too

Lol How r u so sure. .I know ur age, but u don't know mine

Atreides:

i guess we can be just friends

That'll be cool. .could send u an email 4 a start. .

PhysicsMHD:

lmao 

oYaTo:

Lol How r u so sure. .I know your age, but u don't know mine

That'll be cool. .could send u an email 4 a start. .

oYaTo:

Lol How r u so sure. .I know your age, but u don't know mine

That'll be cool. .could send u an email 4 a start. .

If i'm too young for you then you're too old for me
about the email,that'd be cool

Atreides:

If i'm too young for you then you're too old for me
about the email,that'd be cool

Lol Who knows, u might be able to convince me that age na just number jare

I'll put my addy on my profile 4 a couple of mins. .send me an email?

Cruising and grooving in Monaco.
thank you.

Perfect date?
Me +
My guy +
Drinks(Nuvo especially) +
Suya( kidney/liver)+
a cozy/super comfortable bed/sofa +
TV/Movies(anything besides Chick flicks and Romantic movies) +
PS3/XbOX +
Oxygen =
Perfect date!

I have se.x @ first date everything else becomes history.

^^Sorry reality what are you talking about?! 
I know it's really non of my business but, I keep coming back to this topic I try to decipher your post each time, but I just can't! It's getting disturbing! lol
But, really, what are you saying? 

--^^still don't get it reality!

Just the type of guy I like for a perfect date. 

Crude Oil:

no drama, no arguing a picnic at the beach then watching the stars after sunset on the pier and kissing under the moonlight. whispering some deep poetry softly in her ear while holding hands and looking into her eyes with a burning passion of love and romance. movies and candlelight dinners red roses and rose petals.

i hope i was romantical enough.

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Listening to music with her.

Tips to have a perfect date with a european woman in between 30 and 40yo. Source: Me!

Date her for a dinner.
Invite her to a place you are sure she likes. Investigate this before.
If you have no idea try a place she never been but be sure is classy enough to impress her.
She will never tell you she is not comfortable in a classy place at the first date. Later maybe she will say it but never at the first date.
She will order salade or something light, she doesn't want to show you she is angry! This is good because you will save money since you will pay the dinner.
Order the same, or something light. Avoid bloody steaks, soups, onions, garlic.
If she is asking for wine, then you drink wine. If she is asking for just juice or water you drink water. No beer! It will make you burping or peeing and this is no good.
She will start to talk and she will never stop. This is OK! Keep listening to her. She will talk during the whole dinner asking you nothing.
You just have to make questions from time to time. Open questions, the ones that will let her talk again. If the argument is boring just ask her something different. Use the small time between words where she is breathing. She will keep talking and in her mind she will think she is having a pleasant conversation, which is the most important think for them.
You have to pay attention anyway! She will pretend you remember everything she said, which is also good to impress her later in time.
If you feel sure about your sense of humor, try it at the end of the dinner. If she will smile or laugh you are ok, if not just stop.
Do not use sarcasm or make joke about her. At the first date they are too nervous to understand irony and sarcasm and in their mind they will think you are criticizing them.
After the dinner (that you pay with no hesitation), specially if she had wine at the restaurant you can ask if she want to go for a drink somewhere. If she say yes then go to a classy bar. I know it will cost you something the first date, but you know you can spend much less with a ho and I suppose this is not what you want.
At the bar you can drink a whiskey. Again, avoid beer or long drinks. She will take the same you take, or a specific drink she likes the most.
Go and pay. If everything go well at the end of the night she will ask you if you want to enter her house. It's done.
If not, don't think you are out of the game. Just don't insist. Kiss her on a chin, smile even if you know you will go for a self service within minutes.
Before go to sleep send her an sms saying how much you were fine and you enjoyed the date.
The second date will be more relaxed, a walk in the night with the final destination on her bedroom.
It works!