Eriokanmi:
What a lack of respect and guilty conscience. If I were the husband ( thank God my wife is polite and cuuteous), na me for divorce am with immediate alacrity.

But seriously, this day and age, it still baffles me how some ladies would bring pregnancy to their husband from different men. Let's assume she bowed to her boss' pressure out of temptation which is bound to happen except we deceive ourselves here...the onus is on the lady to check her menstrual calendar and know if she's safe or not. If you're 3 to 5 days to your ovulation, you shouldn't even risk unprotected sex, even if your partner is clean from all diseases. 2 to 3 days after your ovulation until a day or 2 to your next period, you should know you're safe likewise 1 day to 5 days after finishing your menstruation.

You can flex during these periods. This also applies to married women who are with their husbands but wish to avoid unwanted pregnancy. It's that simple, except the lady deliberately wants to get pregnant for a man other than her husband. Some men too aren't trying. I wonder why can't guys also ask ladies questions about their safety before they bounce on them but when it all happens, they deny being responsible. Smh!

You sound as if you are ok with someone else having sex with your wife as long as she doesn't get pregnant.

donem:
@pocohantas u be case madam, just lol on one of your comments on this topic, really cracked me up.

I must meet you this year by God's grace, am on course in KD immediately I round up and return back to base,

happy new-year, God's guidance and protection upon u and your entire famz.

Abeg o. I done commot hand for man matter, before them carry me go DNA.

Happy new year to you too.

The man fuckup the kids looks like the boss, he was just blind to see it. I will rather have a fight with my wife and I know my kids are mine than having the feeling my kids aren't mine my entire life.
If I don't see my trait in them either in terms of looks or behaviour (good or bad), I go run test on code. I have plenty of doctor friends.

E sure for her ni

Thats why she is over 40yrs and still unmarried. Head of feminists coven

mariahAngel:


You didn't answer all my questions the other day...

I did but you became sacarstic, asking about firewood and snails and bush meat.

Last last I will still taste it

Organsmuggler:
in ur dream(s)

this one is looking for an excuse to shut d husband up incase she cheats on him n gives him another persons child. As for me u can do ur worst, but if my kids dont look like me（which is d first paternity test ）I m going for a DNA test if u like bring all d divorce papers in d world. The only thing weh go save u be say those kids are mine but if not, walahi, I il file a law suit claiming damages running into billions sef .

God help us. If am to do a DNA test, it be done in secrecy

pocohantas:


Abeg o. I done commot hand for man matter, before them carry me go DNA.

Happy new year to you too.

lol @ bolded, nobi wetin u think, I go carry my madam follow body, just want to see the unique persona behind this moniker.

debbydams:
Good luck ..i.dont have any issues with DNA fa.. Na u get the money wey u wan waste o.

It's now a waste? It's better to waste it now than to train another man's pikin. These girls ain't loyal

Thoughty2:


You sound as if you are ok with someone else having sex with your wife as long as she doesn't get pregnant.

Far from it. Just so you know, I asked my wife to resign long ago as manager from a popular food company in oregun, ikeja to take care of kids and placed her on salary but how many guys can do such nowadays with the current situation? If you read my comment properly, you'd realise i spoke the gospel truth. That my wife isn't promiscuous doesn't mean all wives are like her and that's where the truth pinches. The likes of the lady who had kids for the FCMB boss are many in our clime who had succumbed to the pressure of their bosses to go down with them. Some women had even committed suicide after the act but they covered cause of death.

While some could afford to damn the consequences and resign, some others, all in the name of keeping their jobs and keep fending for the family would succumb to the temptation and pressure from their bosses. I had worked in great companies in the past and could attest to the manner at which these married young women were being threatened by some randy, useless bosses. It's even a commonplace in banks. Except you don't want to hear the truth would you condemn my post. I only proferred a solution to prevent an issue which could result in bringing illegitimate pregnancy home, by any woman who found herself in such a predicament.

Every human being on earth is bound to fall into temptation of various kinds, though not deliberately. Not all of them do take sexual forms. To some, it could be money or even positions... but in this context, I only proferred a solution, should such happen due to temptation or pressure . I also remembered mentioning partners ( boyfriend/ girlfriend or fiance alike and not married women per se) saying couples too who weren't ready for pregnancy should imbibe same practice.

Exmilitant:
I did but you became sacarstic, asking about firewood and snails and bush meat.

What!? You thought that was sarcasm for real?

Why would I be sarcastic when I want some genuine information? Think about it...

The thing is, I can ask a truckload of questions when I need information... Even some that might seem unimportant

UjuJoan2:
Exactly . . .

I will do the test oh, no doubt. But you’ve lost my love and loyalty forever!

No wahala. Tunde trusted his wife but finally died because of paternity fraud.

These girls ain't loyal

LegendVibes:
A Nigerian lady has vowed to divorce her husband if he ever demanded for a DNA test for their child, Igbere TV reports.

In a tweet, the Twitter user @EniolaShitta wrote:

https://twitter.com/EniolaShitta/status/1345122509507747845?s=19

When one of her followers tried to explain that she can't fault men based on sad experiences from the past, the lady replied by saying so many men are

https://twitter.com/EniolaShitta/status/1345124170594742284?s=19

What if a child got swapped at birth ? Just saying

toyinjimoh:
That is lack of trust why DNA test when I trust my wife

Tunde thomas trusted his wife, odartey lamptey trusted his wife also, see where the trust landed them.

RedPhoenix:
Olosho " Se kin ka ye fun e to ro yo Di "


ASIDES FROM BEING CHEATED, MEHN IF YOU DON'T STOP PUTTING WOMEN ON PEDESTAL THEY'LL RUIN YOU AND SEND YOU TO AN EARLY GRAVE AND GO ON FVCK ALL YOUR FRIENDS ON YOUR MATRIMONIAL BED. PRIORITISE THE HOME GROUND AND MAKE YOUR DESIRES AND NEEDS FULLY EXPRESSED SO YOU STOP BEING USED BY WOMEN...

Mouth, and how would you be feeding?

You want to use excuses to go back to your full time work, Olosho.


Any man that goes to his wife to ask for consent to conduct a DNA test is worse than a simp.

As recognised father and with a kid less than 18 years of age, no man needs a woman's permission in any way to conduct a DNA test.

Take a few strands of hair even while they're sleeping so they don't tell their mum. Or act the father, one cute Saturday even with the mother at home, call them to tidy the home, teach them chores and end it with trimming their nails. That's all.


Nails or few strands of hair is all you need


If the test returns positive, quietly thrash the result no one needs to know.



The same way women have sex before and during marriage and even after the death of their husbands is the exact same way you should be clandestine with this activity.


Anything less is nothing but a weak silly man who's actually the wife, to the real husband, the wife



Go do the test and quit SIMPing men.

lolxxxxx hahahaha I swear bro you really finish this sisters ooooo

debbydams:
Good luck ..i.dont have any issues with DNA fa.. Na u get the money wey u wan waste o.

why d negative fuse since morning abt this DNA thing, so someone cannot confirm his child in Peace again??

I feel the test should be more encouraged but the negative vibe from ladies is nauseating..

kenostika:
Any man that is still contemplating on DNA test is a fool.Last week,a guy was complaining on how the girl he was choking(fucking)got married in less than two weeks.He just saw congratulations on FB and when he searched further,he saw wedding pictures.Other guys also shared their experiences.One said the girl he bleeped got married in less than a week.While they keep the supposedly good guys for marriage,they are frolicking with the bad boys even when preparing for marriage.Another guy also complained of how he avoided a girl that was requesting for last fucking before she marries the following wkend.So if as a man,you are yet to wise up,then you will be a Simp forever.

But how are you sure the so called good husbands are not planning their own revenge by cheating while married to those wayward ladies? Most guys serially cheat on a woman that is non-virgin when they met her without apology or remorse,they see it as a right because they believe she has done hers before too.

mariahAngel:


What!? You thought that was sarcasm for real?

Why would I be sarcastic when I want some genuine information? Think about it...

The thing is, I can ask a truckload of questions when I need information... Even some that might seem unimportant

you wanna farm?

The national assembly should pass a law that will make DNA test compulsory in government hospitals after given birth.

mariahAngel:
This generation must suffer for 600years for their promiscuity!

Una think say una go just fornicate anyhow without consequences abi?
Na una get sense pass God na!

I don’t think It started today. It may have been a practice of generations before them

jacoik:
lolxxxxx hahahaha I swear bro you really finish this sisters ooooo

Ma ka na

LegendVibes:
A Nigerian lady has vowed to divorce her husband if he ever demanded for a DNA test for their child, Igbere TV reports.

In a tweet, the Twitter user @EniolaShitta wrote:

https://twitter.com/EniolaShitta/status/1345122509507747845?s=19

When one of her followers tried to explain that she can't fault men based on sad experiences from the past, the lady replied by saying so many men are

https://twitter.com/EniolaShitta/status/1345124170594742284?s=19

They said most men are cheats, but when they talk about DNA test most women are afraid and angry why?

Righteousness2:
Evils and Abominations in different format have become the order of the day.
What Matters is for one to be clean. Stay off any Form sin.
He/ She that is Clean has no Fear

Sorry I just want to understand sth here, if some one catches his wife committing sexual immorality, is there any other alternative than divorce ? Pls don't be offended..

Onpe

I think it's perfectly understandable and natural for a woman to feel upset and mistrusted if a man requests or is secretly planning for paternity test for their child. Guys expecting women to feel chilled or understanding about it are not being emotionally intelligent.

I'm capable of conducting DNA secretly but won't or can't ask a wife openly. I can't begin to imagine how I'd feel if the result is positive and she got to find out I mistrusted her. It's a big L and you lose face. The least you should expect is her to bitch about it for ever - Your marriage can be open season from there on.

Trust is a two way street. We don't trust who don't trust us.

pocohantas:


I can kuku be petty.

When we go to his village, once his whole family done gather. Both his brothers and their wives. I’ll be like “Mummy, Jonnyspute did DNA for our kids. I think all of us in this family should do it. That thing is very nice”

....You no well. Lol

just2endowed:
God help us. If am to do a DNA test, it be done in secrecy

many women are silent venomous stinger...

when u say "fear women", the women themselves no go tackle u cos they know 'what' they all truly are.

Exmilitant:
you wanna farm?

I need the information for my father.

How shameless can we women be for God's sake. You cheated, you got pregnant, give another man's child to him to raise for the rest of his life, with all the toiling and hustling from Sunday to Sunday without remorse and then expect him to just keep quiet and not say anything even when he has evidence he is suffering for another man's child. Seriously ladies? Hmmmmmm

BigDawsNet:
you dont need to ask her
As long as she's minor
You can take her for test without her mother knowing

Run the test and if it goes south .. Surprise her with two letters
Divorce/DNA Result

E Be Things...