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Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Nobody: 11:49pm On Mar 31, 2011
Chima don't pay her any mind trying to hype up and start fights like she just tried with me and
Ragdollz. She is waste of oxygen.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MrsChima(f): 11:51pm On Mar 31, 2011
She is no problem but I want to see what this hype about with this Becomerich fella. It seem though people are shaking in their boots about the guy. Hmm.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Nobody: 11:57pm On Mar 31, 2011
mschew. chima if he was interested in a 'battle' he would have already engaged in one. all i am saying is ignore the hype.

Basically @ topic the reason why there is so much anomousity towards black men in particular dating w.w. is because of the history. Many have been lynched and burned to death just for looking at them from slavery up even as recent as the 1970s [and maybe even more recent]. Stories like the infamous 1955 torture and murder of 16 year old Emmett Till just for whistling at a white woman, was a HORRIBLE example of what occurred. Ppl tend to want to act like it is 'just' the past but the wounds have yet to heal for us, so being that Africans did not go through what we did in the Americas it is much easier for you all to move on as opposed to us across the Atlantic due to the fact that, and truth be told, Africans played a role in slavery itself and were able to have more of a control of their own lives than we did Mass despoils of black women also contribute to the hate.

I think this topic is redundant as I said and the bottom line is live your life and worry not about others.
There are 90 year old bi-racial ppl and generations before us knew of interracial relations so there is nothing new
or special about it. Move on.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MrsChima(f): 12:14am On Apr 01, 2011
Desso is crazy! He is talking about selling me the VILLAGE PEOPLE! grin grin grin grin
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Nobody: 12:15am On Apr 01, 2011
lmao. he is a str8 up crackhead.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Nobody: 12:15am On Apr 01, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

She is no problem but I want to see what this hype about with this Becomerich fella. It seem though people are shaking in their boots about the guy. Hmm.

nah, nobody's shaking.

i was just giving you a head's up since it seems you dont know him.

he doesnt engage in name calling- that wasnt the type of thing i was referring to.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 12:23am On Apr 01, 2011
. Many have been lynched and burned to death just for looking at them from slavery up even as recent as the 1970s [and maybe even more recent]. Ppl tend to want to act like it is 'just' the past

This is VERY important point, makes me think of Emmet Till who was beaten to death, i saw the picture when i was very young and i almost became a racist. Thats why i would never date an American white woman, especially since i live in the south its like an insult to the memory of those people who lost their lives, for what? the women who hate them? many black men seem to be brainswashed into desiring white women. The truth of the matter is most white woman just use black men. for fun,  to rebell, or for s3x.
But i think we need to be kinder and more understanding to those who are  in I.R marriages for true reasons, they have to go through alot.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 12:25am On Apr 01, 2011
^^^ while i was posting my reply i hadn't seen your post about emmet till. what a coincidence!
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Nobody: 12:28am On Apr 01, 2011
@pleep although i do believe can be found in I.Rs but at the end of the day it is because of that history
(poor Emmett and those before/after him) that I choose not to date I.R. or really white men. That is my choice tho.
and I agree with you most blk/wht i.r.s are results of black brainwashing and the 'black men have big dix' hype that
white women want to explore plus a chance to piss off black women. At the end of the day though, I appreciate black men
who appreciate me and I just move on with my life. I cannot worry about every Tom and Jane.

pleep:

^^^ while i was posting my reply i hadn't seen your post about emmet till. what a coincidence!
lmao yeah i bolded it  grin but the point is you just showed how much of an impact it and things similar that have happened to other
black men, had on our views.

check this out:

http://www.miamiherald.com/2011/03/29/2140049/house-apologizes-for-no-prosecution.html
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 1:13am On Apr 01, 2011
pleep:

99 percent of interacial relationships do not fail that ediot is just making craap up. Once the couple gets to marriage the chances of that marriage lasting are probably higher than in other relationships.

cry cry cry cry cry cry
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Musiwa13: 1:41am On Apr 01, 2011
mrs china. look most of you people online are racist. When a person can not date other race, they are racist. and most of you sound racist.

Colour is just like paint. What a person is, is what is in his or her heart. Two white people can get married and it would still fail. Even if you look at the stat over there. It tell you the story. That the colour does not matter. but what is in your heart.

If you marry a person for look or for money or any other reason. what if something happen to them.  I know a woman who got sick after been married .  it tell you , if you discover your partner has a disease or heredity disease, you would dump them. Life is more than this.

Open your heart to love. You can shack anybody my friend, either chico woman or paki, as long as you love them. It is the love that keeps a relationship flowing. when there is not love, and physical things like money, beauty and others are the reason you marry them. it would fail.

The bible says love does not fail. either in good health or bad health.

look at this woman  titilayo who went to university of ibadan.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SlgnGAGFsU&feature=related 

what other love are you looking for again, if you have this woman.



see video of

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SlgnGAGFsU&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Chuzb9fZ8v8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLzWfxBRa8Q&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5Vyg3sFm6g&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I38revSbN2E&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exRTq8xbq68&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SlgnGAGFsU&feature=fvwrel


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2aAWBMEwSw&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsltcnHxzfI&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cj_XUCXvwUc&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqCVf4rXlJo&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbMUqotoV8M&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJtZAvsmF6Q&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmb4TH-WSFs&feature=related
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 1:48am On Apr 01, 2011
^^^ cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Nobody: 1:54am On Apr 01, 2011
Chima dont even reply to this musiwa person cause WE CLEARLY stated we are not against I.R. dating.
let their defensiveness beat them in their azz.

again. . .LIVE AND LET LIVE.

I wont waste my time watching any 'advertise mixing' videos.
I wish ppl would stop trying to force their choices on others and grow up.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 2:02am On Apr 01, 2011
^^^ Sister, nobody is forcing their choices on anybody. Its just that people have different preferences and they table it on this thread. Nobody can predict who they are going to be with and although people say its a choice, I suddenly thibnk its not about choices, its about the inner heart desires. We are here not to whine about our problems but rather to share our experiences and views on this topic.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Tosinville(m): 2:11am On Apr 01, 2011
I wonder why some of these girls are just getting mad over nothing just because most guys prefer the white chicks in bed to black girls?lol
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 2:12am On Apr 01, 2011
Tosin, u want start fight abi?
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 2:14am On Apr 01, 2011
Ms. Potato:

cry cry cry cry cry cry
 undecided Why the tears? this is good news right? relationships that have gone through what yours has have been tested like no other. So isnt the bond stronger?
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 2:15am On Apr 01, 2011
pleep:

 undecided Why the tears? this is good news right? relationships that have gone through what yours has have been tested like no other. So isnt the bond stronger?

Pleep my dear, I am not sure because this is my first relationship and I dont really know what to expect cry
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 2:18am On Apr 01, 2011
Tosinville:

I wonder why some of these girls are just getting mad over nothing just because most guys prefer the white chicks in bed to black girls?lol

 Can we blame them for getting mad? imagine if Black women treated black men they way we treat them. (this is in reference to ppl in the U.S) black men would end up like asian men. Agreed to the least desired of all men. every single asian man i know is single, many have never had a single girlfriend, all this because Asian women prefer white dudes.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 2:21am On Apr 01, 2011
pleep:

 Can we blame them for getting mad? imagine if Black women treated black men they way we treat them. (this is in reference to ppl in the U.S) black men would end up like asian men. Agreed to the least desired of all men. every single asian man i know is single, many have never had a single girlfriend, all this because Asian women prefer white dudes.

I dont! shocked
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 2:22am On Apr 01, 2011
Ms. Potato:

I dont! shocked
haha unusualtongue
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 2:26am On Apr 01, 2011
ps. according to the same study black women are the least desired women. One time i saw an Asian man and an African woman dating. They looked terrified! like they expected everyone around them to make racist remarks. very interesting and very sad also
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 2:34am On Apr 01, 2011
pleep:

haha unusualtongue

White men has never been my cup of tea and unfortunately for me, I dont even have interest in my own kinda men  embarassed lipsrsealed  I tried very hard in past years but I dont feel any physical or emotional connection or feelings. I swear even my vijay is constantly dry!  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked


pleep:

ps. according to the same study black women are the least desired women. One time i saw an Asian man and an African woman dating. They looked terrified! like they expected everyone around them to make racist remarks. very interesting and very sad also

Least desired WHOT U serious? Why's that?

Yeah, i understand what the Asian guy and African laqdy is going through. Caus epeople are definitely going to stare
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 2:36am On Apr 01, 2011
but look at this hot Blasian couple. I think they look cute together



Sandra “Pepa” Denton & Tom Lo
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 2:53am On Apr 01, 2011
Least desired WHOT U serious? Why's that?

Yeah, i understand what the Asian guy and African laqdy is going through. Caus epeople are definitely going to stare

The article said some racist BS about Black women being too physically masculine, and Asian men being too physically feminine. it also went on to say that black men are extreamly Masculine and Asian women are extreamly feminine. I can see where they get these ideas from, but notice it places white people in the Middle as usual, not to much yin or yang.  undecided Black men are often seen as fetish material for white women and asian women are often a fetish for white men unfortunately.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by HaveSense1(m): 3:01am On Apr 01, 2011
Funny how every time I come to this topic, there's an ad about interracial dating. Coincidence?

Everyone can bark however much they like, it will never change anyone's opinions towards a certain race or what race they like to date. Bottom line is, color doesn't matter, because the heart is black and white.

That is all.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 3:12am On Apr 01, 2011
pleep:

The article said some racist BS about Black women being too physically masculine, and Asian men being too physically feminine. it also went on to say that black men are extreamly Masculine and Asian women are extreamly feminine. I can see where they get these ideas from, but notice it places white people in the Middle as usual, not to much yin or yang.  undecided Black men are often seen as fetish material for white women and asian women are often a fetish for white men unfortunately.

This is really sad but what do you think? Do u actually agree with the article?
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MrsChima(f): 3:16am On Apr 01, 2011
Musiwa,:

mrs china. look most of you people online are racist. When a person can not date other race, they are racist. and most of you sound racist.

Colour is just like paint. What a person is, is what is in his or her heart. Two white people can get married and it would still fail. Even if you look at the stat over there. It tell you the story. That the colour does not matter. but what is in your heart.

If you marry a person for look or for money or any other reason. what if something happen to them.  I know a woman who got sick after been married .  it tell you , if you discover your partner has a disease or heredity disease, you would dump them. Life is more than this.

Open your heart to love. You can shack anybody my friend, either chico woman or paki, as long as you love them. It is the love that keeps a relationship flowing. when there is not love, and physical things like money, beauty and others are the reason you marry them. it would fail.

The bible says love does not fail. either in good health or bad health.

look at this woman  titilayo who went to university of ibadan.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SlgnGAGFsU&feature=related 

what other love are you looking for again, if you have this woman.



see video of

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SlgnGAGFsU&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Chuzb9fZ8v8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLzWfxBRa8Q&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5Vyg3sFm6g&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I38revSbN2E&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exRTq8xbq68&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SlgnGAGFsU&feature=fvwrel


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2aAWBMEwSw&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsltcnHxzfI&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cj_XUCXvwUc&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqCVf4rXlJo&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbMUqotoV8M&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJtZAvsmF6Q&feature=related


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmb4TH-WSFs&feature=related

You telling me all this because? You do not need to defend who you want to Bleep to Mrs. Chima because I thought I made it clear that love who you love and be happy. I guess comprehension isn't exactly universal in this piece.

I have a black man. cool
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 3:25am On Apr 01, 2011
Ms. Potato:

This is really sad but what do you think? Do u actually agree with the article?
well, it seems to be based on truth but the authors are ignoring several facts.
steryiotypical Black women are very curvatious smiley- feminine
and black women have feminine lips- feminine
but black women have wide noses- masculine.

steriotypical asian women have a sort of 'delicate' look and  are not very hairy- feminine
and are short- feminine (love short girls)
but are not very curvatous- masculine

steryiopical white girls have a low center of gravity-  feminine shocked
and most are curvacious- feminine
but europeans are usually very hairy in comparison to other regions- masculine.

Anyway, what im trying to say is that women from all regions are equally feminine and beautiful.
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by pleep(m): 3:32am On Apr 01, 2011
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Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by NDelta(m): 3:35am On Apr 01, 2011
I think interracial Is ok as long as the people in question can be patient. Some have been very successful. The only problem I see with the white women is their love for divorce. Africans believe in making their marriage work but the white woman will walk out without any effort. The Asians also believe in working on their marriage. In the UK almost every body have fourth and third husband or wife. About 50% of marriages end in divorce. Have always express interest in ending up with a white woman but their love for divorce makes me think twice. Most Africans\ Asians living abroad or where are likely to have their parents living together till death. But its not the Same for whites in Europe\America
Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by MsPotato(f): 3:42am On Apr 01, 2011
pleep:

well, it seems to be based on truth but the authors are ignoring several facts.
steryiotypical Black women are very curvatious smiley- feminine
and black women have feminine lips- feminine
but black women have wide noses- masculine.

steriotypical asian women have a sort of 'delicate' look and  are not very hairy- feminine
and are short- feminine (love short girls)
but are not very curvatous- masculine

steryiopical white girls have a low center of gravity-  feminine shocked
and most are curvacious- feminine
but europeans are usually very hairy in comparison to other regions- masculine.

Anyway, what im trying to say is that women from all regions are equally feminine and beautiful.


Yes, u are absolutely right. One cannot have everything and theres always a bad and good side to every individual. But also the facts you stated above could be more of a general view and based on majority but they are some whom happen to not look like what you described above. Like me being Asian, I am not born short nor do I have a small booty and bosom. And all the females in my family (my mother's side seems to inherit that.


pleep:

Except dark skinned east African girls. haha Each one of them looks like a supermodel. I hear there really mean tho undecided
I hope u are not referring to them girls from the movie Blackberry babes. My God! They are very ugly and they look like a male wearing wigs I dont know why embarassed lipsrsealed

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