Continue struggling until you get your own

every hardship comes with ease... Just keep on praying

Atomicity12:
I'm the first child in a family of six..
mum and dad separated about 7 years ago..still living with mum...
Got admission into Uni in 2013 for a 5 years course.. completed my service year and life has been more than tough for me ...tho I graduated with a 2:2...
I'm so Broke and feel so very useless...
My immediate younger brother has millions in his account ( I don't want to talk about what he does to earn that much and I wouldn't want to get myself involved in what he does for a living--based on my personality) but has refused to set up a business for me after many appeal.....he sometimes help with 1k, 2k when I complain of not having money...
Not that I'm lazy, but I've been unable to get any job with my Certificate....it's been tough for me...
I feel very bad everytime I remember my brother can help me but he has refused to...
There was a time he even asked me to go hustle and start saving money for any business I want to do...
he said he can't just give me money for business..
not that I asked him for a million naira to start up..
just something small to start something with...
I'm very frustrated that a fam won't even help me..it's tiring.....
I've got no connections and that has hindered me from getting a job in this country...

Life's getting tiring....I've been having suicidal thoughts...
I feel so useless as the first son!...

WHAT SHOULD I DO

You don't like what he is doing but you want to share the fruits of it with him. When the consequences comes, will you also share it with him?

find something doing no matter how small and save up to start up the business you want. Also stop collecting urgent 1K and 2K from him.

Atomicity12:
I'm the first child in a family of six..
mum and dad separated about 7 years ago..still living with mum...
Got admission into Uni in 2013 for a 5 years course.. completed my service year and life has been more than tough for me ...tho I graduated with a 2:2...
I'm so Broke and feel so very useless...
My immediate younger brother has millions in his account ( I don't want to talk about what he does to earn that much and I wouldn't want to get myself involved in what he does for a living--based on my personality) but has refused to set up a business for me after many appeal.....he sometimes help with 1k, 2k when I complain of not having money...
Not that I'm lazy, but I've been unable to get any job with my Certificate....it's been tough for me...
I feel very bad everytime I remember my brother can help me but he has refused to...
There was a time he even asked me to go hustle and start saving money for any business I want to do...
he said he can't just give me money for business..
not that I asked him for a million naira to start up..
just something small to start something with...
I'm very frustrated that a fam won't even help me..it's tiring.....
I've got no connections and that has hindered me from getting a job in this country...

Life's getting tiring....I've been having suicidal thoughts...
I feel so useless as the first son!...

WHAT SHOULD I DO

ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY

IF YOU DON'T HAVE A BROTHER WON'T U SURVIVE??

Do not blame Ur brother, u know why?? It's hard to debit ursef just to get another person credited like that when he has not rendered any service.

MY ADVICE TO U IS FOR U TO LEARN A TRADE, U ARE NOT TOO OLD TO LEARN SOMETHING, U RE NOT MORE THAN 27/28

I learned a trade at 28 and at 29 am comfortable financially.

You wouldn't want to get yourself involved yet you feel entitled to a measure of help from that which you have spoken of with disdain.

If you like have suicidal thoughts, it is YOUR OWN LIFE YOU WOULD END, not that of another's.

Who you help sef?

Don't go and hustle... When you run out of blames for your younger brother and the country, maybe you would blame me too.

Shior! Keep looking for who to blame...