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| Advice Please!!! by 4soft(m): 10:17pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Good evening guys! In a relationship with a girl and I actually care and love her!!! But my mum whom by the way I love so much seem not to like the girl and have sown that I will not marry her! Even without meeting Her✅ My mum claims to have had series of dream as regards her and all negative, this is even without meeting her in person Ever!!!! She just goes by the name and dats all she is suggesting another for me that I actually don’t think I like! Am really worried and stressed by this! Cos inasmuch as I love the girl and really don’t want to leave her just cos of a dream my mum had of a girl she has never met! My mom is a strong prayer warrior and a believer and her prayers and dreams keeps my family going! Please I will need advice on the part to follow and what to do! |
| Re: Advice Please!!! by OlayemiAshraf(m): 10:24pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Bruh ... this matter na your cross ..na only you go carry ham |
| Re: Advice Please!!! by chatinent: 10:28pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
I don't mean to write your mum off. It's rather ridiculous for a parent who hasn't seen sb to be claiming to see her son's wife figure in dreams. What image fits in? If that was the types of prayers and dreams that you claim uplift you, sorry, it's paranoia. Sorry, you've hurt people. Sorry, you've wrote good people off because of your mum. Sorry, you and your mum have no authority from anywhere to term people evil and witches. I am sorry I had to be plain. |
| Re: Advice Please!!! by Nazgul: 10:28pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Your mom might know something you don't. When taking a decision concerning marriage, never go against the counsel of your parents. I've noticed that 7 out of 10 marriages where the parents of either the guy or girl kicked against ends up in disaster. I believe you're a Christian so pray as well or look for a geninue man of God to pray for you. And keep your eyes open for red flags. Don't be blinded by love, cos love doesn't keep marriages faithfulness, honesty, compatibility and respect does. I repeat...keep your eyes open...if you notice several glaring red flags, you can call it quits, if you don't, then try to convince your mom to accept her. 1 Like |
| Re: Advice Please!!! by UncleKoboko: 10:36pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Rubbish and hallucinations Africans and senselessness sha... |
| Re: Advice Please!!! by youngblaq: 10:46pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Being blacks is difficult enough. |
| Re: Advice Please!!! by Oluromantic: 11:14pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
In as much as I don't advice against a mother's experience when it comes to making the right choice for marriage and the role of spirituality which is also key, I might have to have a little counter against this one. 1. Your mother upon hearing the name of someone she's not met already had series of dreams antagonizing your choice for marriage. Yes it's very possible if her spirituality is genuine. 2. The same dreamer-mom of yours already suggesting another girl that she likes, not someone she saw from the dream.. that's somehow! Commonsensically, if she could have series of dreams against a person she hasn't met, then she should as well be able to have just one dream about the right person she hasn't met too, and not suggesting someone she already likes in her mind. Why can't the same source of several dreams against the wrong person also be the source of just one dream for the right person. Why does the wrong person has to come from a dream and the right person from her mind? Shebi she knows the name of the second one too, why didn't she dream about her like the previous one. Don't you reason that? To me those dreams seem to be self-inspired dreams. It's her decision not to like her not the dreams. Being spiritual is good but common sense with spirituality is better. Your mother might have assumed a respectable position in the family cus of her spirituality...most mommies are like that. That however does not overrule the place of sanity and common sense. Look beyond how respectable she is in the family and reason why the same God who showed her series of dreams against a person she hasn't met cannot show her just one dream about another good person she also hasn't met. Besides, mom is a woman and you are a man. No matter how much she plays advisory roles, she can't understand the role of masculine instinct in making choices. You have your spec, look for your spec who fears God enough to your taste if dream can't produce the answer. Or better still, pray to dream about the right person yourself or ask mom to pray to dream of the right person and not someone she's suggesting. I think it's better that way. It's good to please mommy but it's you who will live with your wife and it's forever. Remember that. |
| Re: Advice Please!!! by Mayannar(m): 12:37am On Jan 16, 2021 |
In as much as u love your mom and wouldn't wanna defy her likes.. and definitely you also love ur baby girl... 1. Your mom would pass on someday.. *Think of it.. Make your choice as a man so you wouldn't live of regret later in years* 2... Since you believe in her visions and prayers.. *Think of it... Make your choice as a man so you wouldn't live of regret later in years* This a Simultaneous Equation.. Try to Balance it Man... Follow ur mind! |
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