Good day everyone!

I will keep this as short as possible. Please i need your help and opinions.

I gave up on love long ago, i just live my cool life, do my hussle, afford what i can, no worries over what i can't, get laid once in a while, no room for love matters as I'm very insecure due to previous bad experiences with women.

So came this babe, she's not very very beautiful and in fact not my spec but some how, we started like friends and in fact, i told her I'm not interested in any relationship. And that we should just be friends. So she agreed, but as time goes on, she opened up that she likes me but she don't want to date me, she just want a fling with me.

Note, she knows I'm smoking, because she has seen me with some few friends in the neighborhood smoking together. She seems not to have a problem with it.

We have not made love yet, and i am intentionally keeping it that way because i just want to be friends with her and even if we will date, we need time to get to know each other.

Now, i discovered that i know longer smoke outside anymore, and whenever she comes around, i dont do it too in my sitting room. If i must, i go to my bathroom, (i only smoke weed). I do this because i don't want her to be ashamed of me, (i dunno) and as for not smoking in the house, i don't want her to come to my place and my whole sitting room is all smokey.

So, could it be I'm falling in love with her or what is the reason or reasons for this new lifestyle of mine.

Should i get on a serious relationship with her? Could she be the one?

Thank you for your anticipated responses!

You are not falling in love, you have already fallen in love. Congrats dear

Lessons 1 : Girls love bad guys

You yaf fell since.......

I don't want to talk about the love aspect. But one thing I do know is that she can be a positive influence in your life if you let her. I'm not saying weed is a bad thing. That's a matter of perspective. But her presence is helping you stop those habits which your subconscious thinks is bad.
I don't know if you're in love but I know she can improve your life.

Listen Closely lemme tell you a secret,

You said you don't want her to be ashamed of you because you smoke,

Believe this or not,.... If you smoke and you take very good care of yourself, you are neat from head to toe, you dress well and smart,( even if your clothes are cheap), you smell nice, you have good Dentition, you think, behave and act matured and you have good social skills( ability to interact excellently with people), you know your priorities and you know your set goals and you're obviously and visibly striving to achieve those your goals, ... Females have this tendency to respect you more as long as you display your qualities I listed above because Africa here have this Cursed mentality that weed smokers are irresponsible and useless.

So if you possess those qualities I listed above, in the process you have indirectly showed and you've also indirectly proven to her that there are indeed weed smokers who are absolutely responsible individuals even though the smoke and He knows fully well what he wants in Life and he's focused on achieving his goals even though he smokes,... trust me, her love and Respect for you will tripple because you've just proven her wrong and you've also proven to her that there are responsible weed smokers. (Mind you, she will not tell you these).

I don't care if you believe what I wrote, I said this without Remorse.

Lols,if u try to change,you'll lose her.Be the real u,that's who she loves.

ValCon888:
I don't want to talk about the love aspect. But one thing I do know is that she can be a positive influence in your life if you let her. I'm not saying weed is a bad thing. That's a matter of perspective. But her presence is helping you stop those habits which your subconscious thinks is bad.
I don't know if you're in love but I know she can improve your life.

Thanks very much. I appreciate this �

DaddyRochie1642:
Listen Closely lemme tell you a secret,

You said you don't want her to be ashamed of you because you smoke,

Believe this or not,.... If you smoke and you take very good care of yourself, you are neat from head to toe, you dress well and smart,( even if your clothes are cheap), you smell nice, you have good Dentition, you think, behave and act matured and you have good social skills( ability to interact excellently with people), you know your priorities and you know your set goals and you're obviously and visibly striving to achieve those your goals, ... Females have this tendency to respect you more as long as you display your qualities I listed above because Africa here have this Cursed mentality that weed smokers are irresponsible and useless.

So if you possess those qualities I listed above, in the process you have indirectly showed and you've also indirectly proven to her that there are indeed weed smokers who are absolutely responsible individuals even though the smoke and He knows fully well what he wants in Life and he's focused on achieving his goals even though he smokes,... trust me, her love and Respect for you will tripple because you've just proven her wrong and you've also proven to her that there are responsible weed smokers. (Mind you, she will not tell you these).

I don't care if you believe what I wrote, I said this without Remorse.

I'm neat, I'm coordinated. As a matter of fact, looking good is a business to me and a priority. My dress sense is up to per, i believe what you wrote, because i do behave myself Outside and i have an excellent interacting skills. As a matter of fact, we started being friends when i started giving her advise on some school stuffs and friends around her. So yes, i believe you. Thanks again.

Mandela27:
Lols,if u try to change,you'll lose her.Be the real u,that's who she loves.

Thanks Chief. I will bear that in mind.

At the end of the day, na one Ganja RastaFarRice Fela man go dey give her 50 shades of grey treatment.

Use ur head, love is a mirage!

That 'cured mentality' of thinking that weed = lazy is not limited to Africa.


If he hides or 'changes' and the weed habit comes back, she may feel like he is not the same person she fell in love with.

He should be honest to reduce matters that touch the heart.

DaddyRochie1642:
Listen Closely lemme tell you a secret,

You said you don't want her to be ashamed of you because you smoke,

Believe this or not,.... If you smoke and you take very good care of yourself, you are neat from head to toe, you dress well and smart,( even if your clothes are cheap), you smell nice, you have good Dentition, you think, behave and act matured and you have good social skills( ability to interact excellently with people), you know your priorities and you know your set goals and you're obviously and visibly striving to achieve those your goals, ... Females have this tendency to respect you more as long as you display your qualities I listed above because Africa here have this Cursed mentality that weed smokers are irresponsible and useless.

So if you possess those qualities I listed above, in the process you have indirectly showed and you've also indirectly proven to her that there are indeed weed smokers who are absolutely responsible individuals even though the smoke and He knows fully well what he wants in Life and he's focused on achieving his goals even though he smokes,... trust me, her love and Respect for you will tripple because you've just proven her wrong and you've also proven to her that there are responsible weed smokers. (Mind you, she will not tell you these).

I don't care if you believe what I wrote, I said this without Remorse.

DaddyRochie1642:
Listen Closely lemme tell you a secret,

You said you don't want her to be ashamed of you because you smoke,

Believe this or not,.... If you smoke and you take very good care of yourself, you are neat from head to toe, you dress well and smart,( even if your clothes are cheap), you smell nice, you have good Dentition, you think, behave and act matured and you have good social skills( ability to interact excellently with people), you know your priorities and you know your set goals and you're obviously and visibly striving to achieve those your goals, ... Females have this tendency to respect you more as long as you display your qualities I listed above because Africa here have this Cursed mentality that weed smokers are irresponsible and useless.

So if you possess those qualities I listed above, in the process you have indirectly showed and you've also indirectly proven to her that there are indeed weed smokers who are absolutely responsible individuals even though the smoke and He knows fully well what he wants in Life and he's focused on achieving his goals even though he smokes,... trust me, her love and Respect for you will tripple because you've just proven her wrong and you've also proven to her that there are responsible weed smokers. (Mind you, she will not tell you these).

I don't care if you believe what I wrote, I said this without Remorse.

it has nothing to do with african mentality.fact is most weed smokers in nigeria always look malnorished and unkempt.wat u see all d time will always be in sub conscious..dats just d fact.

Samsonklin:
Good day everyone!

I will keep this as short as possible. Please i need your help and opinions.

I gave up on love long ago, i just live my cool life, do my hussle, afford what i can, no worries over what i can't, get laid once in a while, no room for love matters as I'm very insecure due to previous bad experiences with women.

So came this babe, she's not very very beautiful and in fact not my spec but some how, we started like friends and in fact, i told her I'm not interested in any relationship. And that we should just be friends. So she agreed, but as time goes on, she opened up that she likes me but she don't want to date me, she just want a fling with me.

Note, she knows I'm smoking, because she has seen me with some few friends in the neighborhood smoking together. She seems not to have a problem with it.

We have not made love yet, and i am intentionally keeping it that way because i just want to be friends with her and even if we will date, we need time to get to know each other.

Now, i discovered that i know longer smoke outside anymore, and whenever she comes around, i dont do it too in my sitting room. If i must, i go to my bathroom, (i only smoke weed). I do this because i don't want her to be ashamed of me, (i dunno) and as for not smoking in the house, i don't want her to come to my place and my whole sitting room is all smokey.

So, could it be I'm falling in love with her or what is the reason or reasons for this new lifestyle of mine.

Should i get on a serious relationship with her? Could she be the one?

Thank you for your anticipated responses!

You adjusted your life style ,just to impress her ,This is called respect .
For you to go to this length of action, you have already crossed the bridge.

..

Love is strong and beautiful

It humbles even the strongest being

lefulefu:
it has nothing to do with african mentality.fact is most weed smokers in nigeria always look malnorished and unkempt.wat u see all d time will always be in sub conscious..dats just d fact.

Happy New year Sir

Love is in the air.

DaddyRochie1642:





Happy New year Sir

lovely new yr to u

She has a positive influence on you and that's all for now. Some friends do that and it doesn't necessarily mean there is "love" involved.

Don't make hasty conclusions and rush into a relationship thinking you are in love just because a lady touched your life, you may regret it later if you do.

Make sure you're in love with her before you start a "love" relationship and if not, I advise you keep her as a good friend because she has the potentials to turn around your present lifestyle.

I said all these because of that phrase of yours, "she is not in fact my spec".

She is a positive influence in your life

Lols,if u try to change,you'll lose her.Be the real u,that's who she loves.

You just want to be good for her...that's a positive sign bro, keep her close

Kikikikikikikiki.... lover man You better don't miss the target, you might not see her type again. Good luck

Samsonklin:
Good day everyone!

I will keep this as short as possible. Please i need your help and opinions.

I gave up on love long ago, i just live my cool life, do my hussle, afford what i can, no worries over what i can't, get laid once in a while, no room for love matters as I'm very insecure due to previous bad experiences with women.

So came this babe, she's not very very beautiful and in fact not my spec but some how, we started like friends and in fact, i told her I'm not interested in any relationship. And that we should just be friends. So she agreed, but as time goes on, she opened up that she likes me but she don't want to date me, she just want a fling with me.

Note, she knows I'm smoking, because she has seen me with some few friends in the neighborhood smoking together. She seems not to have a problem with it.

We have not made love yet, and i am intentionally keeping it that way because i just want to be friends with her and even if we will date, we need time to get to know each other.

Now, i discovered that i know longer smoke outside anymore, and whenever she comes around, i dont do it too in my sitting room. If i must, i go to my bathroom, (i only smoke weed). I do this because i don't want her to be ashamed of me, (i dunno) and as for not smoking in the house, i don't want her to come to my place and my whole sitting room is all smokey.

So, could it be I'm falling in love with her or what is the reason or reasons for this new lifestyle of mine.

Should i get on a serious relationship with her? Could she be the one?

Thank you for your anticipated responses!

Love for a woman can make the most stubborn man to be as humble as a dove

Samsonklin:
Good day everyone!

I will keep this as short as possible. Please i need your help and opinions.

I gave up on love long ago, i just live my cool life, do my hussle, afford what i can, no worries over what i can't, get laid once in a while, no room for love matters as I'm very insecure due to previous bad experiences with women.

So came this babe, she's not very very beautiful and in fact not my spec but some how, we started like friends and in fact, i told her I'm not interested in any relationship. And that we should just be friends. So she agreed, but as time goes on, she opened up that she likes me but she don't want to date me, she just want a fling with me.

Note, she knows I'm smoking, because she has seen me with some few friends in the neighborhood smoking together. She seems not to have a problem with it.

We have not made love yet, and i am intentionally keeping it that way because i just want to be friends with her and even if we will date, we need time to get to know each other.

Now, i discovered that i know longer smoke outside anymore, and whenever she comes around, i dont do it too in my sitting room. If i must, i go to my bathroom, (i only smoke weed). I do this because i don't want her to be ashamed of me, (i dunno) and as for not smoking in the house, i don't want her to come to my place and my whole sitting room is all smokey.

So, could it be I'm falling in love with her or what is the reason or reasons for this new lifestyle of mine.

Should i get on a serious relationship with her? Could she be the one?

Thank you for your anticipated responses!

Love for a woman can make the most stubborn man to be as humble as a dove

Mr lover man

You respecting her isn't enough to say you have fallen. Some people come into our lives and change things but aren't for us. You are just trying to hide your habit that stop it. If smoking is bad, then stop it.

You don't really know her bad sides and some of her character that may put you off. Just keep observing her and don't pretend much.

Niggar, if you make it obvious to a woman that you will go any length to seek for her love, she will toy with you seeing that she says she wants to be a friend.

Mandela27:
Lols,if u try to change,you'll lose her.Be the real u,that's who she loves.

op listen to this advice..just be the real u..



meanwhile,bro Saturday have passed o,I hope u understand wat i mean

DaddyRochie1642:
Listen Closely lemme tell you a secret,

You said you don't want her to be ashamed of you because you smoke,

Believe this or not,.... If you smoke and you take very good care of yourself, you are neat from head to toe, you dress well and smart,( even if your clothes are cheap), you smell nice, you have good Dentition, you think, behave and act matured and you have good social skills( ability to interact excellently with people), you know your priorities and you know your set goals and you're obviously and visibly striving to achieve those your goals, ... Females have this tendency to respect you more as long as you display your qualities I listed above because Africa here have this Cursed mentality that weed smokers are irresponsible and useless.

So if you possess those qualities I listed above, in the process you have indirectly showed and you've also indirectly proven to her that there are indeed weed smokers who are absolutely responsible individuals even though the smoke and He knows fully well what he wants in Life and he's focused on achieving his goals even though he smokes,... trust me, her love and Respect for you will tripple because you've just proven her wrong and you've also proven to her that there are responsible weed smokers. (Mind you, she will not tell you these).

I don't care if you believe what I wrote, I said this without Remorse.

Smoker spotted.