Hey people, this story is kinda lonh, but gonna make it short as possible
Dating for like 2yrs, she is a very unique with an attitude and character that is really difficult ,though most times I try to be understanding and probably ask her to just adjust if not change completely, at a least compromise a little.. This have really cause a
Some of her attitute are

Unforgivnes _hardly forgive
Selfish _though nice but think about herself first
Sacrifice _ can't sacrifice for the relationship
See the relationship as a game dt need ri be play with caution
Just to mention a few though

This have really affect the relationship, after several failed attempt by me to get her to to adjust change her mindset to most of this things

We have ended the relationship several times but can't stay away from each other

Today we got talking and she was of the opinion was going to work on herself. On all these below,

her text

I working on being someone
-That forgives easily with holding grudges
-That loves more sincerely
-That prays genuinely
_I don't want to nag anymore
_I want to learn how to treat people very right
_I want to give out what I expect to recieve
-I want to learn how togo an extra mile for people...
-And I want to be happy always without having any restrictions..
I haven't been so much of a good parson and I don't want to start any relationship like this
I just want to be responsible for my actions and more importantly I want to learn to how to sacrifice �

My question is is it possible she can really change to the above mention, if we get married today wii those shortcomings not show up and be a big cause of concern?

Why not you change for her and accept her for who she is. You think there is anything as perfect partner?

Someone that her parents and siblings couldn't change , it is you that will change her. You carry juju for waist?