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Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by MrColdsweat: 7:59pm On Jan 26, 2021
Man is a slave.
He is a slave because he's not free. He's a slave because he's psychologically restricted. He's programmed to perform certain obligations all his life. He has strict, abject laws he must live by. These uncodified laws are inherent in the components of masculinity.
Obligation: A man must always show unyielding, tireless devotion.
Strength: A man must never show weakness.
Fearlessness: A man must always be bold and daring.
Honor: A man must always be noble.
Loyalty: He must always give unwavering support to who he is obligated to.

So many rules a man must live by. Rules created by a gang of faceless men we call ancestors. Men we have zero connections with. They sat down and determined the ways and destiny of the male gender. This has made men robots.
You see, women understand this. They know men very well, not because they gave birth to men and groomed men, but because men come to them everytime. They spend most of their time watching and observing men while men are fixated on their numerous duties and enjoy their many adventures. They carefully watched their fathers execute his duties in the home. They have very few ways of having fun, so they watch men have fun. While you had your eyes on the football match on the TV, she was always by the side, pretending to be watching the game. No! She was watching you. Watching your every reaction to the game. How men behave in victory, how men react to defeat, provocation etc. They even watch while men pound them during sex. They see it all. And how do we gain knowledge if not by observing? They understand men so much and they are very much aware of his weakness; his ego. Man cannot see that his problem is his ego because the ego is a psychological blinder and he is blinded by duty and obligation. Women do not have the ego because of lack of obligations and expectations. We expect very little from women. We don't expect women to be soldiers, presidents, leaders, engineers etc. We only expect them to look beautiful, have sex and born pikin.
Women have mastered the art of manipulation by constant use of the male ego. It has become a whip in their hands. To get her slave working, all she needs to do is to prick the ego of a man; to challenge him. To enjoy maximum sexual pleasure and multiple orgasm, all she has to do, is call emeka a weak man and accuse him of being incapable of pounding past an hour. Boom!!! emeka don swallow 50,000 mg of tramadol, dilute am with 5 bottles of big stout, then he embarks on a journey to the point separating this physical plane and higher dimensions.
A man has a high chance of taking back a lady who dumped him for another man, if the lady testifies that he is far better than the man she left him for. She uses his ego to find her way back.
If she needs anything, she dares him.
"Can't you see the new car chike bought for his wife, is he not your mate?"
"Your mates are doing fsgrvjfbjd"
"Can't you do fgdvjfbsc like your mates?"
"If you cannot provide dgchjcdvb for me, I'll have to consider Mr dhfggjj"
Because of the ego, men frequently drive themselves to the point of death. Infact, ego is the number one killer of men. Men have become so obsessed with proving that they're men, after all that is what being a man is; proving unrelenting strength, fearlessness, loyalty etc. Some join cults in the university to prove that they are hard men. At the bar, some idiots gulp several bottles of bitter alcohol to prove hardness and toughness. Some spend hours pounding and sweating on people's daughters just to prove they're strong in bed. The penis enlargement industry keep making sales and recording profits.
Men know they're manipulated and they're helpless. But they do not understand why the words of women push them to the extreme. Why they obey the commands of women. Worst is, the whip has become a play thing to women. Men worldwide are innovating and littering the cyberspace with red-pilled articles on how to handle women. Women do not even bother or stress much. Their whips are intact. Moreover, men are cursed to always come to women for sex. When a man approaches a women for sex or any relationship, he brings his personal whip; his ego, which she uses to manhandle and tame him. A slave being in constant possession of his masters whip. A sorry but funny state.
Because of his ego, man has been reduced to a utiliity tool to disposed after use. He has no life of his own because he lives a life of servitude. He's constantly under pressure and he cannot complain because of the indoctrination. He cannot complain because complaining is a sign of weakness.

What must man must do if he is to be free and live his own life by his own terms?
1. Man must take his eyes off women and fix his eyes on himself. Man has studied women for centuries because he is obligated to care for her and protect her, but he has very little knowledge of himself because he's blinded by duty. Man must study himself. He must critically analyze the values that are the incorporations of masculinity. He must reform, replace or eliminate them. He must reformulate the definition of man. A man must no longer be a human who spends his life working for others. A man must no longer be a slave.

2. The ego of man is the whip used against his backs. It is an imposed blindness. His ego has become a tool for blackmail. He must behead his ego so that he can be immune to shame and manipulations. Women drive men by shaming men. Men must become shameless so that women can no longer shame them. You can't shame who has no shame.

3. Man must hijack and champion the struggle for equality and use the opportunity to define their lives while women do the same. He must also reform the segregating social institutions such as the marital institution. This must be done after he has beheaded his ego. If he has not killed his ego, struggling with women to reform society, which is to his benefit, will always been seen as degrading and belittling.

In all, man must destroy the whip by rejecting the tradition definition of man so that he can be free to enjoy his one life.

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by EzegeNdiigbo: 8:10pm On Jan 26, 2021
SOMETHING MUST KILL A MAN
Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by Molahnelson(m): 8:13pm On Jan 26, 2021
Preach brother preach
MGTOW guys MGTOW

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by DSC7: 8:15pm On Jan 26, 2021
Op just finish colorado......

Normal person like me no fit write dis kind hand out.....
Abeg make pesin wey read summarize....

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by missiret(f): 8:17pm On Jan 26, 2021
someone should summarize

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by youngvikthor(m): 8:18pm On Jan 26, 2021
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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by Cerebellum: 8:18pm On Jan 26, 2021
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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by MrColdsweat: 8:34pm On Jan 26, 2021
Molahnelson:
Preach brother preach

MGTOW guys MGTOW

Gender equality is the best thing that will happen to men. But men cannot see thud because they are blinded by ego.

Look at women today. Women are enjoying their lives because they have gone their own way. Men must stop being slaves so that they can live longer. Men must go their own way.

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by godofuck231: 8:41pm On Jan 26, 2021
When you are trough gather the women in your family and give your daughters out for marriage and see the consequences, even god acknowledged the male position in life and society talk less you , get your mind right please
Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by MrColdsweat: 9:10pm On Jan 26, 2021
EzegeNdiigbo:
SOMETHING MUST KILL A MAN

Something must kill a man. That is why you approach danger, take stupid risks with boldness and recklessness.

And you wonder why men die faster than women?

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by Casham: 9:11pm On Jan 26, 2021
The truth is that no one gender can do without the other. So we cannot both 'go our separate ways'. The child needs both parents to have a balanced view of live and that requires a nuclear unit; the family. We can't have that if we all go our our own ways. We cannot deny that each gender is physiologically and emotionally built for a specific function. So we can't attribute our emotional and physical responses to purely cultural stereotyping. Trust me, 'equality' cannot be achieved through some political or constitutional means. Only each man [and woman] can work on their weaknesses and ignorance to liberate themselves from their own form of inequalities. Because as long as a man cannot see pussy and say 'no' to it, women will always trade it for their own advantage. Remember it is a primordial weakness. That's why "prostitution is the oldest trade". Peace!!

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by MrColdsweat: 9:27pm On Jan 26, 2021
Casham:
The truth is that no one gender can do without the other. So we cannot both 'go our separate ways'. The child needs both parents to have a balanced view of live and that requires a nuclear unit; the family. We can't have that if we all go our our own ways. We cannot deny that each gender is physiologically and emotionally built for a specific function. So we can't attribute our emotional and physical responses to purely cultural stereotyping. Trust me, 'equality' cannot be achieved through some political or constitutional means. Only each man [and woman] can work on their weaknesses and ignorance to liberate themselves from their own form of inequalities. Because as long as a man cannot see pussy and say 'no' to it, women will always trade it for their own advantage. Remember it is a primordial weakness. That's why "prostitution is the oldest trade". Peace!!

We cannot do this individually. This must be done collectively because new men are born into the system and only very few men have the mental strength to reason beyond societal norms. We will achieve equality by reformulating our social institutions but we will have to join women to do this.

Gender equality will do well for men. We will have less burdens and more freedom.

Also, by going their own way, I do not mean abandoning women. I mean chosing your own path and defying social constructs and norm which limits your freedom.
Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by Casham: 7:26am On Jan 27, 2021
MrColdsweat:


We cannot do this individually. This must be done collectively because new men are born into the system and only very few men have the mental strength to reason beyond societal norms. We will achieve equality by reformulating our social institutions but we will have to join women to do this.

Gender equality will do well for men. We will have less burdens and more freedom.

Also, by going their own way, I do not mean abandoning women. I mean chosing your own path and defying social constructs and norm which limits your freedom.
I totally agree with all these equality talk. But, really, what is equality? Is it when men and women are paid equal? That cannot be totally possible, because women cannot compete in many fields. Is it when we create a counterpart role for each office? That will be totally unneccessary because some roles are best suited for a specific gender. Is it when we demand equal contribution in the home? What about the grey areas?
Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by DONFRANSKID(m): 7:46am On Jan 27, 2021
Trash as usual
Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by Mikester: 8:33am On Jan 27, 2021
MrColdsweat:


Gender equality is the best thing that will happen to men. But men cannot see thud because they are blinded by ego.

Look at women today. Women are enjoying their lives because they have gone their own way. Men must stop being slaves so that they can live longer. Men must go their own way.
I appreciate your effort to impact us sir but having a long writeup doesn't guarantee the credibility of the topic. I believe there's a factor you aren't aware of.

Gender equality will alter the balance of the world as women aren't their best with power as recent demonstrations has shown and power is meant for one more logical and less emotional. Women are more emotional and are bound to take decisions based on emotions which is bad for any race, tribe, region or people. We have so many arrogant female bosses everywhere. We also have many madams abusing their maids. It's hard for a woman to behave when you place a crown on her head. Her decisions are most likely to be selfish and unreasonable. This factor is why gender equality will forever remain a child's play.

I'm not a misogynist.

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by MrColdsweat: 9:44am On Jan 27, 2021
Mikester:

I appreciate your effort to impact us sir but having a long writeup doesn't guarantee the credibility of the topic. I believe there's a factor you aren't aware of.

Gender equality will alter the balance of the world as women aren't their best with power as recent demonstrations has shown and power is meant for one more logical and less emotional. Women are more emotional and are bound to take decisions based on emotions which is bad for any race, tribe, region or people. We have so many arrogant female bosses everywhere. We also have many madams abusing their maids. It's hard for a woman to behave when you place a crown on her head. Her decisions are most likely to be selfish and unreasonable. This factor is why gender equality will forever remain a child's play.

I'm not a misogynist.


The issue of gender equality should not be about power. It has nothing to do with power.

It is simply about setting men and women free from gender norms. It is simply giving both men and women chance to fight for equal opportunities, and decide their own destinies and not follow we set of law created by some gang of men.

"Men must not show weakness"
"Men must be this", "men must be that"

Who created these laws and why must men worldwide follow these set of codes?
This is what gender equality seeks to address.

A chance for men to live their own lives.

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by Mikester: 9:59am On Jan 27, 2021
MrColdsweat:
The issue of gender equality should not be about power. It has nothing to do with power.

It is simply about setting men and women free from gender norms. It is simply giving both men and women chance to fight for equal opportunities, and decide their own destinies and not follow we set of law created by some gang of men.

"Men must not show weakness"
"Men must be this", "men must be that"

Who created these laws and why must men worldwide follow these set of codes?
This is what gender equality seeks to address.

A chance for men to live their own lives.
Gender equality does have something to do with power. It is an empowerment scheme precisely for women.

By the way sir these are things we can't change. It is beyond man himself. Nature made it that way. Women are natural subjects to men in perpetuity. What woman can offload a truck full of cement? What woman can endure the harshness of the toxic fumes emitted at factories?

I agree most men are foolishly incompetent and women seem to use their brains more efficiently than them but women are at their best where nature has placed them likewise men. This is how they both can appreciate life better and it is never going to change for any woman, race or people.

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by ElasmoBranchii(m): 11:22am On Jan 27, 2021
Sophistry! Sophistry! Sophistry! you are quick to use the term ego but you have no idea what ego is.

A man with a weak ego is easily manipulated while a man with a strong ego is not.

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Re: Men Must Kill Their Pride And Seek Equality. by NamelessOGBENI(m): 7:21pm On May 15, 2022
Let me pitch my tent here.

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