In my school, i noticed that every guy i talk to, and i am nice to
automatically thinks i am interested in them.
whats wrong with just being friends
please share what you think in your mind

no different from being approached. they were going to like you anyway.

@OP
Lmao! Ankara! and co!
True sha! That happens to me a whole lot! Especially when I'm in 9ja! They just don't get it! They think everything is all about sex and loving and all those ish!

However., Poster, I think you over-do your own sometimes, lol, You know me. I always Bone face! (Well, not always). Because I know whats's coming at me if I act too friendly,

well the fact that they want to explore your areas of outstanding natural beauty does not mean they have fallen as some of my brethren will say na markate.
you decide whether you are selling or not.

Who no like better thing?! A nice person is very valuable as they are few and far between.

But then again any person who comes off as nice n all is looked upon as cheap or easy. For a girl this means the guys think they can "score" easily.

sule sule:

In my school, i noticed that every guy i talk to, and i am nice to
automatically thinks i am interested in them.
whats wrong with just being friends
please share what you think in your mind

The friendliness makes them think you'll be easier to get in bed. It's that simple.

PhysicsMHD:


The friendliness makes them think you'll be easier to get in bed. It's that simple.

I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT

Do not be alarmed. It is not the exclusive right of the female specie to warrant such attention even guys experience that attraction from the female folks. The fact is that people are naturally drawn to what is good, if you have a pleasing personality people will be drawn to you. A lot of people have met and continue to meet the wrong set of individuals in life, therefore if you come with a pleasing personality you are like a breath of fresh air and who would not want a breath of that air compared to the stink he or she is used to being around.

Be yourself and do not let individuals who misread your actions to cause you to change. It is your duty to continually drum in their heads that you are just being you and when they see you constantly potray the same character to all alike be it male or female they are bound to understand that it is just who you are. Remember you are a breath of fresh air so continue to have a pleasing personality to all alike male and female.

so all the girl that toast me and i am friendly to want me to swing my waist later.

Hell no!

Even Natasha too self. So what you want from me is Bleep.?

sumtymez it pays to a lil b!tchy, da moment u show a little nice towards sum guys, u may send a wrong signal 2wards dem.

Donpuzo:

so all the girl that toast me and i am friendly to want me to swing my waist later.

Hell no!

Even Natasha too self. So what you want from me is Bleep.?

Devil punish you mad prickosboy you and your pencil di,ck you are not even happy someone like me, a whole Nat wants to manage you

Natasha,,:

Devil punish you mad prickosboy you and your pencil di,ck you are not even happy someone like me, a whole Nat wants to manage you

Natasha sweety i have big cork can u accept my application for a boyfriend now!

LesbianBoy:

Natasha sweety i have big cork can u accept my application for a boyfriend now!

where is your application letter? while submitting it attach a pic of your dickosboy

degubi:

Do not be alarmed. It is not the exclusive right of the female specie to warrant such attention even guys experience that attraction from the female folks. The fact is that people are naturally drawn to what is good, if you have a pleasing personality people will be drawn to you. A lot of people have met and continue to meet the wrong set of individuals in life, therefore if you come with a pleasing personality you are like a breath of fresh air and who would not want a breath of that air compared to the stink he or she is used to being around.

Be yourself and do not let individuals who misread your actions to cause you to change. It is your duty to continually drum in their heads that you are just being you and when they see you constantly potray the same character to all alike be it male or female they are bound to understand that it is just who you are. Remember you are a breath of fresh air so continue to have a pleasing personality to all alike male and female.

thanks thats some realy good advice

BABE!:

@OP
Lmao! Ankara! and co!
True sha! That happens to me a whole lot! Especially when I'm in 9ja! They just don't get it! They think everything is all about sex and loving and all those ish!

However., Poster, I think you over-do your own sometimes, lol, You know me. I always Bone face! (Well, not always). Because I know whats's coming at me if I act too friendly,

bwahahahaha, girl u funny o, it is not ankara, it is some other people o, uncle snoop and one other anoying boy like this lol

haaa! Uncle Snoop? Yawa don gas o!, anyways, we'll play catch-up later!

BABE!:

haaa! Uncle Snoop? Yawa don gas o!, anyways, we'll play catch-up later!

oluwababe! I sent u flowers the day before yesterday what you think hope u liked the flower

^^^^ where is your application letter

LesbianBoy:

oluwababe! I sent u flowers the day before yesterday what you think hope u liked the flower 

Justin Beiber! PoP Off! I didn't get any flowers o!

OP.
You are not the first person to bring it up and won't the last person.

That's just the mentality of MOST Nigerian Dudes . . .PERVERT!!!

If you are too nice to them they ask you out,If you hug them in/at Getogether then they wanna hump you.

Most dudes here,If a girl delibrately throw them '' '' then they start asking for her Name on FB, if she refuses she becomes their foe.
Just be yourself . . .always try as much as you can to neglect most of em offline or online . .The mentality has circulated!!!

^^My guy, asin you nailed it!,

Nail what ?. . .It's obvious!

^^I said it "you nailed it", asin, your post couldn't be more right! You dig?

hmmmm

Natasha,,:

^^^^ where is your application letter

natashaoluwa dnt wowi ama send my houseboy mr cork to bring it 4 ya!

BABE!:

Justin Beiber! PoP Off! I didn't get any flowers o!

erm noticed this is d 3rd time ur kalling me justin beiber erm wassup wiv dat!

^^ LOL, Justin Beiber is a lesbian but also a boy---LesbianBoy! I knew him before you! I call him LesbianBoy too!

^^Dude watsup! How are you!?

^^I'm aight! Trying to balance school work and fun!

Inked_Nerd:

@OP: lol, nice topic. Good topic

Inky, why you so excited!? It's just a topic, lol