Okay before you start judging and insulting me please guys know that I feel very terrible about this and it scares me to death when I think of future repercussions especially when i get married someday. Okay i have this very disgusting habit of sleeping with my girlfriends friends or sisters..I do not know how it happens but it just does...i dont know how trust me but it just happens from the blue.

There is hardly any girl i date that doesnt lead to me sleeping with one of her friends or relative,this has been going on for years now repeatedly.. I really need help,..I have tried taking my distance from them often times but one thing leas to another and it happens. Just last night and this breaks my heart so much, a girl I met 3years ago at a club, things went pretyy well and fast, we had sex that same night. She was cool and very beautiful..she blocked me from calling and texting he, i really liked her because she was all i wanted. Tried calling her but to no avail..So 4 days ago i called with my other phone and she picked, we talked briefly and she offered to visit after 3 damn years..She came in company of two of her friends, we made a quick smash.


Later on, she had a fight with her friend because her friend was demanding too much after a very good hospitality i rendered, she got angry and went to her car to drive home very late, i pleaded with her to just chill at least until after the curfew and she agreed, came back upstairs, I told my girl to chill in the room so they dont have more fights..her friend said I was a cool guy and that, and i stupidly kissed her little did i know my girl was watching from the corner of my room and that was how hell got loosed, Took my girl to the room,begged and begged and now the table turned, her friend seized the opportunity and demanded they all leave just at about 5am. They left and my girl i have always wanted blocked me again from all platforms.

My issue here is why do I keep doing this when it hurts them so bad? Is it because i get my way or is something wrong with me? Please i know I am an idiot and i probably just lost another good woman, what if this stupid act of mine has cost me my true love? what if this breaks my marriage? pleae folks what can I do to stop this insane act...i need the best of advise, i have insulted myself way too much please guys.

Problem nor dey finish

Guy, you no dey try oh...! If person do your sister, how you go feel? Ok, if person do you, u go like am? If you continue like this, where u think say u go end? I knw hw many girls wey u don fu%ck through ur date! As e be like dis now, u just need to change!

Please i know I am an idiot and i probably just lost another good woman,

A girl you met at a club, fuccked that same night can never be a good woman, bro.

You've been pussified!

You're so immature you need to grow up and you need to discipline yourself.

If you can't control yourself whenever you're alone with a woman, then you're not worthy to be called a man.

Tell yourself that you won't sleep with a girl and stand by it. It's that simple.

Cut off your lo lo lo lo

Problem solved !!!

Nothing is happening to you... You simply lack discipline

now i believe when people say"wahala no dey finish

It's you against your word
It's discipline
It's self control

That's all you need...

Four years ago I told myself that I'm going to distance myself from girls and relationships maybe until I'm ready to settle down... And four years now, that word still stands.. no girl, no sex, no wahala..

You just need to be matured enough to keep your own word.


Wahala no de finish

The secret of eternal youth.


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