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| Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Babymuchendu(f): 2:47pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
my girl friend called me yesterday, crying that her husband destroyed her simcard and told her to go and get her self a new one. mind you the marriage is just 3 months so is it proper, for me the action is bad. |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Ozogula2005: 2:48pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
First to comment |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by ednut1(m): 2:56pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Babymuchendu:she knew the kind of man he is before marriage. Let her enjoy the consequences of her actions |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Nobody: 3:05pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
I don’t blame the husband. Dating an ex back then made me realize the mistake in dating ladies that still keep in touch with an ex or ex’ssssss. I kept seeing messages in her phone “when will I see you” “Is it because of your new guy” I knew should they ever cross path that motherfuckrrr will beat the meat mercilessly. I started threatening her to stop communication with him/them or I’ll break the sim. Thank God for my life. I ran instead. Peace of mind. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Macphenson: 3:17pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Its not proper, but with the kind of girls we have in Nigeria and the way things are going, most times it's very very necessary. 1 Like |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Weneda(m): 3:30pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Babymuchendu:My dear if she's doing backyard business is necessary but if is just a little quarrel that can be resolved amicably, he did the wrong thing |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Frankraj: 3:34pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Any man that marry a Nigerian girl of this time . DNA is his Nick name. We need to be very careful of this olo sho that still want to be a wife . |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Ewizard(m): 4:04pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Preventive control still better than corrective control. My inlaw did same with my sis, I thought his actions were insecure but on the other hand I've dated too so I knw the angle baba is coming from. While dating, if ur babe has tons of ex's who still call at odd hours, still wants to engage in long conversation, late nyt request to come online, request for casual hangout, some ex will even text her on her birthday before you @11:59pm  ...Please get her a new phone and simcard on your wedding nyt unless she has established serious business contacts with her line already. It will save you alot of worries. Chances are she won't tell all her ex's and crush she's getting married and some will still keep up with that habit even wen they know she's betrothed. My ex once sent me an old pic we took years back and ask me do you remember this pic? With a smile emoji. I ask abt her husband and it happens that baba travelled for months and you know wat loneliness can force you to do. A clear understanding of the kind person you marry or intend to marry should guide your actions and behavior. Trust is a language of deception. 3 Likes |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Biglittlelois(f): 5:12pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Insecurity even when married, there is obviously limited trust between them, before dating someone you're interested in, basic questions such as this should be asked, body reaction, not just words, will givea clue on what or who the person is and can do -Breaking her sim doesnt guarantee anything, if she wants to continue being in touch with some people, she will do it without the husband knowing, -If she has tendencies of cheating with an ex or a friend, breaking her sim just emboldened her to do it codedly -What if she knows her ex's number off hand -If the husband really wants a fresh start for both of them, I hope he also broke his own sim too? It shouldn't be a one sided thing. ***Ladies should have the habit of writing down numbers they do not want to forget, in case of eventualities like this, this lady will also loose important numbers that can help her or both of them in the long run P.S she can't even buy a new sim in this period cos of the ongoing NIN registration, smh.... 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by kalu61(m): 6:09pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Forget what the person above me wrote. If you are a guy who is newly wedded and you observed that your wife keeps long phone calls even in your presence and late midnight chat. l repeat. Break the SIM card. Marriage is for companioship aside procreation and if a woman keeps her attention elsewhere, after talking to her about your dissatisfactions, if she repeats it. Break the SIM card. If she tries it again, ask her to choose between you and whosoever that keeps her company. Last Christmas one of my married bestie chatted me up around 11pm. She asked me when I would be marrying. That was how love talk started. She started telling me how l failed to love her back in school, how l kept hurting and pushing her away. l told her l was naive and was just focused on my studies then but if it's now, l wouldn't think twice. She now dared me that l am too shy and l can't try it. Omo, make l leave story she but we chatted till 3am. l finally asked her about her husband. She said he was not with her husband. That she came for Christmas but would go back soon. I alphamale, l code the girl wantst o play emotional card on me. I just de ghost am since. 1 Like |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Nobody: 6:11pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Waste of time. She knows all the numbers offhand, or she has them stored somewhere. That is 100% certain. It won't be long before all the exes have her new number. |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by omokeinde84655: 6:19pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Its not proper, but with the kind of girls we have in Nigeria and the way things are going, most times it's very very necessary. 1 Like |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Nobody: 6:21pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Why in the first will he spoil it?,... will that solve the issue? |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Bola146(f): 6:25pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
ednut1: God bless you. She ignored some signs but she taught he will change 1 Like |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by kalu61(m): 6:33pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Bola146:Don't support bad thing. lt's only an insane man that will will break his wife's SIM for a 2mins call. Even if he is a jealous type, a man can detect the difference between a female conversation and a male conversation. For him the to have done that, it wasn't the first occurrence. For the woman to have noticed her husband is a jealous type, why rub it on his face. Women are emotional beings and we men know how to press that button. |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by frozen70(f): 6:41pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Babymuchendu: He destroyed her Sim card because he lost trust in himself over her He should also destroy the venue or places he feels they are meeting and also destroy her pussy He just wants to die premature death 1 Like |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by merieam16(f): 10:06pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
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| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Gerrard59(m): 10:15pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Is he going to ban her from using Facebook? Gmail? Twitter? Or is he going to monitor her social media activities? Breaking a sim card really does nothing to a woman who wants to cheat - his motive for the act. She cannot meet her exes along the road? New admirers in her workplace or the market? At the end of the day, he married a woman he doesn't trust. So, I ask: why go the length to marry a woman you don't trust to ward off admirers or exes? Unfortunately, Nigerian women hold the institution of marriage to high level. If not, I don't see/understand why one should be imprisoned and controlled just because of marriage. Yes, there ought to be boundaries sort of after marriage but becoming draconian doesn't solve the problem. Fortunately, that's her problem not mine. She knew what she got into and should live with the consequences. 1 Like |
| Re: Husband Destroying Their Wife's Simcard Is It Proper by Gerrard59(m): 10:17pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
kalu61: There's really nothing he can do to stop her from cheating if she decides to. That's the truth. Unless she's imprisoned at home forever, she can cheat and he wouldn't know. Honestly, I wouldn't encourage this sort of marital arrangement to my enemy. I cannot believe that an adult gets imprisoned just because of marriage. No difference between the vast majority of Nigerian men and Afghanistani men. |
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