Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,155,654 members, 7,827,417 topics. Date: Tuesday, 14 May 2024 at 11:40 AM

15 Very Effective Rules To Forget Someone You Once Cared For - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / 15 Very Effective Rules To Forget Someone You Once Cared For (475 Views)

Man Who Had Kidney Stone Marries Lady Who Cared For Him At Hospital, Buys Car Fo / What Made You Realized That People Didn't Actually Loved Or Cared For You? / How To Forget Someone You Once Cared For:15 Very Effective Rules To Guide You (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

15 Very Effective Rules To Forget Someone You Once Cared For by tkgz(m): 9:11pm On Feb 07, 2021
Pretending someone you once loved doesn’t exist anymore is painfully difficult. But if you want to forget someone for good, this is what you need to do.

We all have one person… or two… that we want to erase from our memory. If you’re staying up all night thinking about that one person you wish you’d never met, don’t worry, you’ll soon be able to sleep soundly.

It may seem like you’re the only one who’s spending days, months, even years thinking about someone who broke your heart – but you’re definitely not alone. I could write a book on it. It took me a year to get over my best friend who I was in love with. Needless to say, the asshole didn’t love me back. He’s not an asshole, I mean, I can’t force him to love me. I’m just joking – he’s an asshole.

In the beginning, I did it all wrong – sitting at home watching 90’s chick flicks with a tub of ice cream. Not only did I become depressed, it made me chunky. Do I still sound bitter? Let’s not dwell on this, it isn’t about me, it’s about you.

Through this heart-wrenching experience of mine, I gathered some wisdom on how to forget someone you love. So, pay attention, because though it will take some time, you’ll get through this phase with your head high.

How to forget someone and move on for good
Here are some helpful tips to cleanse your mind and forget someone.

#1 Accept what happened. Don’t be one of those people that cannot accept the fact that what you wanted didn’t work out. What I’m trying to say is, don’t be like me. You’ll be able to get over someone much easier if you just accept what happened.

It’s true, things could change but in the meantime accept the facts of the situation, that way you won’t be hopeful for some classic chick flick outcome where the person who broke your heart shows up at your door with a wedding ring and begs for you to get back together. It’s not going to happen.

#2 Let it go. You should listen to the Disney song, Let It Go. These Disney songs are getting real. Let it go. It’s the only way that you’ll be able to free your mind and heart. If you accept what happened, then the next step is to understand that, and then make a promise to yourself that you must move forward.

#3 Go out. Don’t do what I did and eat ice cream on my couch – I actually enjoyed it, however, after cleaning out two tubs, it was time to reevaluate my life. Get your shoes on, and go for a walk. Go to the market. Go to the cafe. See your friends. Yes, your heart is broken but you’re still breathing – don’t allow someone to take your time away from you.

#4 Don’t dwell on the past. Don’t you even dare, “what if…” me. No. Stop it. Don’t look back. If you did this or you did that, it wouldn’t have changed anything. Thinking, “what if I tried harder?” will do nothing but aggravate your mind. Sure, you could have done this or that, you could have done hundreds of different things, but you didn’t.

And in all honesty, even if you did, would that have changed anything? You’ll never know. So, let that go. It happened. It’s over. Now, move forward.
See More: https://www.examprestige.com/forget-someone-you-once-cared-for

Re: 15 Very Effective Rules To Forget Someone You Once Cared For by MickzyDonald: 9:21pm On Feb 07, 2021
Makes perfect sense,but it's not that easy
Re: 15 Very Effective Rules To Forget Someone You Once Cared For by LMS1(m): 9:35pm On Feb 07, 2021
5 Inch Oshogbo Weed Will Do The Work Efficiently grin
Re: 15 Very Effective Rules To Forget Someone You Once Cared For by Numero9: 9:48pm On Feb 07, 2021
I can love you just like that, and I can leave/forget you just like that!
Re: 15 Very Effective Rules To Forget Someone You Once Cared For by Nobody: 9:55pm On Feb 07, 2021
Make the cash and watch the ladies wash your feet.

(1) (Reply)

Have You Found A Partner On Valentine's Day / Couple Holds Romantic Honeymoon On A Muddy Road In Imo State (photos) / Ha-ha So Painful Please Read This One First

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 15
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.