iCauseTrouble:
Borehole dey form virgin.... Oangolo

t2luv1:


I table $300 if you can prove you are one.

jesusjnr2020:
Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're Yet A Sinner

It's because it's the only thing you could lose to the devil that you can never recover even if you repent and become saved. Therefore try not to lose it so that you don't regret it when you eventually come to repentance and become saved like I did.

It was a lesson i came to learn the hard way, because even while I was yet a sinner, I had a feeling that God was trying to prevent me from making that irreversible mistake after observing certain obvious indicators and patterns concerning my life. I was a kind of ladies man whom the ladies themselves even called a "lover boy". And I had some womanizers as friends including my best friend who at the time who was known as a "bad boy" so to speak, that some even wondered what i was doing with such a person, a times warning me to cut off from him.

Yet for some strange reason, whenever I tried to have sex, something somehow would just spoil it. The first girlfriend I had while I was still a teenager was fully willing to yield herself to me, and we were that close to having sex. But somehow after attempting it once without succeeding, since she was still a virgin just as I was, I just lost interest all of a sudden as i stopped being attracted to her, and that usually happens after someone, especially males, have had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex, not beforehand.

I couldn't really understand what went right then (not wrong), but not long after that the relationship was over, as i just didn't feel like continuing with her even though It wasn't because i had already "used" her as some would say since I hadn't slept with her yet.

That wouldn't deter me though, as i continued to try my luck, but that was how one thing or another would keep wrecking my plans, so when my friends would be speaking about their sexual experiences and how sweet sex was, I had none of such experiences to share which often leads some of them reproaching me.

Moreover i had a girlfriend at the time which my friends knew of, but I was still a virgin because she wasn't willing to let me have that thing I so craved for at the time. She would allow everything else but not that. I tried everything I could because it was becoming embarrassing for me. How could i be the only one of all my friends who had a girlfriend that wouldn't want her guy to have sex with her "for crying out loud"!?

So it soon became a matter of her letting me have sex with her or we called it quits, because i thought there was no point in having a girlfriend and yet one wouldn't be able to have sex. That led to us splitting on several occasions especially for this reason.

At some point though it began to dawn on that God was behind such difficulties I was facing at the time to have sex, because it just didn't seem normal at all. But for some reason I didn't take that seriously as I still kept pushing regardless.

So yes, eventually i got to have what I so craved when the same girl finally succumbed, but It was over in just a few minutes, how many, i can't remember now but that was it. My virginity had become history.

To be honest, it was quite disappointing to say the least, even though I feigned satisfaction, it didn't really seem to be worth all the fuss. I was expecting for heaven to come down but it didn't, lol. It seem I was actually the one that was brought right down back to Earth.

That was how it finally happened though, but it wasn't long afterwards that I repented and got saved. It was that close. And the way I started on that journey, it was as if I had been waiting for that moment my whole life, because I started like a house on fire.

It wasn't long afterwards, that I began to walk at the level of the Spirit where it was all about God. A lot of things were happening at the time that made it very obvious that God was going to use me to a rare degree, and one area in that respect was that of addressing the issue of sexual immorality.

I soon realized though that my virginity was meant to be a part of that plan, as God intended to use it to His own glory. To serve as an example and to inspire many to do likewise. But unfortunately I no longer had that even though I was now saved, because I had already used it to the glory of the devil, and I came to realize that I could never get that back from him despite being saved.

It was then it became clearer to me why God had done all He could to prevent me from losing my virginity even while I was still a sinner, but since I wasn't willing despite that it became glaring that He was behind the difficulty I encountered at the time, He had no choice but to leave me to my carnal desires.

And it wasn't long before I got saved, It was that close. The fact that I couldn't use it to the glory of God as it was meant to be despite that i was saved filled me with so much regret, even though i'm still going to be used mightily by God. And that is a regret I'm going to live with for the rest of my life.

It's a regret that is going to be useful to keep me on my toes, since I couldn't give that to God, it's going to serve as a motivation to ensure that God loses nothing else in my life. It makes me feel indebted to God and to do everything I could to make it up to Him, so that even if I couldn't use it to glorify God, I would do everything I could, God helping me, to ensure I do my part to help as many as possible that would have given their virginity to the devil to use it to glorify God.

Though it wouldn't suffice for me, because I would rather have glorified God with my virginity as I believe God deserves everything, so to have deprived Him of that, is something I would ever regret.

I really wish that someone had shared this message with me while I was still a sinner, I know it would have been a very different story today, and i wouldn't have such regret when I became saved, because I was that close.

That's why I'm sharing this today for those who need to know this even though they're yet living in sin, so that when they become saved, they don't have the same regrets I have for not being able to glorify God with my virginity even though I'm now saved.

God bless.

soberdrunk:
Why do we black folks always prioritize rubbish? Instead of thinking of ways to move our race forward nah 'virginity' be some people problem in 2021??

shadeyinka:

Beautiful testimony but God uses us even the broken pots for His glory as long as our repentance is genuine.
This testimony has enough power to help others since it is done for God's glory.

Shalom!

jesusjnr2020:
Thanks bro. You're right because the knowledge I got from this experience which could be helpful to others i wouldn't have had if I didn't go through it. However those things which keep us in check and on our toes so that we don't lose focus and begin to take things for granted have proven to be of extreme importance to our walk with God. Moses was said to be the meekest man on Earth, yet that wasn't enough to prevent him from taking things concerning God for granted at some point, that's we cannot afford to go to sleep or relax at any point and that's what such things are meant to achieve.

Thanks and God bless.

Ceeogbaru2:



Thank you so much for saving my energy to yap.. Who Virgin Epp

jmoore:
Virginity till marriage.

If they say "Will virginity guarantee a successful marriage"? Ask them if BOREHOLE will guarantee a successful marriage.

doxijaw:


I trust una , the tolerant progressives are tolerant until it gets to religious beliefs.

WORDWORLD:
VIRGINITY TALK DEY ALWAYS GIVE LADIES HEADACHE. I DEY ALWAYS WONDER WHY?

Magnoliaa:

Rest.

"The tolerant conservatives are tolerant until it gets to LGBTQs rights."

How you're different, me, I cannot see.

I even wrote this before checking your profile and I was proven right.

Wolfeye:


Moomoo. When rapists come they will separate virgins and rape non virgins abi?
There is nothing in this dirty world that being a virgin saves you from.
You people are just retards. Who gave you internet. Spits.

If you sleep around THEN WHAT!?? what does it change under the sun? How does it change humanity. You will neither be the first nor the last so wtf is this crap. Don’t you have better things to do with your miserable life?

Everyday who is fvcking and who is not fvcking.

doxijaw:


What the hell is religion/religious folks?

Never heard of it in my culture.

They're considered deviant's with mental disorder.

My country's law's are against it, as a law abiding citizen, I'm also against it.

Simple

Magnoliaa:


That's right. You're an illegal entity as a religious person. Your existence is against the laws of your country and of nature.

Magnoliaa:


That's right. You're an illegal entity as a religious person. Your existence is against the laws of your country and of nature.

Magnoliaa:


That's right. You're an illegal entity as a religious person. Your existence is against the laws of your country and of nature.

doxijaw:


How did you come to the conclusion that I'm religious?

No , I'm an intelligent person that values, science, high culture and common sense.

My area of interest is solely about society and outcomes.

Progressives are idiot's, they bring nothing to Africa other than mental illness.

Dapcity247:



Progressives are stupid, unintelligent and rely on cultural Marxism and political correctness to sustain their Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideological dogma, they then work on false racism and sexism, and make use of social justice warriors who can't engage in critical thinking on their own but spew out internalized jargons without backed up facts , people like Magnoliaa, who are deluded seeking for equality in outcomes instead of opportunities for both men and women

doxijaw:


We have a lot of work to do bro.

A lot!

McLizbae:


Damn nigga whats the insults! This is simply about whether virginity (while single) will help infidelity in marriage or not... Wtf nigga! Why you damn too manner-less, moral-less, stupid and absolutely empty.

Who's ret*rd and irredeemably miserable in life? Nigga, It's just your kind!

Ask me Why!? It's because you clearly think within your buttocks, and I am sure you do pass out much of your senses with your poo. These are actually the traits of some rare animals that were thought to have gone into extinction.

F*ck! I could have enjoyed a reasonable argument, you could have simply disagree with me with content-filled lines, but sadly, you are so empty.

Now let me see if you are even worthy of the dust from my shoes:

When rapists come they will separate virgins and rape non virgins abi?
I ask you, do you then prepare for the coming of the rapist by sleeping around?


There is nothing in this dirty world that being a virgin saves you from.
Can you tell me some of the things you are saved from for sleeping around?

If you sleep around THEN WHAT!?? what does it change under the sun? How does it change humanity.
If you DO NOT sleep around then what!?? Have you committed any crime? Are you going to then die?

I didn't and won't condemn sleeping around, it's a choice (just like I have made it clear in my comment)! I only contributed in analyzing the possible gains in "not sleeping around". Gosh!

Magnoliaa:

Yeah, yeah... Nothing says virginity wouldn't guarantee a successful marriage, but borehole? Excuse me, which borehole, lol? Borehole for who?

Lmaoooo. Virginity. The Op is even a male, and it's clear in his narration that GUYS, his friends, were the ones shaming him. Everybody makes that statement of "who virginity epp," so I'm just trying real hard here to understand how a borehole is the consequence for losing such, or...

E be like say you dey sweep your crosswalk and narrow road with a cultural and environmental bias broom. Shouldn't it be more like - "promiscuity, infidelity, or ex-baggages doesn't guarantee a successful marriage?" Shouldn't it, I don't know? Hmm?

Seems you're a male. If your friends are shaming you for the e-virginity you're dragging and claiming ownership ontop on NL - how would you respond? Are you a virgin as a result of principles and values, that you'll sit to lecture your friends on or you're a virgin because one girl you don't even have a business with decides to have sex?

Vizconson:
Virgin people are more likely to have a successful marriage than non-virgins. Little wonder there are so many divorce and unhappy marriages in this day and age.

Wolfeye:


Na your kind people full Nigeria na why bottom-of-the-barrel humans fit be leaders.
If I say you’re stvpid you truly are.
You’d rather engage in meaningless conversations than wake up from your slumber.
I ask you AGAIN, all our parents wey do all the Virginity bullshit where did it lead society to?
All these people you see corrupt from head to toe what did the virginity of their mother and the longevity of their parent’s marriage do for them?
I don’t engage in meaningless arguments but you are still sleeping.
Take this your newspaper-stand perspective to the village.

I cannot believe they gave you people internet and this rubbish is what you are using it for.

All the churches and mosques wey una pack full with una big load of morals yet the most decadent society obtainable, isn’t it CLEAR TO YOU YET THAT YOUR PROBLEMS ARE FAR FROM THIS RHETORICAL BVLLSHIT??!

if to say you dey better country where reasonable people dey you no go dey reason this daft aimless reasoning.

Reasoning wey no help humanity in any way or form.
Just a long roam in a dark oily place.

Get educated and spin up more productive discourses.
Don’t let your future generation look back on you like you are looking at your parents’ generation right now.

Virginity this , virginity that. Rubbish.

McLizbae:


On the contrary, one of Nigeria's biggest fall is the insurgent of miserable perverts like you.
I wish you are right by saying "na my kind full Nigeria", coz if there is any truth in that Nigeria will be way finer than this hell-pit you and your fellow loose clan have made of it.

Sadly you now have the internet to propagate your damnation. Where is hope !?

How did you even get to this pathetic and sodomitic point where:
*you believe virginity was any part of the failures or mistakes of those parents?
*you think virginity is not worth a reasonable or meaningful discuss in a society so loose?

You mean you will train a kid with this mentality? God forbid!

thebosstrevor1:
Real devoted love is between 2 virgins, i believe that is what the creator made sex all about.

Many romance suicide will have been avoided if men and women would have kept themselves till marriage.

When a man is a virgin he gives his devoted time to his lover likewise a woman, the dedication is pure and undiluted.

The reason why there are too much mistrust in relationships is because of sex before marriage. Sex is a powerful tool that if a man or a woman who is a virgin goes after a partner who is not, they love with all their heart, until the love is broken and then they go to a state of depression which might sometimes lead to suicide.

When you look at the world and see the big picture, you will see that sex before marriage have destroyed the world and created a system where people hardly love because they are trying to protect themselves from being hurt or being deceived.

Imagine a world where everyone marries as virgins, I believe many relationships issues like cheating and mistrust will be non existence. Real undiluted and dedicated love will reign, parents will produce healthy children, there will no baggages from past relationships, no hearbreaks, many people will have a more stable lives, no mental health issues, no baby mama and baby father issues, society will be more trustful of each other,many people will be psychologically fit and this will help to create a more balanced and healthy society.

BrickDevo:
Dem go hear?

FastLane25:
but after this msg some people will not still hear