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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:57pm On Feb 14, 2021
As for me; bath, music, credit alert, using a pen, book and calculator.

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by NiRfreak(m): 11:01pm On Feb 14, 2021
Uncle93:


They masturbate
Lol... different strokes for different folks o...in Mt own case, my preeq will shrink and porn will lose its sex appeal until I get the anger off my mind

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Neimar: 11:41pm On Feb 14, 2021
NiRfreak:

Hope ain't a sign of dementia and psychosis..lol

Nope
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Feb 14, 2021
NiRfreak:


Imagine running for 30mins on a sunny afternoon cos u are angry... people will think you are losing it..lol
And where are u supposed to see a sandbag to box
i am talking of a punching bag cheesy
if u cant run or the time to run is the wrong u can do other physical exercise
when u physically exert ur body it burns off the anger and increase the feel good hormone in ur body.It produces the same pleasure u feel when drinking alcohol but unlike alcohol it does not cause addiction or create problems in ur body.Apart from physical activity u can also meditate but i am not really a fan of meditation but from what i hear about it ..meditation is also good cheesy

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Feb 14, 2021
NiRfreak:

No be small measure you have put in place..

just as u said...I seriously avoid argument in real life..cos from mere seeing you...I can know if you are worth a sentence from me..
.
But on Nairaland....I can't determine that..so I get into argument that makes me curse and curse and curse people on this space..lol...it can be infuriating...Mod don ban me tire sef...na the curse for this space they make me regain myself when stupid argument rears its annoying head...but in real life..u will never catch me arguing, cos I can quickly measure your sense, i.q and background

So, you can spend money on drinks and smoke anytime you want and still remain financially strong.
My case will only get worse if I try that.
People that are struggling to survive shouldn't do such lest they go insane.

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by SpicyMimi(f): 11:59pm On Feb 14, 2021
JESUS.
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Kondomatic(m): 12:31am On Feb 15, 2021
Young man, let me educate you a little.


I don't smoke.

I don't drink and my anger disappears almost immediately.



First thing you need to know is that alcohol doesn't chase away anger. It only has the power to bring tomorrow's happiness today and push today's sadness to tomorrow.

Once you sober up and remember why you were angry, you will become angry again.


So how do I handle my anger?


Very simple.


I try to understand why what happened happened grin.

If a person annoys me deeply, I will avoid them for like five minutes to avoid doing anything stupid or something that I will regret later.


You need to control yourself in the first five minutes of your anger and everything will be alright.

Then I will try to look it into the whole thing to find out why it happened. Two things are usually involved in this.


It's either they did what they did unintentionally or they're just idiots.


If it's unintentionally then you've no reason to be angry. You're human with your own imperfections after all.

If they're just idiots then why get angry at an idiot? It's a waste of anger abeg.


I also categorize anyone that hurts me intentionally as an idiot

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Nobody: 12:53am On Feb 15, 2021
Read or listen to news...or
I tell myself the truth...I can do nothing because I'm a coward; if the person pass me...
or if I pass the person; I can't do nothing/ intimidate person because I pass am, I'm not a bully.
Case ends immediately.

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Dreyton36: 1:23am On Feb 15, 2021
People who don't drink or smoke are the most deadly set of people

When I'm taking my kush loud just like I am now , nothing pisses me off , in fact whenever I'm burning trees that's the best mode to relate business with me

It's a sure sign that it'll be a success


Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Judybash93(m): 2:49am On Feb 15, 2021
Boxing and weight lifting
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Cousin9999: 3:01am On Feb 15, 2021
I don't want to insult you because if this is a genuine question, there's nothing wrong with that. However, if drugs and alcohol are the way you manage life's challenges, you need to reevaluate your lifestyle and choices. That's not healthy.

One of the major problems in society is that some people never really learn how to manage stress in a healthy, mature way. They react like a child, abuse substances, and refuse therapy. And it's terrible that in 2021, there are people who cannot even imagine how people live without using drugs and alcohol.

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by NiRfreak(m): 8:10am On Feb 15, 2021
lefulefu:

i am talking of a punching bag cheesy
if u cant run or the time to run is the wrong u can do other physical exercise
when u physically exert ur body it burns off the anger and increase the feel good hormone in ur body.It produces the same pleasure u feel when drinking alcohol but unlike alcohol it does not cause addiction or create problems in ur body.Apart from physical activity u can also meditate but i am not really a fan of meditation but from what i hear about it ..meditation is also good cheesy
It's a good approach to anger management no doubt..but it only means punchbag/sandbag must be readily available around u, especially around that spot where u got angry in the first place...cos if sandbag no dey..maybe you box the wall abi..lol

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by DSC7: 8:23am On Feb 15, 2021
Dreyton36:
People who don't drink or smoke are the most deadly set of people

When I'm taking my kush loud just like I am now , nothing pisses me off , in fact whenever I'm burning trees that's the best mode to relate business with me

It's a sure sign that it'll be a success


Lights up my kpoli in peace


By 1:23am u still dey light ur kpoli in peace?



So if i wan reason business with you dat means i gaz wait till wen ever you light ur kush?

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by NiRfreak(m): 10:02am On Feb 15, 2021
Cousin9999:
I don't want to insult you because if this is a genuine question, there's nothing wrong with that. However, if drugs and alcohol are the way you manage life's challenges, you need to reevaluate your lifestyle and choices. That's not healthy.

One of the major problems in society is that some people never really learn how to manage stress in a healthy, mature way. They react like a child, abuse substances, and refuse therapy. And it's terrible that in 2021, there are people who cannot even imagine how people live without using drugs and alcohol.
Okay. Thank you Mr health Psychologist. But you still haven't told us how you defuse your anger from lingering

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Nobody: 11:15am On Feb 15, 2021
I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or any of sort, and my anger management system is top-notch. Anytime I'm angry, I engage in anything that will make my heart beat heavily. Activities such as skipping rope, push up and going for a walk talking to myself does the trick. It's simple, it is therapeutic and it works.

As my heart beats, it beats off the negative feelings and renews my emotions. I don't know the science behind this phenomena, but it has been proven to work. So brethren, anytime you feel down either provoked or unprovoked, make your heartbeat and beat it off.

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by KulKid(m): 11:17am On Feb 15, 2021
HopeVictor:
I should have recommended my book on anger..but I angrily destroyed the book so I have nothing to offer to you..
Werey cheesy

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Nobody: 11:18am On Feb 15, 2021
Take a nap
You will be fine
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Kapilta(m): 11:18am On Feb 15, 2021
grin Why is this funny though.
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by charlesucheh(m): 11:18am On Feb 15, 2021
SIMPLE!!
They just transfer Aggression....
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Dagenius53: 11:18am On Feb 15, 2021
Just need babe to Bleep. that's all
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by easzypeaszy(m): 11:19am On Feb 15, 2021
For me it is inbuilt I believe...although I don't accept been used, dat is wen u wl kw am wicked and can stab bc of little way u might want to use me or my family members.
But I hardly gets angry...bc i hv set my mind on dat "u can't hurt me"
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by olisefom: 11:19am On Feb 15, 2021
They ignore
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by mark2sunny(m): 11:19am On Feb 15, 2021
They withdraw for sometime. Keep malice maybe. Keep to themselves until they are fine.

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by olisefom: 11:19am On Feb 15, 2021
They ignore
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Nobody: 11:20am On Feb 15, 2021
Nothing like chilling with a cold glass of whiskey after an annoying encounter

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by titsqueez(m): 11:20am On Feb 15, 2021
They yansh
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by AlfaB: 11:20am On Feb 15, 2021
Ashawo can do miracles. Try them.

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by ForexSignal(f): 11:20am On Feb 15, 2021
NiRfreak:
Today I was really angry. Someone got me so mad that I could destroy things or harm the person. But I maintained my cool. Yet I was just mad almost all day that I couldn't concentrate on anything else. Then I became angrier for being angry and being in a bad mood that was caused by someone else.

Then this evening, and since it's been a while I went out to drink cos I've been very busy lately. So I went to my ATM and withdraw as much as I could afford to waste.
I went to a bar, drink, drink, took peppersoup..and took a couple of stick...
Now I'm a happy man and no longer angry.

I'm. now wondering how people who don't drink nor smoke or go on lavishing spree manage to relieve their anger when mad..Hmmm. This life is too short to allow people spoil ya mood
A Cup Of Coffee Or Lipton will do the magic
Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by bluefilm: 11:20am On Feb 15, 2021
NiRfreak:
[s]Today I was really angry. Someone got me so mad that I could destroy things or harm the person. But I maintained my cool. Yet I was just mad almost all day that I couldn't concentrate on anything else. Then I became angrier for being angry and being in a bad mood that was caused by someone else.Then this evening, and since it's been a while I went out to drink cos I've been very busy lately. So I went to my ATM and withdraw as much as I could afford to waste.I went to a bar, drink, drink, took peppersoup..and took a couple of stick...Now I'm a happy man and no longer angry.I'm. now wondering how people who don't drink nor smoke or go on lavishing spree manage to relieve their anger when mad..Hmmm. This life is too short to allow people spoil ya mood[/s]

Nzuzu ajoka

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by Angelfrost(m): 11:20am On Feb 15, 2021
Exercise the hell out of that feeling of anger... Complete the process with some good dose of comedy: Sitcoms!!! Reading and digesting volumes of books helps too.

Been doing this for decades! Since most Nigerians are such annoying people, it is safe to say I will perpetually remain fit and intelligent! cool

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Re: How Do People Who Don't Drink Or Smoke Relief Their Anger? by adesegun121(m): 11:21am On Feb 15, 2021
Ok

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