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5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 11:04am On Feb 18, 2021
Guys, You've been dating this lady for 5 years, unfortunately she's in her late 20's... How do u respond if she asks you "What are we"¿

grin

be honest guys...grin



I would just say we are just mates...grin

and we are Nigeriansgrin

Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by chatinent: 11:06am On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
Guys, You've been dating this lady for 5 years now, unfortunately she's in her late 20's... How do u respond if she asks you "What are we"¿

grin

be honest guys...grin


Five years?

This is not dating.

This is terrorism.


#BringBackTheLadyInHer.

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Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 11:12am On Feb 18, 2021
chatinent:


Five years?
This is not dating.
This is terrorism.

#BringBackTheLadyInHer.
huh?
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by mosdii(m): 11:16am On Feb 18, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 11:17am On Feb 18, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
I will punch ugrin
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by SUPERPACK: 11:24am On Feb 18, 2021
Pastor and assistant pastor
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 11:32am On Feb 18, 2021
SUPERPACK:
Pastor and assistant pastor
hehehegrin
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 11:49am On Feb 18, 2021
In her late twenties? Ain't marrying that; past her prime.

I'll go with FWB.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Pricelessruby(f): 11:52am On Feb 18, 2021
grin
chatinent:



Five years?

This is not dating.

This is terrorism.


#BringBackTheLadyInHer.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 11:56am On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
In her late twenties? Ain't marrying that; past her prime.

I'll go with FWB.
but u've wasted part of it too
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
but u've wasted part of it too

What's your point? That I should marry her because she fornicated with me for 5 years? That is even more negative points on her part. It shows that she has bad judgment and is not wife material.

In addition, she's not even going to be a virgin at that point. I think marrying a non virgin is wrong, on principle.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


What's your point? That I should marry her because she fornicated with me for 5 years? That is even more negative points on her part. It shows that she has bad judgment.

In addition, she's not even going to be a virgin at that point. I think marrying a non virgin is wrong, on principle.
what were you doing with her for 5 years when u know she does not qualify as a wife good enough for u
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by InfernoNig: 12:35pm On Feb 18, 2021
After 5 years!!! My brother the mumu don do.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
what were you doing with her for 5 years when u know she does not qualify as a wife good enough for u

So if two people are together by mutual agreement for 5years, they must be forced to marry even if they do not fulfill each others' marriage criteria? Which kind of reasoning is that?
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by FalseProphet1(m): 12:53pm On Feb 18, 2021
Tell her we are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that we may proclaim the praises of Him who called us out of darkness into His marvelous light.

This should be your reply to her. wink

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Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


So if two people are together by mutual agreement for 5years, they must be forced to marry even if they do not fulfill each others' marriage criteria? Which kind of reasoning is that?
it is not a big deal being with a woman for 5 years but it's a big deal if u dont define it early on... it's a big deal if you waste someone's daughters precious time.

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Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Feb 18, 2021
FalseProphet1:
Tell her we are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that we may proclaim the praises of Him who called us out of darkness into His marvelous light.

This should be your reply to her. wink
I hear you brogrin
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by FalseProphet1(m): 12:55pm On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
I hear you brogrin
Do this and the dark forces will be defeated. And she will be yours for life
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
it is not a big deal being with a woman for 5 years but it's a big deal if u dont define it early on... it's a big deal if you waste someone's daughters precious time.

As long as neither promised to marry the other, I don't see the big deal. Why isn't she being considered as the one who wasted someone's son's precious time?
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:56pm On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
Guys, You've been dating this lady for 5 years, unfortunately she's in her late 20's... How do u respond if she asks you "What are we"¿

grin

be honest guys...grin



I would just say we are just mates...grin


This can never be me, this not dating the guy and lady are both not alright. How you date without direction.

Some people self no day go anywhere.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Liposure: 1:06pm On Feb 18, 2021
Five years hmmm. We are not serious
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by ImaIma1(f): 1:32pm On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


As long as neither promised to marry the other, I don't see the big deal. Why isn't she being considered as the one who wasted someone's son's precious time?


It's better to define it clearly that you are both just fooling around..so that no one has marriage as the end goal and now feels cheated and let down later.

5 years is too long a time to fool around.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Regex: 1:39pm On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
In her late twenties? Ain't marrying that; past her prime.

I'll go with FWB.

You sabi
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Feb 18, 2021
FalseProphet1:

Do this and the dark forces will be defeated. And she will be yours for life
like seriously I'll be damned !
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


As long as neither promised to marry the other, I don't see the big deal. Why isn't she being considered as the one who wasted someone's son's precious time?
The first thing you want to find out before choosing to ask a lady out is...u must be sure you want what she wants from that relationship, you must discover what she wants and be sure you have what it takes to give it.

for christs sake, it should be the guy making the moves.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 18, 2021
ImaIma1:


It's better to define it clearly that you are both just fooling around..so that no one has marriage as the end goal and now feels cheated and let down later.

5 years is too long a time to fool around.
sure... you are so on point.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Feb 18, 2021
ImaIma1:


It's better to define it clearly that you are both just fooling around..so that no one has marriage as the end goal and now feels cheated and let down later.

5 years is too long a time to fool around.

Aren't we in the age of feminism? Why is the burden on the man to define anything? He's having a good time, she's having a good time, why spoil it with definitions?
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
The first thing you want to find out before choosing to ask a lady out is...u must be sure you want what she wants from that relationship, you must discover what she wants and be sure you have what it takes to give it.

for christs sake, it should be the guy making the moves.

How would you know what you want even before you start? Isn't that the whole point of having a relationship? To find out what you both want?

@the bolded, don't let NL feminists catch you. That statement is highly sexist and offensive. Independent women don't wait for the man to make the move; or so I heard.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Randy100: 2:08pm On Feb 18, 2021
Somebody should remind me for how long Cristiano Ronaldo has dated Rodriguez the current GF. How long Dwayne Johnson dated his girlfriend before turning her to wife. Nigerian girls no dey get patient, small kiss on the neck, the person start asking you what are we. Stop pressurizing men into making fake promise. I can't count how many girls I have promised marriage when I know it won't happen.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


How would you know what you want even before you start? Isn't that the whole point of having a relationship? To find out what you both want?

@the bolded, don't let NL feminists catch you. That statement is highly sexist and offensive. Independent women don't wait for the man to make the move; or so I heard.
friendship before relationship... u can tell what a lady wants by just being friends


unfortunately 75% relationships around the world started suddenly!!
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Feb 18, 2021
BadRadio:
friendship before relationship... u can tell what a lady wants by just being friends


Carry go. Boys and girls can't ever be "just friends". Didn't you go to high school at all? What did you learn there? Mathematics and Chemistry only? What a waste.
Re: 5 Yrs In, & She Asks "What Are We"? What Would Be Ur Reply Guys? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Feb 18, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:



Carry go. Boys and girls can't ever be "just friends". Didn't you go to high school at all? What did you learn there? Mathematics and Chemistry only? What a waste.
that is y Buhari called them lazy youths... @ bolded

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