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The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Tizmamoney: 4:50pm On Feb 27, 2021
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Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by fineboynl(m): 4:57pm On Feb 27, 2021
spend time outside more. come home late at night. the things that's making you scared try to engaged. make with bad guys abit. I don't mean thief oh. just area guys.

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Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by josh123(m): 5:03pm On Feb 27, 2021
Tizmamoney:
Please Nairalanders, help.

The over caring of my family has made me lily-livered and timid.

What can I do to boast up?. embarassedPlease Nairalanders, help.

The over caring of my family has made me lily-livered and timid.

What can I do to boast up?.
you are still a kid, are u up to 18 or 19? don't worry when its time nature will take its course
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by tidalstorm(m): 5:08pm On Feb 27, 2021
I hated boarding school but every day i thank God i went there. It built this mentality in me that every thing passes.

OP, if you dey janded go hustle room rent so you can learn to live by your self and take care of your self by your self.
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Tizmamoney: 5:26pm On Feb 27, 2021
josh123:
you are still a kid, are u up to 18 or 19? don't worry when its time nature will take its course
I'm more than 25 sir
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Tizmamoney: 5:27pm On Feb 27, 2021
tidalstorm:
I hated boarding school but every day i thank God i went there. It built this mentality in me that every thing passes.

OP, if you dey janded go hustle room rent so you can learn to live by your self and take care of your self by your self.
I'm no longer staying with them. I'm in school
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by xendra: 5:28pm On Feb 27, 2021
If they didn't care wahala

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Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by josh123(m): 6:08pm On Feb 27, 2021
Tizmamoney:
I'm more than 25 sir
no way!!!! taking weed ones in a while or drink one or two bottles of beer can still help
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Parkiz(f): 6:20pm On Feb 27, 2021
josh123:
no way!!!! taking weed ones in a while or drink one or two bottles of beer can still help


see advice óò
you guys should be careful of where you go for one,; and always use your head

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Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by meobizy(f): 6:33pm On Feb 27, 2021
lily-livered and timid.
Hit a gym and bulk up in muscle. Every other thing will fall into place. Alternatively, you can learn a sport, it gives the same benefits.
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by anthonyuncle(m): 6:35pm On Feb 27, 2021
join a fitness club, or a sports/football club, or join guys around you for sporting activities
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Twenty8: 7:03am On Feb 28, 2021
Tizmamoney:
Please Nairalanders, help.

The over caring of my family right from time has made me lily-livered and timid.

What can I do to boast up?. :-

Although I'm no longer staying with them, I'm in school

What can I do to boast up?.

You're probably like this as a result of your family's over caring attitude(maybe they shielded you from experiencing life and getting stronger from it) and your temperament, but don't blame yourself/family too much and focus on bringing out the strength in your character and reducing your weak sides(you can never just delete your weakness, everyone has theirs) by standing firm in situations when you see you are being taken advantage of or when you need to stick to a decision even if other are trying to intimidate you. You can check on YouTube for some good videos(weird right? I do it a lotcheesy), read books such as Why you act the way you do by Tim Lahaye. Your destiny is in your hand bro, only you can decide if you want to be what want to be or a lily livered boy. And you'll see a lot of red pill stuff here, but some of them are just plain toxic while others are good advice, being a man is not about having sex with every single woman you see.
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Twenty8: 7:28am On Feb 28, 2021
Tizmamoney:
Please Nairalanders, help.

The over caring of my family right from time has made me lily-livered and timid.

What can I do to boast up?. :-

Although I'm no longer staying with them, I'm in school

What can I do to boast up?.

Remember, while working out is good, there is more to you than just your physical body, there is also the spiritual and mental body that you have to work on.

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Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by missjekyll: 9:19am On Feb 28, 2021
It comes with age and life lessons. Enjoy this period, smash your courses. You still have a lot of life to see.

Do not hang with area boys or whatever. Smoking igbo with no kobo in their pocket. Lol. Is that life?

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Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Exmilitant(m): 11:39am On Feb 28, 2021
What do you mean by lily-livered? Fear? What do you want? To be iron-livered? Those of us who developed iron liver did so to catch up with others in wealth, and power. We develop iron liver because we were born poor, because of the times, we developed iron liver to have a say in the community, to avoid intimidations and being trampled on. If your family has taken care of your financial security, then stay in your lane. Na lily-livered man dey live long to bury iron-livered man and tell others his story.

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Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Nobody: 10:59pm On Feb 28, 2021
You aren't alone, this ajebo kind of life sucks but I'll fight till the end.
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Tizmamoney: 10:30am On Mar 01, 2021
Exmilitant:
What do you mean by lily-livered? Fear? What do you want? To be iron-livered? Those of us who developed iron liver did so to catch up with others in wealth, and power. We develop iron liver because we were born poor, because of the times, we developed iron liver to have a say in the community, to avoid intimidations and being trampled on. If your family has taken care of your financial security, then stay in your lane. Na lily-livered man dey live long to bury iron-livered man and tell others his story.
bro I was also born poor
Re: The Over Caring Attitude Of My Family Has Made Me Lily-livered by Exmilitant(m): 1:06pm On Mar 01, 2021
Tizmamoney:
bro I was also born poor
You are more powerful than you think, the thing is, if the giant in you is aroused, can you be able to tame it?

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