Strong Men let us be honest here

Don't believe the hype because you see some of us defending one thing or the other , some things are merely out of habit

Movies pop culture peers and fear can make one join confra for many reasons but please before you join confra read this.

1. 99% of graduated matured strong men all regret ever joining confra / cult which ever you call it. If from afar we appear like life fell into place for us after graduation and we got good jobs or politicial position and all is well my brother when a strong man is alone by himself and memories of all his deeds flow through his mind , Omo na regret dey full mind . Except that person was a kpomo man an obinna a bam for mouth only like these musicians Burna boy , david and zlatan etc

Those ones paid millions for executive bamming. Those ones won't ever attend meetings or initiation or anything of the like hence they are the most dangerous, but not for the reasons you think.

I said they are dangerous because they don't see the bad side of confra, they are studio confra men only hence wrongly influence millions of youths to join, because these ones have no stories to tell other than flashy life styles.

They don't understand what ts like to get shot all with a double barrel and your shirt it ripped to shreds .

They don't know what it's like to fight for your life when someone rushes at you with a very sharp silver cutlass and you have nothing but your hands and you see in that person eyes that they mean to kill you. So those artists are setting a dangerous trend , they are glorifying cultism and there by making young's ones from poor homes who want to make it feel that cultism had a role to play in bringing dem success.

They use cultism lingo in their songs making youth want to belong to be able to sound that fly.

I remember a year ago I was at a street in surilere waiting for a friend . There was a studio on the street and I could hear a young upcoming artist wannabe sings a song and chanting "My Lordy" in the chorus ,so then I went up there and when he came out to relax I asked him if he knew what that meant and he said that he knew and he also knew why zlatan always says it in some tracks . Basically this kid had already made up his mind to join a cult.

You see what I mean? But the only one who can tell these kids the dangers of cultism are men like me, who are weathered tired exhausted and wornout men.

No one tells you about the psychological effects of such and extreme life of violence will have on you I future . The damage the twisted ultra violent mindset it gives you.

No one tells you how damaged your self-esteem gets when you spend years building up a negative image that will haunt you for life.

No one tells you how all those classmates you intimidated will later turn out better than most of you and be the bullies later.

No one tells.you how useless the skills set you learn in confra are in real life situations.

No one tells you how anti social and negative you appear to everyone around you.

No one tells you the fear of your life or the feeling when you hear a fellow member got shot and it means war . No one tells you the fear , the fear is constant , whenever you hear there was a fight or stabbing or any violent encounter the first thought that enters your mind is a prayer that it wasn't one of your people involved . No one tells you the horror you will have to see hear experience and do

No one tells you how if you graduate finally you have to start relearning a new personality in the real world.
No one tells you have your own so called brothers will sometimes betray worse than an enemy frat.

No one tells you that at the end of the day it's all about money and the exco at the national level who are the real benefactors of your wasted lives

No one tells you how you are burinug so many bridges that you will need later on in life

No one tells you about the fact that when you look back 80% of your friends who are confra guys pictures will not survive .


No one tells you that none of those guys whose friendship you make in confra will be of any real benefits to you.


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Please tell them. Many don't know what they are causing for their future selves.

dem nearly kill me at ife in 2016, Only God saved me that day.
on to sey he own gun and he wan count score on innocent people.
anyone that joins cultism this 2021 should be referred to a psych hospital.

Wonderful write-up. Hope more people can share more reasons why not to ever join a cult. This is very important because cultism is a very attractive vice to adventurous youths these days.

The end game of any unrepentant cultist is always life's cul de sac.

I pray many young boys flee cultism

Most cultists are very shallow, and.have low self esteem, they are scared to face challenges alone. I only respect their bosses,the one that starts the sect, in a particular area, the boys are just zombies. Yes, brands and music execs in Nigeria should place embargo/boycott burna and co, misleading youths to thier death, with studio confra, and showbiz hype. Stop sponsoring these ignorant entertainers, and making them represent you. Burna, davido all na bolo, they never lived the life.

the Jews are here to listen

I no be cultist and will never be

Remembered how my classmate was shot dead in my very front

Rip chidera

No one tells a mature person to get out of a hot sun.

the only fraternity I can join is buccaneer


you need to see their doings today after our final year law exams

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Absolutely correct! Youths should flee from cultism.

I never gave a Bleep about dem bastard cultists,they are poor,broke,hopeless and condemned. I saw euf of dem dead bodies in ekosodin, bdpa, third East circular,ekewan and its environs ,even late klow was my classmate.

A very long story



Back in my University days precisely 300L we were coming back from a party and we were inside the school bus (Marcopolo) with many students from other departments.
One guy (I didn't know who he was at that time) was trying to shake one of my friends younger brother who was a fresher but the guy may be consciously or unconsciously refused his handshake, then he started fuming ready to intimidate the boy and beat him up, from the back seat that I was I stood up and ran toward the guy, asked him if it was by force to shake someone.
The guy was taller and huger than I but we got into a scuffle and the bus scattered, we threw one or two blows before we were separated (My goons were inside the bus too). Before I knew it I saw some two guys coming towards me from the front seat, they got to me and were asking "O boy shey u know who u dey fight, shey u know who u dey fight" that statement got me angry and my guys who were in the bus too.
Na so part two fight start I was a peaceful guy in school and me and my guys were so popular in my Faculty so many guys in the bus who were in our faculty rallied around us.

We got to the hostel and the guys came back to me and Wahala still continued I stood my ground and I no fear.
The next day I was at the mini market inside the school smoking cigarettes (I used to be that peaceful hard guy that won't take intimidation from anybody and won't look for trouble but will give you trouble if you look for it) I saw the guys I fought with the previous day close to where I was, that was when I realized that the first guy I fought was actually a cultist the number one of Eiye boys at the main campus for that matter.
One of his boys who was my friend walked up to me and asked me what happened the previous day I explained to him and he said the person I fought was their "Ibaka" or whatever (I can't really remember).
I said "guy that one no matter ur ibaka Bleep up". To cut the story short I became friend with their number one, we are both Yorubas and he was surprised that I could confront him. Anytime his boys saw the way I related with him they got angry that "wetin dey give this guy liver wey him go dey follow our number one relate like this". But they couldn't do shit because I was this popular guy who was loved by almost all the youths in the village where I stayed in the school area and they knew the village boys were always ready to fight for me.

To cap it all I knew the Ayes, the Buccaneers and the Vikings in school we stayed together, ate together, smoke and drink together and all them knew I was a very easy going guy wey no dey find trouble but they were always asking me if anybody dey price me they were ready to fight for me because I was a cheerful giver, the frontage of my house was where boys gathered everyday after school hours to gist and high and I still cook for all to eat (they nickname the place "tarmac"). When we gathered you would see Ayes, Vikings and Buccaneers all of us were friends, we dined and wined together, so many people on Campus didn't know if I was an Alora, Aye or Viking many were confused except those who were close to me and knew I was a bloody "Jew"

Buccaneers and Vikings wanted me to sail and join them but I always looked for a way to dodge them, towards the end of my University days the Ayes wanted me, I almost joined but something kept on telling me not to.
At the end many of my friends that were into confra regretting it, one bowed to pressure and joined Aye during our final year second semester.
Dem go tell you say confra dey sweet but don't be deceived, at a time when I was rolling with confra boys I felt protected and was loving it and was so tempted to join them but thank God I did not.

I will advise any student reading this where ever you stay make friends with the locals, those illiterate boys that you look down on in that student village that you are staying will defend you with their last blood if e set.
Students and locals clashed where I was staying and those guys (villagers) came to my house to make sure villagers didn't harm me.


Confra no sweet, if you kill I swear you will be killed. If you are planning to join have a rethink I have an Aye friend who is now married and has lay low but everyday he is expecting a brutal death because he has killed many has a butcher back then in School.

Now he is full of regrets.
Avoid cultism!!!

One of my close friend just told me one day that I use to f**k up too much and I don't have any orientation.. And that my yes is not yes and my no is not always no... that one day he will drill me and balm me by himself so that I will have sense.. I just jokingly told him abeg just forget that side oo.. If my wife hear, she go die for your neck ooo just forget that matter... we just laughed and order some few bottles of 33.. But one thing I like about this guy is his braveness.. He can address anyone without fear.. But what I always advice him of is his violence tendency... Anything fight or to scatter is in his blood..

Everybody say no to cultism. No gain, it always ends in tears. Use those energies to win souls for Christ

Kai I remember when eiye boys surrounded me in my friends room around Ojo side .. we been get clash with them for ewekoko there that year and I no hear I just fall in campus check semester time table come head to my guys side make I play ps3 Omo Ias I reach there na him room mate dey around and I no get phone for hand the room mate na elebe and I didn't know

He lied my guy is around at the saloon that let him go and call him for me I didn't know it was a set up

I sat down to play ps3 I just noticed after like 40 minutes of playing soccer I thought to myself haba this guy never show ?

It was at that moment I was suddenly stared hearing footsteps of plenty people running I got up and looked through the window guys my heart sank

Smh I saw like 12 guys all flying their blue berets holding matchetes pipes 2 by two walking across the road toward the compound low fence I rushed to the door and looked out and saw like 4 walking in to the main corridor entrance

I came back in and closed the door silently
Saying a prayer in my heart that it wasn't me they were looking for

I sat back and resigned myself to death because I had no 4 or 7 on me and the window had heavy burglary I glanced around for kitchen knife or something I remember the room mate carrying those sharp stuff out while I was chilling and In my mind I assumed he was cooking
So in my mind I knew oh well that guy was smart I just smiled to myself and said ol boy na so you go take go bah?

Next thing boom they kicked in the door so hard it broke at that moment I went down on all fours covering my head all I remember is sharp pain of cutlass lashing my back I fainted

Next thing I wake up drowsy being carried by four of my men I am soaked with blood from head to toe my head feels as if it was nearly decapitated , have you seen black jeans soaked ewith blood it looks like red jeans !

To cut a long story short I look hearing in my right ear permanently. I am partially blind in my right eye

My right hand has little control in the last two fingers

My right elbow pulls out of the socket anyhow because my arm was sho shattered it never healed well.

During rainy season my bones hurt like I am being stabbed In oth knees ,thigh right elbow and neck.

I can't stand crowds anymore I get panicky

All thanks to Cultism ,I never killed a soul and neat anyone up I joined from avoid being bullied by cultists but it bleeped my life

Nice writeup OP.

I thank God who kept me far away from Cultism during my university days despite the kind of area I grew up and lived.

Sometimes when I see guys who call theirselves cultists and cult leaders in my area, I weep for the youths that are joining cult.

Some of them can't even afford to pay rent for a single room. Some leave like refugees, 3-5 in a single room.

I overheard one saying he didn't know that this is what he'll be facing by paying a fix dues of 2k weekly plus carrying g out some dirty task for the heads.

I've seen where a street cult leader collect a fellow member's phone, sold it and gave small portion of money to the phone's owner because the person couldn't give him the money he demanded.

I've seen cult leaders who obtain (extort) their fellow members at will. - Is this one the enjoyment life they wished?

Very few cultists make in life in respect to financial and material achievements which mostly are their leaders at state and national level.

Your fellow cult members.can kill you if you buy a car and build expensive house without paying regular financial homage to them.

Davido, Burna Boy, Zlatan, Zubby Michael, Cubana Chief Priest should be cautioned because the are misleading our youths.

EdoFirstBorn:
Kai I remember when eiye boys surrounded me in my friends room around Ojo side .. we been get clash with them for ewekoko there that year and I no hear I just fall in campus check semester time table come head to my guys side make I play ps3 Omo Ias I reach there na him room mate dey around and I no get phone for hand the room mate na elebe and I didn't know

He lied my guy is around at the saloon that let him go and call him for me I didn't know it was a set up

I sat down to play ps3 I just noticed after like 40 minutes of playing soccer I thought to myself haba this guy never show ?

It was at that moment I was suddenly stared hearing footsteps of plenty people running I got up and looked through the window guys my heart sank

Smh I saw like 12 guys all flying their blue berets holding matchetes pipes 2 by two walking across the road toward the compound low fence I rushed to the door and looked out and saw like 4 walking in to the main corridor entrance

I came back in and closed the door silently
Saying a prayer in my heart that it wasn't me they were looking for

I sat back and resigned myself to death because I had no 4 or 7 on me and the window had heavy burglary I glanced around for kitchen knife or something I remember the room mate carrying those sharp stuff out while I was chilling and In my mind I assumed he was cooking
So in my mind I knew oh well that guy was smart I just smiled to myself and said ol boy na so you go take go bah?

Next thing boom they kicked in the door so hard it broke at that moment I went down on all fours covering my head all I remember is sharp pain of cutlass lashing my back I fainted

Next thing I wake up drowsy being carried by four of my men I am soaked with blood from head to toe my head feels as if it was nearly decapitated , have you seen black jeans soaked ewith blood it looks like red jeans !

To cut a long story short I look hearing in my right ear permanently. I am partially blind in my right eye

My right hand has little control in the last two fingers

My right elbow pulls out of the socket anyhow because my arm was sho shattered it never healed well.

During rainy season my bones hurt like I am being stabbed In oth knees ,thigh right elbow and neck.

I can't stand crowds anymore I get panicky

All thanks to Cultism ,I never killed a soul and neat anyone up I joined from avoid being bullied by cultists but it bleeped my life

Kingazubuike

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Lalasticlacla...... save souls and move to front page please.

STEALING A CULT GUY CUSTOMIZED SHIRT ALMOST PUT ME TROUBLE.
I stayed with my brothers from same area in Lagos in school at Ibadan in rented apartment,not knowing the cloth I stolen is customized big (BIRD) at the back,on Saturday going to watch match in( AWO HALL) everybody in the campus was just looking at me and in hall everybody stalking at me again,later on i suspect the cloth and look at back and saw big bird,Omo see shaking and speed 19 to my nearby bush and removed it and walk unclothed to my room,i can't forget that day oooooo,GOD SAVE ME.