naira landers ,it is advicable to let my kid sister go to a school party in a guest house?
i love her so much and i dont want any boy to touch her,am even think she have a boy friend,which she will also see in that party.

should i let her go or not.

Your sister is 17-years old. She's not so young anymore. You need to start giving her a little room. Will the party be supervised by an adult? Because if it is, you should let her go.

no is not supervises by an adult,they them self(girls) contributed some money for the party.

guy what u need is not to restrict that chick if not u will lose her, rather make her Ur friend so that she can tell u all her secret, don't be authoritative but always let her the implications of what ever action she takes, when any issue comes up regarding her life first of all ask her what she thinks and how she wants to handle the issue after listening to her, give her Ur own advice and the implication of the choice she wants to take, if u become that friendly believe u me she wont go astray, but the most important , lead by example :No be when she dey see u dey bring home 15 yrs o;d girls u go tell am say make she no do " nne ewu na ata agbala nwa ya ana eleya anya n'onu"

Aik.mamah is absolutely right.

as to whether she can go yes, she can but give time to come back (early enough) and tell her how to behave when she gets there (no alcohol) and give the reasons why she shld or shld not do what. note it will all be in the form of advice not order. if she comes back (and be sure she will be late) don't get mad at her, call her and ask her how it all went, get the full story from her, if she opens up and tells u one or two things that she dd wrong don't show your disapproval there, man don't get mad , just laugh over it and the night go the the following morning call her and correct her where she was wrong . don't for get be friendly, make sure u earn her trust, love and respect, then u wont lose her
i speak from xperence

I thnk allowing her go 2dat party is dependent on her person &wat u thnk she's capable of. If she's d adventurous type, then i dnt thnk u shld allow her go. Bt u could as wel let her go, provided she is to com bak early and no alcohol, amongst a whole lots of other thngs. About her having boyfriends, Man she's 17yrs old. Let her be. Because anyways, if u push her up against d wal, she go do am behind ur back ooo! And na dat wan worse pas! Lyk our frnd sed earlier, get her 2b ur frnd, such dat she can tel u ANYTHNG, WITHOUT FEAR of HARSH rubuke. Dat way she'l evn tel u abt al her boyfrnds and d prospective ones too. And its nt 4u 2start giving sanctions immediately she tels u smthng out of d norm. Start gettn used 2d fact dat someday, she'l become a ful grown woman, (like it or not), get to knw wat it means 2hav sex, find love, and somday a young handsome man wil steal her away in matrimony. Man take it easy ooo!