Edobabe20:
Thats how one keeps telling me he is a structural engineer but the only thing he has ever given me is 100 naira glo card when i told him i wanted to download Coming to America2 like wtf? can I use 100 naira card to discuss with him on phone? liars everywhere that's why i can't cheat or leave my bobo alone cuz he is soo real, if he has he will tell but if he doesn't he will tell and i keep praying to God to bless the works of his hands

What if he's doesn't just want to give you. If you asked for money for unimportant things, I won't give you either. It doesn't change my profession

Mummymahdi:






This mostly happen in north, every now and then we see such situations

Ba karya suke so ba muje zuwa

idahme:



It's really unfortunate, they will discard the dude who is very rich but doesn't show up and run after shadows. Most ladies love flamboyant lifestyle exuded by men as their dream lifestyle, in most cases they fall into the wrong hands because of insatiable quest for quick cash without hard work....

Lol that gender sef

muzeze77:
She should leave. Its not about the duplex, its about the lie. Small lies lead to big lies, and you don't want to start a marriage with a lie and there will be big lies ahead. When I married my spouse she said she was AA turns out she was AS , we had an SS who died. She said she went to Poly but turns out WAEC was written by ex. The educated person I thought I will marry wasn't that educated. you cannot build a happy home on a weak foundation

God in heaven!!!

bluefilm:
She finally discovered there was no gold whatsoever to dig.

naijadrivablog:
Read this story on insta days ago

But why would a man lie to a woman just to marry her

Na so women don finish for this world

they prefer lies and bad boys

Who believes any word from Sulewoman

AntiWailer:
Stupid story.

So she did not go there to set her home to be ?


Apostle distracting us from the main issues

Abi from his adultery, Pastorprenuer

mrwonlasewonie:
taleleyi tokan Jawa ?


Pastor no be human being? He gets 3 pen1s?

Pastor no dey sheet Abi e no dey Fok? No Na question I ask because the way una dey idolize pastor,e be like say he be superhuman,he doesn't do what every other human does Abi e get pastor wey no dey sleep,bath,brush teeth?

Werey alasho


And then again you said your daddy lacks wisdom Abi? Oba furo e

You're telling a whole me? A whole me to be polite. idi awon omoge to'ndo majona ni fun Oro ode tosojade lenu

Iwo Oni baje buruku yi.


Can't you make your point without being rude? Oniraaaanu.tinbakogbaju fun e.nonsense!

Etotiewa ba gbogbo eje ni "dearie". Tani dearie e?

Nboloso Dearie esi?

Ogoh gan ooo.orimi latoke dele,o'npe Odin din mrwonlasewonie ni "dearie".lodun yi wa do obinrin Tanti le magun silara

Oko ema gan sinu idi eni

Let's be calming down abeg o ago use stick commot your teeth

tunize:
She got served it's obvious she was more interested in the duplex. If the brother had come out open I guess anty for nor marry I wonder why some girls prefer lie to truth shall.

Lol that's how they are weird that's why sharp/bad boys easily have their way and japa. Those gender

ScamHunter:

Dear, lies is not a valid reason to call off a marriage...

Sincerely it is. Coz it will breed distrust and other resultant effects which ultimately will toy with your peace. This could even snowball into adultery.

Honesty is a very key component in any relationship.

If the woman is so shallow, she's not worth marrying. The man is a slowpoke.

To cap it all, if they are members of your church, it speaks volumes of the quality of your teaching. Nothing to write home about.

Fake story from cloud chasing pastors.
How do you date a guy for 3years and he owns a duplex without inviting you to it?
Not even when his intention was known?
Not even know his workplace, friends and families in that 3years?
The guy knew the lady was a material girl and wanted to use material possesion and religious believes to lock her into marraige.
As fake as the story sound, how do you date for 3years and you know nothing about your partner?
So the girl be dey chop the guy money for 3years in the eatery and concluded that the guy is loaded with riches? .

The story is poorly written.

mrwonlasewonie:
pastor shut up

They're both at fault.someone gave you a flimpsy and watery excuse say he wants to avoid sexual temptation but she nor know his family, friends, siblings,work colleagues or former school mates , church members, pastor or church friends or even fellowship members instead they meet at the eatery.what then have they been talking about in the eatery where they met for 3 years and all the money the liar has been spending in the eatery for 3 years couldn't she had spotted some inconsistencies there? A man that wants to marry you is saying you should meet at the eatery.he hasn't invited you to his house and offered you cook so he sees how your food tastes like.wife o not girlfriend? And she didn't think there was fire on the mountain?

The Liar that used lie to marry wife,was he thinking he can keep the wife with lies? Abi if you you have a daughter you go say make she remain in the marriage with a homeless man? You nor dey think?

Na so them dey use in the name of God to lie and deceive people.wolves in sheep clothing don full church now claiming brother or sister in the Lord to use God's name to scam people of money or marriage.if you choose to be DECEIVED in the name of God Na you know

Must " pastor shut up" be there?
Though your view is on point.

Two thieves meeting in the jungle.

Hassanmaye:

Ba karya suke so ba muje zuwa

Kace sun samu kenan!

Only gullible will believe stories coming from Nigerian pastors, they can lie for Africa ehn!!!

banmee:


Let me get this straight. You would trust someone who lied to you in order to marry you. Got it. That makes sense. A normal person who ask, "what else is this person lying about"? Then run far away as possible.

am surprise you still talk about trust.

mrwonlasewonie:
Abi Ori eleyi baje Ni? Shori e gbale Ni?


Una never plenty reach

Eloposi wa.ejegba

Rada rada

Eri bosheyri bi eru ole.

and now your monkey head helps you to think the world is Yoruba.

InfernoNig:
The guy is mad. The lady is madder and both of the are the maddest. Liar and Golddigger can't combo. Let them go their way.

Asewo fe Omo Yahoo, Eni Ofo pade Eni Adanu

Edobabe20:
Thats how one keeps telling me he is a structural engineer but the only thing he has ever given me is 100 naira glo card when i told him i wanted to download Coming to America2 like wtf? can I use 100 naira card to discuss with him on phone? liars everywhere that's why i can't cheat or leave my bobo alone cuz he is soo real f he has he will tell but if he doesn't he will tell and i keep praying to God to bless the works of his hands

Here, gentlemen is a good example of women's hypergamy. No matter how good you are to them, they are always on the look out for someone better. Here, if the structural engineer was a little bit more generous, this lady would have pulled up a stunt to leave her supposedly "real bobo".

Numerouno94:
I'm pretty sure tinx like this happns buh i'm doubting d authenticity of this story..

The fiction was poorly written.

Things like this happen all the time. A lady brought her story to a radio station to seek for help. She was working and making a living for herself before the man came for her hand in marriage. He said he had a big shop at onitsha main market which the lady visited several times o. When even visited his 3bedroom flat several times. She wasn't looking at him as reach but at least he had something doing.

No kind of love should make a lady marry someone who has not source of income. That's by he way.
They planned for wedding and the guy was planning big while the lady was like let's do what we can afford. The guy no gree o.
That's how the guy borrowed money from people to do wedding without the lady's knowledge. The babe thought the money was coming from the man's Pocket cos she already told him do make it small.
After the wedding, people started coming for their money. She found out the flat didn't belong to the guy. The shop wasn't he's. Even the tv and most the things in the house were not his..the onwers came and picked them up one after another. All the money she ever saved while working was used in paying the man's debt. The salary she was collecing was not even enough cos more debts were coming up.

And the lied because he love her.
God forbid that kind of love abeg.
She was tired and frustrated and wanted to end the marriage.
The way some ladies make up to look good and meet guy they want to pin down, That's the same way some guys borrow to look to appear rich and get the girl they want.

But those kind of things always backfire within a short time. It better you let the person know you live in a self con or a face me I gave you if that's what you can afford. It better the person know that you are hustling and either chose to hustle with you o walk away than pretend you are made when you can't even afford a good meal. You will be hurting yourself. Except you just want to do hit and run.

The same fabu this pastor de tell hin congregation naaaa

nairafamedotcom:
Lady seeks divorce after discovering her newly wedded husband lied about owning a well furnished duplex.

According to Apostle Suleman, he wrote on twitter;


See there photos HERE

nairafamedotcom:
Lady seeks divorce after discovering her newly wedded husband lied about owning a well furnished duplex.

According to Apostle Suleman, he wrote on twitter;


See there photos HERE

Useless story full of lies

How can a pastor be posting fake news and made up stories.

Ah. Na Apostle. No wonder.

How can educated Nairalanders believe this?

The guy sought out the lady for marriage on deceit. Fundamentally, there is no integrity in the man if he cannot come clean with his state of affair for 3 whole years. Everyone who is of the opinion that the lady is a gold digger have forgotten that one of the key conditions for a man to be consider marriageable is the ability to provide a decent accomodation. He also should have integrity and be trustworthy. He obviously don't have and he also does not have enough courage, integrity and self esteem to tell the lady the true state of things.
Marriage is a contractual agreement and must be base on performance of the agreed obligations. You can not lie in a contact and assume the contract is still bidding.
Trust is a key component of marriage. A man that can lie for 3 years cannot be trusted. So I think the lady should get divorce and move on with her life.

extol1:

and how has ur answer help the issue on ground

There is no issue on ground (unless you be mugu)

Remove the log in your eye, bla bla bla

if the story came from another person not aposex I will believe it, but this one can lie and call it sleeping tongue.

the girl is so stupid.marry because of money.foolish bitch.them no ready to work or struggle with me.they are always looking for made men.carry your cross ashawo.who quote me hug transformer.

adadike:
they live somewhere along stadium road.

that is around taiwo oke.

adadike:
A similar thing happened to my uncle. He borrowed a car to woo and marry a lady. After all said and done the marriage packed up after three years they kept quarrelling even after having a daughter and a set of twin boys. Igbo people at ilorin tried to keep them together but the marriage was based on lies and material things and so couldn't stand the test of time. Na how to claim our children remain now

You are right
I know a friend's cousin that this happened to.
The guy claimed to own the mansion in festac he was staying so as to marry the girl.
The marriage packed up after the real owner of the house came back from abroad and reclaimed his property

It was a pathetic situation
Individuals should cut their coat according to their size

What I think is the cause of these lies is because some men want to marry ladies above their class
So they get to lie to get such ladies

Kokaine:

and now your monkey head helps you to think the world is Yoruba.

koshi danu joor