let me quote you 

Lepalomo:

Some husband dont allow their wives to work, they will tell their wives to stay at home taking care of the kids
Most of them (wives)are educated. so what is the essence of going to school them?
Liability woman!!!

why did you call them 'liability woman' when you said their husband did not allow them to work? do you want them to fight against the supreme ruler and then call them insubmissive wife again?
you smoke nsi?

armyofone (m)

I had to double check ur profile . . .

Don't blame you sha,lots of sEx starved and crazy dudes searching for game on here.

Ehen @ OP,I thought it was trophy wives?liability wives is the new[b]est[/b] word ? Trust nld,everyday na school for hia.

ify nwan mama m, na me, na me ooo lol.

Child upbringing is something serious. It is not inferior to banking job, or any job for that matter. Stay-at-home mothers should not be decived into thinking that what they do is inferior to what their husbands do. After all, the essence of education is to acquire knowledge. If the knowledge can be used to build a better family; it is all for good. But there should be consensus here.

hmm moi Natasha no man should dare tell me to seat at home because I would not , never I cannot seat at home I have a calling

All these attacks on marriage, mainly by unmarried people, na wa.

Wives staying at home to monitor the lives of genevieve, Dnabj and ramsey noah on Africa Magic while the kids are in school is the thing in vogie for some lazy women.

armyofone:

let me quote you
why did you call them 'liability woman' when you said their husband did not allow them to work? do you want them to fight against the supreme ruler and then call them insubmissive wife again?
you smoke nsi?

Even if you turn hermaphrodite, you no fit escape me

God please may my husband never see me as a liability Amen

If a husband prefers his wife to stay at home and raise the kids, i dont think it's anybody's business.

There are children running wild in the streets whose situation can be directly traced to lack of proper parental care.

In any case, a wife staying home due to a joint agreement between her and her man, no concern anybody oh.

To each his or her own.

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chaircover:

I dont mind being a "liability" wife on Monday Mornings. . . . . An extra hour or 2 in bed will be just great

Seriously though a lot of people under estimate how much work is involved in being an proper housewife. I am not referring to the "watching TV all day ones" but Mrs Average housewife who is busy from cock crow in the morning until she flops into bed a few minutes before midnight

Madam you make so much sense,

Yes I am a proud and loving ''liability wife'' and did I also forget to tell yous that I am loving and enjoying every single bit of it? Oya feel free to bite my fresh ,well oiled and scented backside if you have a problem with it .

Thank you

Tufiakwa!

We don't have such women in my family lineage, who sit on their fat arzzzzzes stretching their hands for 'chop-money' every month!


My momma was not a liability wife and my sister ain't!

None of my aunts(paternal or maternal) are liability wives!

None of my brothers is married to 'liability' wives!

These are the kinds of women who end up being 'discarded wives' or have 2nd and third wives as co-wives in that one bedroom of a husband's hut.
Not my portion in the name of my God!
Too used to being a 'bread and butter winner'!
I will gladly pay the man to be the 'liability' husband.


Besides, I don't like to have my man stressed with working 25 jobs to keep that 'bread-winning' title of his intact. I am not ready to be a widow of a stroked out dude!

50-50% in the professional and domestic spheres=50/50 love!

tpiah!:

If a husband prefers his wife to stay at home and raise the kids, i dont think it's anybody's business.

There are children running wild in the streets whose situation can be directly traced to lack of proper parental care.

In any case, a wife staying home due to a joint agreement between her and her man, no concern anybody oh.

To each his or her own.

I strongly concur. If two agree, the woman should stay at home and take care of the kids while the man does the traditional role of hunting and gathering.

maybe if we have more women staying at home to bring up the kids, maybe the society would be much better than it is now, of course having said that, me i think staying at home to be a full time mum is harder than a 9-5 job, so when the time comes, i reckon i will stick wid me 9-5 job

Blazay:

Tufiakwa!

We don't have such women in my family lineage, who sit on their fat arzzzzzes stretching their hands for 'chop-money' every month!


My momma was not a liability wife and my sister ain't!

None of my aunts(paternal or maternal) are liability wives!

None of my brothers is married to 'liability' wives!

These are the kinds of women who end up being 'discarded wives' or have 2nd and third wives as co-wives in that one bedroom of a husband's hut.
Not my portion in the name of my God!
Too used to being a 'bread and butter winner'!
I will gladly pay the man to be the 'liability' husband.


Besides, I don't like to have my man stressed with working 25 jobs to keep that 'bread-winning' title of his intact. I am not ready to be a widow of a stroked out dude!

50-50% in the professional and domestic spheres=50/50 love!

Now blazay/AJ

There is something I want to tell you since.

Can you marry me, I am not Yoruba nor Ibo I am from Aghenebode

An advise to liability wives please enjoy your lives jare you only live once. Even the women that are hardworking, wake up from 5am and fall into bed 11pm have been dumped by their Husbands ranging from excuses like she looks old to she is always tired. A good man knows he is responsible for his wife and kids Financially and otherwise.

There are men who God has blessed with abundant wealth all round you do not hear them complaining of liability wives. Men please pray to God to bless you so you wont be complaining up and down.

I wish my husband will allow me to stay at home, now don't think I am lazy, but taking care of the home front and the kids is not a small job. Plus, now you can stay at home, and still make money on the internet, which is what I am enjoying now. I am sure by the time i hit my first million , my hubby will finally sign my request to become a work at home mum.

When the kids are in school from 8am to 3pm what would you be doing at home?

dayokanu:

When the kids are in school from 8am to 3pm what would you be doing at home?

Part time employment, Laundry and dry cleaning, Cooking, going to the gym, getting hair done, house cleaning, grocery shopping, ect. I'm sure it would be nice not to have to do these things after work, because you could spend more time with the hubby and more time with the kids instead of running around town and the house trying to get everything done after work.

Can you picture the scene: You come home after a hard day's work, open the door and you are met with the aroma of a nice meal, the sight of an immaculately clean home, a wife that looks relaxed and children that look happy, maybe waiting for daddy to help with some homework.

Now try to picture the opposite senario: You come home to a cold empty house, maybe slightly disheveled since there was a rush to get everyone out the house in time this morning. Your wife stumbles in the door with an arm full of groceries, The kids run in and scatter, your wife starts to straighten up so dinner can be prepared, she is thinking of the deep house cleaning that needs to be done, the load of laundry that she will be putting in while dinner is on the stove. The hair appointment that is long overdue.  In this senario the kids are not old enough to help yet, so they are being normal kids and getting in the way, maybe frazzling your wife.

My point is that it there are things for a stay at home mom to do. For some women, they would prefer the interaction and the satisfaction from full-time employment. In some families it works out better becasue with both parents working full time, the family can have a better financial situation. Many working women have their lives organized much better than the wife in the second senario.

**I am totally against the assertion that a husband can 'not allow' their wife to go to work. The stay at home life isn't for everyone.**

Why cant the man be the one sitting at home doing the part time employment, going to gym, Getting hair done, watching ESPN, making barbeque while the woman is slaving away at work?

The women that work also go to gym, get their hairs done, Do their laundry somehow, get grocery and food for their family somehow

Sure! The man can stay home wash the clothes, do the dishes, clean the kitchen, scrub the toilets, scrub the floors, was the linens, make the beds, and cook the food. He can watch ESPN while doing some of these things. Then the wife can come home to paradise. I'm sure many women wouldn't mind.

dayokanu:


The women that work also go to gym, get their hairs done, Do their laundry somehow, get grocery and food for their family somehow

True, but then she is more stressed out. She could transform into the dreaded "Nagging Wife" if she starts finding it difficult to cope. Maybe not. Many women are Superwoman and manage to handle it all!

Andromida:

well said.

nekai said:
Sure! The man can stay home wash the clothes, do the dishes,
clean the kitchen, scrub the toilets, scrub the floors, was the
linens, make the beds, and cook the food. He can watch ESPN
while doing some of these things. Then the wife can come home
to paradise. I'm sure many women wouldn't mind.

A rope is never really good on a fowl's neck you know?

Any woman looking for a liability husband?

Blazay:

Tufiakwa!

We don't have such women in my family lineage, who sit on their fat arzzzzzes stretching their hands for 'chop-money' every month!


My momma was not a liability wife and my sister ain't!

None of my aunts(paternal or maternal) are liability wives!

None of my brothers is married to 'liability' wives!

These are the kinds of women who end up being 'discarded wives' or have 2nd and third wives as co-wives in that one bedroom of a husband's hut.
Not my portion in the name of my God!
Too used to being a 'bread and butter winner'!
I will gladly pay the man to be the 'liability' husband.


Besides, I don't like to have my man stressed with working 25 jobs to keep that 'bread-winning' title of his intact. I am not ready to be a widow of a stroked out dude!

50-50% in the professional and domestic spheres=50/50 love!

I come from a similar family too and I have found out over the years that in this situation, it is never  50/50

as you said it, the finacial contribution can be 50/50, but domestic is never 50/50 in most cases.

You will slave away to bring the money home to be spent but you will carry the pregancies and do the sleepless nights yourself, not to talk of many other things that the man will not do, at least not in this sector of the globe that I live in.

I can just imagin my mother inlaw arrive for a visit and I remind my husband that it is his turn to go to the market and cook dinner, after all I just paid the Children's school fees as agreed!

Shinatu:



I come from a similar family too and I have found out over the years that in this situation, it is never 50/50

as you said it, the finacial contribution can be 50/50, but domestic is never 50/50 in most cases.

You will slave away to bring the money home to be spent but you will carry the pregancies and do the sleepless nights yourself, not to talk of many other things that the man will not do, at least not in this sector of the globe that I live in.

I can just imagin my mother inlaw arrive for a visit and I remind my husband that it is his turn to go to the market and cook dinner, after all I just paid the Children's school fees as agreed!

Lai lai. My money will not be 50/50 then. I did the nights mostly myself though even though he is a hands on dad but groceries and stuff like that he did unless there was something I knew he would not get right. If the mother in law does not want her son to go to the market then she can always do it herself. mscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

What stops the man from cooking once a while or you cook and he does the dishes?

Groceries are not an everyday affair. Both of you go to the store together and you pick the items while he pushes the trolley.

Or while you are cooking he is doing the laundry

Liability wives kin? Wat about liability husbands

Uju Can I be your liability husband?

You applied too late Dayo.

The plan is for Uju to marry one very rich money-miss-road showing interest on her now, after which she will retire form her work and be a liability wife.

2 years down the line, she will divorce the man make Millions$$$$ from him , marry me and we'll both be liability husband and wife till death do us part or till the money finishes (which ever happens 1st)