You are dating someone you hope to Marry and you are playing son in law or daughter in law already but what you are investing is not being returned?Is she dramatic already?..Or is she the best thing that ever happened to you?
Do you have Negative or positive Mother in law to be stories to keep us sitting on edge?
The example below explains what i mean about some mothers in law to be ...

My mother in-law to be, that is if I don't call off the relationship has asked me for money twice when I went visiting. Usually when her daughter steps out briefly. She will call me to come gist with her, then remind me to leave her something when I'm going.
I have never told her daughter because she will be very angry.
She gives this woman 40k every month besides paying all bills in the house.
The way I'm seeing that family, not sure I can continue.
I'm noticing things I don't like. Even the brothers wife avoids her. She once asked the maid to come meet me to collect money to help her buy something . And I know how much her kids send to her but she seems greedy. My mother will never do that to a visitor.

My people say: ọ ka mma ịkwụsị agwa ọjọọ na mbido ya ma nata mkparị sitere n’aka ndị na-akpọ asị karịa ịkwụsị n’ogologo oge ọ na-agaghị ekwe omume.


I don't feign being good and act stupidly.



That woman is the entitled type.


I understand it is embarrassing to tell her daughter but do it now you can no longer stomach it, or when you eventually marry her daughter, she'll suckle you to your dregs.

Let her daughter handle the case.

Learn from the response whether or not to move on or move out. There must be a move.

Karka yarda da aikin banza saboda soyayya.

I'd also say you should let your gf/fiancee know about this.. If she can call her mother to order, I doubt she can cos the woman will surely find a way to justify her actions.. I'm sorry but if you don't put your feet down now that you still can, trust me you won't like the outcome.. Watch how things escalate from 0 to 100 really fast

Tell her daughter/your fiancée.

Ignore her; act like you didn't hear when she requests for money. Or you tell her that you will discuss with her daughter and send it through her.

Please tell your fiancée asap and let her know you are not comfortable with it.

She was the slay queen of her time, that's why she materialistic. Be careful so you don't become her enemy.

Why haven't you told her daughter, the woman you plan to marry?
Tell your girlfriend, so that even if you break up with her she knows the reason why.
Na so that woman go pursue all her children's friends and suitors. Shameless