Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala).

Mikester:
I think you dumb and shallow. You're somewhat prodigal and not shrewd with money at all.

Moreover I feel your relationship is like this...

richmond500:
nairaland has the highest number of stupid people per square

Kriss216:


The condom becomes painful the moment she sees your payslip and potentials.

She's naturally a gold miner. Forget those niceties of hers.

Losing the baby is God's way of rescuing you from Delilah's trap.

Her resignation is one of the ways she's expressing her disappointments over her failed plans.

Accept her resignation with all your heart and stay away from Nigerian girls!

Xenry:
Truth be told; once you are a fine girl, you don make am.
How can you employ ur babe to work with you in your company, isn't that a big distraction? Don't let her distract you in your own company, else u go regret am because they are always liabilities.
Imagine if I have pussy, I for don make am tey tey.

Kriss216:

A guy lose 98.98987% of his senses the moment he's in love.

Mikester:



He also in some cases loses his productiveness. Men who fall in love especially with the wrong ladies will have inevitable troubles.

DonSmith123rr4:
Please i didnt fall in love. I did everything because she was adding value to my business not about love. Infact i was even planning to make her my manager by June

DonSmith123rr4:
So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.

Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.

Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.

Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex.
Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.

Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK

1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny.
2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc
3. Accept and let everything go

Kriss216:


The condom becomes painful the moment she sees your payslip and potentials.

She's naturally a gold miner. Forget those niceties of hers.

Losing the baby is God's way of rescuing you from Delilah's trap.

Her resignation is one of the ways she's expressing her disappointments over her failed plans.

Accept her resignation with all your heart and stay away from Nigerian girls!

Yusufisraelj:



DonSmith123rr4 - the statement above is the best counsel.

Do options 3 - accept her resignation and let her go, I don't form the habit of retrieving what I have personally given to a lady, business these days need strategic and dutifull planning, especially with the current rumor of increase in PMS to over #200.

Bro it will be difficult but it can be done. Don't entertain nonsense. Let her walk.

Equally don't get in the habit of cohabitation with your staff it's a recipe with disastrous consequences, going forward guide against this.

DaddyRochie1642:
It seems you have Money,

Part Of Me wants to believe that uou wee Spending to "Impress her"... But dissecting this your story from My Surgical Lens, I don't think you were trying to 'Impress her" with your Spending, maybe you were trying to compensate for the Genotype not working out in Favour of you guys and it seems the lady wanted the Genotype issue to really work out for you guys that's why she was kinda being "Desperate" from your story.

Anyway, Oga, it seems like you're a good man and it seems like you have some money to spend,.... Accept her Resignation Letter, pay her the Complete Salary and Cut her Loose... You can leave the house you rented for her as a kind of "Compensation" for all the "Abortions" you and her have done.

I said what I said because the Lady in question according to you has talent in the "Customer Care Department", as least she was useful in your Company.

If the Lady in question was useless and contributed nothing to your Life, I would have personally roasted her with my Venomous tongue

Xenry:
Oga, send me ordinary 5k make I use am confirm whether this story na true or lie.

DonSmith123rr4:
Please i didnt fall in love. I did everything because she was adding value to my business not about love. Infact i was even planning to make her my manager by June

Rocktation:


How wonderful that you find sense in shagging your way through, to getting the best hands on your work team- women, cat, rat and men together, so you can all be one big happy family..Wowww. The 49th law of power. Entrepreneur of the century.

DonSmith123rr4:

skywalker240:
The moment a Nigerian Vagina person realize you are wealthy, she would polish and sharpen her straws with thinner and angle grinding machines.

But op you are sick, na so adam nuhu take start. How can you be sleeping with your employee?

DonSmith123rr4:
So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.

Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.

Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.

Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex.
Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.

Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK

1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny.
2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc
3. Accept and let everything go