For me its so boring and this feeling of insecurity..like you are undesirable and there is something that is causing it..

I've grown cold emotionally. I don't even know what it really means to genuinely care for other people, like, I love my mum but I don't see any reason to constantly call to check up on her talk less of my dad. My siblings too. Its all about chasing money which I can't seem to get hold of right now.

It's not nice at all living almost unconnected with your emotional side.

The worst is I don't see myself getting into any romantic relationship yet. I am broke and wouldn't like to decieve myself thinking it will be cool keeping a gf with all the baggage while I am still finding my feet.

Just channel your energy into your hustle bro...once you secure small something, invest and then look for a good hard-working girl and start courting.
Don't feel dejected.
Na money be fine Bobo.

Brother. Just drop the emotional baggage and hustle. For chrissake you are a MAN!!! And you are carrying a serious burden and if you knew the odds that are against, you would not even be considering girlfriend mata

Like u said earlier ''i am broke''.
Nigga u better hustle wella because if u av ur cash now, everything will come for u romantically both living thing and non-living thing...

No go dey wait for all those mumu words like behind a successful man there is always a woman..na scam ooo,,person wey talk am don die since..

Actually feels peaceful if u ask me. As u said the thought of the constant calls and text just to check up on someone that you're emotionally attached to takes a lot of strength and commitment. I also really don't know how to show much “care” for someone other than my parents and siblings and some case friends. Sometimes I actually question the way i show love and care for somebody else, always thinking if I'm doing the care rightly like I was supposed to, hence depression kicks in at times I'm a kind of person that can stay a week without texting or calling the other party just to say "hi" or something, tho it's wrong but for me I feel like I've just breached someone's privacy or in a way bugging the person lol

I guess I'm always on a “Solo Mode”

Modified: Sorry for the long epistle

Same with me bro, just yesterday my little sister asked me, hey I don't see you with girls anymore, do u even have any GF, I told her no... I've not no emotional time or affection towards that, I just go to work, listen to music, mind my busy schedule to get more money. My feeling are just dead

In the same boat.
Sometimes I wonder how my fellow broke guys stay sane in a relationship.
The last relationship I was in didn't work out because i was cold throughout and my attention was focused on how to get a job or something to better my life. I forgot i was in a relationship most of the time and after like a month, she calls to ask if we're still dating. She got tired eventually and we parted ways.

Liberating.