averageguy:


In general, my experience has been that in Europe, it's not as popular to find the sort of community you see in many parts of Nigeria where people know the names of everyone on their streets and you visit people without calling ahead.

That being said, I don't believe it affects ladies any differently from the guys. Reading through the thread in general, some people are trying to claim a cultural superiority in Nigeria because the culture in Europe generally does not subjugate women. So, of course, if you physically threatened or hit your wife, you have to leave the house for a while, or the system acknowledges that a spouse is typically the backbone supporting a person's financial success and therefore, the wealth is divided if they split. I can see how that threatens our general beliefs in Nigeria and I think people are just clinging to the perceived superiority of the general Nigerian culture.

Most if not all the countries in Europe the UK inclusive, have laws or have enacted laws that favor women more than men,the Nordic countries like Sweden,Norway,Denmark are number one when it comes to laws that favor women,( it is the reverse of the African male mentality) as a man if you try anything stupid,the books will be thrown at you,worst of all if you are a black man,you are done.Men in that part of the world have to be carefull how they operate with women,that’s why there are so many women that are lonely. Some will even be bold enough to tell you to your face how lonely they are and need companionship.the problem there are the laws,You can’t eat your cake and have it! You can’t make laws that emasculate men and expect to have men at your beck and call! And life is supposed to go on like you wish,it’s not possible,something has to give!Same goes for the laws in the US,it’s the same,the women empowerment movement is strong as well here in the US,not to mention the me too movement now,if you as a African man bring your male chauvinism mentality and try to show your African male mentality over your wife,the laws will remind you where you are. That’s why you see the incessant cases of men esp Nigerian men shooting their wives they brought from Nigeria and some committing suicide after such heinous acts,the men can’t stand to bear the thought of not being in control as they used to back home.The State of Texas among other US cities has a long and peculiar history of such heinous cases. As a man before you leave Nigeria better forget that patriarchy mentality where the African society favors you as a man! where the man bosses over the woman,it doesn’t work here,the laws here will bring you down to earth in a hard way.Some men never recover from it. Ask the people that are honest to tell you their truth.

pansophist:


Mentioning of Sweden almost make me cry. That country is a definition of "the rich also cry". So rich yet, so depressing. The 20 hours darkness in winter, the freezing cold, digital culture and individualism. Its hell. Only worth staying in summer. I've been to Stockholm and even in the face of a highly civilised and wealthy place, it kills every fun in my soul.

Sweden is even better, Norway is worst.

sammysmiles:
The interest youth put in relationships, how I wish they put it in making money...

Not youth but women, women discussion revolves around fashion and relationship - who is dating who and latest fashion in town. Just do your research.

joelag:


Sweden is even better, Norway is worst.

Norway is number 1 in emasculating men, it’s so bad there that even their own men run away from their women. Swedish women are even better.in Norway there are so many lonely women depressed.Being a black woman there is torture,to find a man is almost impossible except she is lucky to find a white old man,that was once married and already has grown up kids some even as old as his black wife,which rarely happens or a black man that wants her for his papers that’s if she has her own things in place, In the US it’s almost the same too,so many lonely women that as a man depending on the city you live in,you can decide to go on a date and bleep women everyday of the week if you so desire,I’m talking cities like New York,Atl,DC,LA.. hence why so many men just prefer that lifestyle than to settle down with one woman.The ratio of men to women in these cities is like 1:6 if not more, Take a look at the cases of men cheating on their wives in the US,even pastors are not absolved of it.The options are limitless for men as long as you know how to play your card well!

TimeTraveller:


You live with them?��

you better believe him. so many bullshits happen over there simply because the laws have been made to favour women. If the man doesn't dance to her tune, she can frame him up and get him arrested and chased out of the house.

If they like let them be lonely or lovely, ain't my business. They are like jellyfish which looks lovely but deadly, hence you see them being avoided like the plaque by every ocean creatures. Those who take their innocent flowery beauty for granted will be glued, poisoned and sucked dry, and will never escape alive. As for the London and European women, their loneliness is the result of their wickedness which is the constitutional arrangements by the government to discourage healthy relationships and thereby reduce Coital Frequency so as to reduce chances of conception and childbirth. This is a plan to keep the population growth in check, and also to promote homosexuality which also aims to promote low population growth.

athaboi:
I'm not lonely anything

Jaqenhghar:

In your society where men are the leaders how is that working for you. We can see the progress .. In fact you guys are so far ahead that they are the ones migrating in their thousands to come stay in your country

Our problem is institutional and not individual.

So u are telling me if women are in power Nigeria will turn to Dubai ahbi

That way of thinking is flawed, western societies were built by men.

Women in politics leads to chaos and misery. See how they have made men second class citizens through feminism and they are pushing for transgenderism and abortion rights. No accountability for women and no authority for men. Look at their family courts and see how women bastardized the marriage institution

baralatie:

God that created the man said it is not good for a man to be alone therefore I will make him a helper.

what you wrote is absolute nonsense

And God regretted it.

Because of creating Eve and not leaving Adam to be alone, Eve made man to fall and they both ended up getting cursed by God

DigitB:


My guyyy

You sound like a real 'manosphere' apostle

We are just doing the lords work lol

Uyi168:
. I dey like all these kain threads..

Why not, it doesn't require a functional brain to participate in.

baddosky1:



God used 1 day to create you but used 6 months to perfectly construct your brain with high IQ!

Ese

BigBashiru:

You are a very wise person...

thank you sir

calcal:


the last time I was bleeping one, she was shouting another man name

there was a day one got me angry ,i chased her out and tell if that happen next time i will Bleep her in the eye

The reason most man cheat in naija is because our Nigeria chick ain't skillful except to lay down and grunt like ram ,if a Nigeria girl suck your dick be ready to travel out of the country to treat it cause they are vampire but they have n't discover it

vhuqnl:

U are extremely dumb and you don't know it

Says a demon-enslaved Drag-Queen (you deeper homosexuals call yourselves Dragon-Queens cos you know Satan is your Owner and Controller)

athaboi:
I'm not lonely anything

south Africa is not Europe, south Africa is centre of folkademus

DEMZEE:


We are just doing the lords work lol

Of course.

Sadly many guys refuse to accept the gospel. They choose to remain simpletons.

McSquishi:


“Fighting wildly” is something you won’t ever find me doing, especially on religious issues lmao... so I wonder why you would mischaracterize me in such a way? Hmmm

“Fighting blindly” another thing you won’t find me doing. I always speak on topics I’m educated on and have researched well. But nice try...

“Fighting” at all is a mischaracterization since I’m doing the same as you and weighing in where I choose on whatever topics I choose. It’s a forum, meant for conversation, even debate.

I know Europeans not just people who have “been to Europe”... and never have I heard any analysis that women continent wide are suffering loneliness and loss of companionship. Most women who are scammed are those seeking young African men who they can exploit because it is easier to lure a young African guy with their euros than is to find a young man from their country at their age or with their less desirable looks.

I’m not aggressive, I’m direct.

stop fighting yourself bro we know you love European ladies but that dost change the fact from Google and experience ,do you go out during rain (no i don't) they too don't usually go out during snow go to quora to and learn stop being biased cause of your fetish motive

Duplexxx:
Who no go no know

You're a lier

Are you in Abroad?

You're in Nigeria writing bullshit about Europe



I've being around Europe and i know how they lives

Europe is not Africa

because you bleed white girl does not stop the fact that they are lonely that is y they vacate like hell , apart from European no other country travel much for fun cause they social they sweet

sammysmiles:
The interest youth put in relationships, how I wish they put it in making money...

Oga stop trying to sound smart. Everyone knows good relationships are worth more than silver and gold. I don't know when people started peddling this pseudo-woke money talk. Money is a means to an end, that's all it is at its core.

continue with ur useless laws where women begets all u laboured for,just because of squabble which majority are caused by the same women.thry aren't seen any thg thing yet.

DEMZEE:


Our problem is institutional and not individual.

So u are telling me if women are in power Nigeria will turn to Dubai ahbi

That way of thinking is flawed, western societies were built by men.

Women in politics leads to chaos and misery. See how they have made men second class citizens through feminism and they are pushing for transgenderism and abortion rights. No accountability for women and no authority for men. Look at their family courts and see how women bastardized the marriage institution

...and who makes up the institutions? Aliens? Buildings?
Im not arguing about putting women in politics.

You have men leading yet even the men are second class citizens. In fact with all their feminism men still live better lives and live longer than in your "male led" society where men hold all the keys.

If You were given the option of living in your society or theirs we all know which you will choose

athaboi:
I'm not lonely anything

yes you are

Men prefer to stay single than settle down with lady who will later betray them because of some child supports and take all what the man has worked for.

Got 2 families members that learnt the hard way

quentin06:


Why not, it doesn't require a functional brain to participate in.

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If throwing insults around makes u sleep well, keep it up..

On a good day I'll get back at you..

I'm not lonely anything
when lonely comes close , I'm here for ya let's rule our world obaby. lol

athaboi:
I'm not lonely anything

when lonely comes close, I'm here for ya, let's rule our world lol

DEMZEE:


And God regretted it.

Because of creating Eve and not leaving Adam to be alone, Eve made man to fall and they both ended up getting cursed by God

you see am nau!
you see how you people spread falsehoods!

Even at that Adam (the man who received direct instructions) willingly and willfully sinned ,therefore his punishment.



Adam (for whom eve was made)that was suppose to be with Eve left her alone to be talking with snake? did God create Eve to be having discussion with snake?

Genesis 6:6 said that God regretted that he made man on earth because the thoughts of man was constantly evil.

A lot of Nigerian men are just so dumb. Look at all the mumu comments they have been making on this thread. So women are lonely but men are not? Women cannot stay alone but men can? Women go crazy if they don't have sex but men can cope without sex?
And these are the future leaders of this country ooo
Nigeria is on a very long thing.

McSquishi:


“Fighting wildly” is something you won’t ever find me doing, especially on religious issues lmao... so I wonder why you would mischaracterize me in such a way? Hmmm

“Fighting blindly” another thing you won’t find me doing. I always speak on topics I’m educated on and have researched well. But nice try...

“Fighting” at all is a mischaracterization since I’m doing the same as you and weighing in where I choose on whatever topics I choose. It’s a forum, meant for conversation, even debate.

I know Europeans not just people who have “been to Europe”... and never have I heard any analysis that women continent wide are suffering loneliness and loss of companionship. Most women who are scammed are those seeking young African men who they can exploit because it is easier to lure a young African guy with their euros than is to find a young man from their country at their age or with their less desirable looks.

I’m not aggressive, I’m direct.

I don't believe your last line. Your posts are proofs.

Do have a nice day.

Kakamorufu:
Men prefer to stay single than settle down with lady who will later betray them because of some child supports and take all what the man has worked for.

Got 2 families members that learnt the hard way

Are things that bad out there?