CHoccolaTE:


The problem is that redpill men dont know shishi about women and the little they manage to know they generalize like fools based on personal experiences. This world is not black and white, people are very complex and individual human experiences shape people's lives and behaviors.

Redpill men will experience heartbreak from one girl in secondary school or primary school or face rejection from girls in their lives then they will proceed to judge all women with their limited experience.

Redpill movement is pure clownery

Lolzzzz

Every woman is hypergamous and know innately that their pussy is their agency.

Anyways u are still plugged in the bluepilled conditioning and u have ego investments in it so I understand why u think redpill is clownery

CHoccolaTE:


The problem is that redpill men dont know shishi about women and the little they manage to know they generalize like fools based on personal experiences. This world is not black and white, people are very complex and individual human experiences shape people's lives and behaviors.

Redpill men will experience heartbreak from one girl in secondary school or primary school or face rejection from girls in their lives then they will proceed to judge all women with their limited experience.

Redpill movement is pure clownery

You are emotional
Have you researched about the redpill
Why the ranting
Your simpness must be deep
I don't know what will save you if you condemn the redpill

Zzor:
I so hate this parrot man,he talks tooooo much and forming redpill online

I knew some women would hate this thread, especially, material women.

emmnprince:


You're not far from the truth!

But wait! Should we attribute their dependent mentality to our forefathers of olden days who made women house materials? And isn't not a generational thing that was transferred from mother's to daughters?

Of course, you are right. It is the culture we've developed over the years. In the olden days, it is believed that a man is always the bread winner of the house. This has made so many women feel so relaxed that they feel no need contributing to the running of the house.

The man shoulders everything. Even in this twenty first century when some women have started fighting for equal rights with men, they still don't feel the need to assist men in the running of the home financially.

That notion of only the man should run the home financially is mostly predominant here in Nigeria.

A couple of women are waking up in some other parts of the world. Women now assist men in running the home financially. But our women are still far behind in that aspect.

They don't believe in working to assist the man. Some feel so reluctant to work. They want to be full time house wives without contributing a dime to the running of the home. And the few that work, they hide their money from their husbands.

Saw a thread yesterday when a man never knew his wife had been earning fat salary for good 6 yrs they've been married and the wife had been pretending to be earning small salary leaving everything for the man to take care of.

Let's put some of the blames on our forefathers so to say.

Mcslize:


Of course, you are right. It is the culture we've developed over the years. In the olden days, it is believed that a man is always the bread winner of the house. This has made so many women feel so relaxed that they feel no need contributing to the running of the house.

The man shoulders everything. Even in this twenty first century when some women have started fighting for equal rights with men, they still don't feel the need to assist men in the running of the home financially.

That notion of only the man should run the home financially is mostly predominant here in Nigeria.

A couple of women are waking up in some other parts of the world. Women now assist men in running the home financially. But our women are still far behind in that aspect.

They don't believe in working to assist the man. Some feel so reluctant to work. They want to be full time house wives without contributing a dime to the running of the home. And the few that work, they hide their money from their husbands.

Saw a thread yesterday when a man never knew his wife had been earning fat salary for good 6 yrs they've been married and the wife had been pretending to be earning small salary leaving everything for the man to take care of.

Let's put some of the blames on our forefathers so to say.

Only weak men use their wives has financial backup plans


Only weak men feel their wives should support the home financially

Only weak see men and women as equals

And how Is this news?

Only a foolish man spends lavishly on a girlfriend even a wife who could still leave you.

Always spend reasonably.

If you've come across a lot of Reno's posts, you'll know the essence of that summary.

brandsoncharlie:

How is it related?

PenName55:
I know a lady who would never ask you for a dime. I once chattered a Taxi for her and her younger sister she declined to board saying it was too expensive. I begged her and begged and she refused. I was the one to pay and I didn't like it. Rain was about falling and I just wanted her to go home before it started raining. At last we were all soaked in rain and had to walk in the rain for a distance of like 15minutes. I was really mad. It was when I got home and I sat down to think about it that I realized she was not supposed to be mad at.
This made me appreciated her the more.

Such a non demanding lady is the type I can buy the whole world for without any regret when we split. Such are rear.

She is a Goddesses.....just be a man with values ,she will do anything in the universe for you

You are a Goddesses.... I hope I find your kind.Happy married life

Romanoff:


I don't know how to explain it to you.

It has become a norm to exchange sex for gifts or favours, sadly, even in relationships.

I am married and I didn't engage in premarital sex cause I already knew what I wanted for myself from when I was a teenager.

Did it make me have relationships where I wasn't given gifts or spent on like most girls I knew of? Yes.

Did I regret my decision to avoid premarital sex? No

Thankfully, it worked for me.

I didn't get married to my partner cause he gives me money or gifts. I married him cause he's my friend and we share similar values and beliefs.

I hope you get my point now.

If you don't, I can't help you understand me anymore.

Firstly this universe is very spiritual,only when you connect with it you would understand.God made men to be powerful courageous and a leader ,But quess what we have in today society is bitches who call themselves men .Has men ,women are suppose to chase and then will would be the one to choose of whom to procreate with .Social media,Holly wood ,all most nude videos have made men to be induge in sex ,and if men don't break out from this Matrix the future belongs to the female .Listen Men don't be a slave to lust ,kill it off ,and when you do ,ass will be seen ,as an organ for defecation,breast for the uborn ,and vagina for procreation.BREAK OUT FROM THE MATRIX !!!!!!!!

Seniorwriter:
Not Entirely true....
How can you show you care without spending a little on someone you claim to love.
Howbeit that shouldn't include entitlement demand mentality from any of the two dating.
'Nough said on this.
In Another news don't miss out on earning online so you can spend conveniently on your loved ones.
Learn how to make @Least $20 - $50 daily via online skill sets or activities.

Proactivity Leads To Productivity!!!
@Seniorwriter

What is the online thing about please?

DEMZEE:


Only weak men use their wives has financial backup plans


Only weak men feel their wives should support the home financially

Only weak see men and women as equals

This is why it is we men that are spoiling our women.

Have you forgotten the initial reason why God created a woman for a man.

Take your mind back to the Garden of Eden. What was the initial reason why God created a woman for Adam? He saw that the man was lonely and he reasons it will be cool to make him a supporter.

What does a supporter in that context mean? You mean if you as a man has a wife who is earning very well and you are still struggling financially, you won't allow your wife to contribute to the running of the home? Easier said than done until you experience it.

If a man wants to prove headship to a woman, it is not with finance. Struggling men whom their wives are earning way better need the supports of their wives or else they will be choked with so many responsibilities. What will your wife be using her money for in this case? To be dashing it out to her sugar boy whom she may be cheating on you with why you are killing yourself shouldering all the responsibilities in the home just to prove you are the man of the home?

Every man needs his wife support financially, especially those that are still struggling. That's why it's always been advised that a man should not rush into marriage cuz we've been brainwashed to believe that only men should shoulder all the responsibilities in a home whether their wives earn better than them or not.

Don't kill yourself with responsibilities if you know your wife can still help sort out some stuffs at home. That's how marriage was made to be. To support each other not to leave all the responsibilities to the man alone.

That's why some men have nothing to account for, no investment, no single property to their names simply because they want to prove that they are the men of their homes why their wives are having numerous properties all around.

Don't be deceived. Anything can happen. Let your wife support you as a man in the little way she can in the running of the home. It is only men who wants to be controlling their wives that always want to kill themselves with responsibilities in the home, just so they prove that they are the men of the home. That won't still make her respect you if you don't know how to handle your wife as a man.

To make a woman respect you goes beyond just shouldering responsibilities of the home all alone as a man.

Men are supposed to be leaders of which women are the followers but in it but all has changed .We got testosterone,we called semen ,only we have the ability to bring a human to the world .I see boiz this days thinking mostly about sex ,having multiple galfriends they think they are real Dawgs SMH.Hold your semen,work hard ,chase goals and be a high value man .When you meet the right woman ,and have sex with out with ejaculating your seed ,whilst the woman is able to reach her own orgasm ,she will bless with love grace and Respect you know why ? "The universe is she"

Muzikluva:
What is the online thing about please?

NL has rules check my profile for my FB ID then message me on Facebook(FB).
Proactivity Leads To Productivity @Seniorwriter

DEMZEE:


Lolzzzz

Every woman is hypergamous and know innately that their pussy is their agency.

Anyways u are still plugged in the bluepilled conditioning and u have ego investments in it so I understand why u think redpill is clownery

Ok, every man is sex obsessed and cannot control themselves around naked women.

Also, all men have very high tendencies to be criminals or rapists.

CHoccolaTE:


Ok, every man is sex obsessed and cannot control themselves around naked women.

Also, all men have very high tendencies to be criminals or rapists.

Nope

Hypergamy is women's innate survival nature

Mcslize:


This is why it is we men that are spoiling our women.

Have you forgotten the initial reason why God created a woman for a man.

Take your mind back to the Garden of Eden. What was the initial reason why God created a woman for Adam? He saw that the man was lonely and he reasons it will be cool to make him a supporter.

What does a supporter in that context mean? You mean if you as a man has a wife who is earning very well and you are still struggling financially, you won't allow your wife to contribute to the running of the home? Easier said than done until you experience it.

If a man wants to prove headship to a woman, it is not with finance. Struggling men whom their wives are earning way better need the supports of their wives or else they will be choked with so many responsibilities. What will your wife be using her money for in this case? To be dashing it out to her sugar boy whom she may be cheating on you with why you are killing yourself shouldering all the responsibilities in the home just to prove you are the man of the home?

Every man needs his wife support financially, especially those that are still struggling. That's why it's always been advised that a man should not rush into marriage cuz we've been brainwashed to believe that only men should shoulder all the responsibilities in a home whether their wives earn better than them or not.

Don't kill yourself with responsibilities if you know your wife can still help sort out some stuffs at home. That's how marriage was made to be. To support each other not to leave all the responsibilities to the man alone.

That's why some men have nothing to account for, no investment, no single property to their names simply because they want to prove that they are the men of their homes why their wives are having numerous properties all around.

Don't be deceived. Anything can happen. Let your wife support you as a man in the little way she can in the running of the home. It is only men who wants to be controlling their wives that always want to kill themselves with responsibilities in the home, just so they prove that they are the men of the home. That won't still make her respect you if you don't know how to handle your wife as a man.

To make a woman respect you goes beyond just shouldering responsibilities of the home all alone as a man.

Women don't care about men's struggles, they wait at the finish line and Bleep the winner.

Womens role in the home is to make domestic decisions.

Only weak ass and low valued men will make their wives their financial support system or their financial backup plan

DEMZEE:


Nope

Hypergamy is women's innate survival nature

Sex obsession is in every mans dna

Also criminality too

CHoccolaTE:


Sex obsession is in every mans dna

Also criminality too

But women commit crimes too and women are sex obsessed too especially when they are young

DEMZEE:


But women commit crimes too and women are sex obsessed too especially when they are young

But men are hypergamous na
Is it not on nairaland they always tell each other to date working class or rich girls

Zzor:
I so hate this parrot man,he talks tooooo much and forming redpill online

Am guessing u one of this entitlement ladies !

CHoccolaTE:


But men are hypergamous na
Is it not on nairaland they always tell each other to date working class or rich girls

How many women date men that they have more status than uhn

Even in western societies women date ND marry upwards

Can you really love without giving

envoymedia:
"Spending Money On A Woman Because You Are Dating Her Is Not Generosity. It Is Stupidity" - Reno Omokri Tells Men

Reno Omokri has told the men that spending money on a woman they are not related or married to just because they are in a relationship is not generosity but stupidity, IgbereTV reports.

Reno in a post shared on his Instagram page earlier today had written that it is not proper for a man to even give gifts to a woman he isn't married to.

He wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CMzW1N6DBto/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link


An Instagram user, @stellaababy_ saw his post and left a comment which reads:



Responding to the comment, Reno said he isn't stingy and went on to state why men who give money to women they are dating are ''stupid.'' According to him, many African men settle for older white women because those women don't require financial maintenance.

Reno wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CMzasoxDlCu/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Lalasticlala

confirm talk but I know say kristolove and ozzor wouldn't take it easy with this post ���

The true history of the yoruba:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llporKrPsbU



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2hU-ibkPfg



Please kindly help me locate one of these 5 things:

1) ife empire
2) bight of ife
3) bight of yoruba
4) ife battle against britain
5) ife republic

Debunked once, debunked forever. You and your fake videos have been debunked. I know it hurts, but it is what it is.

Truthbeatslies:
[s]The true history of the yoruba:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIporKrPsbU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2hU-ibkPfg

[/s]

I have debunked this false video many, many times. See one of my comments below:

(1) Regarding your bitter lies about the trans-Atlantic slave trade, the following piece-by-piece devastating refutation:

(A) Contrary to your ignorance, captives weren’t taken from “all across Africa” as you imagined.

Rather, captives were taken from Central Africa and West Africa — including people from Benin kingdom whom the Nupe, the Ibadan, Ogedengbe, etc. raided.

(B) Contrary to your ignorance, the Yoruba people have long been known by the name Yoruba (and they’ve been living in their present homeland) for centuries prior to the period when ex-captives began to be returned to Africa.

We know this because the process of returning ex-captives back ‘home’ to West Africa didn’t begin until circa the late-1700s.

Whereas, there are manuscripts written in the early-1600s which list Yorubas (by their name Yoruba) among some of the ethnic groups of our region of West Africa.

This manuscript which was written by Ahmed Baba in 1615 is attached below.

The name Yoruba is shown in red highlight (among the other ethnic groups) as can be seen in the original manuscript as well as in the translation embedded below respectively:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/12934148_5117c6d550154217817d7c66b5fa0fe6_jpeg_jpeg2a73d5172c14cf7a7da91ff200688e3e

www.nairaland.com/attachments/12934147_3336ed29985b499e82c4e140b455b9fa_jpeg_jpeg62ecafabb59c692d4ba471597fdf16bb

This translation was prepared by John Hunwick and Fatima Harrak for The Institute of African Studies Rabat, Morocco

Oh, I should add that we know that this manuscript was written by Ahmad Baba in the year 1615 because he himself penned his date as highlighted (in the attached verso) below:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/13082305_6e49d8d129844a578af9272699e1586a_jpeg_jpeg2d5891d724a6428e2c0f4e6898bd60cc

The highlight here literally shows the wording “(the year) one thousand and twenty four (of the Hijrah)”.

When converted from this Hijri “AH” calendar into our Gregorian “AD” calendar; the year 1024 AH falls into the year 1615 AD

The formula “D = 0.9692*H + 622” proves practically useful for this conversion.

In sum, your falsehood that returned-slaves (from all across Africa) are what became known as Yorubas is nothing but a but-hurt lie from a depressed bald-head.


(C) These ex-captives who were of West-African origin and Central African origin were repatriated directly to Sierra-Leone and Liberia.

Some began a new life there, while some decided to go back to their homeland from which they were taken ab-initio.

Nobody was repatriated to south-West Nigeria, bald-head.

A number of Yorubas among the returnees chose to return back to Yorubaland — just as many others who returned to their respective original homeland.

(2) The only ethnic-group whom I know of who couldn’t fight their way to freedom and be returned back to Africa are ……. [take a guess].


They couldn’t think of returning until about 400 years later when some of their descendants decided to tap into the science of Genetics as a guide to finding their way back home. ~ See video. below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxDve0rwQbM

The two attachments below also shows some earlier corroborative confessions made available to Dr. R. E. Bradbury by these people themselves.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/12996709_af6378be36104010b036a2f7ab4096cd_jpeg_jpeg07ca8a3f5b191f4126cdcd6bf2f7faf7

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[s]Please kindly help me locate one of these 5 things:
1) ife empire
2) bight of ife
3) bight of yoruba
4) ife battle against britain
5) ife republic[/s]

(1) “Occupying a key site on the route from the Bend to Ife, Oyo was probably one of the earliest-founded provincial capitals in the Ife empire.”

~ Robin Horton, “Ancient Ife,” (1979), p.115.

(2) A ”bight” is a feature of a water body (Atlantic ocean in this case).

Ife, in contrast, is deep in the Yoruba interior. It is in no way near the Atlantic coast.

How could the 1400s Portuguese then have named a part of the Atlantic Ocean (the bight) after it?

You see your life? See how you embarrassed yourself, family and friends.

(3) Yoruba is not one kingdom. It is a land of free-borns, where each of its many kingdoms has got some sovereignty.

As such, the bight could not have been named after a land as a whole. It was named after one of the two major polities near the coast — particularly the one which the Portuguese first had trade relations with.

Of the two major kingdoms near the coast in the late 1400s when the Portuguese first arrived, only Benin kingdom was willing to sell its people. The bight was thus named after that kingdom whom they knew.

*It wasn’t until in the 1520s before Benin embargoed the sale of its men (allowing only women) due to fear of depopulation of able-bodied men.

(4) First of all, Britain didn’t have any fight with Benin. It was a punishment, not a fight. It is called a “punitive expedition” for a reason. A punishment in relation to which Ovoramwen recanted and trembled in court.

Imaging “canning” a child as a punitive measure for mis-behaviors, and then the child suddenly turning around to say s(he) had a fight with you. No be juju be that?

There was no reason to punish Ife, hence no such expedition happened there. Instead, they helped to end the ongoing wars within Yorubaland.

(5) The country called Benin Republic did not take its name from Benin kingdom. Neither does it relate to Benin kingdom.

The country’s former name was “Dahomey” — a name which doesn’t reflect the diverse ethnicities in the country.

The name “Benin” (after the bight which the country sits on) was then settled for due to its neutrality.

“In the late 19th century French colonizers making inroads from the coastal region into the interior borrowed the name of the defeated Dahomey kingdom for the entire territory that is now Benin; the current name derives from the Bight of Benin”

~ https://www.britannica.com/place/Benin

In contrast, an entire group of people in today’s Togo, have insisted to be known by the name IFE. Yes, it is the “Ife” of present Nigeria they want to be associated with.

Yoruba language is being spoken in Benin Republic. Tell me where (outside of Edo state) Bini language is beinig spoken.

Peace!