Gradually men are becoming hypergamous. Confirm

Goodluck.

Even Pansophist Don confuse

pansophist:
Gradually men are becoming hypergamous. Confirm

How?
This is posted for a girl. A high-achieving girl seeking an equally high-achieving guy

Tobbit:
Even Pansophist Don confuse

CanadaOrBust:


How?
This is posted for a girl. A high-achieving girl seeking an equally high-achieving guy

I know where you can find such men...But before telling you, you need to tell;

What does the high achieving girl do for a living exactly?
How old is the high achieving girl?
Is she a first class/soon to be Phd?
The rest questions I want to ask, I can find the answers if I glance through the high achieving girl’s pictures...So kindly upload a picture!

GeneralPula:




I know where you can find such men...But before telling you, you need to tell;

What does the high achieving girl do for a living exactly?
How old is the high achieving girl?
Is she a first class/soon to be Phd?
The rest questions I want to ask, I can find the answers if I glance through the high achieving girl’s pictures...So kindly upload a picture!

Please read the post. All your questions are answered there. She is 25. She has 1st class, a masters, and has been accepted for Ph.D. She makes enough to sustain herself - does not need a man’s money at all.
Please be reasonable - pics will be privately exchanged once connections are established

This girl don't like peace of mind ooo...only interested in the guy's ambitions.... Even dou its not about his money...

Sh sounds to me like someone who will clearly define boundaries concerning work, domestic chores, sex timetable, money usuage, and will b soo open to divorce at the slightest provocations....

If sh is so rare and in highest of demand with all her paper qualification and personal attributes, sh for don get very serious man...

Gals fail to understand that men's priority in marriage is ' peace of mind' ...

I am single, but I won't dare cast a hook on her...

I know this type

CanadaOrBust:


Please read the post. All your questions are answered there. She is 25. She has 1st class, a masters, and has been accepted for Ph.D. She makes enough to sustain herself - does not need a man’s money at all.
Please be reasonable - pics will be privately exchanged once connections are established

If you go to a dating site, won’t you put up a picture on your profile?
Seeing a pic before any form of connections is a goal..

CanadaOrBust:
High-achieving beautiful 25-year-old first-class graduate.
Soon-to-be Ph.D student, down to earth, great cook, great family, no drama, and absolutely no baggage. Would like to start having kids immediately.
Igbo, but very fluent in Yoruba.

Would like an ambitious, high-achieving man to build together. Preferably someone planning to relocate or already overseas (US, Canada, Netherlands, UK, and such).

If you are such a man please reply on this thread, dm, or email oluchi@mail.com.
Thanks.

You mentioned all these degrees that is secondary to a man of the calibre that you are looking for.
What men of this level require are
Are you feminine. Beautiful. Fit and a good body. Take care of a home. Virgin or low sex count. Not a feminist. Not have a damaged mind and pair bonding. Not argumentative. Cooperative.

All you say is i'm a masters. I'm a phd. When will women realise that men like dangote dont value those things as much as women think.
If a woman has a phd and a 5million per month job but lacks majority of the attributes of femininty and has slept around like a monkey. Then she will only be a concubine not a wife

bigpicture001:
This girl don't like peace of mind ooo...only interested in the guy's ambitions.... Even dou its not about his money...

Sh sounds to me like someone who will clearly define boundaries concerning work, domestic chores, sex timetable, money usuage, and will b soo open to divorce at the slightest provocations....

If sh is so rare and in highest of demand with all her paper qualification and personal attributes, sh for don get very serious man...

Gals fail to understand that men's priority in marriage is ' peace of mind' ...

I am single, but I won't dare cast a hook on her...

I know this type

WRONG!
She’s highly goal oriented and doesn’t socialize much. And you miss the down-to-earth part - a total home body. With your attitude you honestly won’t fit. You need to be an optimistic go-getter, which you clearly are not.

GeneralPula:


If you go to a dating site, won’t you put up a picture on your profile?
Seeing a pic before any form of connections is a goal..

That’s why she didn’t go to a dating site. And, in case you didn’t notice, she didn’t post this herself

CanadaOrBust:


WRONG!
She’s highly goal oriented and doesn’t socialize much. And you miss the down-to-earth part - a total home body. With your attitude you honestly won’t fit. You need to be an optimistic go-getter, which you clearly are not.

Babe no blame me o....I just recently ended with a very high achieving result oriented go getter..who lives a very astonishing simple life with almost no friends...sh also hates drama..and love men like this too...

At first I thought sh is d same person writing this, but sh isn't after a PHD at least for now.....sh grew albeit unknowingly, into someone who likes to dictate what sh likes and expect you to fall in line ..sh is also very down to earth..but like to grade ppl by their achievements...

Sh thinks sh loves peace of mind, but intact loves high achievers..sh doesn't get emotional. also very hardworking. so no blame me.did I mention that sh is a proud feminist..?

Now you shld know am speaking from experience. There is more to life than just life achievements...it doesn't guarantee happiness...

Leme take it DAT you didn't do a very good presentation for her....

ibkonekt:

You mentioned all these degrees that is secondary to a man of the calibre that you are looking for.
What men of this level require are
Are you feminine. Beautiful. Fit and a good body. Take care of a home. Virgin or low sex count. Not a feminist. Not have a damaged mind and pair bonding. Not argumentative. Cooperative.

All you say is i'm a masters. I'm a phd. When will women realise that men like dangote dont value those things as much as women think.
If a woman has a phd and a 5million per month job but lacks majority of the attributes of femininty and has slept around like a monkey. Then she will only be a concubine not a wife

WRONG!
There are ladies who have all the qualities you mentioned, plus are virgins, and yet not married in their 40’s. While there are girls who sleep around yet easily marry good men.

Also you fail to notice she doesn’t want Dangote. She wants someone to build with and raise a family with

bigpicture001:


Babe no blame me o....I just recently ended with a very high achieving result oriented go getter..who lives a very astonishing simple life with almost no friends...sh also hates drama..and love men like this too...

At first I thought sh is d same person writing this, but sh isn't after a PHD at least for now.....sh grew albeit unknowingly, into someone who likes to dictate what sh likes and expect you to fall in line ..sh is also very down to earth..but like to grade ppl by their achievements...

Sh thinks sh loves peace of mind, but intact loves high achievers..sh doesn't get emotional. also very hardworking. so no blame me.did I mention that sh is a proud feminist..?

Now you shld know am speaking from experience. There is more to life than just life achievements...it doesn't guarantee happiness....

This person is the furthest thing from a feminist. She is infact a serious submissive - needs to be dominated, and very feminine. But also also ambitious and goal-oriented - part of why she got 1st class

CanadaOrBust:


This person is the furthest thing from a feminist. She is infact a serious submissive - needs to be dominated, and very feminine. But also also ambitious and goal-oriented - part of why she got 1st class

Mine too was a first classer

bigpicture001:


Mine too was a first classer

This one is RARE indeed! Book smart plus common sense plus humilty (naturally submissive, not fake). A rare combination indeed

Preferably someone planning to relocate or already overseas (US, Canada, Netherlands, UK, and such).

Hmmmm. In this age of feminism? This is a loaded gun. I'll rather get screwed by someone I met abroad than someone I used my own hands to pick here. Just kidding though. Nobody's screwing me. Goodluck to the lady.

CanadaOrBust:


WRONG!
There are ladies who have all the qualities you mentioned, plus are virgins, and yet not married in their 40’s. While there are girls who sleep around yet easily marry good men.

Also you fail to notice she doesn’t want Dangote. She wants someone to build with and raise a family with

What is your point. Don't quote the exception and try to negate the argument being made. There are ladies (yes) it doesnt change the point made. Majority falls into my prior analysis.
Its a rarity to see ladies that have been through life at age 40..degrees..etc they usually have slept around...become stubborn...argumentative...masculine...rough..this is the majority.all your assessments focus on the minority which MAY be about 10% or 5%. Lets also no forget the 95% that are more.
She wants a high achieving man. How will a woman vet a high achieving man that wants to move to canada...thats right! Its money and mindset. These code word for wanting to build a high value man is female chamelon tactics. She wants a rich guy period. He really doesnt need to build with you at that point because he has already built his empire and you as a woman are being absorbed into it.
It would be genuine to get a normal average guy and build that man up. Rather than a high achieving man. She just wants a rich man that can provide for her lifestyle period

ibkonekt:

What is your point. Don't quote the exception and try to negate the argument being made. There are ladies (yes) it doesnt change the point made. Majority falls into my prior analysis.
Its a rarity to see ladies that have been through life at age 40..degrees..etc they usually have slept around...become stubborn...argumentative...masculine...rough..this is the majority.all your assessments focus on the minority which MAY be about 10% or 5%. Lets also no forget the 95% that are more.
She wants a high achieving man. How will a woman vet a high achieving man that wants to move to canada...thats right! Its money and mindset. These code word for wanting to build a high value man is female chamelon tactics. She wants a rich guy period. He really doesnt need to build with you at that point because he has already built his empire and you as a woman are being absorbed into it.
It would be genuine to get a normal average guy and build that man up. Rather than a high achieving man. She just wants a rich man that can provide for her lifestyle period

You can’t be further from the truth. I know this lady, you don’t. She wants an ambitious guy going places, not an already-made guy. A guy who will complement her and dominate her (she’s a submissive).

Your 95% thing is not true. “Good guys finish last” does not apply to only men. Many very decent girls stay unmarried because they are too decent to be aggressive or to flaunt themselves!

Whatever people that do not fit the bill, are still doing here, is what's causing my confusion. This is someone that knows what she wants. Don't make it a negotiation and be gone already.

Gosh!

ibkonekt:

What is your point. Don't quote the exception and try to negate the argument being made. There are ladies (yes) it doesnt change the point made. Majority falls into my prior analysis.
Its a rarity to see ladies that have been through life at age 40..degrees..etc they usually have slept around...become stubborn...argumentative...masculine...rough..this is the majority.all your assessments focus on the minority which MAY be about 10% or 5%. Lets also no forget the 95% that are more.
She wants a high achieving man. How will a woman vet a high achieving man that wants to move to canada...thats right! Its money and mindset. These code word for wanting to build a high value man is female chamelon tactics. She wants a rich guy period. He really doesnt need to build with you at that point because he has already built his empire and you as a woman are being absorbed into it.
It would be genuine to get a normal average guy and build that man up. Rather than a high achieving man. She just wants a rich man that can provide for her lifestyle period

She just wants a rich man that can provide for her lifestyle period


This guy. My belle o

SKhanmi:
Preferably someone planning to relocate or already overseas (US, Canada, Netherlands, UK, and such).

Hmmmm. In this age of feminism? This is a loaded gun. I'll rather get screwed by someone I met abroad than someone I used my own hands to pick here. Just kidding though. Nobody's screwing me. Goodluck to the lady.

To each his own. That’s what she wants. She can’t lie just to please you. She wants to leave Nigeria. She won’t pretend otherwise just to sound patriotic

Rocktation:
Whatever people that do not fit the bill, are still doing here, is what's causing my confusion. This is someone that knows what she wants. Don't make it a negotiation and be gone already.

Gosh!

Thaaank Youuu!!

Tobbit:




She just wants a rich man that can provide for her lifestyle period


This guy. My belle o

She has no “lifestyle”. Just study and work. Not even ordinary socialization. That’s why she doesn’t need much money.
I know this person, you don’t. She wants an ambitious guy with a future not some money bags

CanadaOrBust:


She has no “lifestyle”. Just study and work. Not even ordinary socialization. That’s why she doesn’t need much money.
I know this person, you don’t. She wants an ambitious guy with a future not some money bags

That's me but we are building our organisations

I searched and searched for those kinds till the desire for women naturally went away


I know ladies like that and know they are worth it


I wish her well. She should hang out more especially around Webinars conferences, group chats and all. That's where she'll see the materials she seeks. She needs to be implanted in organizations or institutions that's driven by knowledge. Within the faculties of the institutions lies the gem she seeks.



Would have recommended Pansophist but there are just way too much on that brotherly.

Tobbit:




That's me but we are building our organisations

I searched and searched for those kinds till the desire for women naturally went away


I know ladies like that and know they are worth it


I wish her well. She should hang out more especially around Webinars conferences, group chats and all. That's where she'll see the materials she seeks. She needs to be implanted in organizations or institutions that's driven by knowledge. Within the faculties of the institutions lies the gem she seeks.



Would have recommended Pansophist but there are just way too much on that brotherly.

You know how fate can sometimes isolate good people, like they are being saved for something. Hidden diamond. She’s exactly that. Whoever ends up with her will be very lucky indeed

CanadaOrBust:


You know how fate can sometimes isolate good people, like they are being saved for something. Hidden diamond. She’s exactly that. Whoever ends up with her will be very lucky indeed

Tell her to put herself in places where she can easily meet the kind of people that she wants. To catch a fish, you do not go to the jungle. I would have recommended some Facebook groups specifically, but again, this is a public forum, don't want it to be flooded with spam and rendering it ineffective for the few that know what's up. Though, this is what she should do. she should start coaching extracurricular activities, such as yoga, Zumba dance, salsa, etc, most westerners are used to these things (and the upper-class Nigerians), and if they visit Nigeria, they patronize these places. Then she should open an Instagram page to show her craft, and expose herself to people that will find her interesting.

If she doesn't know this dance, she should learn it. She should be willing to pay the price for the thing she wants. It doesn't have to be dance, but the formula is simple, and it's that she should strategize in a way that the kind of people she wants to come to her. When I visit any country, I usually go to places like that and have made friends that way. My Nigerian tailor met his German wife that way, he sews good clothes for ex-pats in Nigeria. SHe should be fine too because what attracts men are the looks at first before they explore if the personality is intact. When I see a fat girl with multiple layers of potbelly and seems like someone who doesn't work on her looks, I just think of the person as irresponsible. Being unhealthy is not something one can blame the economy, Buhari, or whatever convenient external factors.

If she gets money well well, she should frequent high-end eateries, I would recommend Shiro Lagos, a Japanese sushi restaurant in Victoria Island. Every time I go there, I see white folks and super-rich, young, ambitious, entrepreneurial mothafukas that make you wonder if they are Nigerians. If she is fine and can cut eye (being approachable), guys will generally approach her. Well, my guys do go there to find girls, they believe if a woman can afford to go there, then she most likely won't be a leach and will be on their level, guys these days are not interested in financing a leach, guys of such calibre get women easily, they are the top five per cent, so she must be the kind they consider on their level, and I do not mean cash, but the level in a sense that she is everything you describe.

They just want a good woman, not the one that is combative, argumentative and can argue with big grammar because she has a PhD. Men don't care. Men are not women. Her PhD is like a topping, not the crust. A good woman with a ssce is preferable to men that one with a PhD that argues and curse like Patience Ozokwor. Men want peace, it is so simple yet, hard to get from modern educated women, so she should be good as you described. And she should come on nairaland and write, people can tell what kind of person one is by their writeup. Nairaland is a magnet of Nigerians all over the world, I have met incredible guys here. I receive pm daily from all over due to my writeup here, and women usually get even more than men. If she has a fine picture, the better.

If after she has done all these and luck didn't show up, mehn, she needs prayers. A white garment celestial church will do the job in washing away all the enemy of progress and village people juju. Goodluck to her

Tobbit:


Would have recommended Pansophist but there are just way too much on that brotherly.

Why me though? just curious