The moment a couple get married, “womb watchers” begin to look out for the wife’s tummy and some insensitive bunch will even go ahead to ask her when she wants to take in for her husband; not minding her state of mind at the moment.

What these people fail to realize is that some newlyweds deliberately put a hold on childbearing for reasons best known to them, while some may actually be having difficulties with taking in.

Most of the blame is hinged on the woman because, she’s the one that bears the burden of carrying a child (or, children) in her womb.

Sometimes, families mount undue pressure on the woman to take in for their son or, she may be termed as a witch that ate all of her children.

Some will even go ahead to tag the woman as a man because, saying “two men can’t live in one house”.

Time and chance happens to everything in life and, everyone can’t tread the same path. For newlyweds, its a different ball game because they have to deal with pressures from every side.

The only thing that can keep them together is if they decide not to let what outsiders say about their predicament get to them.

In the event that a couple is yet to bear their own children, they can try out several options like IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), artificial insemination, legal adoption amongst others. Both parties have to be in agreement before this can eventually pull through.

While waiting to get pregnant, awaiting couples should first learn to shut their ears to distractions and naysayers because, truth is, their opinion doesn’t and will never matter.

They should stand with, by and for each other at all times; regardless of what’s going on. They should love each other and treat each other kindly; even on the days when they don’t feel like it.

Doing this will help them strengthen the bond of love that they share. This is because couples go through hell while trying to conceive and, in most cases, their attempts flop.

They have to do several IVF procedures and, most of the time, it doesn’t pull through. Tension everywhere.

Hopes lost. And, sometimes when they eventually manage to conceive, they miscarry the pregnancy! Consequently making the whole process a turmoil for them.

The couple in this picture – (Mr Tosin and Mrs Tomike Adeoye) got married in 2019 and, two years after, they’re expecting their first child together.

Nollywood actress, Kemi Akindoju-Fregene and, her husband, Gbugbemi Fregene, got married mid 2018 and, just last month, they welcomed their first child after 3 years.

Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington and, her music superstar husband, Banky Wellington, got married in November 2017 and, on 22nd January 2021, they welcomed their first child together after almost 4 years of waiting.

These couples obviously must’ve had the worst of times while waiting for children to come; not to forget the constant bashing they got from both inside and outside sources.

People don’t bother anymore what couples go through whole expecting children and, it makes no sense that they throw tantrums at them at every given opportunity.

Childbearing is a thing of joy to be experienced but, if it isn’t happening early for you, you don’t need to worry yourself to death.

Try out several other conception methods and, if you and your partner are cool with it, go ahead and adopt a baby.

Spend time with your partner and keep reminding each other of the love you share. Buy each other gifts and speak kindly to each other; no matter how tensed or worked up you are.

This will create a warm, serene and enabling environment for the love you both share to grow stronger and for your body systems to be more calmer and stable.

Stress and anxiety, most of the time, can lead to increased chances of infertility. When your mind is at peace and your body, at rest, “THINGS WILL HAPPEN!”

Most importantly, pray with and for your partner ALL the time. Invite God into the situation and, let him work things out for you.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/04/18/waiting-for-conception-the-travails-of-couples-in-the-hands-of-womb-watchers/

Don't live to please the society.



The FUTURE is FEMALE

I guess I rushed in here ... So I guess I will just have to say...

Different strokes for different folks .

The same kids some are trying hard to have are the same kids that some are flushing down the toilet

It's not new. that's y most men score goals before going to d Alter. to avoid monitoring spirit

hmm

wahala be like love

Nigerians sabi do busybodi for other people matter!

Hmmm, I can relate.

If you care so much about opinions of other people about your doings, how can you not be unhappy?

saphiere:
Don't live to please the society.



The FUTURE is FEMALE

Hope you won't make your future husband wait too long.

Nice epistle
I love it

This matter is the biggest problem for newlyweds, they can't even plan their lives together because society gives them no breathing space for child bearing.

NOTED

May Almighty Allah make it easy for everyone trying to conceive

Inasmuch as it is wrong for womb watchers to monitor the fertility of new couples, the truth remains that as soon as you marry a woman, you want all your efforts to yield results.

Even you as the husband expect results. You may be knacking before marriage without expecting children but as soon as you get married, all those seeds you are sowing is expected to germinate.


Even she wants to take in to show that there are still children in her womb, despite countless abortions.

Finally, no one watches wombs as mothers of husbands or that mama Kazeem in compounds. Even if Na one hour belle, they can tell.

binarymachine:
The moment a couple get married, “womb watchers” begin to look out for the wife’s tummy and some insensitive bunch will even go ahead to ask her when she wants to take in for her husband; not minding her state of mind at the moment.

What these people fail to realize is that some newlyweds deliberately put a hold on childbearing for reasons best known to them, while some may actually be having difficulties with taking in.

Most of the blame is hinged on the woman because, she’s the one that bears the burden of carrying a child (or, children) in her womb.

Sometimes, families mount undue pressure on the woman to take in for their son or, she may be termed as a witch that ate all of her children.

Some will even go ahead to tag the woman as a man because, saying “two men can’t live in one house”.

Time and chance happens to everything in life and, everyone can’t tread the same path. For newlyweds, its a different ball game because they have to deal with pressures from every side.

The only thing that can keep them together is if they decide not to let what outsiders say about their predicament get to them.

In the event that a couple is yet to bear their own children, they can try out several options like IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), artificial insemination, legal adoption amongst others. Both parties have to be in agreement before this can eventually pull through.

While waiting to get pregnant, awaiting couples should first learn to shut their ears to distractions and naysayers because, truth is, their opinion doesn’t and will never matter.

They should stand with, by and for each other at all times; regardless of what’s going on. They should love each other and treat each other kindly; even on the days when they don’t feel like it.

Doing this will help them strengthen the bond of love that they share. This is because couples go through hell while trying to conceive and, in most cases, their attempts flop.

They have to do several IVF procedures and, most of the time, it doesn’t pull through. Tension everywhere.

Hopes lost. And, sometimes when they eventually manage to conceive, they miscarry the pregnancy! Consequently making the whole process a turmoil for them.

The couple in this picture – (Mr Tosin and Mrs Tomike Adeoye) got married in 2019 and, two years after, they’re expecting their first child together.

Nollywood actress, Kemi Akindoju-Fregene and, her husband, Gbugbemi Fregene, got married mid 2018 and, just last month, they welcomed their first child after 3 years.

Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington and, her music superstar husband, Banky Wellington, got married in November 2017 and, on 22nd January 2021, they welcomed their first child together after almost 4 years of waiting.

These couples obviously must’ve had the worst of times while waiting for children to come; not to forget the constant bashing they got from both inside and outside sources.

People don’t bother anymore what couples go through whole expecting children and, it makes no sense that they throw tantrums at them at every given opportunity.

Childbearing is a thing of joy to be experienced but, if it isn’t happening early for you, you don’t need to worry yourself to death.

Try out several other conception methods and, if you and your partner are cool with it, go ahead and adopt a baby.

Spend time with your partner and keep reminding each other of the love you share. Buy each other gifts and speak kindly to each other; no matter how tensed or worked up you are.

This will create a warm, serene and enabling environment for the love you both share to grow stronger and for your body systems to be more calmer and stable.

Stress and anxiety, most of the time, can lead to increased chances of infertility. When your mind is at peace and your body, at rest, “THINGS WILL HAPPEN!”

Most importantly, pray with and for your partner ALL the time. Invite God into the situation and, let him work things out for you.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/04/18/waiting-for-conception-the-travails-of-couples-in-the-hands-of-womb-watchers/

make your case IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), artificial insemination, legal adoption without sensationalism

The FUTURE is FEMALE[/quote]

Where? I can't see it.

Draslo:


Hope you won't make your future husband wait too long.

Am I child giver?

It is just the way Nigerians behave very mischievous people.

Akwuna mechaa Abortion ózaba Chinenyenwa

Do you want people to expect new couples not to conceive?
It's one thing to expect new couples to conceive and another thing to pressurize them.

Very anyhow tradition made norm

Waiting on God's time is the best

Blame the husband. He has the right to protect his family from externalities and whoever tried that with them should be cut off.

saphiere:
Don't live to please the society.



The FUTURE is FEMALE

That future isn't captured in Bible prophecy.
I hope you won't begin a project that will consume you and your bandwagon of idle tattlers.
The Most High does not joke with the Genesis blueprints.

God's time is the best

This is why some wives to be get pregnant out of wedlock just to be sure her organs are working.

Buy a baby cloth depending on your choice boy or girl. hang it in your room begin to speak to it every day. Use your faith. Your baby will soon come.

Wtf is a womb watcher..na joblessness dey cause study roles like this

binarymachine:
The moment a couple get married, “womb watchers” begin to look out for the wife’s tummy and some insensitive bunch will even go ahead to ask her when she wants to take in for her husband; not minding her state of mind at the moment.

What these people fail to realize is that some newlyweds deliberately put a hold on childbearing for reasons best known to them, while some may actually be having difficulties with taking in.

Most of the blame is hinged on the woman because, she’s the one that bears the burden of carrying a child (or, children) in her womb.

Sometimes, families mount undue pressure on the woman to take in for their son or, she may be termed as a witch that ate all of her children.

Some will even go ahead to tag the woman as a man because, saying “two men can’t live in one house”.

Time and chance happens to everything in life and, everyone can’t tread the same path. For newlyweds, its a different ball game because they have to deal with pressures from every side.

The only thing that can keep them together is if they decide not to let what outsiders say about their predicament get to them.

In the event that a couple is yet to bear their own children, they can try out several options like IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), artificial insemination, legal adoption amongst others. Both parties have to be in agreement before this can eventually pull through.

While waiting to get pregnant, awaiting couples should first learn to shut their ears to distractions and naysayers because, truth is, their opinion doesn’t and will never matter.

They should stand with, by and for each other at all times; regardless of what’s going on. They should love each other and treat each other kindly; even on the days when they don’t feel like it.

Doing this will help them strengthen the bond of love that they share. This is because couples go through hell while trying to conceive and, in most cases, their attempts flop.

They have to do several IVF procedures and, most of the time, it doesn’t pull through. Tension everywhere.

Hopes lost. And, sometimes when they eventually manage to conceive, they miscarry the pregnancy! Consequently making the whole process a turmoil for them.

The couple in this picture – (Mr Tosin and Mrs Tomike Adeoye) got married in 2019 and, two years after, they’re expecting their first child together.

Nollywood actress, Kemi Akindoju-Fregene and, her husband, Gbugbemi Fregene, got married mid 2018 and, just last month, they welcomed their first child after 3 years.

Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington and, her music superstar husband, Banky Wellington, got married in November 2017 and, on 22nd January 2021, they welcomed their first child together after almost 4 years of waiting.

These couples obviously must’ve had the worst of times while waiting for children to come; not to forget the constant bashing they got from both inside and outside sources.

People don’t bother anymore what couples go through whole expecting children and, it makes no sense that they throw tantrums at them at every given opportunity.

Childbearing is a thing of joy to be experienced but, if it isn’t happening early for you, you don’t need to worry yourself to death.

Try out several other conception methods and, if you and your partner are cool with it, go ahead and adopt a baby.

Spend time with your partner and keep reminding each other of the love you share. Buy each other gifts and speak kindly to each other; no matter how tensed or worked up you are.

This will create a warm, serene and enabling environment for the love you both share to grow stronger and for your body systems to be more calmer and stable.

Stress and anxiety, most of the time, can lead to increased chances of infertility. When your mind is at peace and your body, at rest, “THINGS WILL HAPPEN!”

Most importantly, pray with and for your partner ALL the time. Invite God into the situation and, let him work things out for you.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/04/18/waiting-for-conception-the-travails-of-couples-in-the-hands-of-womb-watchers/

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