Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I hope you are all good?i’m making this new account to share what I’m going through in my relationship...I feel we are all brothers and we can all talk things out.
I’ve being in relationship with this girl for more than a year now and I’m actually planning to marry her...an issue came up sometimes last week about her talking to her ex everyday...they chat every now and then...the whole thing just started this year...she wasn’t even talking to him when we start dating..so this year they start chatting heavily and it’s really giving me alot of concern...so we had an issue over this...and I ask her why would she be chatting with her ex in a flirty way...saying different kind of dirty things and sending different kind of stickers to themselves..so I told her I’m not comfortable with all this...she have to rid of that..she said okay she’s gonna do as I say...,so to cut the long story short...she’s having an issue with her bank and I decide to follow her..so when we get to the bank I had to take her phone and show the bank customer care to know where the problem is..not long the guy messaged entered again...I have to give her the phone back and when I got the phone back she had put an Face ID on it..so I was just surprised what’s going on..I was very angry and sad..so I just decide that once we get home I’m gonna take my bath and just go out cuz I don’t want any further problems..cuz she stays with me for now due to some issue she’s having in her house..she then went further and hide the key..so I ask her to give me the key...I tried getting the key from her and the next thing that landed on my face was a big dirty slap...I had to calm down cus I don’t beat or touch ladies..she slapped me almost 3 times..and even bite me...I told her I need to go out and eat cuz I’m empty..she was only calling me different kind of names..I’m an animal,I’m useless...not minding all what have done for her and she was still chatting with that ex in my face when we are still having this argument,..I just struggled with the key and just have to leave the house yesternight..and the next thing I see was that she was crying and kneeling down begging...and would still repeat it again...so I have to leave the house..but sincerely I really don’t know what to do..cuz her mom keep calling me and begging me to settle things with her...and I really don’t want to do that anymore..nairalanders please I need your advice..don’t mind my Grammars..Thanks in advance..no insult please...all I need is your advice.

Dear Matins001,



What you're currently exhibiting in this your toxic relationship is known as "Chronic Simping Syndrome"... (CSS)

You've been manipulated to the point that you don't have a mind of your own and this character is synonymous with one Nollywood "Tony Umez"

A girl you're yet to get married to is showing you this early signs of cheating and violence and you wanna continue? Bro, for Heaven's sake, your girlfriend is not into you like the way she's into her Ex.... And trust me, it won't take long for her Ex to "thrust" her thoroughly in bed week in week out.

I will advise you to call off this abusive and disrespectful relationship regardless of what her mother or anyone says to Avoid "SEE FINISH"

red flag 000001
I’ve being in relationship with this girl for more than a year now and I’m actually planning to marry her...an issue came up sometimes last week about her talking to her ex everyday...they chat every now and then.

if you get brain
quietly let her go if she ask for a reason tell her you dont share a woman with another man

The signs were there right in your face, you still insisted that you must stay to ka'bukun.

Now that you've ka'bukun and got abused physically and verbally, you're still finding advice?

Kini problem e gan?

Is she the only woman in the world or is it Jaruma that is doing you?

Weak men everywhere,what's going on??If you were my junior bro and you did not throw out her things and end that useless thing you call a relationship,i would have come over and give you factory reset slaps.Omo to slap you now dey hungry me sef

hmm...this matter na serious matter oo...but guy sometimes u have to know yourself more than heaven knows you...just follow whats in your heart to avoid regret in future....

So you want a titled man like me to believe that this your story really happened? Dem no dey respect elders for your village?

I don't know if I should regard you a weak guy or a gentleman How can your stand like Dundee and allow a lady to slap you 3x make I no talk but na highest see finish.

Mind you, stop fooling yourself over the girl, she is just with your for the what she's benefiting from you. Look for a way to evict her from your apartment within 3 days otherwise you will blame yourself. Forget her mother's call, all na wash. Pack her load out, change your apartment key and block her number/SM accounts.

Leave her ..


pls marry her ..

Rip pls don't cry be a man


Shes a witch arrest her


N:B.
I did not read but pls kindly pick one from the above that suit your problem

Are you sure you don't know what to do? You are just a side guy, I think she and her ex is back together already and she is just keeping you for a reason best known to her. For her to raise her filthy hands on you shows she lack manners, respect and not a trait of a good woman. Don't listen to her and her mother because I believe she will repeat same thing again, especially when her ex is in the picture.

Op you better run for your life before is too late, there are many ladies out there. How can a lady raise hands on a man? She is not even scared that a man and a woman strength and power are far different. One blow from you now, she will faint

Be a man for once and tell her to pack her Ghana must go and leave your house.
You are not even married to her and you are letting her to treat you this way
She will treat you like a simp if you tolerate too much from her

Matins001:
Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I hope you are all good?i’m making this new account to share what I’m going through in my relationship...I feel we are all brothers and we can all talk things out.
I’ve being in relationship with this girl for more than a year now and I’m actually planning to marry her...an issue came up sometimes last week about her talking to her ex everyday...they chat every now and then...the whole thing just started this year...she wasn’t even talking to him when we start dating..so this year they start chatting heavily and it’s really giving me alot of concern...so we had an issue over this...and I ask her why would she be chatting with her ex in a flirty way...saying different kind of dirty things and sending different kind of stickers to themselves..so I told her I’m not comfortable with all this...she have to rid of that..she said okay she’s gonna do as I say...,so to cut the long story short...she’s having an issue with her bank and I decide to follow her..so when we get to the bank I had to take her phone and show the bank customer care to know where the problem is..not long the guy messaged entered again...I have to give her the phone back and when I got the phone back she had put an Face ID on it..so I was just surprised what’s going on..I was very angry and sad..so I just decide that once we get home I’m gonna take my bath and just go out cuz I don’t want any further problems..cuz she stays with me for now due to some issue she’s having in her house..she then went further and hide the key..so I ask her to give me the key...I tried getting the key from her and the next thing that landed on my face was a big dirty slap...I had to calm down cus I don’t beat or touch ladies..she slapped me almost 3 times..and even bite me...I told her I need to go out and eat cuz I’m empty..she was only calling me different kind of names..I’m an animal,I’m useless...not minding all what have done for her and she was still chatting with that ex in my face when we are still having this argument,..I just struggled with the key and just have to leave the house yesternight..and the next thing I see was that she was crying and kneeling down begging...and would still repeat it again...so I have to leave the house..but sincerely I really don’t know what to do..cuz her mom keep calling me and begging me to settle things with her...and I really don’t want to do that anymore..nairalanders please I need your advice..don’t mind my Grammars..Thanks in advance..no insult please...all I need is your advice.

First off, how old are you?

Anyway, the one person you should have absolute respect for is YOURSELF, never in your life TOLERATE anyone that makes you feel like shiit, discard them FAST with no apologies.

Never trust a women's tears, you are being used.
End this relationship like YESTERDAY.
You don't owe her Mother anything so bury the weak and flimsy excuse for still being in this toxic relationship with her daughter. If you are still considering this then (no disrespect to you) you are weak and easily manipulated.

This girl won't lift you up, she will only bring you down, better to be alone than be with someone that brings you down. If you love and respect and cherish yourself, then cut off people that don't do same.

PS. She has shown you who is and what she is capable of, is this the kind of person you want to settle for?

See wetin jaruma dey cause

vibre:
So you want a titled man like me to believe that this your story really happened? Dem no dey respect elders for your village?

chief okoro

Your story nor add up.

How can a lady land you three slap because you needed keys to leave your house?


Na so the towtwo dey sweet you?

na wao... lady slap you for your own house. seize key lock you inside. they chat with her ex. you be cow

Matins001:
Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I hope you are all good?i’m making this new account to share what I’m going through in my relationship...I feel we are all brothers and we can all talk things out.
I’ve being in relationship with this girl for more than a year now and I’m actually planning to marry her...an issue came up sometimes last week about her talking to her ex everyday...they chat every now and then...the whole thing just started this year...she wasn’t even talking to him when we start dating..so this year they start chatting heavily and it’s really giving me alot of concern...so we had an issue over this...and I ask her why would she be chatting with her ex in a flirty way...saying different kind of dirty things and sending different kind of stickers to themselves..so I told her I’m not comfortable with all this...she have to rid of that..she said okay she’s gonna do as I say...,so to cut the long story short...she’s having an issue with her bank and I decide to follow her..so when we get to the bank I had to take her phone and show the bank customer care to know where the problem is..not long the guy messaged entered again...I have to give her the phone back and when I got the phone back she had put an Face ID on it..so I was just surprised what’s going on..I was very angry and sad..so I just decide that once we get home I’m gonna take my bath and just go out cuz I don’t want any further problems..cuz she stays with me for now due to some issue she’s having in her house..she then went further and hide the key..so I ask her to give me the key...I tried getting the key from her and the next thing that landed on my face was a big dirty slap...I had to calm down cus I don’t beat or touch ladies..she slapped me almost 3 times..and even bite me...I told her I need to go out and eat cuz I’m empty..she was only calling me different kind of names..I’m an animal,I’m useless...not minding all what have done for her and she was still chatting with that ex in my face when we are still having this argument,..I just struggled with the key and just have to leave the house yesternight..and the next thing I see was that she was crying and kneeling down begging...and would still repeat it again...so I have to leave the house..but sincerely I really don’t know what to do..cuz her mom keep calling me and begging me to settle things with her...and I really don’t want to do that anymore..nairalanders please I need your advice..don’t mind my Grammars..Thanks in advance..no insult please...all I need is your advice.

are you mad ni? how can ur girlfriend give u dirty slap and u did nothing....U dey craz

pryme:


First off, how old are you?

Anyway, the one person you should have absolute respect for is YOURSELF, never in your life TOLERATE anyone that makes you feel like shiit, discard them FAST with no apologies.

Never trust a women's tears, you are being used.
End this relationship like YESTERDAY.
You don't owe her Mother anything so bury the weak and flimsy excuse for still being in this toxic relationship with her daughter. If you are still considering this then (no disrespect to you) you are weak and easily manipulated.

This girl won't lift you up, she will only bring you down, better to be alone than be with someone that brings you down. If you love and respect and cherish yourself, then cut off people that don't do same.

PS. She has shown you who is and what she is capable of, is this the kind of person you want to settle for?

I love your Analysis

Love still dey shack this one,


From your story I can see very clearly that you maybe have severe low self-esteem,

From your write-up, you told her severally to cut off communication with her so called EX and right there under your nose the communication continued, that's Disrespect and it's obvious she has no respect for you, you were always a weakling in her eyes from the beginning.

Some men don't seem to get this, how you start with a woman in the beginning of your courtship will play a big role in conditioning her mind to behave towards you, ... you were probably acting like a weakling around her in the beginning, that's why she has minimum Respect for you,... I can assure you that in the beginning of your courtship with her, if you were the type of man that displayed through your behavior that you are a "no-nonsense" man and won't tolerate certain behavior, believe me, that woman will notice it and condition her mind not to display those certain behavior you hate because she knows you will never tolerate it.

I'll personally raise my Male children to know their Worth and Value as a man and I'll teach them to never ever settle for Less no matter what... This is a Vow I must accomplish.

If You think that Lady will change when you get married to her, I really pity you.

You're seeing the "Red Flags" now and you're forming gentleman, your eyes go soon Clear.

Very simple....JAPA

Here's my advice.
1. Let her go back to her parents house. So that she can enjoy the freedom to chat with her ex and also give u a breath of fresh air to help u know what u really and [b]already benefiting [/b]from this relationship.

2.Give urself a big think. Is she worth living and dying for? Ur answer will let u know the direction u should take in the relationship. Whether to remain or move on.

3. A girl slapping you is a bad omen. I wouldn't spend a day longer with such a person. I can guarantee you that she will use pestle to break your head when you marry her.

I just hope u won't be another sucker.

All the best Bro

guy, fear woman with bad temper oo, they are as deadly as their male counterpart if not more deadly...it’s your decision to make sha

U really dint know what to do.........




Wow......
Ok
Marry her

Wahala

He won't listen to any of the advice above. He can't because he knows what to do but is not man enough to do it. The girl also knows he is weak. He is finished unless luck sends that girl away from him.

I have always believed that for every marriage that turns deadly due to domestic violence, infidelity or abuse there had always been the signs in the courtship stages, which the party decided to ignore or manage.

Matins001:
Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I hope you are all good?i’m making this new account to share what I’m going through in my relationship...I feel we are all brothers and we can all talk things out.
I’ve being in relationship with this girl for more than a year now and I’m actually planning to marry her...an issue came up sometimes last week about her talking to her ex everyday...they chat every now and then...the whole thing just started this year...she wasn’t even talking to him when we start dating..so this year they start chatting heavily and it’s really giving me alot of concern...so we had an issue over this...and I ask her why would she be chatting with her ex in a flirty way...saying different kind of dirty things and sending different kind of stickers to themselves..so I told her I’m not comfortable with all this...she have to rid of that..she said okay she’s gonna do as I say...,so to cut the long story short...she’s having an issue with her bank and I decide to follow her..so when we get to the bank I had to take her phone and show the bank customer care to know where the problem is..not long the guy messaged entered again...I have to give her the phone back and when I got the phone back she had put an Face ID on it..so I was just surprised what’s going on..I was very angry and sad..so I just decide that once we get home I’m gonna take my bath and just go out cuz I don’t want any further problems..cuz she stays with me for now due to some issue she’s having in her house..she then went further and hide the key..so I ask her to give me the key...I tried getting the key from her and the next thing that landed on my face was a big dirty slap...I had to calm down cus I don’t beat or touch ladies..she slapped me almost 3 times..and even bite me...I told her I need to go out and eat cuz I’m empty..she was only calling me different kind of names..I’m an animal,I’m useless...not minding all what have done for her and she was still chatting with that ex in my face when we are still having this argument,..I just struggled with the key and just have to leave the house yesternight..and the next thing I see was that she was crying and kneeling down begging...and would still repeat it again...so I have to leave the house..but sincerely I really don’t know what to do..cuz her mom keep calling me and begging me to settle things with her...and I really don’t want to do that anymore..nairalanders please I need your advice..don’t mind my Grammars..Thanks in advance..no insult please...all I need is your advice.

Hmmmm, you are a typical Obi apiyiwa.



Just ask your brain this question and make sure he gives you an answer.... (100 marks)

1), IF I CAN BE COMPLAINING LIKE THIS IN THIS EARLY MORNING (UZO UTUTU), WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN THE AFTERNOON (AFIFIA) ETC?
NOTE: EVENING NEVER COME, THAT'S IF YOU WAN SEE THE EVENING.


2), OGA IF YOU DEY CHOP FOR RESTAURANT BCOZ SAY YOU LIKE THE FOOD AND LATER YOU DISCOVER SAY THE FOOD WAY YOU LIKE NO DEY AS USUAL. WETIN YOU GO DO?

50 MARKS EACH, DURATION:20MINS.... GOOD LUCK

Op she belongs to the street,send her back to the street.

Guy you are a fool.
A woman slaps you and you did nothing!
As in, you no beat shege commot for her body.
I swear, you dull!

....

Fake story.