I ve been wt her for 4 years now.I love her and she means the world to me.she just wrote her degree exams and asked me to promise that I ll marry her or she ll marry a guy she aledged she met two weeks ago who is willing and able to marry her in the next 4 weeks.The problem is that I m still a young graduate still seaching for job annd she is still 21 years of age.I told her that I would most sincerely wish to sppend the rest of my llife with her but will love we take these things one step at a time.She is serious about her threat annd I don't want to loose her.i ve a feeling she has been seeing this guy ealier than she claimed.Do I promise her marriage or do I allow her to follow her heart annd make the decvisions herself.I love her and she knows that.please what do I do freinds!!!!!!

Forget her, if she's willing to throw away a four year relationship because she's in a rush to get married, then it was not meant to be. Why is she in such a rush though that she's willing to marry someone that she's known for only two weeks?

I agree with PTBNaija. How can you even consider marrying this girl if you suspect that she's seeing someone else too What kind of girl does that to a man that she wants to spend the rest of her life with Something's not right here . . . . . . .

Eiregirl annd ptbnaija thanks for finding out time to reply this post.U just made me feel better!!!!U re certainnly the best!!!!