My brother from another mother.

brownemmanuel43:
Sometimes I just wonder how a man will allow a woman to bring division in the family. I don't just understand the kind of men we have this days, no guts, no boldness to confront a woman.
Imagine living happily with your brother for months or years all of a sudden one useless woman will come and divide the brothers in the name of marriage
I don't blame the woman, I only blame that your simp brother, what were they discussing that could warrant such ranting from her.
I don't know why I no dey jam such idiot women me wey my head no correct u wan come separate me from my blood brother.
No woman born of a woman shall try that nonsense for my side, if u dare try that nonsense na straight to your papa house, I hate nonsense

Nonexistent:
See how vagina people break homes everywhere. This man and his brother have been living peacefully until a woman came into the picture. Now she has come to teach the man how to spend his money, the money she never contributed anything to make. Gld punish that your brother wife.

so your mom,sisters,daughter's,mil,break homes or will break homes everywhere?

If she never talked to you about it, let her alone in her delusion.

Don't talk until she speak a word to enable you confirm her nagging. Be silence for now!. The problem is from your brother and not your sister in-law. Take nitoe!

If he chose to pay that ain't her business! She's a wicked slay queen of a B. Wife

Since you know you are the one paying the rent and not her husband, just chill, do as if you are not aware that she is ranting.
Let her "make mistake" one day and mention it to your presence/Confront you.

What you will do? Look for better cane, flog her buttocks at least 12 strokes then free her.
Nonsense!

Kaeboy:


You married folks who couldn't handle there woman right really struggling hard to make this simping of a thing the standard. No!it's not the standard, it's you that have tolerate what you should not.

Women are like children, you shape them into what you want once they come into your life, while you care for them like you care for a child. They are meant to be handled with both iron and soft hand just like somebody said in the thread. The one that refuse to be calm is not your match.

It's really devilish fighting your husband for paying his brothers rent and all you could do as a husband is stay at her mercy and trying to convince her you're not paying it. To think he's not even paying it.

We didn't grow up see our mothers doing this shitty things.

I dough my coconut for u, may your days be long.
Don't mind all this weakling parading themselves as men, SIMPs that can't control their women. I keep asking how I found d myself in the midst of SIMPs and weaklings, this was not like this back then but some useless boys called themselves married men has really changed it

Hmmmm

wetmenow:
My brother from another mother.

I sight u my blood not all this SIMPs and weaklings

descarado:
This place surely will break some homes.


It's filled with juves, lots of people from broken homes, mostly emotionally unstable people and teenagers not forgetting scammers.

vickydevoka:

It's not a muscle thing. No be by strength brother. Women de wait until she born. If na Igbo Woman untill she born boy.

If all ur siblings get money una no go ever get problem. Buh if one person na dangote n de rest na nothing, wahala go dey.
It happened to my cousin that's y I have this knowledge. So what my rich cousin did was to establish de poor ones to stand, now de are all one. No hatred or quarrell

I still maintain that what we have this days are just SIMPs and weaklings.
Back in the days u hardly see such rubbish and to even marry go dey hungry u, back then it was wives that unites family together but this day wives now separate family all bcs of SIMPs we have that's why women like men that they can easily manipulate emotionally and I'm.not that emotional type that's why I see not myself being manipulated by any woman born by a woman

Exactly.

Mariangeles:
Don't tell her anything.
Just continue to mind your business.
Let the thought continue to torment her mind, since she doesn't want to give herself peace by minding her business.

spinna:
Just casually mention it in conversation..tell her you just came from seeing the landlord.Dont confront her

na omoluabi sense be that ooo. Talk indirectly and let the recipient get the message among the crowd.

brownemmanuel43:

I still maintain that what we have this days are just SIMPs and weaklings.
Back in the days u hardly see such rubbish and to even marry go dey hungry u, back then it was wives that unites family together but this day wives now separate family all bcs of SIMPs we have that's why women like men that they can easily manipulate emotionally and I'm.not that emotional type that's why I see not myself being manipulated by any woman born by a woman

There is this psychology de use that works for them.
The will spot out one of ur problem, n be using it against u all de time. She will be putting up to her husband all de time until her husband start hating her siblings

CountVersailles:
Maybe "confront" is the wrong word to use here, but let me explain.

My brother and I had been sharing an apartment for a few months before he got married. He recently left to take a separate place with his new wife, who I'm friends with. No issues between us. Since my brother left I have been staying in the old apartment alone and paying the rent all my myself. Now, my brother's wife who is quite sensitive about their finances thinks that my brother is still paying for the apartment. This is because he was the one paying before, since he had been staying there for months before I moved in.

Now, I can understand her concerns. The reason she is thinking this is because,
1. I am not working, and she knows. So, she cannot believe I can pay for the apartment which is quite expensive
2. she knows my brother was the only paying before I moved in.

She doesn't realize I have taken over the payment since last two months, and has been nagging my brother to stop paying for the apartment even after he insists he is no longer paying. Maybe, she thinks he's lying to him.

I hate that this is going on. Maybe it's my ego, but I feel like talking to her directly and telling her that her husband is no longer paying for the apartment. Is this something I should do?

Where do you get money from?

vickydevoka:



There is this psychology de use that works for them.
The will spot out one of ur problem, n be using it against u all de time. She will be putting up to her husband all de time until her husband start hating her siblings

I dough my coconut for u, may your days be long.
U see this vagina element, both small and big are always on top of the game or institution called marriage. Once they spot your weakness they will capitalize on it and use it against u until u give up and that's where strong and tough men comes in.
Its only weakling and SIMPs that always succumb to their demands and also too emotional men too.
I have handled women both in work place and relationship and I brought them on their kneels

Collyno82:
show her how you're making money,,, efaihear. Na your type day dey use< for your family because of woman(wife) mtcheew

Handling family matters is more than man and woman.
Moreover, I advised that he "devise a means of flaunting or showing her that he makes money'

oluwafreshkid:

Handling family matters is more than man and woman.
Moreover, I advised that he "devise a means of flaunting or showing her that he makes money'

The young man Has nothing to prove to any godamn woman, is she his mother that she will be answerable to.
Where has our manliness gone to? How could u tell the young man to flaunt his hard earned money to a woman that only came to bring division in the family, that's aren't nonsense.
I don't celebrate mediocrity not now and in my next world.

BetBuilder365:


yeye, what is maybe? you don't even know the person.

Do you?

peak115:



So that what will happen guy? Is he/she giving her bribe. Someone said he/she is not working and you want him/her to be dashing out money. Na wa for youoooo

Then the problem will continue, for you cannot keep paying for an expensive rent and you say you are jobless and expect his brother's wife to not believe her husband his still responsible for the rent and to be free from her complaints he just need to prove he is working or have a business or was given money by someone either his brother to confirm her suspicion or another person asides his brother to pay for the rent. Don't misjudge me, in reality he has nothing to prove to her but for the sake of peace he needs to prove he is independent and not a leech to his brother so she can focus her attention elsewhere.

[quote author=Richy4 post=101448256][/quote]If he can pay for an expensive rent what will a few cheap gifts cost him?

spinna:
Just casually mention it in conversation..tell her you just came from seeing the landlord.Dont confront her

With this reply she might also think so her husband have given him money to pay the landlord. Until she is convinced he has a means of income or someone who helps him out to pay his rent before she believes it is not her husband and from my observations she just want to be sure if it's her husband or not paying the rent and she might be also be Co funding things with her husband that is why she is taking it personal.

niyiduke01:
My piece of Advice.....1.How did you know that she has been nagging about your brother paying the rent..If it's your brother that told you, fine. Then you called everybody together I mean the 3 people involved. Explain to her and show the receipt of the last payment with your name written on it.Then you will save everybody a lot of headache.PEACE.

and what is wrong with a brother paying for his blood brother's rent that is not yet working if i may ask? the truth is that your brother married a bad woman and this simply explains an adage in igbo language, umunwanyi erika mana ezi nwanyi di uko...me i see notin wrong in one payin his brother's rent.

As long as she doesn't come to discuss such matter with you just ignore her and let her believe whatever she wants.

bukatyne:

My dear, I tire for this place. I definitely didn't grow up like these sadists.

I don't see this as a big deal, oga ignore the woman and focus on your life, let her be the one to confront you on that, this kind of nonsense shouldn't be bothering you na nawa o

spinna:
Just casually mention it in conversation..tell her you just came from seeing the landlord.Dont confront her

You are smart brother

Kaeboy:


You married folks who couldn't handle there woman right really struggling hard to make this simping of a thing the standard. No!it's not the standard, it's you that have tolerate what you should not.

Women are like children, you shape them into what you want once they come into your life, while you care for them like you care for a child. They are meant to be handled with both iron and soft hand just like somebody said in the thread. The one that refuse to be calm is not your match.

It's really devilish fighting your husband for paying his brothers rent and all you could do as a husband is stay at her mercy and trying to convince her you're not paying it. To think he's not even paying it.

We didn't grow up see our mothers doing this shitty things.

Women basically run on the same software. Where u see an exception is when d man is a firm man and puts his foot down by ensuring she plays by HIS laid down rules.

Just like u rightly posited, d average woman reason like a child. You "didn't grow up to see ur mothers doing these bs" because ur fathers didn't let them.
If they had slacked, they (mothers) would've done d same "shitty thing" their dotas are doing presently.

brownemmanuel43:

U are absolutely right my brother, its just painful that we only have few men with balls, majority of men this days na weakling and SIMPs all over. Bcs no woman born of a woman dare try that rubbish around me

Hehehehe....person marry woman e still dey ask where devil dey stay!

Brozz, just pray u marry d wan wey go agree with ur vision, or else na o.y.o.

if u unluckily marry another person bone, she nor mind cooking 'vegetable' for u as d last resort just to dominate u.

descarado:

My dear, I tire for this place. I definitely didn't grow up like these sadists.

NL would make for a good social experiment.

akanbiaa:
With this reply she might also think so her husband have given him money to pay the landlord. Until she is convinced he has a means of income or someone who helps him out to pay his rent before she believes it is not her husband and from my observations she just want to be sure if it's her husband or not paying the rent and she might be also be Co funding things with her husband that is why she is taking it personal.

Congratulations, welcome to the world of simps

SweetCunt97:
Baba free the lady jarey. That's her own business.

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i agree. i will like to enjoy u too this friday...can i sent taxi to carrry u to my flat please?