Ginaz:


His bro said he has left town. He won’t talk to me, I’ve been calling for days now .

Give him time probably two days off and call with an unknown number..

cayorday89:

You are right, I was a victim, how she changed after a while I can't explain till today, reason why I asked Ginaz what she was scared of losing, they always feel they will be taking for granted but it's all in their head.. Too much romantic movies I guess despite telling her situations movie actors and actresses are is far from what they portray in movies..

nah.. it has nothing to do with romantic movies. Women are naturally built to be highly picky of whom they want. Most times, if you find out that which they want, it may not be anything that make sense to you.

For them, it often goes beyond being a responsible guy with this or that. You have all the niceness and responsible qualities and still not be what they want as she has clearly indicated.

Now, another guy might not be that responsible but have one thing she wants and she would choose that one over the responsible nice guy. It is how they are wired.

have a girl ever told you that she can't date someone that is does not beat her? lol... bros, it is crazy and you can never be sure of what they want at any given time because, if their emotion is not in sync with you, there is nothing you can do about it.

Ginaz:


He was in a relationship at that time .

You see. There are two things involved. It is either she had his eyes on you from the beginning or along the line he developed feeling for you after his failed relationships

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The guy is only good for friendship with you and not for relationship because he never attract you in that way If you know what I meant. This is for guys. No matter how good you are to a lady if you never build that romantic attraction, you will never get her.

molybdenum0012:


You see. There are two things involved. It is either she had his eyes on you from the beginning or along the line he developed feeling for you after his failed relationships

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The guy is only good for friendship with you and not for relationship because he never attract you in that way If you know what I meant. This is for guys. No matter how good you are to a lady if you never build that romantic attraction, you will never get her.

Lol, I understand what you mean. But he’s a really handsome guy o , he works out too and hairy , beard gang which I do tease him that someday I will disappear his beards. I don’t understand myself too, maybe I need time to think things through.

Thanks for your input.

Ginaz:


Lol, I understand what you mean. But he’s a really handsome guy o , he works out too and hairy , beard gang which I do tease him that someday I will disappear his beards. I don’t understand myself too, maybe I need time to think things through.

Thanks for your input.

Smiles. I don't mean physical attraction only. Mind too is important. Infact it is the most important. If he had worked on your mind, you will never turn him down, in fact you would pray day and night that he asks you out.

Women love mind game. If he combines that with all the good qualities you mentioned above, we will not even be here talking about it.

Now, I think you should let him be and move on. Don't force it. It is not your faulty. He fails to make you fall in love with him. That's his job, not yours.

I'm sure he would have invest lots of money and most important, emotions and attention for you all those years ,you says lots of positive about me but you can't date him why ? the truth is that woman don't love simps ,yes that's guy is a simps that's why you can't date him
Friendzone for six years lol
Imagine if you're being given free foodstuffs from the government for six years and , now you.have to start paying for it ,yes you will feel awkward and be resentful ,that's it ,she is been getting his attention ,time and and many more and she knows she will now be reciprocating with respecting ,taking care of the guy and having sex with him potentially,that's why she can't date the simp ,don't let any hoes friendzone you , STRICTLY REDPILL

Ginaz:

He’s my best friend ! How do I watch him slip from my life ?
No more crazy quarrels and moments. Why do everything have to end?

pick one and stop being a kid

Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

Be honest, tell him that you see him as a friend and nothing more.

Stand your ground, if you date him, you will regret it.

Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

Calm down, in no time you'll see his wedding invitation card with another babe, then that's when your eyes will open, and you'll realize what you've lost.
Rubbish.

Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

Should we tell her! No I wont.

Ginaz:


Oh pls!!!

I care about him , I do! It’s not all about red pills and shiittt. I really do care, I’ve never manipulated him for anything.

Go and sidon for inside dustbin, care my ass

Firstly,she was my bestie,so one day i opened up and asked her out but she refuse.She told me that i have ruin the friendship then i decided to play a mind game by initiating kisses,romance to a point we had s*x... secondly,same bestie stuff but no romance or kisses.I asked her out she said she love me bt can't date me i was pained bt i left her now she's married...the guy would've just play mind game maybe u would've fall in love one day.

Ginaz:


He’s my best friend ! How do I watch him slip from my life ?

No more crazy quarrels and moments. Why do everything have to end?

How much for tilapia?
I think you're being selfish here. You're thinking of the crazy vibes he gives you (you don't want to lose it) the guy himself plus his feelings (expandable)....he has feelings for you damnit... you want him to stay in the friendzone and hurt forever?? If you no want free the guy...no stress person pikin
what do i know tho?

Ginaz:


He asked me what I was afraid of and I couldn’t say anything. Truth is, I’ve been to his family house , just normal visit as you would visit a friend till his bro told me I’m only girl he has brought to the house . We have a connection but how do you love with a heart that is unresponsive? Everything takes me time ! I’m not the “I wanna be in a relationship and fall inlove “ kinda person and he knows it. Not that I don’t care about him, fact is I do.

I can like someone today and just get up tomorrow and don’t wanna have anything to do with you. I don’t want to treat him that way. I just feel a lot would change and I would lose this friendship I value so much. Like being free and happy with a human who is deep minded like you. I don’t know how to explain myself again sef , I’m tired! I will let him be, I’d be fine.

First time in 6yrs I would text him and he didn’t message me back . I felt it .

You are both in love. Just face the reality and move on. If your decision remains No, and you cannot love someone who loves and is kind to you and let this man go. I pray you don't regret it.

Guys need to understand ladies and know how to handle them.


Some ladies are good for 'hit and run' only. This Op is the type of ladies that are only good for hit and run cos she likes a guy today and dislikes him tomorrow, so you got to observe her well, the day she is drolling and falling all over you, remove your gentleman dress and knack her silly that day, and the next day she will definitely not like you again, and before she does that, you have ran four forty




Life created people for different reasons.


Op type of ladies are created for friendship only, dating or marrying them will be any man's greatest mistake because she loves today and dislikes tomorrow. Her type also value all those their girlie bestie friendship more than their relationship or marriage and if you dare marry her or date her, her smart besties will always knack her by mistake.


So guys when you meet ladies of this type, just do your home work well and knack her silly when she is falling for you and run before she start her wehreh thinking. Maybe by the time she is 55yrs, she will start to have sense and then if she is lucky enough she will meet a widower or divorcee to marry and calm down finally.



Guys not all ladies need your stupid lovey dovey as you can hear her say it. Just be their friend, be vigilant enough to spot when they are falling for you and strike immediately and withdraw back to barracks. I know her type, you must follow them accordingly if not they will be using you to catch cruise. They are usually introverts who spent their teenagehood reading Mills and Boon stories which reconfigured their personality and character towards love, dating, relationship, sex and men

Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

Believe me when I say it hurts, it really hurts when the one you love doesn't reciprocate that feeling. That guy had been nursing that feeling for a long time. He knew that telling you would be a big gamble and tell on you friendship if you didn't feel the same way.

You probably showed him too much care that no one else did, and gave him the vibes that suggested that something more could happen between you two.

Just give him time, he'll be back but chances are the friendship won't be the same anymore. It'll be defined by many awkward conversations, you both won't vibe like you used to. If only he had known, he wouldn't have opened up (same mistake I also made).

If you don't love him, don't force it. Don't even entertain the thought of dating him out of pity, you'd both live in regrets. Just try to make the friendship work again but brace yourself up for the worst.

Everybody has a chapter in our lives. Some chapters take long, others are shorter, but what really matters is the mark they left before it closed. Time will tell what becomes of you two.

cayorday89:

Give him time probably two days off and call with an unknown number..

Stop encouraging her, she's heartless.

molybdenum0012:


Smiles. I don't mean physical attraction only. Mind too is important. Infact it is the most important. If he had worked on your mind, you will never turn him down, in fact you would pray day and night that he asks you out.

Women love mind game. If he combines that with all the good qualities you mentioned above, we will not even be here talking about it.

Now, I think you should let him be and move on. Don't force it. It is not your faulty. He fails to make you fall in love with him. That's his job, not yours.

Now you are blaming the guy? Rubbish talk from a simp.

Ginaz:


I can’t .

What's your problem?
You already made up your mind and still want our advice.

Abeg madam, advice your self and leave public space to have their peace.

Ginaz:


He asked me what I was afraid of and I couldn’t say anything. Truth is, I’ve been to his family house , just normal visit as you would visit a friend till his bro told me I’m only girl he has brought to the house . We have a connection but how do you love with a heart that is unresponsive? Everything takes me time ! I’m not the “I wanna be in a relationship and fall inlove “ kinda person and he knows it. Not that I don’t care about him, fact is I do.

I can like someone today and just get up tomorrow and don’t wanna have anything to do with you. I don’t want to treat him that way. I just feel a lot would change and I would lose this friendship I value so much. Like being free and happy with a human who is deep minded like you. I don’t know how to explain myself again sef , I’m tired! I will let him be, I’d be fine.

First time in 6yrs I would text him and he didn’t message me back . I felt it .

How old are you self? A whole 6 years is not enough for you to develop feelings for him, Is like menopause is hungering you.

cayorday89:

You are right, I was a victim, how she changed after a while I can't explain till today, reason why I asked Ginaz what she was scared of losing, they always feel they will be taking for granted but it's all in their head.. Too much romantic movies I guess despite telling her situations movie actors and actresses are is far from what they portray in movies..

The girl is just confused, I pray he sees someone a bit useful than her.

Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

Let him go because he has broken rules. Back in Uni my female bestie used the dress up in front of me and I never had any urge to have sex with her because I saw her as my sister. She was the one always telling people she has never seen a hot guy like me keep his hands away from a lady even naked before him. Loyalty is the word your bestie doesn't understand...he is fake and just wants to take advantage of your closeness. Let him go!

Ginaz:


Lol, I understand what you mean. But he’s a really handsome guy o , he works out too and hairy , beard gang which I do tease him that someday I will disappear his beards. I don’t understand myself too, maybe I need time to think things through.

Thanks for your input.

I pray he sees a more reasonable woman, before you finish thinking, invitation card is out.

Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

Eya , it's rare to find good men or someone who genuinely likes you.

Vaiki:
Let him go because he has broken rules. Back in Uni my female bestie used the dress up in front of me and I never had any urge to have sex with her because I saw her as my sister. She was the one always telling people she has never seen a hot guy like me keep his hands away from a lady even naked before him. Loyalty is the word your bestie doesn't understand...he is fake and just wants to take advantage of your closeness. Let him go!

Your bestie normally dress up in front of you and you don’t have urge
Oga that your bestie is ugly that’s why you don’t have urge seeing her naked

Ginaz:


He’s my best friend ! How do I watch him slip from my life ?

No more crazy quarrels and moments. Why do everything have to end?

Unfortunately as much as he isn't entitled to a relationship from you, you're not entitled to a friendship with him. If you really do not see him as someone worth dating, suck it up and move on.

molybdenum0012:
Another brother has been friend zoned.
Well, the truth is that the friendship has been damaged already since one party is now catching feelings. Even if he agrees to continue being friends with you, it will never be the same. So, just forget about the friendship and move. Things will never be the same again.

It would have been perfect if both feel the same way.


On the flip side, the greatest mistake the nigga did was revealing his feelings to you. He could have simply concealed it and played a mind game that will make you helplessly fall for him so much that you would not realize when something starts going on between you too. You know the kind of situation whereby a lady will start asking a guy what are we now, are dating.. Lol

I have always tell guys never to confess their feeling to a girl who sees the you as a bestie, you will never get her, infact the more you confess your feeling the more unattractive you appear to her. Just go ahead and make a crazy move.

you are a smart man my friend

Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

You are a baby...no maturity in your post. When you attain maturity, you ll know that you ve been deceiving yourself with that word "bestie"

Ginaz:


I can’t .

then forget the Friendship.

He has his own life to live.

Na wetin I de always tell guys b dis. Learn to communicate your feelings properly not doing lie lie friendship hoping it turns into a relationship.

If na relationship you want, make am clear. If she no gree, find another spot and set up your camp

WHAT DO GIRLS REALLY WANT?

You see a guy that you love his vibes now and you're there saying you just want him as a friend
Stay there until he finds someone else

Who told you guys bond with women they don't find attractive, nothing like male bestie , there is always something involved

Some men can be so close to you that in a whole year they won't make no sexual attempt , they'll take their time
That's when you see girls even getting dressed in the presence of their male besties not knowing the guy is deeply in love with them but just taking his time to make a move at the right time

Dem no born my woman well to get male bestie, I go just block her asap unto say me no too sabi argue bc I fit hala ayikwerere

Na until one guy wey go show you fake side of life come to you , show you heaven and earth love and care , even promise you marriage join
He go calm down back you well well make your kpekus seeks kpekus repairer and later show you him real side, na then you go they run to your bestie and by then your bestie don get someone else

You go con run come nairaland with a repaired kpekus they shout "men are scum" ozuor
Na set of saphiere and co naim you wan end up for so


Lights up my kpoli in peace

Good guys come last.They always prefer the badboys

Ginaz:


He asked me what I was afraid of and I couldn’t say anything. Truth is, I’ve been to his family house , just normal visit as you would visit a friend till his bro told me I’m only girl he has brought to the house . We have a connection but how do you love with a heart that is unresponsive? Everything takes me time ! I’m not the “I wanna be in a relationship and fall inlove “ kinda person and he knows it. Not that I don’t care about him, fact is I do.

I can like someone today and just get up tomorrow and don’t wanna have anything to do with you. I don’t want to treat him that way. I just feel a lot would change and I would lose this friendship I value so much. Like being free and happy with a human who is deep minded like you. I don’t know how to explain myself again sef , I’m tired! I will let him be, I’d be fine.

First time in 6yrs I would text him and he didn’t message me back . I felt it .

i pity for Diego