Please read to the end

My name is Jake (obviously not my real name), I'm in 300lv studying biochemistry... Not to brag, I'm quite attractive and I have a huge effect on ladies. Yeah, I know what y'all gon say "he's just one ugly fat ass seeking attention on a faceless forum, bros why you dey lie like this? Send pictures or ion believe you..." Anyways say whatever you like, all I need is candid advice from reasonable folks.

Ok so here's the story:
I met this girl in 200lv, and she's very attractive (pretty face, endowed both front and back). We started talking right from the first day we met like we've know each other for ages. She's not all that friendly which she told me t'was due to her past relationship... Let me not bore you with that. So, our relationship has gotten to point where she can tell me anything including her the hmmm hmmm you gerrit now? If you don get it forget aboutrit. Long story short, according to her, she said she likes me 'cause I'm smart, and she likes the way I profer solutions to problems. She got a boyfriend recently, and she was really happy because it was written all over her expression. You know, blushing and smiling sheepishly. Believe me when I say I have no feelings for her whatsoever. I just like the way we bonded and talked at length on so many issues of life. She started flirting with me, and in my mind I'm like; babe what the flip are doing? Most times I just wave it off. But now it has gotten worse, before a lecturer comes in or no lecturer in class, she sits on me, hug me at the slightest opportunity, trying to kiss me in public. The funny thing is a lot of guys are dying to talk to this girl. One even tried to talk to her but, he told me she's arrogant and full of herself. I just shrugged it off tho.
Now the irritating part is that anytime I brush her off from her tight hugs, or stylishly dodge Her kisses, she gets pissed off and ignores me for few minutes, then boom she's back again. It has gotten to a point where I'm avoiding her right now. She noticed, my reactions, and today, she was walking with a guy on campus and immediately she saw me, she held the guys arm and clung on him like they were couples. I just smiled, she followed the guy somewhere, a couple of minutes later she walked up to me and hug me tightly, and then, hers arms still on my shoulders, she raised her head and she stared into my eyes searching for what I don know. This girl have a boyfriend, she doesn't like talking to people, and all...I dont know what she wants from me, she gets offended when I ignore her... most people think we're dating due to her usual habit towards me. Well there's no way to prove otherwise.

The latest observation is that, she acts like she possess me. You know what I mean right? If I try to talk to other ladies, she comes and starts her irritating habit!

Please what do I need to do to stop this? Its tarnishing my reputation and I dont like it.
And why are some ladies shameless?

If she is attractive the best thing is to bed her ,why are you proofing difficult is better to be in the best book of ladies than to make enemy of them you don't know tomorrow so many are trying to be in your position be wise and shed your ego

What I see is your ego has given you the largest head that is possible for a human body to carry, you claim to have no feelings for her but you took the time to notice her walking with another brother and grabbing his arm ... You claim to not have feelings for the girl but you are here on nairaland explaining every detail about the said girl.

If I will advice you face your book squarely and let those that have feeling for her see opportunity to shoot thier shot. Biko.

Franzinni:
What I see is your ego has given you the largest head that is possible for a human body to carry, you claim to have no feelings for her but you took the time to notice her walking with another brother and grabbing his arm ... You claim to not have feelings for the girl but you are here on nairaland explaining every detail about the said girl.

If I will advice you face your book squarely and let those that have feeling for her see opportunity to shoot thier shot. Biko.

Seems you didn't read the part where she throws her self at me. Of course I can take advantage of her vulnerability but I'm not just interested. Like you said I'm trying to face my studies squarely...

Solosolojohquay:
If she is attractive the best thing is to bed her ,why are you proofing difficult is better to be in the best book of ladies than to make enemy of them you don't know tomorrow so many are trying to be in your position be wise and shed your ego

I know where you're coming from bruh . It's quite shocking to see people encouraging me to bed her... I mean refusing a ladies "sexual advances" is now termed ego?

powerbank6000:
give her some good dicking and she'd cum to her senses !!

Yes sir

She started all these drama immediately she got into a relationship with another guy.

There are likely 2 scenarios to this;

1. She desperately wants to keep you in the friendzone while she's dating the guy. She wouldn't date you and wouldn't let anyone else date you. Selfishness!

OR

2. She actually likes you and her claims of dating the other guy was just a facade. Probably trying to make you jealous or something.

But don't get it twisted. Ignore her totally cos the moment you open your mouth sey you wan reciprocate her actions, she go reject you clean clear

E go shock you.

Leave woman matter and concentrate on your studies.

She is looking for a fuckmate hmmm hmmm you gerrit now? If you don't get it forget aboutrit.

PrimeWatermark:
She started all these drama immediately she got into a relationship with another guy.

There are likely 2 scenarios to this;

1. She desperately wants to keep you in the friendzone while she's dating the guy. She wouldn't date you and wouldn't let anyone else date you. Selfishness!

OR

2. She actually likes you and her claims of dating the other guy was just a facade. Probably trying to make you jealous or something.

But don't get it twisted. Ignore her totally cos the moment you open your mouth sey you wan reciprocate her actions, she go reject you clean clear

E go shock you.

Leave woman matter and concentrate on your studies.

You sabi jare... there was a time I asked her that what if her boyfriend found us in an awkward position. Her response was that he wouldn't mind.

Doja2000:
She is looking for a fuckmate hmmm hmmm you gerrit now? If you don't get it forget aboutrit.

ion gerrit expantiate pls.

Cinema4d:
Please read to the end

My name is Jake (obviously not my real name), I'm in 300lv studying biochemistry... Not to brag, I'm quite attractive and I have a huge effect on ladies. Yeah, I know what y'all gon say "he's just one ugly fat ass seeking attention on a faceless forum, bros why you dey lie like this? Send pictures or ion believe you..." Anyways say whatever you like, all I need is candid advice from reasonable folks.

Ok so here's the story:
I met this girl in 200lv, and she's very attractive (pretty face, endowed both front and back). We started talking right from the first day we met like we've know each other for ages. She's not all that friendly which she told me t'was due to her past relationship... Let me not bore you with that. So, our relationship has gotten to point where she can tell me anything including her the hmmm hmmm you gerrit now? If you don get it forget aboutrit. Long story short, according to her, she said she likes me 'cause I'm smart, and she likes the way I profer solutions to problems. She got a boyfriend recently, and she was really happy because it was written all over her expression. You know, blushing and smiling sheepishly. Believe me when I say I have no feelings for her whatsoever. I just like the way we bonded and talked at length on so many issues of life. She started flirting with me, and in my mind I'm like; babe what the flip are doing? Most times I just wave it off. But now it has gotten worse, before a lecturer comes in or no lecturer in class, she sits on me, hug me at the slightest opportunity, trying to kiss me in public. The funny thing is a lot of guys are dying to talk to this girl. One even tried to talk to her but, he told me she's arrogant and full of herself. I just shrugged it off tho.
Now the irritating part is that anytime I brush her off from her tight hugs, or stylishly dodge Her kisses, she gets pissed off and ignores me for few minutes, then boom she's back again. It has gotten to a point where I'm avoiding her right now. She noticed, my reactions, and today, she was walking with a guy on campus and immediately she saw me, she held the guys arm and clung on him like they were couples. I just smiled, she followed the guy somewhere, a couple of minutes later she walked up to me and hug me tightly, and then, hers arms still on my shoulders, she raised her head and she stared into my eyes searching for what I don know. This girl have a boyfriend, she doesn't like talking to people, and all...I dont know what she wants from me, she gets offended when I ignore her... most people think we're dating due to her usual habit towards me. Well there's no way to prove otherwise.

The latest observation is that, she acts like she possess me. You know what I mean right? If I try to talk to other ladies, she comes and starts her irritating habit!

Please what do I need to do to stop this? Its tarnishing my reputation and I dont like it.
And why are some ladies shameless?

useless thing... if she ruins your life now, you'd cum back here whining like a lil bitch..

KingDash:
useless thing... if she ruins your life now, you'd cum back here whining like a lil bitch..

Well I've seen enough red flags tho. She can't ruin my life abeg ..
Sometimes I wonder how people delve into relationships without noticing these red flags.

Godada:

op, come ooo what's the meaning of flirt in your article

extol1:
op, come ooo what's the meaning of flirt in your article

You don gerrit?

Enjoy it while it lasts....however it pans out, follow the flow.....

Cinema4d:
You don gerrit?

no

extol1:

no

Forget aboutrit

Must we tell u everything

Vyzz:
Must we tell u everything

Cinema4d:

Seems you didn't read the part where she throws her self at me. Of course I can take advantage of her vulnerability but I'm not just interested. Like you said I'm trying to face my studies squarely...

nice one ... On another note do you use cinema 4d ? Are you into mograph?

They are dashing you free pussy and you are rejecting it. The day you will now want to fucck that pussy, it will become unreachable. I'm not going anywhere, I will be here to read your cries when that day comes.