A date to a foolish guy is at a restaurant - forking out a large some of money just for someone to update her Instagram

•unless she's paying half, don't do it

These modern women will show up for a free meal, with zero interest in you

A date to a wise man is at his house, room or car

•this in intimate set-up most likey to achieve results e.g kissing, hugging or ultimately resulting in sex

If she shows up for such a date, there's a high chance she's genuinely interested

It's really easy to filter out the women not genuinely interested in you.

Set up a date at your house or car, if she disagrees, she's not interested in you

If she gives an excuse that it's too intimate for a first date, then she should be paying half at the restaurant.

Don't be no sucker

Giving free meals to chicks who have zero interest in you

At most you end up FEEDING her only to be FXCKED by some guy who didn't do shit

Feeding the frog� for the snake �

Respect your wallet bro!!!

Your definition of a wiseman is wrong. It seems its a man who gets a LovePeddler out and wants every lady to play the hoe.
Guy, essense of a lady giving a guy a chance to take her out or eat out with her is to see if there is a zing or chemistry or a flow btw thw 2 that can lead to something more.

You are used to ashewo. When your destiny is screwed because of every hole you want to enter you enter no go about blaming Buhari or APC or running from pillar to post. Saying which girl could be the cause of this problem.

Be wise

I hate men

Amuochicha:
I hate men

We detest you

Amuochicha:
I hate men

dem don do u strong thing?

Nigerian women are becoming sick jokes en masse. What exactly is the point of going on a date with a bunch of women who have decided to feast to their hearts' content at the expense of their male companion? What exactly is a date meant to achieve in the scheme of things? You want to go to an impressive restaurant to 'assess' whether the guy is good enough for your time, at his expense.
No, my brothers would rather cut to the chase and if you're not coming to his place, it's on to the next one. There's really not much sense in wooing today's Nigerian woman. It. Is. All. About. The. Money. We now live in an era of 'no romance without finance'. Why should I woo you when all you're after is the money? You can swerve if you want to eat at Barcelos.
Secondly, whether there's a date or you've been invited to his house at first invite, there's no good intentions. He wants to lay you. Stop acting like a trip to a posh restaurant will suddenly wipe out sexual fantasies about you. Or maybe you're saying it's only ok to have those sexual fantasies after you've been wined and dined?
In conclusion, the 'come to my house dynamic' is mostly a move to economise the expenditure of time and other resources considering the margin of success/lack of.

https://www.nairaland.com/2389119/nigerian-men-come-house-syndrome


6 year old post

blackboy:
Your definition of a wiseman is wrong. It seems its a man who gets a LovePeddler out and wants every lady to play the hoe.
Guy, essense of a lady giving a guy a chance to take her out or eat out with her is to see if there is a zing or chemistry or a flow btw thw 2 that can lead to something more.

You are used to ashewo. When your destiny is screwed because of every hole you want to enter you enter no go about blaming Buhari or APC or running from pillar to post. Saying which girl could be the cause of this problem.

Be wise

oga leave levels. Have you seen this girls in action? She is trying to see if there is chemistry by ordering and eating food � like person wey kidnappers just release after 2 months inside bush.
If it's true that within a few minutes of meeting a girl for the first time she already knows if she can date u, fvck u or just use you and waste your time, then my question is why all this eating and checking?
Anyways guys are mostly at fault whenever you Carry girl comot collet coke or Fanta and meat pie for ya sef and her if she no wan drink coke cos of gas collect water for her but no bros go allow her to order the whole eatery thinking say that one go make her like am.