I resumed to camp 18th of may(kogi state) and I heard plans to redeploy because of personal reasons. Before then I read a lot of stories about camp love and stuffs ,then I promised my self not to have any entanglement or fall in love....

On getting there , first thing I did was to join the NCCF as an usher ,it was a wonderful experience with the family,out of the 21 days ,I did ushering job for 15 days ,met a lot of ladies ... I crushed on some and vise versa but I promise my self I won't compromise ( as a child of God) .

Second week came it's was getting difficult not to mingle,i had to...the soldiers call me 'Dongo' (tall man)....I participated in almost activities in camp....from quarter guard,to parade, drama, etc...I was well know in my platoon.


Third week ..then I met this lady from Calabar ,she was a chorister and we met in church ,I can't remember who approached who first but that was it ..As a Yoruba guy, majority of girls I dated were from Imo, Anambra,rivers etc.. I developed this sudden feelings and affection...
She is beautiful,sings like an angel ,free spirit smart and most importantly she knows God truly(what I have been praying for), immediately we vibe together,ate together ,prayed together...but deep down I was not happy, because I was redeploying while she is not.
Told her about my plans of relocating back to my state ,I could see the huge disappointment on her face , though I promised her I will b communicating frequently ..will never let what we had die just like that... it's been 3 days .. I miss her badly
Truth is that I attended marrying her if the relationship worked out,still have that in mind tho...but I don't know how to manage long distance relationship...what can I do?

You can still be with her if you are ready for a good communication! Not one minute calls. Trust is the main issue, pray to God to let Him guide you. Best luck!