Should i tell or not?
well you should be able to give me an answer after hearing my story. My name is Sandra, and i am just 20 years old, and i also just gained admission into the university of Benin, i am what you can call richly blessed in physic and looks, and also look bigger than my age.(laughing)
well it all started when he came looking for my dad,and i was home alone.I had just returned from school that evening,He was suprised to see me & he said "Sandra, how are u? When did you return?"i replied and said,i'm fine sir,i came back this evening. He said,were are your parents? I replied,they went out but will soon be back. He decided to wait for them. While he was waiting in the sitting room,he asked me a couple of questions like"how is school?what are you studying? What level are you?and how is your boyfrnd?" i was shocked to hear the last question,he laughed and said,come on! You are a big girl now. I replied the rest quetions,but skipped the"how is your boyfriend part"cos i felt it was awkward answering such. We got talking about my school and why i wanted to study the course i was studying( accounting). Then he started telling how intelligent and beautiful i am,and how he has always liked and admired me & would want to have something really special with me. I was shocked to hear this,before he could continue,we heard the horn of my parents car. My parents were back. I didnt put any of what he said in mind,i taught he was pulling my legs cos afterall,he is my dads friend and also old enough to be my dad, and besides his last daughter happens to be about my age.
While he was chatting with my parents in the sitting room, my dad called me to ask me if the sales of masters form in my school was on,i said no.Then he said(my dads friend)he would want me to enquire about the form for his wife when i get back to school. He collected my number and left that day. My parents saw him off.
Since then till now,he has been calling me, sending me gifts,and also & professing his undying love for me. He even comes to my house several times all in the name of "i want to see your dad" knowing fully well that my parents are not at home.
The funniest part is that,my dad sends me on errands to his office,some times he even gives his opinion on family issues and always comes arround to chat and hangout with my parents. It is so difficult to aviod him cos he is close to my family.
The big question now is Should i tell my dad abt it? Am so confused. I need your opinions.

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Yes, she should tell her dad. So that the old randy hands would be put on check.

Hi sandra i will like to be ur friend send ur number to my mail.warri4real@yahoo.com.
Now i hope u have not devlop any feeling 4 him.are u close to ur mother and does she belief u. Becos u have to be careful becos it can cause problem between ur father and his friend.u have to tell ur mother first.

Yes,she should tell not just her dad but her parents(dad and mum).And If the parents are anything like me,they would invite the randy he-goat,call their daughter out to repeat everything in his presence then without waiting to hear anything from the man,ask him to leave their house,never return and stay away from their daughter.

The matter wud be buried afterward,no need to tell the man's wife or involve anyone else.

Tell your mom first. She'll know exactly what to do. You don't need to bring any shame to your family because of this pervert.

Are you not a Nigerian girl?
This is very common naaa.
That is how you make your 'sugar contacts'.
If your father can no longer pay your 'fees'. . . you have a plan "B".

Please, decode the 'message' youy father is sending you.
Your father may be doing his friend's daughter too.
Remember Gbenga and Moji Obasanjo?
Na cult be dis i ooh!

Please, do not tell your dad o.
They are in the same 'fraternity'!
Your father is only trying to 'initiate' you.
Go and deliver the goods ma.
Your momma also knows.

@ blazay, am sure you are joking!

Yup. She should tell both of her parents.

spyder880:

@ blazay, am sure you are joking!

Then you must not be a Nigerian.

@op,
yes plz, tell both ur parents & in time 2!

If you go ahead to tell any of your parents without concrete evidence then be rest assured they had dismiss your claims.
Why not secretly record the conversations you lot have then show/play it to either of your parent (preferably your mum).

@ poster

tell your dad if you want to and when telling him make him understand the you have been collecting gifts from him, but if you don't want to keep the F, K up

and stop collecting the GIFTS he sends you, by so doing you are showing you are not interested.

But if u keep on collecting the money or GIFTS then you are guilty.

Stop collecting free gifts, stop getting more guilty of the crime, record the convo and have it played to your parents


EOD!

Are you not a Nigerian girl?
This is very common naaa.
That is how you make your 'sugar contacts'.
If your father can no longer pay your 'fees'. . . you have a plan "B". Kiss

Please, decode the 'message' youy father is sending you.
Your father may be doing his friend's daughter too.
Remember Gbenga and Moji Obasanjo?
Na cult be dis i ooh! Cheesy

Please, do not tell your dad o.
They are in the same 'fraternity'! Wink
Your father is only trying to 'initiate' you.
Go and deliver the goods ma.
Your momma also knows.

he maybe 10% right but for the remaining 90% get a concrate evidence then tell your mum first, if your mum is not that into your dad's friend the way dad is. women are better in handling issues like that.

U r yet 2 tell ur parents? D only reason y dey wnt believe u is if u have previously given dem reason nt 2. So plz tell dem & STOP visiting d randy he-goat coz u r nt 2 young 2 b molested & leave his gifts alone ( hunger dey catch u? ) abi r u 2 naive 2 know dat accepting dem sends d wrong signals 2 him? If I'm ur parents I will roast his manliness ( dirty old man )
@ Blazay plz dnt spoil d small girl