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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Vinnie2000(m): 8:42pm On Jun 30, 2021
DEMZEE:


If u are not fucking her then u are her girlfriend PERIODT!!!


Oga..
See the Way you carry the Matter for Head like Nightsoil man!! cheesy grin grin
I have been observing ur comments on dis Matter!!
So Aggressive!! undecided
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by MeghaneMorgane(f): 8:49pm On Jun 30, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:



Guys want sex
Ladies want attention

The reason why they hang out with you is because they want to have sex but they don't know how to go about it, hence they give you free validation , attention and sometimes resources wasting their most precious asset their time without getting pussy

These an evolutionary fact

Biology trumps psychology

I hope you find genuine friendship with the opposite sex that don’t involve sex but involves growth.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by GetMeRight: 8:55pm On Jun 30, 2021
Fiscus105:
Thank God for Hope and Zee's confessions, who said nothing but pure truths, deducing from what they said, it's clear that guy and girl who are not blood related cannot be best of friendd, though they can be acquittance or casual friends but platonic? (bestie) it's completely lie.

I see it as if one or two of them are hiding under one finger.

One will be enjoying while the 2nd will be hurt.

This is aside from angles of boyfriend to the lady and girlfriend to boy in platonic relationship.

Even Olakitan
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by GetMeRight: 8:59pm On Jun 30, 2021
pansophist:
I've met women that prefer friendship with men than fellow women, but I've never met a man that prefer friendship with a woman than a fellow man.

Me, I like girls who look up to me, like a mentor, not as a friend. I played the role well but I think I'm getting older for the role.
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by KingRex1(m): 9:26pm On Jun 30, 2021
rosalieene:
I make more of Male friends than ladies. But when I have a female friend who is committed to the friendship, I value her so much.
Ladies and always somehow wanting commitment that ends up yielding unnecessary pressures...
What happened to enjoying a free flowing fun relationship? Well I guess that's what you get from platonic male friendships.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by skywalker240(m): 9:39pm On Jun 30, 2021
DirtyGold:
Platonic friends indeed!
Only a microscopic percent of girls will keep a male friend without getting some kind of benefits and naturally, the guy will want something in return and then one or both will start catching feelings wink wink

What's tha business?
grin

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by iRepNaija1: 9:46pm On Jun 30, 2021
It would've been better if they interviewed women who are not just in their 20s.
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by bukatyne(f): 9:57pm On Jun 30, 2021
pocohantas:
Maybe when I was younger it felt cool to have many male friends…calling, texting, checking up on you and taking you for lunch. Generally giving you attention that females can’t give you. There is really nothing special most girls who claim to prefer male friends discuss with them. You don’t even know ManU’s captain. So?

Now I am older, there is really no time for such. I have few friends, male and female. For the guys, I get their male perspective on things or ask them things men should generally have more ideas on. Like the day I was struggling with my laptop (you know say me and computer na enemies), I called a friend and he guided me.

As of today, 30th June, 2021. Any male friend I am still in contact with is a special one to me. I don’t need urgent 2k, I don’t need my phone ringing per second, I don’t need anyone distracting me, I don’t need anyone to help me start gen, I don’t need anyone to drive me to anywhere. I am committed to one man. When you get to that stage as a woman, you will know. If they call you angel for road sef, you go just start to vex.

One of the markers of growth for a woman is when she knows the value of female friends (if she is a friend's person).

I don't even encourage male mentors for women. They do not understand your struggles.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by pocohantas(f): 10:15pm On Jun 30, 2021
bukatyne:


One of the markers of growth for a woman is when she knows the value of female friends (if she is a friend's person).

I don't even encourage male mentors for women. They do not understand your struggles.

Very true. A friend of mine once told me the same thing. He said one way to know a really mature/cool lady is when she is a lady’s woman.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by KenModi(m): 11:04pm On Jun 30, 2021
Augla1:
Okada, just stop me here. I no go anywhere again.
Take... Just hold the change. Go go go...

No take laugh kill person here grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by mosaicafrique: 11:09pm On Jun 30, 2021
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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Cousin9999: 11:37pm On Jun 30, 2021
Unless he's g4y or a friend from childhood/high school, it's not truly platonic.

Women will always be better friends to other women, just like males will always be better friends to other males. That's just how it is. Males aren't intelligent enough to have truly platonic friendships with women.
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Mariangeles(f): 12:17am On Jul 01, 2021
DEMZEE:


Men are sexual beings and success objects

Women are sexual objects


Men possess testerones 12X more than women. Men are designed to be promiscuous and polygamous and women are designed to be monogamous.
Sex is emotional for women but it's not emotional for men

Hahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha grin grin grin
Bunsen is a beast!! grin

You're fooling no one but yourself!
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Augla1: 12:25am On Jul 01, 2021
HabaHaba:


Wehdone bro. Na una dey make us still dey enjoy NL.

I love that creativity!!!

Kip it Up bro

My brother, nairaland na one of the things wey we dey use keep body and soul together.
This is 'our' own form of social media

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Augla1: 12:26am On Jul 01, 2021
Mariangeles:


Hahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha grin grin grin
Bunsen is a beast!! grin

You're fooling no one but yourself!
But he just gave you facts? Truths?
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Mariangeles(f): 12:48am On Jul 01, 2021
All I know is a true friend(s) is/are that/those person/people that is/are there for you when you're most in need(in any form).
That person/people could be male(s) and/or female(s).
Am I this person to someone? is what we should be asking ourselves.
Being human is all it takes to understand, and to be there for someone, not male or female. (Are you a true friend to someone regardless of their gender?)
True friendship is not just about what others can do for you, it is also about what you can do for others.
All these other talks about sex, attention, struggles and all whatnots are just nonsense. There's more to life than all that, and those who will understand you, will understand you regardless of their gender.
What you all need is to understand the meaning of true friendship. A change of mentality maybe.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Mariangeles(f): 1:02am On Jul 01, 2021
Augla1:

But he just gave you facts? Truths?

All I have to comment is Thank God say man no be God, otherwise, women for no get brain. God no go shame us sha.
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Fanuchi007: 5:37am On Jul 01, 2021
I can't label a lady as my best friend for I reason, every female best friend has an expiration date. The expiring date is when they get married. Dude, if a guy is your best friend, it doesn't matter if he'll be married to 30 woman or have 100 kids, u guys will still be best friends and can still hang out and visit each other at will. All this can't happen to your so called female best friend. Your bestie with her end when she's engaged. You can't walk up to the husband and be like " am your wife's best friend' grin

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by HabaHaba: 8:40am On Jul 01, 2021
Roman7:



Guy, how would u love hanging out with females than males?? What would u be discussing with them? I'm curious.

Not all female are dumb bro!

When you meet intelligent and broad minded ones you appreciate them far more than beer, girls, football friends.

They open your mind to how women think and act, and lest you forget, women have been great allies of successful men from time immemorial.

It only depends on the ones you link up with I tell you many women can help open great doors for you, beyond your imaginations.

Please consider this last words.
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Roman7(m): 9:54am On Jul 01, 2021
HabaHaba:


Not all female are dumb bro!

When you meet intelligent and broad minded ones you appreciate them far more than beer, girls, football friends.

They open your mind to how women think and act, and lest you forget, women have been great allies of successful men from time immemorial.

It only depends on the ones you link up with I tell you many women can help open great doors for you, beyond your imaginations.

Please consider this last words.



I still won't prefer hanging out more with females than males.......plus no be everytime una go dey discuss serious what things what happened to when they are discussing girly stuffs what does he have to contribute.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by noob03saibot(m): 10:52am On Jul 01, 2021
qtguru:


lol
Bro! Please, I sent you a dm
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 12:08pm On Jul 01, 2021
noob03saibot:

Bro! Please, I sent you a dm
Replied
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by noob03saibot(m): 2:47pm On Jul 01, 2021
qtguru:

Replied
OK, thanks
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 2:51pm On Jul 01, 2021
noob03saibot:
OK, thanks

Replied to your mail, please reply me somewhere else there are unfortunate people in this forum esp DEMZEE wink
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by HabaHaba: 4:51pm On Jul 01, 2021
Roman7:




I still won't prefer hanging out more with females than males.......plus no be everytime una go dey discuss serious what things what happened to when they are discussing girly stuffs what does he have to contribute.

Well, sorry to say. But I don't have time to spend so much time with people. 8 always chill with the lady friends onelce in while.
I'm not a street guy that hangs around street. When am not at work place am in the Games resort or bar and those are where we meet with my female friends who are mostly corporate people.

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