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Hmmm. I don't understand how a guy of 26, and still an undergraduate, should be so desperate to rush into marriage.
You said that she is a bit older than you. Isn't it possible that she's the one that needs the marriage more urgently and she's, therefore, indirectly and psychologically steering you towards that direction.
I didn't say you shouldn't marry her but let me assure you that the super nice attitude she is exhibiting now is not her real self. She will show you her real self when the honeymoon stage is over.
Take time to know her more, and while at it, try and graduate from school; start your Uber business and see how well it is moving; encourage her to get something doing too.
At this stage, if the relationship is still sweet, go ahead and marry her.

Bros go ahead and do the needful. Kill the fear B4 you make a drastic decision.

Lekan239:
At first I was happy or let me say I don't know if I was happy or not, now I am scared I am very scared, to cut the story shot, it all started six months ago when I met goodness(not real name), we started dating and we were okay.

She is everything I want in a woman, respectful, caring, loving etc, I'm the kind of person who loves staying indoors and I don't really mingle easily with people, she would stay indoors with and never leave my side for the entire period. I can see she is so much in love with me and the most important aspect about her is she respect me a lot and despite her coming into my life and the increase in financial responsibility, I have miraculously tripled my savings, moved to a better apartment than I was before she came into my life and I have gotten furnitures I never even dreamed of 7 months ago, I won't say she is responsible for my fortune because I was already working before I knew her. Oh it's a miracle though

Due to a reason, we share most of our time together, I would say we are living together we are both finallist in school same level, I'm a little bit financially okay doing one or to jobs online, I love to work, that's one good thing about me I have a little bit over a million saved thinking of getting a car for Uber after school, I'm still saving for the car through my earnings online. Why am I scared?

I can't really pinpoint maybe I am scared because I can't handle what is coming financially or if I'm facing emotionally trauma, recently I got mood swings thinking am I really becoming a father soon, can I handle what is to come emotionally and financially, am i ready, I'm just 26 and she is a little but older than I am. Will I survived this, was It a wrong decision impregnating her.

I had once gotten a life changing advice here on nairaland and I have met people who I cherish so much, people who have helped me become who I am today here on nairaland. I'm in need of this advice again guys

I understand your fears man.. don't be scared everything will be alright..dont take her love for granted sha..

lilvicky68:
I understand your fears man.. don't be scared everything will be alright..dont take her love for granted sha..

I don't take her love for granted, I'm a guy who don't womanize neither do I drink alcohol. Don't know if the fear is natural if it happens to every person in facing this exact issue

Lekan239:
I don't take her love for granted, I'm a guy who don't womanize neither do I drink alcohol. Don't know if the fear is natural if it happens to every person in facing this exact issue

It's natural but it shouldn't last for long if not you will end up being sad after taking wrong decisions..

lilvicky68:

It's natural but it shouldn't last for long if not you will end up being sad after taking wrong decisions..

ok sir. Thank you

When there's goosebumps, just know it's going to be alright.. All izz well bro.. I'm proud of you...
But know that drinking alcohol is not bad.. I'm not saying you should start drinking it. Next time make your point with out alcohol..

Obasempirecomdy:
When there's goosebumps, just know it's going to be alright.. All izz well bro.. I'm proud of you...
But know that drinking alcohol is not bad.. I'm not saying you should start drinking it. Next time make your point with out alcohol..

oh, I'm just trying to express I'm not an alcoholic, you know sir that is one of the ways men spend unnecessarily if not properly managed

You should thought about all these things when you were enjoying the Kpekus, now she's pregnant, you're running to Nairaland for Advise, when you were enjoying the Kpekus all these while, did you come to Nairaland for Advise

louken:
Hmmm. I don't understand how a guy of 26, and still an undergraduate, should be so desperate to rush into marriage.
You said that she is a bit older than you. Isn't it possible that she's the one that needs the marriage more urgently and she's, therefore, indirectly and psychologically steering you towards that direction.
I didn't say you shouldn't marry her but let me assure you that the super nice attitude she is exhibiting now is not her real self. She will show you her real self when the honeymoon stage is over.
Take time to know her more, and while at it, try and graduate from school; start your Uber business and see how well it is moving; encourage her to get something doing too.
At this stage, if the relationship is still sweet, go ahead and marry her.

I'm not thinking about going into marriage right now sir, you just elaborated the plans I had, I'm responsible for the pregnancy and I will take responsibility, my fears are will I be able to cope financially and emotionally, won't she changed are behavior when she is comfortable

Guy, which fear? What is all this long story for. You are not a kid. 26 no be boy ooo.
You are in school, playing husband and wife. Screwing someones daughter and getting her pregnant . Complete your play of husband and wife and add pickin join.
Them send you go school to get cert na woman or man una go find. Guy, congrats. You no fear to do press up on the babe so you dey fear for the result. God don catch you and her. Keep the pregnancy and marry the babe. Make thunder no fire you. You are not small. 26 years old are doing well in offices. Guy you even old. Invite me to the wedding and pls no load am. Small and simple.

DaddyRochie1642:
You should thought about all these things when you were enjoying the Kpekus, now she's pregnant, you're running to Nairaland for Advise, when you were enjoying the Kpekus all these while, did you come to Nairaland for Advise

at least she's only the one, I don't have numerous

blackboy:
Guy, which fear? What is all this long story for. You are not a kid. 26 no be boy ooo.
You are in school, playing husband and wife. Screwing someones daughter and getting her pregnant . Complete your play of husband and wife and add pickin join.
Them send you go school to get cert na woman or man una go find. Guy, congrats. You no fear to do press up on the babe so you dey fear for the result. God don catch you and her. Keep the pregnancy and marry the babe. Make thunder no fire you. You are not small. 26 years old are doing well in offices. Guy you even old. Invite me to the wedding and pls no load am. Small and simple.

yes, some are in Kiri Kiri, some don't even know what they will eat tomorrow and some don't have home nor the opportunity to pay their rent. At 26 I'm still in school and I give all thanks to God, if I'm to live my life again, I will still choose this my life over the life of my friends who are graduate. Thanks

Man ya never dropped to your final destination ok....


Continue!!

U never know the value of what u have until u loose it,here u see someone that loves u for real and u are scared,Bro as it is now,God is steering u both to the right direction with his blessings too so do the needful and kill those fears,that woman is yours, remember there will never be any perfect woman out there, except u just want to go and play around..

Lekan239:
I'm not thinking about going into marriage right now sir, you just elaborated the plans I had, I'm responsible for the pregnancy and I will take responsibility, my fears are will I be able to cope financially and emotionally, won't she changed are behavior when she is comfortable

When there is will, there is way

Abeg which online job you Dey do? No Dey disguise

Lekan239:
At first I was happy or let me say I don't know if I was happy or not, now I am scared I am very scared, to cut the story shot, it all started six months ago when I met goodness(not real name), we started dating and we were okay.

She is everything I want in a woman, respectful, caring, loving etc, I'm the kind of person who loves staying indoors and I don't really mingle easily with people, she would stay indoors with and never leave my side for the entire period. I can see she is so much in love with me and the most important aspect about her is she respect me a lot and despite her coming into my life and the increase in financial responsibility, I have miraculously tripled my savings, moved to a better apartment than I was before she came into my life and I have gotten furnitures I never even dreamed of 7 months ago, I won't say she is responsible for my fortune because I was already working before I knew her. Oh it's a miracle though

Due to a reason, we share most of our time together, I would say we are living together we are both finallist in school same level, I'm a little bit financially okay doing one or to jobs online, I love to work, that's one good thing about me I have a little bit over a million saved thinking of getting a car for Uber after school, I'm still saving for the car through my earnings online. Why am I scared?

I can't really pinpoint maybe I am scared because I can't handle what is coming financially or if I'm facing emotionally trauma, recently I got mood swings thinking am I really becoming a father soon, can I handle what is to come emotionally and financially, am i ready, I'm just 26 and she is a little but older than I am. Will I survived this, was It a wrong decision impregnating her.

I had once gotten a life changing advice here on nairaland and I have met people who I cherish so much, people who have helped me become who I am today here on nairaland. I'm in need of this advice again guys

I want too use this medium to say thank you to this three wonderful Nairalander who are the backbone too what I am today and what I will become.

(1) Mr. Adebanjo Yommix15( A father who backs me and watch me constantly to see how I am doing. paid my school fee last year 70,000 and sent me another 40,000 a month later for a pop corn business) though I didn't start the pop corn business but I'm here today alive and comfortable because of that 40,000.

(2) Mrs Lagosismyhome( she sent me 40k to support my family and a surprise 10,000k on January 1st 2021)

(3) Mr. Lebanonceders( a great man, he assisted me with 25,000)

I don't really know what to say to appreciate what you people have done for me, a father once told me, "do not thank me for doing this, it's just a favour i am paying forward, and when you are in the position to, also pay it forward". I will never forget those words, I told a friend this exact same word when I assisted him, when he want me to assist someone he also told me bro, you said I should pay upfront, so I have brought this young man too, kindly teach him.

Thank you.

Bros i understand what you are going through.. You are just worried about what will happen after graduation, like u gonna lose her? U guys wil seperate or wil be together like this again and so on... The thing is u need to ask her to knw her plans aftr graduations.. Dnt rush into things..
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but gee, tell me how u are earning online please, i always wanted some stuffs like that