Over the course of years, I've come to realise that nairaland is full of experts, and specialists who commands knowledge. This is why I bring my case here.

Back then in the days when I was 14 years , my parents were strict with me concerning "women affairs" and this upbringing is presently hunting me.

Currently, I'm a potential IT students (we're in first semester) and I decided to get myself a girlfriend to prove my friends who rated me as a complete loser in the game wrong.

I collected the girl's (a fresher) number and we exchange pleasantries. It's not even up to 1 week and things are getting out of hand. One of my friends saw me called her one day and laughed at me seriously for being too boring and direct.

Me and the girl are not in terms due to some reasons. I'm feeling sad and angry about the situation and really regretted why I didn't do this thing when my mates were doing so. I can't even conversate well and worst of all, I'm an introvert. Please house, what should I do?

Mess it up.

If you don’t you won’t learn from your mistakes and get experience.

Focus on your studies

As an undergraduate, you are ought to learn everything in the School. If you can't intimately relate with your girlfriend at your age, I don't know what will be a solution to your problem.
Well, let me wait for elders to chip in.

The thing is really affecting me emotionally. I'm feeling that the girl is seriously laughing at me

Plomo:
Mess it up.

If you don’t you won’t learn from your mistakes and get experience.

UBAHA:
The thing is really affecting me emotionally. I'm feeling that the girl is seriously laughing at me

If you feel it then it is most likely happening.

Maybe the next poster have something to say

I'm not in control of feelings right now

Plomo:


If you feel it then it is most likely happening.

The only way to get better at it is to mess it up as badly as possible

UBAHA:
I'm not in control of feelings right now

Relax dude.

There are plenty of fishes in the ocean.

Damn Niggar!!!!

It’s bound to happen tho and you’ll learn from your mistake... The reason for bn too emotional is because it’s your first time and you’ve diverted all your love and feelings without saving little for back up incase she would want to cut it off..... But bro please learn from your mistake and gradually you’ll become a savage and start posting here like Mosdiii

Thanks bro

Mophor:
Damn Niggar!!!!

It’s bound to happen tho and you’ll learn from your mistake... The reason for bn too emotional is because it’s your first time and you’ve diverted all your love and feelings without saving little for back up incase she would want to cut it off..... But bro please learn from your mistake and gradually you’ll become a savage and start posting here like Mosdiii

Mophor:
Damn Niggar!!!!

It’s bound to happen tho and you’ll learn from your mistake... The reason for bn too emotional is because it’s your first time and you’ve diverted all your love and feelings without saving little for back up incase she would want to cut it off..... But bro please learn from your mistake and gradually you’ll become a savage and start posting here like Mosdiii

That reminds me where is Mosdii, it's been long. I miss his posts.
I filled a missing report for him to the mods but no response