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Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by iamSugarxx09(f): 4:25pm On Jul 16, 2021
Hi guys please i need an advise, please a real one
There's this guy (osaze) in my school here in Cotonou that everyone thinks we are dating, to the extent in February i lost my relationship of almost 2years because of him , all because my last boyfriend thinks i was dating him, okay after me and my boyfriend path ways i and osaze became very close to the extent we use to kiss anytime i feel like kissing because i and osaze we getting use to each other but we ain't dating , and he's not ready to go into a relationship with me , but because of the kind of classy and Topnotch babe i am , i feel that's y he always want people to see him around me and them thinking that we are dating but only few knows for sure that we ain't dating , anytime i tell him anyone ask if we are dating he will tell me to tell the person that we are not dating that we are just friends,
one day i asked him if he wish to be in a relationship with me he said NO (we are cool like this) and he knows my last relationship broke apart because of him we became so close to the extent no one want to come and ask me out because they feel we are into relationship together ,
Okay here comes Toju in January as summer student to our school , me and Toju partially became friends privately, we use to take our time chatting and talking on WhatsApp , he use to send me money even when i dont ask him for money, he's always petting me ,caring for me , to the extent on monday night around 9pm while i was in Toju's place Toju went out to getting me 2packs of sanitary pad because i was on my period , and i can remember the day i told Osaze to give me money to buy pad he said (he doesn't see any reason y he should be the one to buy me a pad) wow, and Toju bought me pads with no stress and he even told me to stay back home while he go out to get me the pad (y'all know not all guys can do that) but Osaze will collect from me rather than giving to me ,
i have been in Toju's place for the past 10 days without anyone's consent , because Toju is this kind of very secretive guy , Toju knows that i and Osaze ain't dating but he knows we use to kiss and very close to ourselves , he also told me he once asked osaze if we were dating and osaze told him NO that we are not ,okay while in Toju's place me and Toju always kiss for hours , romancing, having shower baths together , waking up in d midnight playing ,(but no sex) trust me we had no sex , the day we were suppose to have sex he told me he doesn't want to have sex with me that he doesn't see me like all these kind of girls that worth doing chop and clean mouth for ( he said he knows how to tell a girl he likes her even when he doesn't , that he will have sex with the girl and give her whatever she want and that will be all), he said he had like me since January when he came to school that when he told his closest friend about me the friend told him to go for me that but people keep telling him that i am osaze's girlfriend and then him and osaze were not yet close .
further more Toju said having sex with me is like disrespecting me that the fact that he knows i am still very close to Osaze will be making him so jealous ,that he doesn't want to have sex with me now and later tomorrow i will find him and another girl dating , that its going to be really disrespectful to me , he said he really wants a real relationship with me that he feels something special for me that but the fact that people are having this believe that i am osaze's gf will not make him feel free go into relationship with me , he said he really just want to have all of me to himself and now him and osaze are very close friends already , and osaze is sensing that Toju likes me now osaze is trying to make Toju believe that we are dating (forgetting that he once told him (Toju) that we are not dating) so that Toju will not get his chance to me , he said if him and osaze haven't been close that it would have been better ,he said he doesn't want the fact that people who sees me like osaze gf will be like ( u don collect ur guy woman) talks like that , that that is all he's avoiding ,
further more he said if we are going to date he will want to have me all to him self with no 3rd party and he will want everyone to know that we are dating ,
so now the point are
1:my last relationship path ways because of osaze
2: osaze and i are just friends
3: osaze doesn't want to date me
4: osaze doesn't want another guy to date me
5: osaze is stopping who loves me to come to me
6: most other students believes osaze is my bf
Toju said he's really getting use to me, he likes my kind of person and he want to have me all to himself alone That but osaze is the one making things complicated , i told him i can sort things out
But how can i sort things out
GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT.
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by PlayMaker14: 4:26pm On Jul 16, 2021
Dear Nairalanders,



Kindly Ignore this attention seeking boy with slack balls...


Thanks for your understanding.

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Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by ifytrik(m): 4:31pm On Jul 16, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Dear Nairalanders,



Kindly Ignore this attention seeking boy with slack balls...


Thanks for your understanding.
Slack balls kwa! Una nogo kill me for this nairaland

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Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by gasparpisciotta: 4:32pm On Jul 16, 2021
Figment of op’s imaginary characters
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by chatinent: 4:34pm On Jul 16, 2021
What soaking garri cannot do doesn't exist.

God punish Lord Luggard.

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Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by MASTERYANKEE: 4:37pm On Jul 16, 2021
You have too many simp around you.. you are a very lucky girl.

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Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by HONESTFACT101(m): 4:38pm On Jul 16, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Dear Nairalanders,



Kindly Ignore this attention seeking boy with slack balls...


Thanks for your understanding.
cheesy
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by Theboy21: 4:38pm On Jul 16, 2021
cheesy cheesy
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by HONESTFACT101(m): 4:41pm On Jul 16, 2021
if you read op's trash to the end then your brain is useless cheesy

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Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by PlayMaker14: 4:43pm On Jul 16, 2021
HONESTFACT101:
if you read op's trash to the end then your brain is useless cheesy
That's the "HONEST FACT"
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by Decembe(f): 4:49pm On Jul 16, 2021
HONESTFACT101:
if you read op's trash to the end then your brain is useless cheesy
I swear grin
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by HONESTFACT101(m): 4:51pm On Jul 16, 2021
PlayMaker14:
That's the "HONEST FACT"
i wonder what gave him the whack inspiration to write that
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by richmondefosa(m): 4:56pm On Jul 16, 2021
Congratulations or my con condolence to him or her. Or you or them.

you don't expect me to read up all that crappy bullshit.

angry angry angry
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by AmazingELixir: 4:59pm On Jul 16, 2021
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iamSugarxx09:
Hi guys please i need an advise, please a real one
There's this guy (osaze) in my school here in Cotonou that everyone thinks we are dating, to the extent in February i lost my relationship of almost 2years because of him , all because my last boyfriend thinks i was dating him, okay after me and my boyfriend path ways i and osaze became very close to the extent we use to kiss anytime i feel like kissing because i and osaze we getting use to each other but we ain't dating , and he's not ready to go into a relationship with me , but because of the kind of classy and Topnotch babe i am , i feel that's y he always want people to see him around me and them thinking that we are dating but only few knows for sure that we ain't dating , anytime i tell him anyone ask if we are dating he will tell me to tell the person that we are not dating that we are just friends,
one day i asked him if he wish to be in a relationship with me he said NO (we are cool like this) and he knows my last relationship broke apart because of him we became so close to the extent no one want to come and ask me out because they feel we are into relationship together ,
Okay here comes Toju in January as summer student to our school , me and Toju partially became friends privately, we use to take our time chatting and talking on WhatsApp , he use to send me money even when i dont ask him for money, he's always petting me ,caring for me , to the extent on monday night around 9pm while i was in Toju's place Toju went out to getting me 2packs of sanitary pad because i was on my period , and i can remember the day i told Osaze to give me money to buy pad he said (he doesn't see any reason y he should be the one to buy me a pad) wow, and Toju bought me pads with no stress and he even told me to stay back home while he go out to get me the pad (y'all know not all guys can do that) but Osaze will collect from me rather than giving to me ,
i have been in Toju's place for the past 10 days without anyone's consent , because Toju is this kind of very secretive guy , Toju knows that i and Osaze ain't dating but he knows we use to kiss and very close to ourselves , he also told me he once asked osaze if we were dating and osaze told him NO that we are not ,okay while in Toju's place me and Toju always kiss for hours , romancing, having shower baths together , waking up in d midnight playing ,(but no sex) trust me we had no sex , the day we were suppose to have sex he told me he doesn't want to have sex with me that he doesn't see me like all these kind of girls that worth doing chop and clean mouth for ( he said he knows how to tell a girl he likes her even when he doesn't , that he will have sex with the girl and give her whatever she want and that will be all), he said he had like me since January when he came to school that when he told his closest friend about me the friend told him to go for me that but people keep telling him that i am osaze's girlfriend and then him and osaze were not yet close .
further more Toju said having sex with me is like disrespecting me that the fact that he knows i am still very close to Osaze will be making him so jealous ,that he doesn't want to have sex with me now and later tomorrow i will find him and another girl dating , that its going to be really disrespectful to me , he said he really wants a real relationship with me that he feels something special for me that but the fact that people are having this believe that i am osaze's gf will not make him feel free go into relationship with me , he said he really just want to have all of me to himself and now him and osaze are very close friends already , and osaze is sensing that Toju likes me now osaze is trying to make Toju believe that we are dating (forgetting that he once told him (Toju) that we are not dating) so that Toju will not get his chance to me , he said if him and osaze haven't been close that it would have been better ,he said he doesn't want the fact that people who sees me like osaze gf will be like ( u don collect ur guy woman) talks like that , that that is all he's avoiding ,
further more he said if we are going to date he will want to have me all to him self with no 3rd party and he will want everyone to know that we are dating ,
so now the point are
1:my last relationship path ways because of osaze
2: osaze and i are just friends
3: osaze doesn't want to date me
4: osaze doesn't want another guy to date me
5: osaze is stopping who loves me to come to me
6: most other students believes osaze is my bf
Toju said he's really getting use to me, he likes my kind of person and he want to have me all to himself alone That but osaze is the one making things complicated , i told him i can sort things out
But how can i sort things out
GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT.
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Nonsense and ingredients
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by daniel7328(m): 4:59pm On Jul 16, 2021
iamSugarxx09:
Hi guys please i need an advise, please a real one
There's this guy (osaze) in my school here in Cotonou that everyone thinks we are dating, to the extent in February i lost my relationship of almost 2years because of him , all because my last boyfriend thinks i was dating him, okay after me and my boyfriend path ways i and osaze became very close to the extent we use to kiss anytime i feel like kissing because i and osaze we getting use to each other but we ain't dating , and he's not ready to go into a relationship with me , but because of the kind of classy and Topnotch babe i am , i feel that's y he always want people to see him around me and them thinking that we are dating but only few knows for sure that we ain't dating , anytime i tell him anyone ask if we are dating he will tell me to tell the person that we are not dating that we are just friends,
one day i asked him if he wish to be in a relationship with me he said NO (we are cool like this) and he knows my last relationship broke apart because of him we became so close to the extent no one want to come and ask me out because they feel we are into relationship together ,
Okay here comes Toju in January as summer student to our school , me and Toju partially became friends privately, we use to take our time chatting and talking on WhatsApp , he use to send me money even when i dont ask him for money, he's always petting me ,caring for me , to the extent on monday night around 9pm while i was in Toju's place Toju went out to getting me 2packs of sanitary pad because i was on my period , and i can remember the day i told Osaze to give me money to buy pad he said (he doesn't see any reason y he should be the one to buy me a pad) wow, and Toju bought me pads with no stress and he even told me to stay back home while he go out to get me the pad (y'all know not all guys can do that) but Osaze will collect from me rather than giving to me ,
i have been in Toju's place for the past 10 days without anyone's consent , because Toju is this kind of very secretive guy , Toju knows that i and Osaze ain't dating but he knows we use to kiss and very close to ourselves , he also told me he once asked osaze if we were dating and osaze told him NO that we are not ,okay while in Toju's place me and Toju always kiss for hours , romancing, having shower baths together , waking up in d midnight playing ,(but no sex) trust me we had no sex , the day we were suppose to have sex he told me he doesn't want to have sex with me that he doesn't see me like all these kind of girls that worth doing chop and clean mouth for ( he said he knows how to tell a girl he likes her even when he doesn't , that he will have sex with the girl and give her whatever she want and that will be all), he said he had like me since January when he came to school that when he told his closest friend about me the friend told him to go for me that but people keep telling him that i am osaze's girlfriend and then him and osaze were not yet close .
further more Toju said having sex with me is like disrespecting me that the fact that he knows i am still very close to Osaze will be making him so jealous ,that he doesn't want to have sex with me now and later tomorrow i will find him and another girl dating , that its going to be really disrespectful to me , he said he really wants a real relationship with me that he feels something special for me that but the fact that people are having this believe that i am osaze's gf will not make him feel free go into relationship with me , he said he really just want to have all of me to himself and now him and osaze are very close friends already , and osaze is sensing that Toju likes me now osaze is trying to make Toju believe that we are dating (forgetting that he once told him (Toju) that we are not dating) so that Toju will not get his chance to me , he said if him and osaze haven't been close that it would have been better ,he said he doesn't want the fact that people who sees me like osaze gf will be like ( u don collect ur guy woman) talks like that , that that is all he's avoiding ,
further more he said if we are going to date he will want to have me all to him self with no 3rd party and he will want everyone to know that we are dating ,
so now the point are
1:my last relationship path ways because of osaze
2: osaze and i are just friends
3: osaze doesn't want to date me
4: osaze doesn't want another guy to date me
5: osaze is stopping who loves me to come to me
6: most other students believes osaze is my bf
Toju said he's really getting use to me, he likes my kind of person and he want to have me all to himself alone That but osaze is the one making things complicated , i told him i can sort things out
But how can i sort things out
GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT.


Is tis story real or a make up one..
If real then then leave Osaze, that nigga is fucking crazy for thinking he own you..... Follow your heart Ma...... And stop kissing someone who you say is you friend, you lost a two years relationship cos of a friend, that weird...

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Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by InfernoNig: 5:12pm On Jul 16, 2021
Tell the truth. You and Osaze dey Bleep each other.
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by Sugardick: 5:50pm On Jul 16, 2021
nothing classy or topnotch about you, you is a public toilet
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by Mophor: 6:52pm On Jul 16, 2021
Damn Niggar!!!!

Why are you lying against Osaze Odemwinge
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by talk2hb1(m): 8:46pm On Jul 16, 2021
Advise Oooo
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by Lee99: 9:21pm On Jul 16, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Dear Nairalanders,



Kindly Ignore this attention seeking boy with slack balls...


Thanks for your understanding.
This guy!!! You just made me spit out food in my mouth cos of laughter
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by younglleo: 9:39pm On Jul 16, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Dear Nairalanders,



Kindly Ignore this attention seeking boy with slack balls...


Thanks for your understanding.
Thanks elder!
I been wan waste time reading this post!
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by iamSugarxx09(f): 2:15pm On Jul 24, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Dear Nairalanders,



Kindly Ignore this attention seeking boy with slack balls...


Thanks for your understanding.

U are just such a senseless human being , is that how you behave here ? (Very bad character)GOAT
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by PlayMaker14: 4:53pm On Jul 24, 2021
iamSugarxx09:


U are just such a senseless human being , is that how you behave here ? (Very bad character)GOAT
Exactly what a daft fellow will say to his father. smiley
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by iamSugarxx09(f): 6:58pm On Aug 20, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Exactly what a daft fellow will say to his father. smiley
Thank God u said 'his' oponu
Re: Guys Please Help Me, His Friend Want A Serious Relationship With Me by Caramia2020(m): 7:02pm On Aug 20, 2021
E de somehow but be careful not to become Kiss Station just like Petrol Station. I rest my case.

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