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Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Mcfemad(m): 9:03am On May 12, 2011
Ladies out there, Why do you think we Men cheat?

Pls drop your comments. Ladies only.


Men can drop their comments at Why Women Cheat thread.

I want to believe we can expose ourselves and see where things have gone wrong with relationships and marriage
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by HotieTima(f): 11:47am On May 12, 2011
well i personal think man find it hard to stay committed to one girl when there are so much toy ( females) available fro them to use.

i am not trying to be rude here but sometime some ladies have temptation over guys i also want an answer to this but can never get it.

all i see is man are always wanting to have fun with what ever comes they way and then at the end of the day they think they can come back home to the one person that loves them. undecided undecided undecided undecided not kool men

women can handle temptation better then men, as long as we are in love with u no matter what it we will remain faithful, for females to cheat on they partners it's really hard.


but this are some of the main some men do cheat
1. They are not ready to have commitments.
2. They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship.
3. They are concerned about their financial/living situation if they end the relationship, but do not feel fulfilled in it.

4. They like various sex partners.

5. they need to feel desired and their partner does not fulfill that need.

6.Some cheat because they don't take their relationships seriously.

7. lack of poor communication in his relationship

8. some think having sex with a number off women gives them the ego booster of high self esteem
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 3:20am On May 13, 2011
just because. . .
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by MrsChima(f): 3:21am On May 13, 2011
I do not care why men or women cheat.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Dsense(m): 3:22am On May 13, 2011
OP.

Cause they wanna taste different meats. undecided
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by annita19(f): 3:29am On May 13, 2011
I hate nosy men/boys

@topic because they re born to cheat. 96% of men are cheaters
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 3:54am On May 13, 2011
annita19:

I hate nosy men/boys

[size=18pt]@topic because they re born to cheat. 96% of men are cheaters[/size]

[size=28pt]COPIED, LAMINATED, AND FRAMED! GBAM!  cool cool[/size]

but let's make that 98.99% wink cool cool
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by annita19(f): 3:59am On May 13, 2011
Lol the other % cheat indirectly one way or the other. U know there's an invisible, emotional, sight, body language and contact cheating.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by ShyOne(f): 5:13am On May 13, 2011
What I find ridiculous is the theory that MEN ARE BORN TO CHEAT and that there are so many different women out there that it is hard for a man to not be tempted.

Let's be honest - a vajayjay is basically a vajayjay - the shape of a vajayjay is similar in shape to the next vajayjay - very, very similar.  Yes some are larger, some are smaller - some are looser, some are tighter.  BUT THAT IS IT. 

But a man's family jewel come in so MANY DIFFERENT SHAPES AND SIZES that WOMEN SHOULD ACTUALLY BE THE CHEATERS if it's about - temptation and wanting to try new and different.  THAT IS TRUTH

ON THAT ALONE We as women HAVE REAL REASON TO BE tempted to WANT try out DIFFERENT MEN.  I know I am tempted - but do I?  ABSOLUTELY NOT.  Because there is something called Integrity and Fidelity.  I loved the thread created by Orinkla  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-664139.0.html because you just can't get ANY TRUER than that.

That is why I refuse to ACCEPT a man is born to cheat and there is too much temptation out there.  Basically I have it in me to ride and ride and ride so many different flavors of men and enjoy each and every one of them - but do I?  NOOOOO - I practice discipline, I display and demonstrate loyalty to my mate and to myself.

I listen to these men talking about how they were created to cheat - pleassseeeee - the biggest bunch of crapola to ever drop from a human's mouth.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by violent(m): 6:58am On May 13, 2011
^^

You re making a big mistake!. . Men don't think of the vajayjay when they sight a chic, yes they'd like to hit the vajayjay but it's almost always the case that the shape, depth, tightness or brightness of the vajayjay is the last thing that comes to the mind.
I am more likely to think of her bóobs, her árse, her long legs, her slim waist, supple lips, perfect skin, swag, how she sounds when she talks, how easy it is to flip her 360, . . .etc etc.

@OP

I think there is another perspective on this that needs exploration. While growing up, boys/men were given a pass by society. We were celebrated when we cheated, while the women were condemned. A man who has multiple women is a gigolo, but a woman with many men was a hoe. The example given by many grown men to the young men coming up, was that to be a real man, you had to have a lots of women. Looking back at it now, it is sad. Cause it forced young men to be dishonest learning to tell lies and that killed their conviction and credibility.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Zahnda(f): 7:51am On May 13, 2011
People cheat because they can. Men cheat more because women allow them too. When ur man cheats and you don't leave, you're telling him it's ok to do so as there are no consequences. Women rarely cheat as the consequences of such an act are almost always dire.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Beync(f): 8:31am On May 13, 2011
We r in the era of complete moral decadence
Somany men does not have control over their sexual appetite
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by 190: 8:37am On May 13, 2011
Why cant men cheat when we were created before the women!!

Its allowed

even male animals do it, they are free to HUMP as much women as they want and the women cant do shiiiit bout it~

Its a men's world. any woman that has a problem with it should go and KNACK HEAD ON TRANSFORMER MAKE THE THING EXPLODE ROAST HER

Booobiiiiee
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 9:14am On May 13, 2011
na true storee o
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by SALady(f): 9:23am On May 13, 2011
Because they keep hoping to find something better
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by MMM2(m): 9:38am On May 13, 2011
make dere pen*s know die.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Phate07(m): 9:48am On May 13, 2011
Why Do Men Cheat?


Because we can. Duh! undecided
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by ShyOne(f): 2:45pm On May 13, 2011
violent:

^^

You re making a big mistake!. . Men don't think of the vajayjay when they sight a chic, yes they'd like to hit the vajayjay but it's almost always the case that the shape, depth, tightness or brightness of the vajayjay is the last thing that comes to the mind.
I am more likely to think of her bóobs, her árse, her long legs, her slim waist, supple lips, perfect skin, swag, how she sounds when she talks, how easy it is to flip her 360, . . .etc etc.

@OP

I think there is another perspective on this that needs exploration. While growing up, boys/men were given a pass by society. We were celebrated when we cheated, while the women were condemned. A man who has multiple women is a gigolo, but a woman with many men was a hoe. The example given by many grown men to the young men coming up, was that to be a real man, you had to have a lots of women. Looking back at it now, it is sad. Cause it forced young men to be dishonest learning to tell lies and that killed their conviction and credibility.

I'm not make a mistake big or small - as I didn't address what a man thinks of when he sights a chic - as I know that men see the overall package first - I'm not sure how you got that out of my post
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by CrudeOil1(m): 3:21pm On May 13, 2011
Only a man knows. Some who cheat don't even know why they cheat, i guess its natural.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Brai777(m): 4:15pm On May 13, 2011
Men cheat because the devil make us do it. Forget the devil, what you women call cheating, to a guy is fun and adventure filled with danger and we love getting into trouble. Most men arent even aware that they might be cheating, because it so natural with us, and trust there are lots of women always sending tempteous signals. Men are actually soft at heart, forget the hard posture, and it takes the Grace of God not to fall for these temptations.

But a time will come, when we will hang our boots and retire, and any woman that comes around then will enjoy fidelity.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 4:47pm On May 13, 2011
190:

Why cant men cheat when we were created before the women!!

Its allowed

even male animals do it, they are free to HUMP as much women as they want and the women cant do shiiiit bout it~

Its a men's world. any woman that has a problem with it should go and KNACK HEAD ON TRANSFORMER MAKE THE THING EXPLODE ROAST HER

Booobiiiiee


Correction: FEMALES [animals] not women.  cool Created before women? fuckry. Keep believing in that Adam/Eve fairy tale.
(yes!! I said it!).
Second, what we cannot do about 'it' HIV and AIDs will, so stay there and 'chat pure fart' like you always do.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Loris1(f): 6:06pm On May 13, 2011
Its challenging and excitng,Some men can not leave behind th thrill of th hunt,th chase nd th conquest.for other men the excitement is in the variety,like changing ice cream flavours after years of just sticking to one.because they can get away with it most of the time,what the eyes dont see the heart doesnt feel.it boosts their ego.he doesnt love you any more.lastly we let them,we're always too quick to forgive when a guy has cheated on us.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by 190: 8:16pm On May 13, 2011
MzDarkSkin:

Correction: FEMALES [animals] not women.  cool Created before women? fuckry. Keep believing in that Adam/Eve fairy tale.
(yes!! I said it!).
Second, what we cannot do about 'it' HIV and AIDs will, so stay there and 'chat pure fart' like you always do.



How about kissing a freshly moderately wet transformer for all i care undecided
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by annita19(f): 8:30pm On May 13, 2011
All the guys,men/boys on this thread are either manbitches, silly nosy ignorant or just being lame. (strictly for females)
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 9:23pm On May 13, 2011
What does it mean to cheat, and what is wrong with cheating?
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by BloodShed1: 2:19am On May 14, 2011
@OP

How are you gonna start a topic regarding the motives behind something MEN do, yet exclude the opinions of MEN?

What a joke.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nekai(f): 3:19am On May 14, 2011
Blood_Shed:

@OP

How are you gonna start a topic regarding the motives behind something MEN do, yet exclude the opinions of MEN?

What a joke.



My thoughts exactly.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 3:49am On May 14, 2011
190:


How about kissing a freshly moderately wet transformer for all i care undecided

Better than kissing u. tongue

annita19:

All the guys,men/boys on this thread are either manbitches, silly nosy ignorant or just being lame. (strictly for females)
grin grin
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by 190: 4:48am On May 14, 2011
yawns undecided
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 4:53am On May 14, 2011
@title LMAO@ 'Strictry' grin grin
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by 190: 4:59am On May 14, 2011
hiss undecided
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by iice(f): 6:24am On May 14, 2011
Men cheat because they want to. No matter what idiotic excuses humans make, ultimately it's their choice to do what they do.

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