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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Eastcoastboy(m): 1:57pm On Jul 17, 2021
BlueAir:
undecided slack? That's like cutting the truth and reality some slack and that's not wise. It's not just about women guy,humans will always be humans. And women will always be women, haven't u ever encountered a bitter woman or ex before??! Geez there's no vandetta against women here,it's what they are I'm saying,that op should be careful of her else! When her love turns bitter or excessive,that MD that got served by chidinma will be child's play

Yes I acknowledge the fact that all women have that trait in them but some have been able to suppress it. That's just it, so generalizing them might seem wise but not fair.
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by McCoy662(m): 1:58pm On Jul 17, 2021
jaelz:
I have always been a player and hardly ever really believed in love as I felt it was just a parable, but being with this my current girlfriend really opened my eyes to so many things with one being the day she truly proved her love for me.

That was the day we went out on a date and we got stopped by police men at a certain junction in Jabi, Abuja, the men started harassing me unnecessarily and when I couldn't take it any more me maself start dey change am for them o, it was at this junction one threatened to shoot me and corked his gun, omo if you see the way my girlfriend ran out of the car that day and stood in the front of me to shield me from the bullet by taking the bullet for me using herself as a shield, asin she was ready to die for me.

That was the day I realized that this girl was for real and nah her I go carry go see my mama.

So guys how did you find out that your woman truly loved you and was for real?
Girls?? She fit stage am grin
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by 24SEVEN: 2:00pm On Jul 17, 2021
donbachi:
The day she swore with her womb,dat she will never cheat on me.

Presently,my wife.

IPOB members and lies. grin
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jul 17, 2021
Ybaby:


Poor men and nonsense = 5 and 6
That one no concern me ooo.
The important thing be say I must marry Hadiza. cheesy

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by BlueAir: 2:01pm On Jul 17, 2021
You think it's not fair to generalize them for the sake of those of them that can surpress that trait? What makes the one that can surpress her bitterness different from the one that doesn't? Nothing. I always call a spade a spade.theyre all the same. Women generally I'll say it anywhere are naturally deceptive and manipulative of men. Some just have a way of hiding that nature but that doesn't mean they don't have that nature. It is what it is man
Eastcoastboy:


Yes I acknowledge the fact that all women have that trait in them but some have been able to suppress it. That's just it, so generalizing them might seem wise but not fair.

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by alaribe1992(m): 2:02pm On Jul 17, 2021
What’s Ibo? Or you meant to say Igbo

Cnach:

U bi Ibo?
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Ekomatrix1(m): 2:04pm On Jul 17, 2021
Did you reciprocate by swearing too? cool I please I want to check something

donbachi:
The day she swore with her womb,dat she will never cheat on me.

Presently,my wife.
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Eastcoastboy(m): 2:04pm On Jul 17, 2021
BlueAir:
You think it's not fair to generalize them for the sake of those of them that can surpress that trait? What makes the one that can surpress her bitterness different from the one that doesn't? Nothing. I always call a spade a spade.theyre all the same. Women generally I'll say it anywhere are naturally deceptive and manipulative of men. Some just have a way of hiding that nature but that doesn't mean they don't have that nature. It is what it is man

Yes that's a skill they've passes down from generations to generations but we as guys are simply thought nothing it's so so sad especially if you don't have an elder bro. I'm just so sad now.
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by topoftheworld(m): 2:05pm On Jul 17, 2021
stagger:
I was owing someone back in the day when poverty was hitting me left and right. She heard me arguing with the fellow outside who was threatening fire and brimstone. She promptly told me to come to her mum's house the next day. As I entered, na so she give me 20k to pay the guy off.

A few years more and we will be in silver jubilee mode.

Na U do well boss, I tap into ur Grace to be out this poverty hitting me both left and right too

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by domnwan(m): 2:06pm On Jul 17, 2021
Doja2000:
I told my girlfriend that I want to buy new clothes and boxers but I was completely broke. She shockterlize me by sending 50k to my account.
I told her that the 50k was too much but she told me to keep the change.
Oh men.......!! I must marry Hadiza. cheesy
where una dey see rich babes

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by simplesearch: 2:08pm On Jul 17, 2021
UDUJ:


Hmmmmmmmmm, I find this story hard to believe but if true then good for you. She just might be a wife material.

Unless you promised sending her some huge amount of money later that day and the police shooting you would have made that not to happen cheesy

And she'll gain what dying instead?
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by victons(m): 2:09pm On Jul 17, 2021
jaelz:
I have always been a player and hardly ever really believed in love as I felt it was just a parable, but being with this my current girlfriend really opened my eyes to so many things with one being the day she truly proved her love for me.

That was the day we went out on a date and we got stopped by police men at a certain junction in Jabi, Abuja, the men started harassing me unnecessarily and when I couldn't take it any more me maself start dey change am for them o, it was at this junction one threatened to shoot me and corked his gun, omo if you see the way my girlfriend ran out of the car that day and stood in the front of me to shield me from the bullet by taking the bullet for me using herself as a shield, asin she was ready to die for me.

That was the day I realized that this girl was for real and nah her I go carry go see my mama.

So guys how did you find out that your woman truly loved you and was for real?

E fit still be scoop shaa. These girls are getting smarter.
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 17, 2021
alaribe1992:
Simpletons spits tueh



Why are you guys always angry whenever you read about a man showing love to a woman? You be gay? Do you wish you were the one in the lady's shoes?

Sha shoot your shot at any guy you fancy. You might be lucky. Na wa oo

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by BigDawsNet: 2:11pm On Jul 17, 2021
Olisehinnocent:
grin grin ;DGuy be careful o. She fit dey pretend. If u marry her finish she go show u pepper cheesy cheesy no say I no tell you. Anyway, make I puff my weed and bang one olosho wey dey myself afterward wink

I'm awear of that and im very careful
I'm gonna be active to check for signs now that we still dating
And I'm gonna be hopeful she never change

Thanks for you advice bro...
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by rushlife: 2:11pm On Jul 17, 2021
IamGreen1:


What if her mother is a widow or the husband abscond with another woman because one of my uncle did this to his first family and the woman singlehandedly trained her children because one person don write am and you've copy it and started reposting it for the sake of 'likes' without reasoning things yourself.
How is your relationship life? Are you happily dating?
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jul 17, 2021
dake40:
Should we tell him?


What are we telling him? That you are jealous and/or probably gay too? Please allow straight men to love women and go find your own gay partner.

Namaste
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by BigDawsNet: 2:14pm On Jul 17, 2021
AdemolaA2:



Haaaah ... I was just gonna say it isn’t a naija girl before reading your last sentence . Lol!!!


Same happened to me in turkey ...we went to a restaurant in Istanbul and she insisted we split the bill while I was forming big man .. looked embarrassing to me at first though cos where I came from ... na taboo for my naija babes ..


Im getting used to splitting bills already...

But sometimes I handle it..but I have to tell her before we go "it's on me this time"

They are really not good in pretending to love you...why would they when they don't rest their problems on you ...

Are you gonna marry your Turkish babe?

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by alaribe1992(m): 2:15pm On Jul 17, 2021
* swallows my red pill* thou shall not fall in love with the manipulative beings called wo-man wink

kneehighbootz:




Why are you guys always angry whenever you read about a man showing love to a woman? You be gay? Do you wish you were the one in the lady's shoes?

Sha shoot your shot at any guy you fancy. You might be lucky. Na wa oo

Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jul 17, 2021
Vinnie2000:



Hehehe.. sad smiley
I just dey look You and the OP dey Laugh!!..
Getting carried away unnecessarily.. undecided

In the OP's Case, His GirlFriend definitely knew the Police Officer WOULD NOT pull the Trigger..
Dats y she stood..
If Na Robbers or Fulani Bandits/Eastern UGM, Can She?? sad cheesy

In your Case, Ur GF get one Yahoo Boy or 'Uncle' dat gives her Steady Cash unto some 'Shining' matters..

Dat N50,000 is like N4000 to Her!!..
She Must have close to N400 Thousand in her account..
Try to investigate..
Nigerian Girl send dier Boyfriend 50k? sad

Guys, Make Una Wise up oo..
YOU CAN LOVE BUT PLS HAVE SENSE!!
you dey write all this things because better rich babe never enter your life.
When she does, you'll understand why I wrote "I must marry Hadiza." wink
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jul 17, 2021
stagger:
I was owing someone back in the day when poverty was hitting me left and right. She heard me arguing with the fellow outside who was threatening fire and brimstone. She promptly told me to come to her mum's house the next day. As I entered, na so she give me 20k to pay the guy off.

A few years more and we will be in silver jubilee mode.



Awwwwwwwww
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by PacAmaru: 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2021
jaelz:
I have always been a player and hardly ever really believed in love as I felt it was just a parable, but being with this my current girlfriend really opened my eyes to so many things with one being the day she truly proved her love for me.

That was the day we went out on a date and we got stopped by police men at a certain junction in Jabi, Abuja, the men started harassing me unnecessarily and when I couldn't take it any more me maself start dey change am for them o, it was at this junction one threatened to shoot me and corked his gun, omo if you see the way my girlfriend ran out of the car that day and stood in the front of me to shield me from the bullet by taking the bullet for me using herself as a shield, asin she was ready to die for me.

That was the day I realized that this girl was for real and nah her I go carry go see my mama.

So guys how did you find out that your woman truly loved you and was for real?
e go still reach you
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2021
She was obsessed with me. There was a day I travelled to my hometown. She was erroneously certain that a girlfriend must be waiting for me there because I'm so popular in my town but I had no girl there.

Once in my hometown, I went out and ran into my secondary school mates; males and females. One of the girls asked to use my phone and check pics. It was in the process of checking the phone that her call came in. The female school mate picked the call by mistake and said, Yomi, your wife is calling o. She knew because I stored the number with "Heart". Once I said hello, my started raining abuses and curses on me.

I became very angry because that was not her first time of fighting perceived husband snatchers. I immediately resolved to end everything.

She knows one thing about me that if I sit down to craft a message and send it, only God can change my mind. I sent a message to her that it was over. I sent the message by 7pm in the evening. When I got home by 10pm, I found my door locked from behind. My girl already arrived from the city. There were two buildings. First one occupied by my parents. I live in the 2nd one where tenants also lived. That was why my parents were not aware she was around.

She cried and begged me. I lied to her that I had forgiven her. But I refused to sleep on bed with her to avoid sex. She said we must sleep on the same bed. At this time, she went and showed herself to my parents and begged them to intervene. My parents liked her so much. So instead of begging me, they commanded me to get loved up with my girl.

I left the house in anger by 11pm to sleep in my friend's house.

My younger sister said she knows where I would probably be. She came in company of my girl and found me by 11:30pm.

I left again for another friend's house. They couldn't find me.

The following morning, my parents scolded me. I pretended to have forgiven her. Once she was back to the city, I told her during our chats that I just placed her on probation because I needed time to heal. She boarded the next available bus to my town.

I ended up dumping her. Her desperation or love is out of this world.

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by BigDawsNet: 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021
Eastcoastboy:


A client or physical dating?


Not a client

My fiancee

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Liballo: 2:19pm On Jul 17, 2021
jaelz:
I have always been a player and hardly ever really believed in love as I felt it was just a parable, but being with this my current girlfriend really opened my eyes to so many things with one being the day she truly proved her love for me.

That was the day we went out on a date and we got stopped by police men at a certain junction in Jabi, Abuja, the men started harassing me unnecessarily and when I couldn't take it any more me maself start dey change am for them o, it was at this junction one threatened to shoot me and corked his gun, omo if you see the way my girlfriend ran out of the car that day and stood in the front of me to shield me from the bullet by taking the bullet for me using herself as a shield, asin she was ready to die for me.

That was the day I realized that this girl was for real and nah her I go carry go see my mama.

So guys how did you find out that your woman truly loved you and was for real?
That won't stop you from cheating on her.
Bye.

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by AdemolaA2: 2:19pm On Jul 17, 2021
BigDawsNet:



Im getting used to splitting bills already...

But sometimes I handle it..but I have to tell her before we go "it's on me this time"

They are really not good in pretending to love you...why would they when they don't rest their problems on you ...

Are you gonna marry your Turkish babe?

No oooo... we split since I came back to naija ... couldn’t survive the stress of long distance relationship
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by ESANMEA(f): 2:20pm On Jul 17, 2021
MejiLoyon:
Breakfast is coming
lol
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Myketuale(m): 2:21pm On Jul 17, 2021
bigpicture001:
I was mad with my girlfriend cuz I suspected she she cheated...then I was very very broke to the last 100 naira..I left her in anger and didn't want to com back again...

Meanwhile, I can't even feed that night..this happened in my varsity days ..she knew she was wrong..she went looking for my roommate and gave him 10k to give me but not to tell me it came from her..cuz she knew I would reject it..my roommate oblige and when I told him am broke ,he offered to borrow me money of exactly 10k to pay back when I can...I was schoked cuz the roomie is damn too stingy..but I accepted..

We later made up, cuz she begged and begged..and one day after over two months ,she ask me if I got the money she gave me through my roommate.i was he'll schoked.didnt expect it came from her. According to her ,we know ourselves so much that she know my financial situation den...

I was happy she cared even in bad times...I then told myself I will never be cause if end of relationship with her...sadly we broke up permanently 5months later cuz she cheated again.this time got pregnant...

Women sha!

A cheat will always be cheat.
Person character e dey hard to live.

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by ukaface(f): 2:21pm On Jul 17, 2021
Sorry to say

But she no wise
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jul 17, 2021
Aaaaarghmed:
Normal normal,woman must Bleep up sometimes,but the day I knew my current babe loved me was one day like dat,she had earlier sold some of her house items and went to her state but things were not good for her there in Anambra,so she came back to Abuja and we were able to raise small money to rent a room in wumba in Apo ,we no get anything inside,even no bed.we always sleep on the wrapper spread on the bare ground. One day I saw a neighbor throwing out a very flat foam at our backyard and I told her I wud observe to see if the person is dumping it away or drying it in the sun.the foam was there for like 4days and I concluded to take it inside so we can use it.i told my gf and I went to the backyard to take it,she told me to stop and she came to the back to meet me and took the foam from me to the house.i asked her why did you not allow me to carry it myself,she said she cannot bear the tot of seeing me carry a leftover foam inside ,that it's better it's her carrying it incase pesin dey shout ,thief thief.it touched me till date.today we stay in one of the top best place in Abuja ,foam no be problem,household property yakpa sef,I dey even wonder how we go sell dem if we wan finally leave d country.she was patient.God is Good


Omg. What an amazing story
Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Eastcoastboy(m): 2:22pm On Jul 17, 2021
BigDawsNet:



Not a client

My fiancee

Congratulations. Na how you take do am naim me want know. Your email won't hurt. I just need to gather enough info as I can get for the journey ahead.

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jul 17, 2021
IamGreen1:


What if her mother is a widow or the husband abscond with another woman because one of my uncle did this to his first family and the woman singlehandedly trained her children because one person don write am and you've copy it and started reposting it for the sake of 'likes' without reasoning things yourself.


You are very smart. And they are the supposed logical gender. If I hear

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Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by BigDawsNet: 2:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
Eastcoastboy:


Congratulations. Na how you take do am naim me want know. Your email won't hurt. I just need to gather enough info as I can get for the journey ahead.

It's not special
We have about 6m+ unmarried white lady in my state...

You just have to be a man and find one lady to talk to...

Must confess it's not gonna easy but you have to keep interacting till you get someone that fancy you.

You need more? I will provide them here so other people can learn

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