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Re: My Dream Wedding by ESANMEA(f): 6:39pm On Jul 17, 2021
pocohantas:


I will be like “My husband prefers egusi soup”

Listener: You done marry?

Me: Oh I am sorry. I never mentioned it? I thought I did. So so sorry.

cheesy cheesy cheesy

Simple and sensible ���
Re: My Dream Wedding by Mariangeles(f): 7:04pm On Jul 17, 2021
cuffee:
What about you?

What about me what? grin
Re: My Dream Wedding by Mariangeles(f): 7:07pm On Jul 17, 2021
pocohantas:


I will be like “My husband prefers egusi soup”

Listener: You done marry?

Me: Oh I am sorry. I never mentioned it? I thought I did. So so sorry.

cheesy cheesy cheesy


grin grin grin

E dey for your body! grin

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Re: My Dream Wedding by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jul 17, 2021
Mood11:

cool



@mood11 in olamide voice " mamalet maa lo fe broke nigga fight for your life"

naa reception gan gan d fun dey o ! abi you no fit gbe body nii. try mood10
Re: My Dream Wedding by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:11pm On Jul 17, 2021
cuffee:
You are odd.

lol you are not the first person to say that grin grin
Re: My Dream Wedding by 111GlassCup: 9:18pm On Jul 17, 2021
May God grant your heart desires. You seem to be different from other women

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Re: My Dream Wedding by Mood11: 9:28pm On Jul 17, 2021
111GlassCup:
May God grant your heart desires. You seem to be different from other women
Amen smiley
Re: My Dream Wedding by Mariangeles(f): 10:16pm On Jul 17, 2021
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Re: My Dream Wedding by cuffee: 10:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
Mariangeles:

What about me what? grin
Small wedding or big wedding?
Re: My Dream Wedding by cuffee: 10:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
Mariangeles:

What about me what? grin
Small wedding or big wedding?
Re: My Dream Wedding by Mariangeles(f): 11:49pm On Jul 17, 2021
cuffee:
Small wedding or big wedding?

Well, almost every lady who grew up watching fairy tales as a little girl wanted a big wedding and the running into the sunset, living happily ever after with her Prince Charming.

For some, the dream remained, and for others it changed depending on the kind of person they grew up to become.
For me, considering the fact that I don’t like publicity, I’d say I prefer a private wedding, then again, it wouldn’t be just all about me.
One must consider others (family members) involved as they (their opinions) matter too (If you value them).

One cannot just be totally selfish about what concerns two families, because it’s not just about a couple getting married, it’s the marriage of two families. (The both of you did not fall from the sky)
Your dad becomes my dad and my dad becomes yours, as my mum becomes your mum and your mum mine, all the way down to siblings. (Addition to family)

You know what I think? In our traditional setting, the wedding (ceremony) is truly for both families (especially the mothers grin), while the marriage is for the couple.

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Re: My Dream Wedding by mrblessed(m): 8:14am On Jul 18, 2021
CareerMom:
I always wanted a small and destination wedding but I have changed my mind. After every I have been through, watched all my friends marry, given my all to people's weddings and I'm probably one of the last to marry, I now want a grand wedding. Yes, I deserve a party after everything I have been through. A classy wedding at an event center will make me happy.
It is all good, if only you are going to provide a substantial part of the money to fund this grand wedding. It is doable, you know.
Re: My Dream Wedding by mrblessed(m): 8:18am On Jul 18, 2021
Mood11:
I am a lady and my desire and dream Wedding is a very simple one.

From traditional to church blessing...

The traditional and church blessing should be same day. Traditional done in the morning and church blessing afterwards.

Would like to wed on a weekday,

With very few people in attendance.

Won't be wearing a wedding gown,

Will wear a very comfy dress and comfy shoes.

No make up or just a slight touch up which I can do myself.

There can be cake but very small and almost plain, no unnecessary decoration.

Very few guests because there would only be few already packed souvenirs which would be handed over to guests as they step out of church with my husband and I to take a few photographs.

No reception whatsoever, go home once you receive your food pack and souvenir.

After photographs, we go to our home. Happy and loving each other to continue our friendship and building life together.

It is the sort of wedding that fits this Buhari economy. Just that you need to include family members, even though your decision to have a quiet wedding is a good one.
Re: My Dream Wedding by CareerMom: 8:48am On Jul 18, 2021
I know a guy must comment. My father is not broke, we throw grand parties in our family so shift. Hisssss

mrblessed:
It is all good, if only you are going to provide a substantial part of the money to fund this grand wedding. It is doable, you know.
Re: My Dream Wedding by DonroxyII: 8:59am On Jul 18, 2021
Strictly by invitation... I will tell my 2LT bro to give me some men to maintain Decorum there ....

If you stand up for food you will be bounce out grin ... Sit down and get served ... if you need anything, raise up your hands and you will be attended to !!

I would love just not more than 10 persons from my side and wife side .. .. I pray she is understanding!!

Possibly Parlour things for Nikkah/Engagement and Registry to seal everything...

I only prepared for Marriage in my life not wedding ... Ko si Time for fanfare !!

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Re: My Dream Wedding by Ademat7(m): 9:56am On Jul 18, 2021
pocohantas:
Just me, him and two witnesses at a Registry.

After that we go home and play chess.

Next day we carry on like nothing happened.
I sabi play chess though
Re: My Dream Wedding by duchaB(m): 10:15am On Jul 18, 2021
Mariangeles:


Well, almost every lady who grew up watching fairy tales as a little girl wanted a big wedding and the running into the sunset, living happily ever after with her Prince Charming.

For some, the dream remained, and for others it changed depending on the kind of person they grew up to become.
For me, considering the fact that I don’t like publicity, I’d say I prefer a private wedding then again, it wouldn’t just be all about me.
One must consider others (family members) involved as they (their opinion) matters too. (If you value them)
One cannot just be totally selfish about what concerns two families, because it’s not just about a couple getting married, it’s the marriage of two families. (The both of you did not fall from the sky)
Your dad becomes my dad and my dad becomes yours, as my mum becomes your mum and your mum mine, all the way down to siblings. (Addition to family)

You know what I think? In our traditional setting, the wedding (ceremony) is truly for both families (especially the mothers grin), while the marriage is for the couple.


I concurr with most of what I read here..
And the idea of a private weeding is so cool.

But weddings are in my opinion, old fashioned and over-rated.

For me, I no dey disposed for any fanfare.
If anything formal must be done and if I am on same page with her, well, just do the necessary low key introductions, carry schnapps( pardon my french) give the girl papa,and get the parents approval and blessings..

I am very unconventional in many things and a serious nonconformist.

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Re: My Dream Wedding by debbydams(f): 1:00pm On Jul 18, 2021
CareerMom:
I always wanted a small and destination wedding but I have changed my mind. After every I have been through, watched all my friends marry, given my all to people's weddings and I'm probably one of the last to marry, I now want a grand wedding. Yes, I deserve a party after everything I have been through. A classy wedding at an event center will make me happy.
me too..go to registry on week Days.. Engagement and a classy wedding at an event center,inviting few people

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Re: My Dream Wedding by Ishilove: 1:36pm On Jul 18, 2021
CareerMom:
I always wanted a small and destination wedding but I have changed my mind. After everything I have been through, watched all my friends marry, given my all to people's weddings and I'm probably one of the last to marry, I now want a grand wedding. Yes, I deserve a party after everything I have been through. A classy wedding at an event center will make me happy.
You make sense. Small but very classy

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Re: My Dream Wedding by duchaB(m): 8:54pm On Mar 21, 2022
Mood11:
I am a lady and my desire and dream Wedding is a very simple one.

From traditional to church blessing...

The traditional and church blessing should be same day. Traditional done in the morning and church blessing afterwards.

Would like to wed on a weekday,

With very few people in attendance.

Won't be wearing a wedding gown,

Will wear a very comfy dress and comfy shoes.

No make up or just a slight touch up which I can do myself.

There can be cake but very small and almost plain, no unnecessary decoration.

Very few guests because there would only be few already packed souvenirs which would be handed over to guests as they step out of church with my husband and I to take a few photographs.

No reception whatsoever, go home once you receive your food pack and souvenir.

After photographs, we go to our home. Happy and loving each other to continue our friendship and building life together.


I remember this thread from last year.. It was becoming interesting then it suddenly ended..
So whats the updates..
Who amongst yall is getting married this year
Re: My Dream Wedding by oldienavie: 1:31am On Mar 22, 2022
pocohantas:


Lmao! I hear that a lot. A teacher did. When I was in Primary school, my parents put us in a chess club.
lets play online, hit me up on old navero
oldnavero@gmail.com
Please let me know when you do, I don't usually check that email.

May the best man person win. cool cool
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