I saw this post on Facebook, It's very funny to me, but Nairalanders please share your views on it.
Should she listen to her Pastor?
When it comes to Church weddings in Nigeria, in who's church should the wedding be conducted, the bride or the groom?

Wed her in her church.

This is the reason you just marry people with similar faith. He feels strongly about his catholic church, you feel strongly about your presbyterian, but your hearts feel strongly towards each other.

I know traditionally, the wedding is done in the woman's church but if he's strongly against it, make una bone church wedding do court wedding instead.

That's a middle ground.

There's no union between a man and woman that doesn't have God's blessings, whether traditional, church or court wedding.

The most important is that traditional marriage sef.

So na church come be the issue now.
A woman will leave her house to become one with a man.
So madam doing the wedding in your husband church is the sane tin to do.

But the way sef, once bride price is paid in the presence of both parents you guys are married

Me no understand all this church wedding stuff

And court wedding incase of any international visit, na court wedding valid pass

On second thought, your pastor is against the wedding being done in his church.
So if the wedding successfully holds in your church.
Next would be pressure for your husband should start attending your church.
I already see a divided/divorce before marriage even take place

Not really an issue

Romanoff:
This is the reason you just marry people with similar faith. He feels strongly about his catholic church, you feel strongly about your presbyterian, but your hearts feel strongly towards each other.

I know traditionally, the wedding is done in the woman's church but if he's strongly against it, make una bone church wedding do court wedding instead.

That's a middle ground.

There's no union between a man and woman that doesn't have God's blessings, whether traditional, church or court wedding.

The most important is that traditional marriage sef.

For the first time in Nairaland; I agree with you.

dawnomike:
For the first time in Nairaland; I agree with you.

Na to go do Thanksgiving o.

this is when you should decide whats more important to you....your FAITH or your FUTURE MARRIAGE.

you are all reading the same bible backwards and against one another. i do feel sorry for all these lost sheep seeking advices from these demons in robe.