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I Need Your Candid Advice by SamdamGP: 7:21am On Jul 24, 2021
Hello everyone, I have been an active member of this forum for quite awhile now but never for once create an account, I created this for the sole purpose of sharing what seems to be a problem to me. Please bear with me, it might be a little bit lengthy and boring.
I'm 27 years of age, i graduated from Lautech, some few years back in one of the most frustrating departments, while in lautech, i had the opportunity of going into internet fraud (yahoo) or yahoo plus but i never took the opportunity from my friends due to the fear of God and home training.
Due to lautech and strike wahala then, we stayed at home for a year without mobilization for Nysc, then i realised I'm no longer a kid, as a responsible guy from the onset, and I ain't the lazy type, despite my parents never disturbed me for a job or anything, i had to go and hustle leave my comfort zone and work my ass out in the city of Ibadan, doing all sort of jobs from security job, to restaurants, finally i got a teaching offer right before my service.
This little capital I raise facilitated my nysc mobilization and settlement in the core northern state i was posted to, cos i understood what was going home at home, the financial constraints from home was kinda overwhelming as my younger sister who also graduated from ilorin as at the time of my one year ASUU strike is also going to service with me.
Service years was worthwhile and terrific, i was able to save a chunk of my allowee as i was into extramural classes that provided me another source of income. All this while, i never had a stable relationship, as i can't make promises to a lady i know i won't keep and also relationship doesn't agree with me, i tried it so many times, i keep getting heart breaks and pain.
After my service immediately I had to move to the east to Hustle like mad, fending for myself and sending home to my family.
All the while i kept academic pursuits intact, started applying for various international scholarships, as God will have it, i secured several Masters in Uk and the likes, at first i couldn't contain the joy but reality was dawn on me, like where will my parents get money for my travelling expenses.
Help didn't come from anywhere, alas i lost several opportunities, i was sober and lost all my faith in having a good life. But i get to pick myself up.
Finally i applied for another degree in unilorin, Medicine and surgery, i was offered and to be honest it not really easy as i fend for myself and it's affecting my academics greatly.
I'm really losing all hopes, atimes i just feel like committing suicides or just run away because I'm really fed up, no money, no love, and the suffering is second to none, even my friends just deserted me,some of them feel i did a foolish thing going back to school, although my parents are trying all there best, but u know u can't expect much from a state workers.
Also i tried several online jobs and i can tell u this, it's not working for me. Please guys help me out, what should i do.
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by AmgMakanaki(m): 7:27am On Jul 24, 2021
For this country,.. Ee hard to see better paying job oo. Most graduates when I no lass lass Na Keyboard dem Dey into o angry
Anyway it’s not easy. I pray you succeed in any way you find yourself

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Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by Seniorwriter(m): 7:31am On Jul 24, 2021
All hope is not yet lost....can you elaborate by what you mean by the post that you couldn't get a headway with online jobs?
Did you search to find a job online or you have a digital skill but couldn't get offers as a freelancer? Which?

Because there are thousands of ease2access earning ways opportunities available online and the best way now to financial sufficiency is earning residually via online.

FYI you must have any or all of these three to earn via online;
# Skill(s)
# Service(s)
# Investment Capital.
SamdamGP:
I started with binary options but i lost my capital to it, was introduced to BTC by a friend. But some days I'm into creative writing via a friend that gives me the job, he has an account on Upwork, but he takes most of the profit. I haven't been able to create mine. But I'm presently open to any online job as long as it's legit.. thanks for your advice sir.

Well I don't give jobs when it could be sourced online lolz....why not open your own upwork account and create your own gigs / offers to get jobs there too like your friend.


@SeniorWriter

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Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by Juliusmomoh: 7:33am On Jul 24, 2021
So when we are saying " this life no balance" what were you thing?
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by Jay5mie: 7:35am On Jul 24, 2021
The school wey you go, you no get work and you decide to go more. You like suffer o
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by Nobody: 7:37am On Jul 24, 2021
You knew u had no money but still went to further,in this buhari regime.

U get mind sha

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Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by SamdamGP: 7:37am On Jul 24, 2021
I started with binary options but i lost my capital to it, was introduced to BTC by a friend. But some days I'm into creative writing via a friend that gives me the job, he has an account on Upwork, but he takes most of the profit. I haven't been able to create mine. But I'm presently open to any online job as long as it's legit.. thanks for your advice sir.

Seniorwriter:
All hope is not yet lost....can you elaborate by what you mean by the post that you couldn't get a headway with online jobs?
Did you search to find a job online or you have a digital skill but couldn't get offers as a freelancer? Which?

Because there are thousands of ease2access earning ways opportunities available online and the best way now to financial sufficiency is earning residually via online.

FYI you must have any or all of these three to earn via online;
# Skill(s)
# Service(s)
# Investment Capital.

@SeniorWriter
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by greatcrown: 7:41am On Jul 24, 2021
What level are you in unilorin?

How did you intend to finance your academics when you were planning to return to school?

What did you study for your first degree?

Have you considered extra Mural classes in Ilorin?
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by Truvelisback(m): 8:05am On Jul 24, 2021
SamdamGP:
Hello everyone, I have been an active member of this forum for quite awhile now but never for once create an account, I created this for the sole purpose of sharing what seems to be a problem to me. Please bear with me, it might be a little bit lengthy and boring.
I'm 27 years of age, i graduated from Lautech, some few years back in one of the most frustrating departments, while in lautech, i had the opportunity of going into internet fraud (yahoo) or yahoo plus but i never took the opportunity from my friends due to the fear of God and home training.
Due to lautech and strike wahala then, we stayed at home for a year without mobilization for Nysc, then i realised I'm no longer a kid, as a responsible guy from the onset, and I ain't the lazy type, despite my parents never disturbed me for a job or anything, i had to go and hustle leave my comfort zone and work my ass out in the city of Ibadan, doing all sort of jobs from security job, to restaurants, finally i got a teaching offer right before my service.
This little capital I raise facilitated my nysc mobilization and settlement in the core northern state i was posted to, cos i understood what was going home at home, the financial constraints from home was kinda overwhelming as my younger sister who also graduated from ilorin as at the time of my one year ASUU strike is also going to service with me.
Service years was worthwhile and terrific, i was able to save a chunk of my allowee as i was into extramural classes that provided me another source of income. All this while, i never had a stable relationship, as i can't make promises to a lady i know i won't keep and also relationship doesn't agree with me, i tried it so many times, i keep getting heart breaks and pain.
After my service immediately I had to move to the east to Hustle like mad, fending for myself and sending home to my family.
All the while i kept academic pursuits intact, started applying for various international scholarships, as God will have it, i secured several Masters in Uk and the likes, at first i couldn't contain the joy but reality was dawn on me, like where will my parents get money for my travelling expenses.
Help didn't come from anywhere, alas i lost several opportunities, i was sober and lost all my faith in having a good life. But i get to pick myself up.
Finally i applied for another degree in unilorin, Medicine and surgery, i was offered and to be honest it not really easy as i fend for myself and it's affecting my academics greatly.
I'm really losing all hopes, atimes i just feel like committing suicides or just run away because I'm really fed up, no money, no love, and the suffering is second to none, even my friends just deserted me,some of them feel i did a foolish thing going back to school, although my parents are trying all there best, but u know u can't expect much from a state workers.
Also i tried several online jobs and i can tell u this, it's not working for me. Please guys help me out, what should i do.
Join the military.
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by bestabigaelever(f): 10:31pm On Jul 24, 2021
You must be very brilliant, what level are you now
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by SamdamGP: 9:15pm On Jul 26, 2021
bestabigaelever:
You must be very brilliant, what level are you now

smiley smiley
I'm just trying my best.. na Grace oh...
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by SamdamGP: 9:16pm On Jul 26, 2021
Truvelisback:
Join the military.

It's not my calling bro.. thanks for ur opinion..
Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by Truvelisback(m): 11:07pm On Jul 26, 2021
SamdamGP:


It's not my calling bro.. thanks for ur opinion..
it's all rice. The situation of the country has many to do job they never thought, plan of wish to have. Remember this: No be everybody wey read Banking and finance dey work 4 bank. That's Naija 4 u.

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Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by vikgreen01(m): 4:12am On Jul 27, 2021
SamdamGP:


It's not my calling bro.. thanks for ur opinion..

Even to join the military u think it’s easy!!!

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Re: I Need Your Candid Advice by Lamanii22(f): 2:56pm On Jul 27, 2021
You should have used your savings to learn a skill... Skills like coding and stuff... Please don't give up on life... You keep trying...

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