Good day!


I want to know if it's right to hide one's achievements like educational, monetary etc because one wants to find true love.



Does it make any sense?


Would a woman be considered bad for rejecting you, if you said you squat with your brother whereas you own a house?

Or that you didn't attend a university whereas you did?

Or that you you didn't have a job whereas you did?

Note that all these are in a bid to test if she is a wife material.

Is it wrong for women to insist on certain things like wealth, educational background, etc?

Well, I see no reason why a person should hide his academic achievements to find love...

It's completely Irrelevant...

On the other hand...Hiding your financial status at first seems reasonable to me...

Trust me bro,when you start raking in money... You'll never really know who truly loves you


That's the reason why a couple of wealthy dudes I know got married to babes they've been dating from their 'broke days'...(Think Obi Cubans, E-Money etc...

(Although most red pillers will tell you that "a real woman knows a dude with potentials to be wealthy )

And it's also the same reason why wealthy dudes mostly prefer wealthy babes too...

Cos they believe a wealthy babe isn't dating them to gold dig their wealth...

That's why the rich always marry from their social class...it's common sense!

In Essence, I'm not saying you should live like a broke niqqa oo

Just don't show your full financial capacity at first...and from the babes reaction you'd know if she's good for you...or not!

All women makes demands,according to every mans income.

If you earn 100k,tell her 40k and watch her demands fall on dat range.

Xenry:
I think you should be real first before faking your downfall.

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LOYALTY TESTING, SIMULATE YOUR DOWNFALL:
“Simulate your downfall to see who folds and sells you out. Loyalty is gauged in the face of failure, not success.” -IM
It is often possible to simulate your downfall; make it look like everything is falling apart, when in reality everything is perfectly fine. Do this, see who stays loyal, and who abandons you.
The appearance of catastrophe has to last for at least a few months. With most of the mercenaries surrounding you, it is unlikely that they will abandon you the day after your downfall comes; for most it will take at least a few weeks.
If a person stays loyal even after 3 months of you appearing to have been destroyed, you can safely assume their loyalty is real.
This may sound like a drastic and unnecessary exercise in deception in return for nothing. In reality, it is a deception that serves a critical purpose; finding out who the real loyalists are.
You cannot build an empire on the backs of mercenaries. History is filled with kings who were destroyed by their closest allies abandoning or outright backstabbing them.
Betrayal from your allies is far more dangerous than any attack from an enemy. In the case of backstabbing, the closer someone is to you the easier it will be for them to destroy you since they are more familiar with your vulnerabilities than anyone else. In the case of abandonment, the closer someone is to you the more you depend on them, and so it is all the more damage that their disappearance will cause.
There is one limiting factor; the downfall you simulate must be easily reversible, so that you can make everything appear normal (good) after you are done with the simulation.
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Agreed to this concept.

Personally, I think it is not necessary. Put all the cards on the table and allow the other person make an informed decision.

Last last, everybody go chop breakfast na the time go different.

Zobah:
Good day!
I want to know if it's right to hide one's achievements like educational, monetary etc because one wants to find true love.

i dont understand you... are you saying that its difficult to find true love when you are successful?!

Does it make any sense?

no it doesnt.

Would a woman be considered bad for rejecting you, if you said you squat with your brother whereas you own a house?
Or that you didn't attend a university whereas you did?
Or that you you didn't have a job whereas you did?
Note that all these are in a bid to test if she is a wife material.

not at all... its called preferences...and everyone has the right to decide what type of person they want for their own life....the difference here is if a woman that you know for a while and she tells you she loves you bla bla bla, and then changes her mind about you the minute you tell her the above...

Is it wrong for women to insist on certain things like wealth, educational background, etc?

nothing wrong with such woman, its called PREFERENCE/CHOICE but then they have to be logical about it.

There somethings that should be kept secret at the beginning of the relationship I til you get to know more better about your partner

Queenserah26:
Personally, I think it is not necessary. Put all the cards on the table and allow the other person make an informed decision.

Last last, everybody go chop breakfast na the time go different.

last paragraph is everything for me.. lol

Hmmmmmm

It is good if you hide a bit of your personality when finding a woman, but the downside it that you might easily loss the person you desire as most women of today are more of materialistic

They love what they see around you

Yes. Go and watch this movie "Coming to America".

Truvelisback:
Yes. Go and watch this movie "Coming to America".

Okay

No

Yes

Lemme paint a picture for you OP...

Let's say there's a bush track that is famed as a den of robbery, about 95% of everyone who passed there at a certain time, let's say 10pm must get robbed and unfortunately the time is 11pm and you have to pass there to get to your place...

Will you pass there while playing your music on loud speaker? Or will you put your valuables in the most private of places and walk down cautiously?

No