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Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by GeneralKoko(m): 1:16am On Jul 28, 2021
"Sex for grades" is a term popularly used by Nigerians in tertiary institutions to refer to situations where students have sex with staff of institutions ( mostly Universities) in exchange for good grades.
This has increasingly become a norm in the Nigerian society and it is a bad trend that has damaged our value system and caused trauma to students who are victims .

Share your experience and possible solution to this menace

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by FutureHNDRxXx: 1:25am On Jul 28, 2021
Scroll down this is not the comment you’re looking for brah. tongue

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by GeneralPula: 1:38am On Jul 28, 2021
Osho girls in schools hardly read..

Their best bet to pass is to fvck lecturers..

Nah dem dey go meet lecturers demselves..

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Mide3367: 1:59am On Jul 28, 2021
Make i book space first

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Bluntguy: 2:40am On Jul 28, 2021
@op you did not share any experience, or don't you have one?

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by WoundedLamb: 3:50am On Jul 28, 2021
GeneralPula:
Osho girls in schools hardly read..

Their best bet to pass is to fvck lecturers..

Nah dem dey go meet lecturers demselves..


Yes, the lecturers are held at gunpoint and they don't know what to do, I suppose. Why not create a thread to ask for help on thier behalf? I wonder how you guys allows gender dichotomy to becloud your sense of reasoning. How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him? The reason why things will never change in Nigeria is because some of you will always make light of any crime or offense committed by one of your own. Your politicians know this and they take advantage of this. It is no news that quite a number of male lecturers are asking for sex in exchange for marks, but you'd rather look the other way while focusing on the opposite gender. I wonder the end goal cause that's not what being a man is about. These lecturers you're refusing to call out will teach your kids tomorrow.

Tadeknkeepcalm:

The thing is....in a bid to uphold some self-righteousness, as indicated in your signature, "I am not a misogynist" you become thoroughly blind. It's true, lecturers do request sex from some students to pass a course (which no one is disputing how evil that is), but it is also true that some students offer sex to lecturers so they could be favoured in their exams. Don't both cases fall under "sex for grades".

It would have been wiser for you to let the guy state his opinion and you, state your own opinion and your experiences rather than try to gag any opinion that doesn't favour "every woman is a victim of our society" which is the bane of those brainwashed to appear "woke". This is an avenue for people to have conversations and be informed about the society so the root cause of certain problems can be fixed rather than being dogmatic so much so that you must only view things through only one lens.

In the end, you will only sound like a bleating wounded sheep rather than a person of reason and end up not achieving anything but only cementing other corrupt mindsets.

Now tell me, since the day you've been bleating all over Nairaland, have you ever changed anyone's opinion? I highly doubt that. You know why, because your replies always reeks of arrogance and self righteousness. You only comment to establish that you're better than everyone and wiser than all. Like one of your woke lords recently said (she knows better now), "we are all trying to out-angel one another".

Maybe if you listen, share your experiences and not just rubbish people and their experiences, you might start seeing the change you want. And if not, move to twitter and continue living in your echo chamber.

I'm choosing to reply you despite the insults.

The OP never said every lady is a victim neither did my comment argue about the possibility of students making the offer themselves; if anything, my comment acknowledged it. However, coming to thread created to share experiences of lecturers asking for sex in exchange for marks to tell people that it's the ladies that make the offer instead is clearly a deliberate attempt suppress the discussion and shift the blame to another party. Even a kid could see that. The comparison is not fair cause the lecturers are clearly
in charge of their choices. The person I quoted is a man, it's very unlikely he had this experience yet he's bent selling a narrative that sits well with him. His comment was a blocker and I reserve the right to disagree with him just like you have the right to disagree with me. If you read down the thread, you'd see some other men like him who are bent on shifting the blame. So don't tell me I didn't share my opinion, my comment you quoted was my opinion just like this comment of yours is your opinion.

If I have changed anyone's opinion on Nairaland in the past, would you know? If my comments offend you, you might have to live with it and try to ignore them, but if you think you have the right to quote me and write me a ted talk about how you disagree with my opinion, then don't you think I also reserve the same right to quote people I disagree with? What authority do you have to tell me to leave people and share my opinion when you're clearly not doing the same? When you quote me to run down my comment, it's acceptable but when I quote others, it's "rubbishing them". How logical.

And now you think I'm out to "out-angel" you? Ridiculous. would I want to impress you on a faceless forum? I don't know you, you don't me. I don't have friends on NL. I don't remember anybody's username. I'm not following anyone and if I had my way, I'd rather no one followed me. I've changed my username several times on this platform just to avoid being known cause that's the only way I'd be able give my opinion without thinking of who gets disappointed. If I wanted likes and followers, I know where to go and what to type. And if you think anyone's comment aims at "out-angeling" you, then take that up with your conscience.

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Nobody: 4:30am On Jul 28, 2021
WoundedLamb:


Yes, the lecturers are held at gunpoint and they don't know what to do, I suppose. Why not create a thread to ask for help on thier behalf? I wonder how you guys allows gender dichotomy to becloud your sense of reasoning. How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him? The reason why things will never change in Nigeria is because some of you will always make light of any crime or offense committed by one of your own. Your politicians know this and they take advantage of this. It is no news that quite a number of male lecturers are asking for sex in exchange for marks, but you'd rather look the other way while focusing on the opposite gender. I wonder the end goal cause that's not what being a man is about. These lecturers you're refusing to call out will teach your kids tomorrow.

Oga shut up.
The guy is saying the reality. You come here dey shalaye. Mumu

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by MasonKendall(m): 6:00am On Jul 28, 2021
WoundedLamb:


Yes, the lecturers are held at gunpoint and they don't know what to do, I suppose. Why not create a thread to ask for help on thier behalf? I wonder how you guys allows gender dichotomy to becloud your sense of reasoning. How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him? The reason why things will never change in Nigeria is because some of you will always make light of any crime or offense committed by one of your own. Your politicians know this and they take advantage of this. It is no news that quite a number of male lecturers are asking for sex in exchange for marks, but you'd rather look the other way while focusing on the opposite gender. I wonder the end goal cause that's not what being a man is about. These lecturers you're refusing to call out will teach your kids tomorrow.

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by GeneralKoko(m): 7:16am On Jul 28, 2021
Bluntguy:
@op you did not share any experience, or don't you have one?

I know say some lecturers dae Bleep some of my coursemates them for grades .

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by BigYash: 7:44am On Jul 28, 2021
WoundedLamb:


Yes, the lecturers are held at gunpoint and they don't know what to do, I suppose. Why not create a thread to ask for help on thier behalf? I wonder how you guys allows gender dichotomy to becloud your sense of reasoning. How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him? The reason why things will never change in Nigeria is because some of you will always make light of any crime or offense committed by one of your own. Your politicians know this and they take advantage of this. It is no news that quite a number of male lecturers are asking for sex in exchange for marks, but you'd rather look the other way while focusing on the opposite gender. I wonder the end goal cause that's not what being a man is about. These lecturers you're refusing to call out will teach your kids tomorrow.
I no sure say you go uni for Nigeria.

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by SunLight11(f): 8:04am On Jul 28, 2021
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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Nobody: 9:04am On Jul 28, 2021
Wuna never know wetin the sup for higher institutions nowadays abi?

I get female course mate(Name withheld) wey the talk with our department HOD for phone,like say na mate them be.

Wuna never still get? undecided

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by GeneralPula: 9:05am On Jul 28, 2021
WoundedLamb:


Yes, the lecturers are held at gunpoint and they don't know what to do, I suppose. Why not create a thread to ask for help on thier behalf? I wonder how you guys allows gender dichotomy to becloud your sense of reasoning. How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him? The reason why things will never change in Nigeria is because some of you will always make light of any crime or offense committed by one of your own. Your politicians know this and they take advantage of this. It is no news that quite a number of male lecturers are asking for sex in exchange for marks, but you'd rather look the other way while focusing on the opposite gender. I wonder the end goal cause that's not what being a man is about. These lecturers you're refusing to call out will teach your kids tomorrow.

How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him?
Except in movies, I've never seen this happening in reality.

If you put a yam outside and a passing goat chop it, will it be realistic for you to go after the goat, knowing well enough goat didn't come into your apartment to chop the yam..?

These girls don't only fvck lecturers to pass... They'll fvck a doctor so as not to be paying for health services... They'll fvck a landlord so as not for them not to pay rent... They'll fvck a uber man so as not to be paying for transports...

Same girls, whenever they want to report to you.. They'll be like;'
Lecturer is demanding for sex or she'll fail
landlord is demanding for sex cuz she's owing rent
Uber man is demanding for sex cuz she wanted to transport somewhere and she has no cash

These girls, stories and forming victims are like 5&6..

You can't blame a man for accepting sex advances from any lady, just as you can't blame any lady for collecting free money from any man..

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by sunshineV(f): 9:10am On Jul 28, 2021
the poster above me, u sure say u write jamb?

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Stone03: 9:40am On Jul 28, 2021
GeneralPula:
Osho girls in schools hardly read..

Their best bet to pass is to fvck lecturers..

Nah dem dey go meet lecturers demselves..


I knew one of them that passed through that way. She was in unizik but always in Lagos only for her to submit pussy to pass.
She got graduated and began to look for job. This lady kept failing interviews to the point that even local factories couldn't employ her lol.

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Homeboiy: 9:42am On Jul 28, 2021
Na students dey fight to date lecturers in my own school

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by blueyonder6: 10:35am On Jul 28, 2021
cool
Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by vincentjk(m): 10:35am On Jul 28, 2021
During my 200l in a federal university in the south, I didn't stay in the student quarters/lodge or hostel because I wanted my peace of mind, stayed in the GRA (government house) after all I hardly went to school.

One day on my way to school, a single female lecturer taking me a departmental course gave me a lift to school and due to my coordination we exchanged contact, from there things moved on really well.

If not for her don't know how I'd have paid for my apartment because things were somehow for me then, she met the caretaker and settled the payment for my flat because she knew him and we were neighbours kinda.

Nop I wasn't used be her, it was trade by barter and I'm lucky I met her. My grades in her course and few others were something to write home about. smiley

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by TempUser: 10:36am On Jul 28, 2021
Wetin be dis one again?

angry

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by slawormiir: 10:36am On Jul 28, 2021
Damnnn niggar
Grab my weed to read comments

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Abaman001(m): 10:36am On Jul 28, 2021
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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by inoki247: 10:36am On Jul 28, 2021
here to read lies nd even people wey b say na dem throw dem sef to Lecturers as Giveaway.....

Wey Sex don cheap like diz...

Sex for Indomie..

Sex for Uber.....

Bak in day Sex for BlackBerry now na for iPhone or Infinix...

so wetin b sex for grade when you can get it easily with even 1500 airpod plug into ur ear....

Modify

Sex for charging sef dey.....

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Unibener: 10:36am On Jul 28, 2021
If Slawormiir tell you his story, You go cry

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by TriCee: 10:37am On Jul 28, 2021
Here we go. Grabs mat...

Please endeavor to make your comments precise! We have so many comments to attend to. And don't book space and disappear, we go sell am to serious story tellers!

Grabs pillow...with a bowl of corn and pear!

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by Wickedfact: 10:38am On Jul 28, 2021
Sex for grades is even too much. Go to the Uber and Taxify thread and see where Lekki girls are offering sex to pay for trips of 1,200 and 1,500.

Sex is the cheapest thing a lady can offer a man and any man who demands sex for anything from a lady is a big fool.

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Re: Sex For Grades . Share Your Experience!!! by pegix(m): 10:38am On Jul 28, 2021
Even though sex for grade is a reality and our ladies get trap in one way or the other

Yes

But nevertheless ain't gon believe all these fake and premeditated rants on this thread

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