emzynuel1:

Sista rest abeg
All dis small small pikin talk
Las Las jux talk say d guys way u dey meet online no fu*k u well or u no fyn so Dem no dey cum ur Syd
Stop acting like a bit*h and fucking say wat is upsetting u
Hypocrite jux dey everywhere

Basic male local mind. Everything is about sex to you. Or beauty.


Things don't make sense to you until you've sexualized them. You have a lot of development to do and 99.9% brains to grow.

osborn4u:


You have been gyrating all over the thread!

For you to aggregate all men as one, that is fallacy of hasty generalization and if by fate, you end up getting married to a Nigerian man cum black man, then, it would be such a shame...

It seems that way because everyone's not on the bandwagon.

One can't even hold conversations with black men. It always gyrates back to sex and sexualization. As evidenced in the mentions I've been receiving from this thread, there's nothing mysterious or attractive about black men and their reasoning.

Black man's anthem: condemn women, sex, sex, sex.

Especially Nigerian men boys. They like trying to sound like they have brains, and like intellect when they actually don't. The concocted stories on this thread belong on low grade fantasy shelves. Very boring, unappealing drivel.

BRATISLAVA:


It seems that way because everyone's not on the bandwagon.

One can't even hold conversations with black men. It always gyrates back to sex and sexualization. As evidenced in the mentions I've been receiving from this thread, there's nothing mysterious or attractive about black men and their reasoning.

Black man's anthem: condemn women, sex, sex, sex.

Especially Nigerian men boys. They like trying to sound like they have brains, and like intellect when they actually don't. The concocted stories on this thread belong on low grade fantasy shelves. Very boring, unappealing drivel.

Okay, this thing you just said now, go to a quiet place, think about it, does it make Sense?

I have met a couple of girls from Eskimi, Twitter, Tinder, Nairaland but never from Facebook. I don't know why but Facebook just don't work for me.

I'm still cool with most of these ladies and I have one in particular that I have gone on to meet her entire family and she has met most of mine too, we share the same birthday so friendship strong Wella.

Flaking about meeting for the first time, I have never had any strange experience. I find as much info as I can get before meeting and I keep my expectations at the minimum.
Since we are meeting as friends there is no need for unnecessary judgement, just come as you are. If we vibe well then we will see again and again, if the chemistry is extra we can kick it up a notch and if we are not feeling each other we go dead am.

Sometimes you can't really place it, like a lady I met recently via Nairaland, I couldn't really profile her, it seems she herself does not know what she wants so she is neither here nor there.

Olajah81:
Devoted dating site nd wonder dating site make sense die

Dat devoted do me well ooo...

I don Bleep tired

I no see devoted download o

thatsleepboy1:


I no see devoted download o

No need of downloading just go to devoted.com nd registered with ur mail

Olajah81:


No need of downloading just go to devoted.com nd registered with ur mail

This is what I'm seeing or should I use VPN?

Dayotheeone:
First time we met at her place, she use talk finish me, next time we met at her place again, we got down to business.
Omo! na so did girl dey use teeth tear my preek in the name of BJ, Lol.... mo ya japaa!

You be werey ooooo, Hahahaha.

BRATISLAVA:


What a basic way for men to reason. It's always about an imaginary relationship and its sexual "benefits", to men.

Do you people have anything else you think of? Or is that all you think about? If it's not about sex, Nigerian males can't reason anything else out. Yet they talk about wanting intelligent women, when above quote is their best.

All Nigerian men think about is sex, dextre.

I think I am the only Nigerian guy who doesn't think about sex. Sex ke!.lol

Skyview01:


I think I am the only Nigerian guy who doesn't think about sex. Sex ke!.lol

If true, may the Lord bless you for having a normal mind.

It's always annoying to read about something, and the very first comment a man will give is a sexualized version of the whole thing. Before you know it, it's a choir of men at it.

Is it that sex is the only thing in their lives that they will inject it into every situation, even when it doesn't make sense?

BRATISLAVA:


If true, may the Lord bless you for having a normal mind.

It's always annoying to read about something, and the very first comment a man will give is a sexualized version of the whole thing. Before you know it, it's a choir of men at it.

Is it that sex is the only thing in their lives that they will inject it into every situation, even when it doesn't make sense?

I was only joking don't take me serious.
Of course I think about sex as a married man. I like to enjoy good quality sex. For me, everything is not all about sex though.
I can still hold normal conversation with you without thinking of sex I promise.
It's a perfect way to unwind and relax and unwind. Sex is natural and if I might ask, what do you have against it?

safarigirl:


How will you know the girl is a virgin?

He probably thought I was lying, or didn't care. Either way, he ran away after I told him there is no way I am sleeping with someone I have not married.

So, dead to me.

Fair enough. I like a girl who knows what she wants and takes her stand.
I had a deep religious background and had my first sex after marriage.
If I have to do it again, I will want sex before marriage to determine sexual compatibility. I love for my ladies to be wild and adventures in bed. That may be lacking in virgins.
My 2 cents though.

Skyview01:

I was only joking don't take me serious.
Of course I think about sex as a married man. I like to enjoy good quality sex. For me, everything is not all about sex though.
I can still hold normal conversation with you without thinking of sex I promise.
It's a perfect way to unwind and relax and unwind. Sex is natural and if I might ask, what do you have against it?

What you're describing is different. If you think about sex with your wife, that's different from what you get here on naira land.

There's a problem when men read a news topic and think " she's not missing, she's having sex somewhere". Why not think more on what it means to be missing rather than concluding it's about sex?

Or girl was raped, woman reports it and all the men think, "the woman is just bitter he's no more having sex with her, she's pained". Why not focus on the case rather than thinking it's about some imaginary sex?

Or the males who read a comment, that these comments on this thread are needlessly bashing females(sounds like mostly lies) and the only thing that comes to their mind is, "you need to have some sex etc". Why not read the comment, why most it be linked to sex? What does it have to do with having sex?

There's a time and place to express such primitive sex thoughts, and it's not all the time on everything.

Unfortunately, it seems males on the forum can only sexualize every bit of information they see.

BRATISLAVA:

What you're describing is different. If you think about sex with your wife, that's different from what you get here on naira land.

There's a problem when men read a news topic and think " she's not missing, she's having sex somewhere". Why not think more on what it means to be missing rather than concluding it's about sex?

Or girl was raped, woman reports it and all the men think, "the woman is just bitter he's no more having sex with her, she's pained". Why not focus on the case rather than thinking it's about some imaginary sex?

Or the males who read a comment, that these comments on this thread are needlessly bashing females(sounds like mostly lies) and the only thing that comes to their mind is, "you need to have some sex etc". Why not read the comment, why most it be linked to sex? What does it have to do with having sex?

There's a time and place to express such primitive sex thoughts, and it's not all the time on everything.

Unfortunately, it seems males on the forum can only sexualize every bit of information they see.

I am in agreement with you. I think we African men are obsessed with sex. We will try our best to change.

Skyview01:


I am in agreement with you. I think we African men are obsessed with sex. We will try our best to change.

@bolded: the tiger will sooner lose its stripes.

African men. Nigerian men are a subset of them.

frankson1:






Yours is better because you got to chat in person.

We met on FB too. Chatted for months and decided to meet. It was on a Saturday, so I told her to meet me at a place where I was watching a football match. This babe called that she was at the place. I positioned myself where she couldn't see me while asking her exactly where she was. My morale dropped when I sighted her
I told her my battery was low and the phone will go off any minute.

I turned off the phone and watched her stood there for minutes before leaving.

I felt bad later that day though.

You're cruel

Loveknitting:



You're cruel

Yeah, not anymore. That was years ago and I admitted my wrong.



"Loveknitting" I was learning to knit after I stopped working because I love it.
I wish I know how to.

frankson1:





Yeah, not anymore. That was years ago and I admitted my wrong.

I see that,



"Loveknitting" I was learning to knit after I stopped working because I love it.
I wish I know how to.

Wow, that is something, especially for a guy, so far did you go?

Naso I control one girl from ijegun ikotun side oo, naso she come my lodge,we talk to know each other after knowing each other naso we enter two round..she come see person wey she know for d hotel she talk say na her half brother.naso I leave them for my own room lodge go do something for like 45 minute before I come d boy dey clear me say he just do two round I come be like ah I think say na ur half sister him talk say no them no relative say them be Friends,,omo fear girl first time to meet u two boys Bleep u for the same bed and the same room ah

Loveknitting:


Wow, that is something, especially for a guy, so far did you go?

I love it because it brings out the creativity in you.
It's for those who are highly disciplined and arranged because sitting at a place for hours is not for everyone.

I didn't go far, was still learning how to handle the crochet hook and yarn. Though, I was able to knit a belt.

I used YouTube videos as I didn't have anyone to teach me.

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I love it because it brings out the creativity in you.
It's for those who are highly disciplined and arranged because sitting at a place for hours is not for everyone.

I didn't go far, was still learning how to handle the crochet hook and yarn. Though, I was able to knit a belt.

I used YouTube videos as I didn't have anyone to teach me.

[/quote

That's nice, really,
But sounds like hand knitting?, nope, not a fan of handknitting, cause I do a lot of knitting, I use machines instead.

[quote author=Loveknitting post=104667329][/quote]




Oh! You're among the advanced people using machines. I hear it's even more difficult than hand knitting.

Well-done.

frankson1:





Oh! You're among the advanced people using machines. I hear it's even more difficult than hand knitting.

Well-done.

What?
That's not true.

Loveknitting:



What?
That's not true.

Really! I don't know. I haven't used one before.

frankson1:




Really! I don't know. I haven't used one before.

It's faster,

can't stand handknitting, people that does it I envy them.

Loveknitting:


It's faster,

can't stand handknitting, people that does it I envy them.

Anyway, enjoy yourself.

Always stay safe.

190theclown:


well considering i am one of the OGs of this site. Its a good thing you keep quiet and keep it moving boy

190theclown:


Erm? hows this relevant

BRATISLAVA:


Basic male local mind. Everything is about sex to you. Or beauty.


Things don't make sense to you until you've sexualized them. You have a lot of development to do and 99.9% brains to grow.

Basically local woman mindset
All u want is to receive love and care without giving shit
U must have forgotten d law of equivalent trade
Am fucking tired of all dis pseudo moralistic individuals

emzynuel1:

Basically local woman mindset
All u want is to receive love and care without giving shit
U must have forgotten d law of equivalent trade
Am fucking tired of all dis pseudo moralistic individuals

Typical local broke male mindset on display, always exhibiting a lack of civility in interactions.

All they want is a dish cloth who will fall to their feet as if they are heaven and Earth, while they are empty within and have nothing to give, be it love or care.

We're all so tired of their false moralistic approach to anything to do with women. Women this, women that. Why are you still thirsting after women?

BRATISLAVA:


Typical local broke male mindset on display, always exhibiting a lack of civility in interactions.

All they want is a dish cloth who will fall to their feet as if they are heaven and Earth, while they are empty within and have nothing to give, be it love or care.

We're all so tired of their false moralistic approach to anything to do with women. Women this, women that. Why are you still thirsting after women?

Men don't prove to b moralistic mind u
90% of the time u no dat a guy want to have sef with u
Den u start conversing with im, billing im den wen e reach tym fr u to repay u start complaining dat men like sex too much
Pls abeg
U cannot even compare me with all dose guys dat do stay in ur street abeg
Dere is levels to dis shit men

ESANMEA:
Lol.. I met one via Facebook way back in in Benin in 2009. He came to see me in school and brought some apples for me. I found a quiet spot for both of us but then I wasn't feeling the guy at all and I couldn't pretend, I was still a teenager though.. He tried to touch me and I made it obvious that I was irritated.. After our petty talk that day, I went back to my hostel and he also left without giving me the apples..

I know you.
Should I post your pictures here to proof that I Know you?