"..."

God will direct you. Ask him in prayer.

Your dilemma is not really clear. If you've had admissions to a course your daddy don't like but you don't mind, why not do it?

If you've not gotten admission yet, why not find some alternatives: open university, predegree programmes or some apprenticeship. Any of these will take your mind off your home predicament.

Jayzs:
I am from a Polygamous home.....I will just go straight to the point, my dad is this emotional person you see, all my life have leaved only to please him, got admitted but not to the course I want to study, so he said I should keep on writing Jamb or any other way to be admitted... Now he is about retiring from work...and my course is about 7years...

My mom on the other hand is frustrating me so much, I may even decided to leave the house and be one of the bad folks in the street cux of the pressure....

Right now am tired of home, my dad won't be sponsoring me soon....what should I do, I want to tell him have been admitted and leave the house just to please my father....then gain admission later and make everything right


Am really confused, need someone's help, need someone's advise...

Please save a soul!

if it's not medicine stop wasting ur time and life studying a 7years course. find one better 4year course like Psychology study

osuulola:
God will direct you. Ask him in prayer.

Your dilemma is not really clear. If you've had admissions to a course your daddy don't like but you don't mind, why not do it?

If you've not gotten admission yet, why not find some alternatives: open university, predegree programmes or some apprenticeship. Any of these will take your mind off your home predicament.

For the clarity...Sorry ma'am/Sir I just didn't wanted to go Details, a lot has happened, thanks for the reply, I appreciate

The course they offered me, I don't have passion for it, Medicine and Surgery is what I have passion for....Not becuase of career opportunities, it's just where my Destiny lys.. My dad isn't forcing me either

But I seems really confused

Kandeed:


if it's not medicine stop wasting ur time and life studying a 7years course. find one better 4year course like Psychology study

It's MBBS sir/ma

Jayzs:


It's MBBS sir/ma

you can go for it if ur financially capable but if you ain't yet, you just gotta find a source of income. ion know if you really got passion for the course tho but most of my mates then when they entered mbbs they wish they had opted for something else but the Fear of what people would say that a medicine student turned bla bla prevent them from swapping dept. but bro to be Kandeed, studying Medicine is expensive n frustrating if ur not financially bouyant

Kandeed:


you can go for it if ur financially capable but if you ain't yet, you just gotta find a source of income. ion know if you really got passion for the course tho but most of my mates then when they entered mbbs they wish they had opted for something else but the Fear of what people would say that a medicine student turned bla bla prevent them from swapping dept but bro to be Kandeed studying Medicine is expensive

Thanks boss, Medic!

Sir...I love you for this, I have this fear also! Just like am not focused on my dream, sometimes I would jokingly talk to them, I want to do computer science cux am very good at anything Cybersecurity... Although never took any course just naturally talented but they will tell me am not focused and it's pains me a lot and keeps my thinking anyhow...
Very confused, financially my dad will be retiring 4years from now, but I planeed to use Graphic Designing to support it it's gonna be strnous for me sir....

Am so confuses, my mom frustrating me telling me to leave the house ..m 21years old

Jayzs:


Thanks boss, Medic!

Sir...I love you for this, I have this fear also! Just like am not focused on my dream, sometimes I would jokingly talk to them, I want to do computer science cux am very good at anything Cybersecurity... Although never took any course just naturally talented but they will tell me am not focused and it's pains me a lot and keeps my thinking anyhow...
Very confused, financially my dad will be retiring 4years from now, but I planeed to use Graphic Designing to support it it's gonna be strnous for me sir....

Am so confuses, my mom frustrating me telling me to leave the house ..m 21years old

The Bible says A man's talent would make a way for him. if Cyber security is what ur good at, why not further in it and you best believe countries like China, Germany, Hong Kong, Sweden and many more would be ready to accept you with opened arms. used to have a roommate in 200L Alaka he was good with anything computer/software, 2nd semester we din see him again only to reach out to him on FB and find out he's already in Germany. so there's lotta opportunities if ur tech inclined.

Why I earlier said Psychology is someway somehow you can still work in an Hospital that's if you'll further in Clinical psychology and luckily for you both Computer science and psychology are both 4years

Jayzs:




Am so confuses, my mom frustrating me telling me to leave the house ..m 21years old

Where does she want you to go??

Kandeed:


Where does she want you to go??

Deltan Moms don't fucking care .......

That's why I don't blame these so called yahoo Yahoo boys stuff but I just can't be like that
M just thinking different from that

M so tired and frustrated

Kandeed:


The Bible says A man's talent would make a way for him. if Cyber security is what ur good at, why not further in it and you best believe countries like China, Germany, Hong Kong, Sweden and many more would be ready to accept you with opened arms. used to have a roommate in 200L Alaka he was good with anything computer/software, 2nd semester we din see him again only to reach out to him on FB and find out he's already in Germany. so there's lotta opportunities if ur tech inclined.

Why I earlier said Psychology is someway somehow you can still work in an Hospital that's if you'll further in Clinical psychology and luckily for you both Computer science and psychology are both 4years

Beautiful
I love this
Thanks so much!
I really appreciate sir

Jayzs:


Deltan Moms don't fucking care .......

That's why I don't blame these so called yahoo Yahoo boys stuff but I just can't be like that
M just thinking different from that

M so tired and frustrated

So terrible, but pls I'll advice you don't indulge in Yahoo. Yahoo will make you derail from ur dreams and what destiny really got for you. I'm a living witness I'm just glad I backed off bfr I got initiated. yk the life is actually very sweet but killing you slowly that's why I'll always advice whoever will listen to advice to run from Yahoo.

Bro are you business inclined??

Kandeed:


So terrible, but pls I'll advice you don't indulge in Yahoo. Yahoo will make you derail from ur dreams and what destiny really got for you. I'm a living witness I'm just glad I backed off bfr I got initiated. yk the life is actually very sweet but killing you slowly that's why I'll always advice whoever will listen to advice to run from Yahoo.

Bro are you business inclined??

I won't involve myself with that shit, although have friends who have promised me everything I need to know about the stuff sha, but m not just Interested

Sorry for not replying earlier sir
Am not business inclined sir, that's the truth....

Anything to help me sir, I would appreciate!

Jayzs:


I won't involve myself with that shit, although have friends who have promised me everything I need to know about the stuff sha, but m not just Interested

Sorry for not replying earlier sir
Am not business inclined sir, that's the truth....

Anything to help me sir, I would appreciate!

Just wanna give some heads-up. twas not easy for me in school to to be honest but in 300L my guy link me up with a business like Poultry birds marketing that involves linking buyer and seller and then getting my own commission per bird sold atimes #20, 30, 50 so if a farmer is willing to sell his bird 500/one I'll market it for #600 so if you wanna buy and want to price kpata pata I go sha see like #20 or #30 so if the bird is 1,000 in number that's 1,000 * #30 = 30k just for linking buyer n seller and if you con get lucky dey get order Everytime without doing Yahoo bro you'll be providing/meeting all ur needs

The other one is Clothing. buy or collect on credit (that's if you sabi who dey sell the clothes weller) but for me I had a guy in Lagos then that sells boutique grade clothes 1,300/1,500 when boutique sells 3k, 4k me I'll just go Lag collect and come sell for Yahoo guys 2k sometimes #2,500 and I'll cashing out from Yahoo guys themselves but you just gotta be friendly

Kandeed:


Just wanna give some heads-up. twas not easy for me in school to to be honest but in 300L my guy link me up with a business like Poultry birds marketing that involves linking buyer and seller and then getting my own commission per bird sold atimes #20, 30, 50 so if a farmer is willing to sell his bird 500/one I'll market it for #600 so if you wanna buy and want to price kpata pata I go sha see like #20 or #30 so if the bird is 1,000 in number that's 1,000 * #30 = 30k just for linking buyer n seller and if you con get lucky dey get order Everytime without doing Yahoo bro you'll be providing/meeting all ur needs

The other one is Clothing. buy or collect on credit (that's if you sabi who dey sell the clothes weller) but for me I had a guy in Lagos then that sells boutique grade clothes 1,300/1,500 when boutique sells 3k, 4k me I'll just go Lag collect and come sell for Yahoo guys 2k sometimes #2,500 and I'll cashing out from Yahoo guys themselves but you just gotta be friendly

Thanks boss...got something

May you find help whenever you need it sir...
God will smile on you, Amen! You will never struggle...Amen.
Love you!

Jayzs:
I am from a Polygamous home.....I will just go straight to the point, my dad is this emotional person you see, all my life have leaved only to please him, as in I don't want to hurt him because all the children he has gotten before me failed him, went astray leaving a useless life, am the one trying to put smile on his face, so he is trying for me financially but it seems am failing him too cux of admission issues. I got admitted but not to the course I want to study, so he said I should keep on writing Jamb or any other way to be admitted... Now he is about retiring from work...and my course is about 7years...

My mom on the other hand is frustrating me so much, I may even decided to leave the house and be one of the bad folks in the street cux of the pressure....

Right now am tired of home, my dad won't be sponsoring me soon....what should I do, I want to tell him have been admitted and leave the house just to please my father....then gain admission later and make everything right


Am really confused, need someone's help, need someone's advise...

Please save a soul!

Let me begin this way. Coming from the point that your Dad would soon retire and that Medicine is a 6+x years(in Nigeria) course, I'd ask that you be flexible about your methods.

You can't keep trying to do something the same way and you expect a different result.

Your father would be retiring soon and I'd advice you apply for something less competitive like (in no particular order)
Medical Laboratory Science,
Radiography,
Dental Therapy,
Nursing,
Dental Nursing,
Pharmacy,
Optometry (6 years),
Physiotherapy/ Medical Rehabilitation
Pharmacy Technician
Dental Technologist
Dental Therapy

With the any of the above, you'd be able to fend for yourself and still be able to chase after medicine (as a second degree of course).

Avoid the following (because of your peculiar case):
Chemistry
Physiology
Anatomy
Microbiology
Biochemistry

I wish you the very best man!

horpeyemmi66:

Let me begin this way. Coming from the point that your Dad would soon retire and that Medicine is a 6+x years(in Nigeria) course, I'd ask that you be flexible about your methods.

You can't keep trying to do something the same way and you expect a different result.

Your father would be retiring soon and I'd advice you apply for something less competitive like (in no particular order)
Medical Laboratory Science,
Radiography,
Dental Therapy,
Nursing,
Dental Nursing,
Pharmacy,
Optometry (6 years),
Physiotherapy/ Medical Rehabilitation
Pharmacy Technician
Dental Technologist
Dental Therapy

With the any of the above, you'd be able to fend for yourself and still be able to chase after medicine (as a second degree of course).

Avoid the following (because of your peculiar case):
Chemistry
Physiology
Anatomy
Microbiology
Biochemistry

I wish you the very best man!

Thanks boss. Thanks so so much, you don't know how you have given me hope this evening. God bless you

I was given admission to study Nursing, one scholarship stuff like that but the University is not accredited by Nigeria....

Microbiology at UI but don't have passion for it, I know I will still drop out and waste of little resources I have.


I will definitely look at to the courses you listed

May God direct me to the right path

MBBS, its a nice course. please, just do your best and graduate. i know say e nor easy

cassidy1996:
MBBS, its a nice course. please, just do your best and graduate. i know say e nor easy

Have not been admitted ma'am/Sir

Jayzs:


Thanks boss...got something

May you find help whenever you need it sir...
God will smile on you, Amen! You will never struggle...Amen.
Love you!

God bless you to bro.....person wey go become something in this gaz go thr a stage of fire na weytin my grandma dey always tell me. but persevere the troubles will soon be over

But in the mean time try poly fest, use to have this guy that use to gimme this scholarship link if I see one wey suit you I'll be forwarding it to you

Kandeed:


God bless you to bro.....person wey go become something in this gaz go thr a stage of fire na weytin my grandma dey always tell me. but persevere the troubles will soon be over

But in the mean time try poly fest, use to have this guy that use to gimme this scholarship link if I see one wey suit you I'll be forwarding it to you

GM Boss
God bless you sir!

I was giving admission to study Ortho. Tech at Ondo City Poly but da skul isn't accredited by NUC, so am afraid if not I would have been there studying while waiting for MBBS(fed. Uni) or Nursing Science (State uni-cux of time boss)..
For the link boss I would be glad
Need anything that will help me sir

The truth is sometimes what you call passion may not be it in the long run.

For me getting admission in any course in an accredited university is a good start only if you know how to leverage on it for opportunities.

I used to have passion for a particular course when seeking admission those days for years.

It got to a point I decided that even if I'm given admission in any course I will accept it.
As God will have it, it never happened even with a JAMB score of 264, were as people with 200 and above were been admitted in similar courses without even sorting for admission.

I'm currently in my 400L in the course which I had passion for right from the onset and I have come to discover that sometimes, one need to look beyond passion.

Courses like Social works which I downgraded so much when I was looking for admission because of my myopic understanding then are now hot-cakes. Someone also mentioned Psychology and many others.

Reading a particular course is good but leveraging on available opportunities in any course is the best.

Don't be confused. The truth is pray, seek God's help and look beyond passion.

It shall end well bro.

xcelpro:
The truth is sometimes what you call passion may not be it in the long run.

For me getting admission in any course in an accredited university is a good start only if you know how to leverage on it for opportunities.

I used to have passion for a particular course when seeking admission those days for years.

It got to a point I decided that even if I'm given admission in any course I will accept it.
As God will have it, it never happened even with a JAMB score of 264, were as people with 200 and above were been admitted in similar courses without even sorting for admission.

I'm currently in my 400L in the course which I had passion for right from the onset and I have come to discover that sometimes, one need to look beyond passion.

Courses like Social works which I downgraded so much when I was looking for admission because of my myopic understanding then are now hot-cakes. Someone also mentioned Psychology and many others.

Reading a particular course is good but leveraging on available opportunities in any course is the best.

Don't be confused. The truth is pray, seek God's help and look beyond passion.

It shall end well bro.

Okay thanks so much ma'am/sir

God bless