Good morning my fellow nairalanders.. I'm currently facing some emotional and psychological problems, and I don't know what to do again... Here's how it all happened, and the after effects... I'm the first born from my mom and dad, my sister came after 4 years, though she was born when I was staying with my dad cos dey disengaged for some reason, so my sister lives with my mom. I stayed with my dad most of my life not until recently I came to visit my mom (she already had another two kids for another man)
Throughout my stay with dad, I only called and chat with my mom and sis and half siblings. Sometimes coming to spend a few days of Christmas with them. Recently I came back to stay for some month cos of my exams. And also to bond with my siblings. During my first three months, me and my sister have bonded to the extent that we are always together, strolling around together, sometime eating from the same plate. Anywhere you see me you'd see my sister. Her friends and others that didn't know me at first thought I was her boyfriend. It continues like that till this Monday, few days ago, she did sthing wrong that really angered me and I tried correcting her as the elder brother, I beat her up, I really beat her up, even went as far as kicking her in the stomach. You know if you are really angry you do things without thinking about the consequences. Not until I calmed down that I knew i had gone to much, ordinary scolding should have been okay. Since then she started hating me Even my other siblings stop relating well with me, I became a stranger in my mother house. But at first I thought nothing about it,i didn't even swallow my pride to apologize and make up with my sister. my mom asked about the matter I just told her to forget it that I have exams to write I don't need disturbance. Then the worse started to happen, two days later I began to feel it, more like a heartbreak that comes days after you breakup with your girlfriend. I started feeling. Lonely, depressed an physiologically unstable...
It feel like I had broken up with my girlfriend of 5 years? I can't stop thinking about my sister, anytime I hear I name or even see her around the house, my heart won't be at peace. Boom!!! I started getting jealous anytime she's interacting with male friends in the neighborhood, I always feel like who are they to be talking with my sister, some how like they are snatching my girlfriend. I almost got into a fight with a guy because of this... My emotions became unstable, I don't want to see any girl Apart from my sister.. I then called my dad and just opened up to him, he called my sister and though she said nothing is wrong with us, just siblings occasional quarrel, but deep down I know it's something else and I can't explain it. One of my close friends said it's infatuation. Others said it's lust, but I don't have any sexual feeling, to her before and during this issue.


Up to the psychologist and therapist in NL. kindly advise me on what to do, if not for my exam I would have gone back, but every single day I keep spending here is only worsening it

You guys come to my aid.



lalasticlalala fp please

MaDaRa01:
Good morning my fellow nairalanders.. I'm currently facing some emotional and psychological problems, and I don't know what to do again... Here's how it all happened, and the after effects... I'm the first born from my mom and dad, my sister came after 4 years, though she was born when I was staying with my dad cos dey disengaged for some reason, so my sister lives with my mom. I stayed with my dad most of my life not until recently I came to visit my mom (she already had another two kids for another man)
Throughout my stay with dad, I only called and chat with my mom and sis and half siblings. Sometimes coming to spend a few days of Christmas with them. Recently I came back to stay for some month cos of my exams. And also to bond with my siblings. During my first three months, me and my sister have bonded to the extent that we are always together, strolling around together, sometime eating from the same plate. Anywhere you see me you'd see my sister. Her friends and others that didn't know me at first thought I was her boyfriend. It continues like that till this Monday, few days ago, she did sthing wrong that really angered me and I tried correcting her as the elder brother, I beat her up, I really beat her up, even went as far as kicking her in the stomach. You know if you are really angry you do things without thinking about the consequences. Not until I calmed down that I knew i had gone to much, ordinary scolding should have been okay. Since then she started hating me Even my other siblings stop relating well with me, I became a stranger in my mother house. But at first I thought nothing about it,i didn't even swallow my pride to apologize and make up with my sister. my mom asked about the matter I just told her to forget it that I have exams to write I don't need disturbance. Then the worse started to happen, two days later I began to feel it, more like a heartbreak that comes days after you breakup with your girlfriend. I started feeling. Lonely, depressed an physiologically unstable...
It feel like I had broken up with my girlfriend of 5 years? I can't stop thinking about my sister, anytime I hear I name or even see her around the house, my heart won't be at peace. Boom!!! I started getting jealous anytime she's interacting with male friends in the neighborhood, I always feel like who are they to be talking with my sister, some how like they are snatching my girlfriend. I almost got into a fight with a guy because of this... My emotions became unstable, I don't want to see any girl Apart from my sister.. I then called my dad and just opened up to him, he called my sister and though she said nothing is wrong with us, just siblings occasional quarrel, but deep down I know it's something else and I can't explain it. One of my close friends said it's infatuation. Others said it's lust, but I don't have any sexual feeling, to her before and during this issue.


Up to the psychologist and therapist in NL. kindly advise me on what to do, if not for my exam I would have gone back, but every single day I keep spending here is only worsening it

You guys come to my aid.



lalasticlalala fp please

Ha...how can u ve deep feeling for ur Sister?
U need Jesus...ur sister is ur blood...d love u ve for ur parents should b extended to ur sis.. nothing more...

shem4soul:


Ha...how can u ve deep feeling for ur Sister?
U need Jesus...ur sister is ur blood...d love u ve for ur parents should b extended to ur sis.. nothing more...

What's your advice bro, I don't want it to turn something else

Better go for deliverance and save your soul from the spirit of incest . A word is enough for the wise

This shouldn't have happened.....



Try and distant yourself from her.... let the quarrel keep both of you apart, before you get down to having sex with her or even rape her.... Coz it seems you're an aggressive person and like FKK, a short fuse....


Stay focus to what took you there and do t go there to do anything silly...

Firstly, you don't ever treat a sister like that. Ever!

Lastly, you don't know how to process emotions. Have you ever fought your best friend? How did it feel?

I am pretty sure it is sexual attraction so stop denying it, your eyes will only clear when you have done the forbidden with your sister and in order to avoid that you should avoid any contact with her for now and get yourself a girlfriend so has to release the tension in your body and you can finally think straight.

like wtf

I can't even imagine having that kind of sick feeling towards my brother. ..


Jesus! !!!

Go pick up your book and study boy.

Sha no rape your sis,cause meself go follow join hand beat you to stupour

Seems the separation and now the close distance isn't helping you.
First call her and apologise. It is necessary. Then You can stay away for now and pls talk to yourself. Pray too.

Don't let the devil push you into something evil.

You beat person badly... and you can't tell her sorry.... I wonder the kind of offence she committed that made you kick her like a criminal. You better apologize to her and see that nonsense feeling disappear.

Since you said you're not sexually attracted to her then it's just a case of obsession. You are also being overprotective of her which is natural with every brother towards their sister.

Just take your mind off her if you can or call her and apologize for how you treated her.
Or
You can just get her a small gift or goodies so you two can go back to being friends again.

You're only missing her company and the times you spent together before the assult.

You beat a woman to the extent of kicking her in the stomach, what kind of man are you? If you can't control your anger towards your sister your own blood, i wonder how it will be if you eventually have a girlfriend whom you're no blood with. If i am that your sis ehn, i will have nothing to do with you again. I can imagine the beating.

As for those your so called sexual feelings you have towards her, dead it, i repeat dead it. Infact bury it before the devil use you. Focus and write your exams, then find your square root.

You are probably obsessed with her..

Naturally and in under normal circumstances.

Two adult opposite sex who are not into relationship or wanting to go into relationship, shouldn't be "too tight close"

Thre is a beast of sexual intimacy in human that needs to tame, most especially when dealing with person who you shouldn't have sex with, getting tooooooo close to opposite sex normally generate feelings over time.

........... Bible says, fleeee away and not run o, it knows how beast can become uncontrollable if you don't descpline it enough from very "very beginning.


So many blood related are having sex today as a result of careless overplaying attitude that gradually degenerated to having sex and latter regretted it.

MaDaRa01:
Good morning my fellow nairalanders.. I'm currently facing some emotional and psychological problems, and I don't know what to do again... Here's how it all happened, and the after effects... I'm the first born from my mom and dad, my sister came after 4 years, though she was born when I was staying with my dad cos dey disengaged for some reason, so my sister lives with my mom. I stayed with my dad most of my life not until recently I came to visit my mom (she already had another two kids for another man)
Throughout my stay with dad, I only called and chat with my mom and sis and half siblings. Sometimes coming to spend a few days of Christmas with them. Recently I came back to stay for some month cos of my exams. And also to bond with my siblings. During my first three months, me and my sister have bonded to the extent that we are always together, strolling around together, sometime eating from the same plate. Anywhere you see me you'd see my sister. Her friends and others that didn't know me at first thought I was her boyfriend. It continues like that till this Monday, few days ago, she did sthing wrong that really angered me and I tried correcting her as the elder brother, I beat her up, I really beat her up, even went as far as kicking her in the stomach. You know if you are really angry you do things without thinking about the consequences. Not until I calmed down that I knew i had gone to much, ordinary scolding should have been okay. Since then she started hating me Even my other siblings stop relating well with me, I became a stranger in my mother house. But at first I thought nothing about it,i didn't even swallow my pride to apologize and make up with my sister. my mom asked about the matter I just told her to forget it that I have exams to write I don't need disturbance. Then the worse started to happen, two days later I began to feel it, more like a heartbreak that comes days after you breakup with your girlfriend. I started feeling. Lonely, depressed an physiologically unstable...
It feel like I had broken up with my girlfriend of 5 years? I can't stop thinking about my sister, anytime I hear I name or even see her around the house, my heart won't be at peace. Boom!!! I started getting jealous anytime she's interacting with male friends in the neighborhood, I always feel like who are they to be talking with my sister, some how like they are snatching my girlfriend. I almost got into a fight with a guy because of this... My emotions became unstable, I don't want to see any girl Apart from my sister.. I then called my dad and just opened up to him, he called my sister and though she said nothing is wrong with us, just siblings occasional quarrel, but deep down I know it's something else and I can't explain it. One of my close friends said it's infatuation. Others said it's lust, but I don't have any sexual feeling, to her before and during this issue.


Up to the psychologist and therapist in NL. kindly advise me on what to do, if not for my exam I would have gone back, but every single day I keep spending here is only worsening it

You guys come to my aid.



lalasticlalala fp please

I. Will like you to relax your mind and think deep

You were trying to correct your sister and in the process, you beat her mad, it was not necessary

She has been your sister and you never had the opportunity to bound with her and when you saw the opportunity, you went extrem, have you forgotten that blood is thicker than water

Call her and your mom and seat them down to apologise to her in front of your mom and let her know that you love her so much as her only siblings and you will never hurt her again

Just tell her to forgive you in the presence of your mum and both of you will hug yourself

You as a senior brother, you are meant to protect her and not to give her emotional trauma

After that apology, take a stroll about and get some goodies for her and your steps and that the end of your restless mind

Next time she becomes naughty, seat her down and give her counselling

The word am sorry have solved many problems
The word pride has created so much problems

MaDaRa01

Only unknown folks will judge you or condemn your current feelings towards your sister. Both of you didnt grow up together that is what will easily root such affection.

As once teenager with a raging hormones, I once develops strong sexual attraction towards the daughter of my elder half sister, if not for one thing I would have fv'ck the hell out of me.

It is natural for boys to anger and protect their sister towards other guuis, but I will advice you to let go and kill the sexual affection you have towards your sister. Think of the conseuqences that will follow your action

Incest will place evil covenant on you and put you in bondage.

Stay away from incest

Mehn! The way things are unfolding during these last days eehn..... One can never see or hear it all ...

The beating part just off me.

I am so repelled by men who beat women. It's just something I can't get past.

This one go rape him sister when he finds mistakenly finds himself Alone with her before him eye clear o

The animal in him has not yet come out because he's still amongst watchful eyes

Only if the sister knows what might likely come her way if she's not careful

He no normal o

Werey alasho

Ok12345:
like wtf

I can't even imagine having that kind of sick feeling towards my brother. ..


Jesus! !!!

Hy miss.. I just sent u a mail.. I wud be glad if u cud reply me