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Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by princewarri1985: 2:15am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Are you a learner? Dont be suprised because in marriage or relationship anything can happen BECAUSE THERE IS A THIN LINE BETWEEN TO LOVE AND HATE! from my observation via your write up bros you are too weak and that woman don see you finish and there is absolutely no way she could respect you if you keep presenting yourself that Way, women always love bad bad boys, you need to position her and put her where she belongs proove to her that you are the man and also the head of the house that way she will be craving more for you everyday, that one non mean say you non go treat her right oh, always treat her right and in all you do always use your brain and REMOVE LOVE FROM THE EQUATION because marriage these days marriage na contract so play your card well as a capone make woman non go use you rub ground. 4 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Boss13: 3:04am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Chief you're in a toxic marriage. If the genders were interchanged and the story was posted here on Nairaland, these misandrists would advise your wife to leave you and claim you are toxic. Unfortunately your wife has emasculated you and now controls you. Oga, you have been lied to by feminist movement group that they best way to treat a woman is to stay peaceful. I am married and I will tell you - they are liars and they aim to control and suppress men. Your wife and you have invested over a decade in your marriage and have 3 children. Chief, if you are unaware of your manhood, let me be the first to tell you that your wife's value has diminished. No serious man will consider her seriously other than to have sex with her. Also, you are too predictable for her and in all honesty, she truly regrets marrying you - forget the lies being told she spoke out of anger. She only expressed the truth when the opportunity presented itself. Finally, you can choose to be emasculated and suffer in your marriage or be a man and put your wife where she belongs - a help mate and not your leader. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by 123readygo: 3:06am On Sep 22, 2021 |
This one is still a learner after 10years.... Women can say anything when provoked. Chill out please 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by MNDY(m): 3:36am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: That is exactly the problem you have caused. Pamper her and be hot with her when it is necessary too. 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by November24(f): 4:05am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Slurity: Man? U spoke like a child. A baby infact. The Bible says a child is known by his doings,not age 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by faithugo64(f): 4:16am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:You are good man Apart from being difficult a times (everyone has a difficult side) has she given you peace throughout the 10 years you have spent with her? If yes, reconcile with her That is what it means to be the HEAD, keeping your home in one piece! Alot of persons encouraging you to go Hard on her are not even married (thanks to anonymity of the forum) Imagine taking the advice of someone who is is yet to experience what marriage feels like. Be careful of the advice you heed. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Joeyfizzo: 4:19am On Sep 22, 2021 |
sola12:u are wrong. Horns will begin to grow on her head. OP Shud man up. He shudnt take nonesense from her. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Joeyfizzo: 4:20am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Ur wife controls u .... She dominates. It is wrong. Scold her wen necessary. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by onumadu: 4:39am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Marriage is like a war. You need all your best tricks to outwit your "enemy" -the "better half". That is why a lot of people fear marriage and choose to stay single. The greatest lie ever told is that marriage depends on love to survive. No it does not. It depends on RESPECT. That respect comes from sexual tension that exists between a man and a woman. I don't know how this man may have run that department of this marriage, but the woman's words doesn't sound good at all. For a woman to use those words means that "she don see am finish". Not good. Women understand these things naturally, and that is why majority of late divorces (divorces 10 years and above) are initiated by women. The only men who avoid such late divorces are the men who "know" and took early steps in their marriage to keep their women "in-line". When a woman wakes up to tell her husband that she regrets marrying him after 10 years and three children, it is already too late for the man. She won't say those words to her side nigga, for obvious reasons. The only way to save this marriage now is for the man to bite the bullet and shut her out emotionally and, depending on what he really wants, hope that she gets her senses back. It may not work, but doing nothing now is only asking for something worse down the road. It is a cold phase, but warmth can return if this man finds his balls now. Sometimes you have to lose something in order to find it. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by AsianTotal: 4:48am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: Yes, Ned Nwoko has three wives aNd maybe he will still have more. But he is HEALTHIER THAN YOU, HE IS HAPPIER THAN YOU AND HE IS IN CHARGE OF HIS HOME. 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by oshorstan(f): 5:14am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Op thank you for coming out to share your bothers. Your wife wants to own you completely. She is insecure about everything. I think you gave her too much power , and she's abusing it. Women are emotional beings, who tend to over react at slightest provocation. At this point, they say what they don't mean. Their main reason is to hurt your ego, so that you will feel pain. Pls don't mind her words when she's emotional. She just want to be vindictive. Have a talk with her , and try and resolve things. Let her know she's important. Write sweet things about her on SM, use her pix for dp , women love these things. Take care 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by whirlwind7(m): 5:27am On Sep 22, 2021 |
sola12: Your response here clearly tells me you are not married You know nothing about women. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by RealTAO(m): 5:57am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Druss:Reading what the OP wrote up there, you are right Sir. No excuse at all for her to use those words. May God guide you @OP. Please take things easy. All will be well. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by dhiqson(m): 5:57am On Sep 22, 2021 |
pocohantas: As usual Very warped way of thinking "May redpilled never yen yen" No worry I no dey shalaye But see as u skillful evaded the woman just being anyhow And as long as the man takes the hit.. he's in love shey? God help us we upcoming ones I keep saying it sha Aside religion, I see no need for marriage in this times 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Mac2016(m): 6:02am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Kandeed:From FTC till here, you're the only reasonable comment, man. I foresee troubles with the OP. He shd let her know that his kindness should not be considered as weakness. How would my wife ask me 1k is missing from my wallet? ... Thats freaking sick and OP has been soooo weak. Be clear cut about your stand, our women likes petting but hates effeminate guys. Make big issue out of her statement. Call her parents, threaten to send her packing or you would leave the house unless she revoke her statement with numerous apologies and soberness. That woman will ruin your life if you don't want act smart going forward. Are you her puppet?! 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Passionate1(m): 6:04am On Sep 22, 2021 |
U are in for a dull ride! Shittty fact! Ur wife no dey calm. .interacting should be easy and natural . .. Love is simply not enough. .it's very important to choose d right life partner and you probably messed up d most important decision of your life . . Get a secret apartment and go cool off whenever she starts nagging. . 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Druss(m): 6:28am On Sep 22, 2021 |
No excuse for her to use such words. Draw the line at that. I don't care how angry someone is. Words that are hateful have no place. Apart from that I can't give you advice on your marriage as every situation is unique and I have no understanding of your situation. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Brunosamel(m): 6:29am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:You have lost your frame bro you seriously need to start building it back and don't talk about finance with your woman never let a woman know your net worth and stop pleasing her.... I wish you the best 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Adexy4us(m): 6:39am On Sep 22, 2021 |
crackhaus: Honestly, it calls for laughter. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by jeff1607(m): 6:47am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Bornboy4: What if the lady hates S*x or still nags after the act or worse the kids heard her when she says hateful and spiteful words? Stick and bones hurt for a while but words hurt a long time after. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Nobody: 6:50am On Sep 22, 2021 |
crackhaus: Me sef I go laff hard |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Oldmutual: 6:51am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: No mind that one..he na know him blood group 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by sparko1(m): 6:52am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: I don't care how angry she is, or how hurtful she wants to make you, you need to draw a line, saying something like this in the presence of your children is a NO NO! You need to show her this can never repeat, and maybe get an hotel for a couple of days, she needs to understand, saying something like that to you when your children are present is a deal breaker. No man should be disrespected in front of his children, if you let it slide she will do it again until it becomes her habit, at which point your children begin to see you in a different light. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Oldmutual: 6:55am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ogbenimax007: Me self wey just dey on my third year for marriage dey collect that kind talk..but I know say NA normsi..and I know say she no fit leave me.. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Oldmutual: 6:58am On Sep 22, 2021 |
BROWNEMMANUEL26:You are not talking like an experienced married man! Beside you might be worse than what you wrote here..NA forum be this..body no be show glass |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Chinehz(f): 7:00am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Harmlesspill:I don't do nonsense |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Mvena(f): 7:02am On Sep 22, 2021 |
mrblessed:I agree with this 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Oldmutual: 7:04am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Kandeed: You funny |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Chinehz(f): 7:04am On Sep 22, 2021 |
24brains:Hunku....I don't control people.... What is wrong in someone being understanding abeg |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by MufasaLion: 7:05am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:05am On Sep 22, 2021 |
sparko1: Sleeping outside might be another disaster. Althesame, thanks so much for the piece of advice. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:06am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Oldmutual: I weak ooo.....because cutting off the head is definitely not the solution to head ache |
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